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[Full Name:] haley elizabeth M******
[Nicknames:] hay hay, sh0rty, blackiie, mickiie, piinky ect.
[Age]: 15
[Hair color:] daRk bRown
[Birthday:] 7-25-89
[Eye Color:] hAzel
[Height:] 5'2"
[Siblings:] 1 older sister
[Righty or lefty:] right
[How do you describe yourself:] umm... dunn0?
[Alstro Sign] eO
:: FrIeNdS ::
[Best Friend(s):] jess, x*tina, cherry, mindy
[Friend(s) you go to for advice:] mindy
[Friend(s) you have the most fun with:] everyone
[Friend(s) you've dreamt about:] i dun dream about dem buh they in ma dreams
[Friend(s) your tell secrets to:] all my best friends
[List Your Friends:] thats too manY....

:: perfect guy ::
[Hairstyle:] spiky. little spikes, or that flip thing in the front...
[Hair Color:] dun matter
[Tall or short:] taller than me...
[6 pack or muscular arms:]six pack ( u get to lick them...heheh)
[Mr. Sensitive or Mr. Funny:] fUnNy... but i think he should have a sensitive side..(not a big one)
[Eye Color:] i love blue dA m0st...
[Hat or no hat:] depends if yu look go0d wid one on
[Pierced or no:] tounge nd ear
[Freckles or none:] n0ne
[What sportz:] pr0lly like basketball, football
[Style:] thug`gangsta appeal
[Music:]rap` hip hop` r&b` pop


::other::
[Kissed Some One:] yert
[Talked to an EX:] yert
[Do You Remember Your First Love?] yert
[Do You Still Love Them:] yert
[Is Love A Mistake:] suMtimEz...
[What facial feature do you find the most attractive on others:] eyeZ
[Been rejected:] yert
[Who broke your heart:] danny haines
[Have a boyfriend/girlfriend/both:] nah
[Had Sex:]yert

:: PrEfErEnCeS ::
[Chocolate milk or hot chocolate] chocolate miLk...
[McDonalds or Burger King] mcdonalds
[Marry the perfect lover or the perfect friend] well, my perfect lover is also a perfect friend
[Sweet or sour] b0th
[Root Beer or Dr. Pepper] n0ne
[Sappy/action/comedy/horror] h0rror` comedey` action
[Cats or dogs] cats
[Ocean or Pool] po0l
[Cool Ranch or Nacho Cheese] Nacho cheese
[Mud or Jell-O wrestling] jeLlO...
[With or without ice-cubes] ice cubes
[Shine or rain] b0th
[Winter/Summer/Fall/Spring] all cept winter
[Vanilla or Chocolate] chocolate
[Snowboarding or skiing] n0ne
[Cake or cookies] co0kiez
[Cereal or toast] cereal
[Gloves or mittens] gloves
[Eyes open or closed] WTF?!?!?
[Fly or breathe under water] fly
[Bunk-bed or waterbed] ;)
[Chewing gum or hard candy] ;)
[Motor boat or sailboat] i dunn0
[Lights on or off] off


:: FaVoRiTeS ::
[Number:] 7 -n- 21
[Holiday] christmas
[Radio station] wired 96
[Place] in his arms
Gender: Female
Location: jersey
Occupation: student
Age: 15
AIM: heart x catcher
Yahoo: taste_liek_candi
Member Since: August 8, 2004
Answers: 51
Last Update: August 12, 2004
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I'm an 18 year old girl who has had a string of bad relationships. I'm seeing this guy, who I really care about and love spending time with. The only thing is that every time I feel myself getting close to him, I pull away because I'm scared of getting hurt. I've been hurt in the past and used to self harm and was very self-destructive. I want to be as involved in this relationship as my boyfriend is but I hate feeling vulnerable. (link)
i kno whurr yu`r coming frum...becuz every person i let in my lyfe somehow hurt me...if yu think that it will be w0rth it to let him cl0se to yu... then open up...buh if yu suttin is tellin yu not too...maybii yu aren`t suppossed to let him..then again he culd be tha one...so0o jus think real hard if yu are willin to take that risk again -haley


whats a good way to get over someone? (ex boyfriend)
please help me! thanks!

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well i personally think that ull get over him wid tyme... i mean yu cant rush yu`r feelin`z to be suttin they aren`t... buh jus try to hang out wid new guys nd see how things go... becuz maybii ull find a guy that makes yu think nuttin of yu`r other ex... its all in tyme i think -haley


ok well me and my bf say we love each other and have been 2gether for a while... but he told me he still has feelings for his x *loves her still* but i no tht he loves me and i no tht they were 2gether for a long tym but she treated him so badly and it hurts me 2 no tht and so i dont no y he loves her but i no being 2gether tht long tht he is still gonna have feelngs for her... so can someone help me out w/ some suggestions on how 2 talk 2 him about this, and should i be jealous tht he still has feelings for her? (link)
well i think there is reallii no tlking to him... i mean he reallii cant help it... nd he loves yu too...buh there`z gonna be a part of him that loves her if they were together for a real long tyme ya kno... nd yu have tha right to be a lil jealous cuz its makes yu think about yu guys m0re...buh if he says he loves yu nd he d0esnt wanna be wit her no more...then dun sweat it as much...cuz as tyme g0es by when yu`r wid him im sure he will grow more feelin`z for yu then he ever had for her


