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ask me something and ill getcha a good answer!
Much *brookie*

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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.

i know what you mean... i dont understand why they do it because its just a waste of your time and why would u join just to be a jerk??i understand and am really sick of them!

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lately i just feel weak and tired. I get sad often. My moods are up and down and i feel like i have no control. I don't know what to do

i know how you feel.. and i know this may sound stupid but there are a few reasons that this is happening and this isnt just me saying this- its like researches
1. because (i dont know if where you are its like this) but the weather changing every day from 80's to 30's makes us feel weak tired which ends up being moody
2. because january 24 is the most depressing day of the year, because its a few week after holidays, your back in school/work and bills are coming in and that also can affect adults kids and teens!
a way to feel better is go play sports or go running (which i wouldnt run cause i hate it!) or just be around people and listen to music watch t.v. or read- just be active! try not to stay at home- dont worry this will all pass by- its just these past few weeks are the hardest time of the year espeacially when u get older. hope i helped >brookie

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what is a quick way to earn money? besides ponning, stripping, or prostitution. 15/f i need money quick. I've already done work for my mom and her boyfriend, but they have run outta things for me to do. I have a good bit of money saved up, but i need hell of a lot more.. any suggestions would help. Thanks! (I'll rate high)

ok well i know that sonic and chick filla and (if u have one) soup or salad hires 15 year olds so maybe try that! much luv >brookie

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Ok well I used to be like really popular, like the most popular girl in the school, and im not just saying that. Like some of my friends who weren't popular were alway like i wish i could be like u ur so popular and stuff even some kids i dont no that well would say it. And like every guy thinks im way out of their league. But this year things have changed, my best friends from last year who i hung out with everyday barely talk to me anymore. We used to be so close like they would even call my mom "mom" or "mommy" we used to have so much fun together and now we barely speak to each other. And i used to tell a couple of them everything and im still friends with them but not as good we only hang out in school. but like now i hang out with the kids that arent popular and everyone says i ditched them and now all my old guy friends are really mean to me. My nest guys friend doesnt even say hi to me in the hall anymore I MISS THEM ALL SO MUCH!! i really miss being known as popular i no it sounds selfish but i had so much fun where i was before and now i still have fun but its different WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?! HELP!

well first off i dont think you should care about being popular!! what matters is your true friends! BUT if it really does matter to you then i can understand, and this is a hard q but what i would say is just talk to your old group and dont wait for them to plans... u do it. so i hope i helped- i really dont know what else you could but tell me how it goes! much

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I brush my teeth but I feel I need to do it more often. Like, I always brush them before school, but at night..I'm always "too tired" so I refuse to brush. Does anyone have any ideas on how I can stop refusing to brush? Thank you*

ok my step mom told me it takes i think... 27 days to get into a pattern. so for 27 days i had post it notes up and i did it for 27 days, and now its a pattern and i actually have to like try hard not to do it! hope i helped.

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does anyone no any really good books. My mom wants me to get into reading (i hate reading) so i need a good book thatti wont hate to read!

anything will do! thanks a lot!

i personally love the harry potter series- and no matter your age you can really connect! another series i will soon be reading is the lemony snicket a series of unfortunate events. also, all danielle scott books are good. hope i helped!

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I have a huge problem..im only 13 and weigh 98 pounds but i love to eat!! When i get home from school i eat like a bag of popcorn, some chips, and a salad just to make myself feel better. I excercise but not like a TON. and im healthy ..so whats wrong? I eat breakfast, then a snack, lunch, then a snack and dinner, then dessert. But, when im bored or sad - i eat. even if im not hungry..how do i stop this eating problem ?? =/

first off you arent fat! i am 13 but i weigh like 105 so dont worry u are normal- just as long as it is not all fat lol but remember muscle weighs more than fat- and eating alot at our age is normal cause we can get rid of it! so dont worry hun *_brookie_*

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Ok, well I have a really big crush on this kid in my grade, and I think he likes me and so do all of my friends. I don't know what to believe, but I definitely want to believe that he does like me. He always talks to me, and he's in almost all of my classes, and we always talk. Sometimes at lunch if he sees me talking to other guys he will come right over and talk to me too. The thing is he always flirts with other girls right in front of me, and when i tell my friends they say hes just trying to get back at me for being a big flirt and hes jealous. Can you tell me if you think he likes me or not?

i think if he is flirting with you that he probably thinks u r "hott" but so r the othe million of girls he flirts w/ so make the first move- tell me how it goes!! *_bRoOkIe_*

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Ok...well I met this guy online and we're really good friends now and somehow he got my cell phone number. Well one night he called me and we talked on the phone for a while but it was like a free call because i have free long distance and free after 9. So does anyone know if it still shows up on my phone bill? Because my parents are all like "don't talk to people on the internet you don't know" and they would freak and want to know who I'm talking to in other states and junk. So what should I tell them if it does show up on the bill?

tell them one of your friends has this cousin and one time when you were down she was there and that you were talking to her and you guys are friends but she lives wherever that person lives that called you and that she called you just to talk. hope i helped!