Come on Come on
You know its time to go
it times to let go
there nothing to hold on to
gotta let go to get over it
we cant live in the past. there nothing we cand do change that.. oh come on come get ready let go its times to let go.. nothing nothing we can do and hold on to. I dont want to know I want to let go.. so can we go now.. (link)
it culd be b0th! its realli good tho!! i give ya pr0pz -haley


I need help. Fast! I'm going to my cousins tomorrow until friday and I was just talking to her and she told me about when she was swimming in the lake these 2 guys came up to her and she knew them but..they kept touching her and one of them hit her and left bruises and..then one of them went behind her n took her hands and held them behind her back and the other one took down her bottoms...then she kicked them but she cries all the time! She's scared to tell anyone..and she told me to promise not to tell...and I'm scared and I don't know what to do!

PLEASE help! (link)
yu need to tell her that she needs to tell sumone... becuz wha if they do it to other ppl ya kno... she needs to do suttin about this fast...take it from sumone who has experienced shit liek that


im a slut and i know it but i have a problem....when my friends call me a slut it doesnt bother me but when a stranger tells me im a slut thats when i get mad..
so now im tryin to keep a relation ship ...i have my mind set on this one kid who likes me back but he has a girl friend....he doesnt want to dump her and im afraid that if i look for someone else ill go back to the old ways..+ if he dumps her she's gonna kick my ass
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well yu dun have to be a slut... i mean do yu even kno wha real slut is? thas tha question... if yu sleep around nd shit for no reason i mean ya gotta problem nd ya need help for that... buh yu can change yu`r ways either way... its a choice to be like that or not... nd if that boy does break up wid her nd goes wit yu..nd she comes after yu... fight back... yu have a right to defend urself -haley


i'm 15, and ever since 420 i started smoking weed. i want to stop but it seems like eveyrtime i try to more coms around and i'm like no i'l stop but i odnt. i do want to thouhg but idk what todo.. i really like it (link)
i see drugs as an escape... if yu dun need to escape.. then there reallii is no point in doin it....im a pot sm0ker too... nd i do it everyday...becuz i wanna get away from everything it makes yu feel as if nuttin is wrong.. buh if yu`r jus doin it to do it... jus try ta stop.. if sum1 offers jus be liek nah im ko0l.. buh if yu got problems nd shit nd i feel as if ya need it...then jus do it... buh if ya dun need it try to stop becuz u can get very addicted mentally on pot


my friend has sticky fingers! shes always stealing stuff and telling me shell stop but im afraid she wont! i dont want to tell an adult cuz her parents are reeeaally strict! really the only reason she does it is cuz she has 7 brothers and sisters and she barely gets anything cuz her parents dont take her to the store barely at all! wut do i do! and dont tell me shes a bad friend cuz shes ALWAYS been there for me wen im in need! (link)
well ive had sticky fingers since i was about 7... nd yu jus need to tell her if she gets caught she is gonna be in a lot of trouble wit the law... nd trust me she doesnt wanna be involved wit the law at all!! nd if she d0esnt stop there reallii isnt anything yu can do..buh jus try to talk to her.. tell her its a really big ass risk.. nd if ya want ill tlk to her... my s/n is heart x catcher -haley


ok im like really addicted to smoking adn im only 13! and i need to quit cuz i play sports and i dont need to be all huffy puffy on the court please help me (link)
eat lolii`z lol... or jus go cold turkey... cuz i smoke too... nd i have to have one every 20 mins.. nd ive been smokin since i was 9 on nd off... nd when i first quick i jus ate a lot of loli`z -haley


my neighbor fingered me but i didnt get an orgasm. did he do something wrong? (link)
maybe he jus didnt hit ur g-spot.. everygirl is different... next tyme guide him through it so he can learn how ta please yu -haley


Ok well i been wid mybf for over 9 months and i have been thinkin bout"IT" lol well i wanted to wait till i was like 16 but i dont think im gunna b able to wait that long cuz im 13 now turnin 14 next month but i feel im conforablen stuff n im almost definately positive my bf iz!! lol so my questions iz do u think i should or do u think im to young?!?!?!?! plz help!! thanx



~*~ Should I?!?!? ~*~

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yu shuld wait until uv`e been wid him a while... or wait till yu fall in love... becuz frum experience... its not good jus to give it up becuz u feel comfortable.. yu shuldnt to have sex yu shuld want to make love... yu`ll feel much better about it when ur wid sumome for a long tyme nd give that to them... becuz yu onli have ur virginity... u jus have to make sure who is w0rth havin it... so jus think is he the one yu want to have it... if yal.l ever broke up wuld yu regret it? wha if yu got pregnat at a young age wha wuld happen... u have to think about a lot of things before yu guys get into that.. yu have ur whole life for sex... -haley


Does anyone know a site where I can ask a question on sex. I believe my question would be too graphic for this site because of how young most of the people here seem to be. :\ Or maybe a girl that would be old enough to answer my question (im 16) (link)
yu can ask me if ya want... nuttin reallii is too graphic f0r me lol -haley


Me and My guy friend make out alot and its getting boring..Is there anything we can do to spice it up..Can you give details on how to do things too! I rate good! (link)
well dun resort ta sex right away... make games up... liek get sex dice or sex cards nd shit... ya can do a whole lot of things that dont invlove having sex... jus make sure that he is clean nd everything.. yu dun wanan catch nuttin


ok when people have sex ....does the guy all have to insert it... or does it just "go in" when they lay on top of each other...is it lyk a magnet effect...or something? (link)
nah usally the girl has to guide the dick to tha h0le


well i like this guy alot. he's real close 2 me and we have been best friends for a year now. i gave him some clues about who i like and i dont think he has any idea that its him. i think he likes me 2 cuz he said he liked someone 2. and when he gave me some clues it sounded like me. but how do i tell him i like him w/o gettin hurt. i dont want 2 ruin my friendship with him. please help me. I WILL RATE IF GOOD ADVICE!! thanks (link)
yu shuld be liek lets go out 2niite... nd go to tha mall or dinner or suttin...nd be liek ive been wanting to tell yu this jus dun take it tha wrong way... i like yu a lot... nd i dunno if yu liek me...buh if yu do then i wanna take things to tha next level...nd if ya dun then dun sweat it... becuz yu dun want suttin good to pass yu by ya kno... if ya dun tell him how yu feel...then how will anything ever be...tha guy d0esnt alwai`z have to make tha first move


muh lil sister , is always tellin me what 2 do and i've tryed almost everything to let her no that im older and that im not always gonna listen 2 her but she still finds wys 2 push me around can sum 1 give me advice im out of option? (link)
if she is yu`r little sister... shuldn`t yu be the one pushin her around... dun let her push yu around nd shit.. yu`r yu`r own person... so when she starts at yu again be liek listen im my own person im not yu... dun tell me wha ta do...jus tell her straight up -haley


Hey Caity...I went to party and I started talking to this guy Ryan at the time he seemed really cool so I gave him my number so we could keep in touch,we started dating and I got pregnet I told him and he told me he wasnt ready to be a father and i wasnt gonna keep it I felt really scared and i didnt know how to tell mt parents and what they`d think of me...Im 3 weeks pregnet now and Im only 16 I know i shouldnt keep it but apart of me tells me I should!Ryan still doesnt want me to keep it and he told me that he loved me and that he wouldnt let anything bad ever happen to me But if he loved me he would help me through this.What should I do? -Kayla (link)
my sister was pregnat at tha same age...nd she nd tha baby daddy wasnt ready for a baby...its a lot of work... i mean a lot... buh im sure that ryan is gonna be wit yu thro this.. nd once yu have tha baby he`z gonna love it nd wanna be a part of its lyfe... he jus prolly is scurrd... no teen wants to loose tha partying years nd everything ya kno...if he reallii loves yu he will stick by yu- haley


I have a long time friend who has turned.....slutty. She doesn't think anything that she is doing is wrong at all. How do I get her back to well.....her? What do I say or do? (link)
iight yu cant change her if she doesnt want to change.. now i had a friend that became a slut nd i told her straight up how she was being nd she didnt care nd didnt want to change for herself... i mean thurr was nuttin really i culd do about it... nd i didnt want to see her put herself thro that... so i tried tlkin to her nd everything.. until i jus culdnt take it no more nd i stop bein her friend... so0o jus try talking to her...tell her how yu feel...thurr`z nuttin else yu can reallii d0


I just broke up with a longtime boyfriend. He didn't seem to care at all. How do I deal? What do I do to keep my mind from straying his way?
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if yu broke up wid him then it shuldnt bother yu as much either unless yu still have feelings for him... guys they alwaiz jus think as if thurr will alwai`z be grl`z ya kno wha im sayin... if ya dun have th0se feelin`z f0r him dun sweat it as much...


I feel that my father is cheating on my mother. There are some obvious signs, and I'm not sure on whether or not I should confront him about it. (I'm thirteen.)

1) There have been small pieces of paper in front of the family computer with porno sites on them.

2) I have seen porno links on the computer's history.

3) At strange times of the day, his 'work' cellphone rings, and on the phone's interface it reads 'private call.'

4) I went onto the computer one day, seeing that a Singles website was completely filled out with my father's information.

My feelings are mixed--it could all just be a coincidence, and if it isn't, should I confront him about it or would I just be getting in the way? Please help me guys.

xoxoxox,
Constantly Confused (link)
yu shuld confront him fo sho... becuz wha if it turns out to be tru ya kno.. how wuld it be on yu`r mom... nd im sure yu love ur rents buh i mean yu wuldnt want yu`r friend to be wid sum1 if that person was cheatin on them... ya feel me? jus ask him about it... dont jump down his throat.. jus be liek dad i need to tlk to about suttin ive had on my mind...




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