*_bRoOkIe_*

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ok i have a dance this week and my crush is gonna be there and i like him soooooo much like love him but he doenst like me only b/c he dosnt kno me and so i was wondering what should i do to make him like do a double take when he sees me? something really good... like hair too!

do this thing with you hair- where its half up half down and the up part- heres what u do..
take a hair tie see how many times you need to wrap it around your hair for it to stay
then on the last one pull just the middle and top of your pony tail thourgh but pull it towards the bottom so the other part is sticking out and it's kinda like upside down or after you get out of the shower towl dry it then flip your head over and take some mousse and scrunch it but just putting your hands that are covered in mousee on the tips and squishing it to you scalp. good luck! have fun at your dance.. much luv *_bRoOkIe_*

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My BFF is acting, well, different. she has turned into the punk/rock type. I don't want to control her or anything, but idk. Do you understand?? I was so used to her personality, and know she's so different. We don't sit with each other at lunch anymore. When I talk to her she goes on and on about how much i mean to her. i just miss her. Please help

omg wow u just described me! haha ok well i talked to her.. but that didnt work cause she just said the exact same thing.. but then i got to know this girl who used to be best friends with with the girl my x best friend is now best friends with and now me and her are best friends! does that make sence? lol well what i am trying to say is get to know her friends!

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Ok i'm 15/f in 9th grade.
I'm in both of the advanced levels of classes here at my school and when it comes to friends vs. homework, i chose friends...

How can i stop myself from doing this? b/c my parents say i can go, so what do i do? i go

I need help b/c idont want to fail!

yeah i had the same problem and it was hard... but even though im only in 8th grade i was thinking of college and like i want to get a scholarship- so i just found time during classes or b4 school to do it and if i still had it right when i got home... good luck!

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OK, when I was younger I had this really good friend. Then one time we got in a fight and went to the principles. My mom doesn't like my ex- friend. Let's call her Lucie. Well, I have a really good friend now and let's call her Peggy. Well Peggy has brought me and Lucie toghter and we have become really really good friends. Well, tomrrow night, Peggy invited me and Lucie to spend the night. My mom said yes. Then today, she asked who called and I said Lucie. And she was like are you friends with her. And I was like yea and we may be going to the mall on Sat. And my mom was like all uneasy. She doesn't like my new friend! What should I do?!

well i had the same problem with my step mom- i made this new friend and she did not like her! i even caught her given her evil glares! haha but i just told my friend to be scared of her and just be her funny talkative self and now- she likes her!

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I have a boyfriend, and we kiss and make out, but he never says he loves me and he never really payz attention to me when we are wit his friends. On weekends he sayz we can hang out, but then sometimes he ditchez me. Does he really love me or is he using me?

xGLAM0URx

i think he is just using u i know u dont wanna hear it but if he loves you he would stop his entire world to be with you hope i helped >brookie

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Hey,
Ok here is the info. There is this guy named Josh and last year me and him were ...... like kinda close friends and he asked me who i like so well i told him that it was him well then we started like not talking as much and well he went out with my best friend (well at the time) so i was really upset and i didn't talk to either one of them until the end of the year i stared talking to Amanda (my best friend) and now my new best friend (Kristina) and Josh are hanging out and so i don't know what to do can u help me??



~Carissa~

tell your best friends you like them. tell me how it goes from there and ill give u some more advice! haha *brookie* i.m. me if u need to-- texassoccerbabe9

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my friend is well a "slut" because she goes from boy to boy and the only reason why she does is because she thinks they are cute but recently my other friend broke up with her bf and now my "slut" friend wants to go out with him what should i do because they are both my friends but i dont want any of them to get mad at me...what should i do?

ok well first off babe they arent gonna get mad at you! but what i would do is talk to the non slut one and just during a converstaion say what would if she went out with him would you be mad? or if you dont feel comfortable with that tell the "slut" one that you rally think she should talk to her friend because she probably will let her but she should at least consider her feelings. best of luck! much luck *brookie*

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An hour ago I burnt my hand with hot water and it feels really hot and hurts how can I fix it>?

take a thin rag and put ice in it and then run it under normal or cold temp water just as long as its not hot and hold it in that hand and it might drip but it helps... hope i helped!!! much luv *brookie*

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i have this friend named elle. we always used to hang out together, but one fight and now she says " we shouldnt talk for a couple months" because we were such good friends that it hurt more..even if the fight was about somthing so small. shes found friends..only thats because sh turned them aginst me...i dont want to loose her as a friend...but what should i do???

talk to her... i know it sounds like o that wont help but really belive me in these situations it does! and the fact that you think your in a fight over something small probaly makes her even more mad. when i got into a fight with these girls they said i cant belive your mad over something so small... but the thing was it was a small THING but my feelings arent small... so maybe thats how she feels! look at it from her point of view and talk to her but dont yell and stuff be calm but act like you know your right. >>brookie

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I've known my boyfriend for a little over a month, and I was just wondering, do you think it's possible to be in love in that short amount of time? Or do you think that it really takes more to be in love?

if it's love its love- look at cory and tapanga from boy meets world! haha but really i think you really can be in love- but just be careful- its a great feeling- but dont get to caught up in it for a while just in case you get hurt... best of luck to you two! much love >>brookie

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When I do crunches or ab workouts, my abs shake really bad.

When I just bend up for a crunch, it shakes horribly and I don't know why. Maybe my muscles are weak? Thanks in advance!

your abs are just weak dont worry it'll be ok just keep doing your crunches and it'll get stronger >>brookie

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