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HeY!*!* feel free to ask me anything, i am sometimes really stupid but i can be incredibly serious if need be and i love helping people with the stuff that goes on in their lives!!

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O.k i'm 14/fm and live in Texas. I want a b.f. so badly, but none of the boys at my school like me cause i have braces, and i'm 5ft 2inch. I've had boyfriends, but they were'nt very much true b.f.'s. I'm always told by a friend or something that i'll never have a true b.f. that actually likes me, cause they eather say i'm not pretty enough or i'm not smart enough. My dad says i'm pretty, and i get all a's in my classes. How come guy's still don't like me. Maybe a guy could answer this question for me. Thanx lots.
Love- Lacey P.S. i give people who answer nicely 5's.True answers to please.

ok first of all if you have friends that tell you that then they arent really your friends, second if a guy doesnt like you for who you are on the inside then he isnt a good boyfriend, and third i'm sure you are beautiful and smart and funny, you just have to wait for the right guy to come along... i know it's hard waiting especially when everyone else seems to have a boyfriend and you dont, but if you wait you will find an amazing guy that will love you because of who you are and will look past your braces... if guys at your school dont like you becuse of that then they are all shallow and dont deserve someone like you... i know it's hard to wait but hang in there!!!

have fun and enjoy being single! it's not all THAT bad!

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Does age really matter when your falling in love? I'm fourteen and I would like to think anything is possible. I've been dating this guy for a short period of time but it has felt different than anything other than before. On this chain letter thing, and I know this sounds so stupid, but I made a wish to fall in love with him. My friends hate the fact that this guy and I are together, but for the first time I couldn't care less what my friends think. What do you think, is it possible?

of course it's possible!!! i know this one couple who met when they were 13 and they are married still today! just dont do anything rash like go all the way with him because that can totally ruin a relationship then you arent ready... but have fun and enjoy it!

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i want to lose a little weight, i am going on some sort of diet but i was thinking about throwing up like 1 time or even 2 times. Its nothing big, and i am going to eat, but IF i do this whats going to happen?? Because if you give me enough reasons why not to then i might change my mind

im a big athlete and i dont want to ruin that!
i rate high

ok if you are thinking about throwing up just a couple of times dont, ok first even though this might sound wierd it can become addicting... i know you are thinking how can throwing up become addictin?? well it can, trust me you get so caught up in losing weight that you will do anything plus it's really bad for your esophagous (sp) that's the pipe that your food goes down and comes up but the stomache acids from throwing up too much will start to eat away at that tube and it can really mess it up... if you think you have the self control to only be able to throw up a couple of times then it's not so bad but i wouldnt, plus if someone found out you could get suspended from whatever team you're on because they would be worried about your health... it's your body and you want to take care of it!!

hope that helped

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14/f
I'm a Christian so I want to be a virgin till I'm married, but lately it's been real hard to stay that way. I'm letting my hormones make me too curious. (I've never actually even seen a penis before.) I get really horny a lot and sometimes I ever masturbate to get over it. I'm way too young to have sex but lately I've wanted to give a handjob or even get laid. How can I keep motivated to stay a virgin? I know I'm not ready for sex.

i would find some of your friends that agree with abstinance and talk to them about it (if you are comfotable with them of course!) but talk to them and maybe knowing some other people that believe the same thing will help... like a support group!
i'm the same way and it's hard, i know so just hang in there... good luck!!!

much luv
donny

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the guy i like broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago because he liked me, but then he started going out with another girl. they just broke up. he knows i like him and he told his friend that i'm cool and hott but he needs to get to know me more. and i'm not sure what to do because i talk to him like everyday. any suggestions? is this a lost cause?

ok try and hang out with him, get together with him on the weekends and stuff, mostly just try and be his friend because then if you end up going out you will know him a lot better and it will be easier to talk to him... i dont think it's a lost cause but dont act like you're gonna be around for forever and dont act needy, just be yourself around him and if he doesnt like you then it wasn't meant to be and there are plenty more guys out there that are probably better... good luck!!

much luv
donny

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Ok there is this kid at school and i really like him and he likes me. But im afraid to tell him that i like him because i think ill be imberrassed. Plzzzzzzzzz help me.


signed in love but confused.

i would just tell him, if he likes you and you know it then what is there to be embarrassed about?? maybe just start talking to him and ask him who he likes even though you already know then he will probably ask you who you like and just say that you like him, don't be scared what's the worst that could happen?? besides he probably already knows you like him... good luck!

much

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could someone give me the names of some really upbeat songs that make you smile when you hear them. they don't have to be a new song I go for the oldies too.

hmm i love country so if you do too then i'd say save a horse ride a cowboy by big n rich or laredo by chris cagle

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okay... my dog died about a couple months ago.. and i'm getting a new dog this summer.... but don't know what kind of dog to get..if anyone knows a good dog to get... can you tell me??

also... i kinda want a small dog* thanks

beagles are amzing, they are cuddly and sweet and adorable but they do shed and dont like water, but they are still awesome!

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Does anybody know any good bible scriptures? I know that Psalms is good.. but anybody know any on wisdom?

corinthians 13 has some of my favorite verses about love... since you werent very specific i dont know exactly what you want so i hope that helped...

much luv
donny

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I like this guy, like SOO much and no matter who i date or how much i try he's the ONLY guy on my mind. The thing is he's a popular sophmore, and im a not so popular freshman. but he's different from all the popular guys i've known though, like hes really caring and REALLY easy to talk to ..
I told him i liked him a long time ago but he said he didn't really no me well enough to like me.. so its been like a month and half and hes started to act different towards me like in gym we had to carry really really heavy boxes because we were doing reconditioning, and he offered to take my box, but nobody elses. and just like it came up in convorsation who he liked but he wouldn't say like it was a HUGE secret (my friends said its beacuse they think he likes me, but i dunno).
And yesterday when we were gettin out of school he was behind me, and he threw a nickel and it hit my back pack, but i didnt even realize anyone threw it so i kept walking. and three other times he threw pennys and i didnt do anything. and after he threw the last one he's like "Hey" and i turend around and "he's like im trying to get ur attention here and" and im like so why r u throwing stuff at me like kidding around and hes like b/c i can. then he asked how i was and then got on his bus .. but i dunno its just weird .. maybe im being to hopeful or could this possibly mean something? ... how do i tell if he might possibly like me .. or if he's just friendly ..

he's definitely flirting with you and it sounds like he really likes you... just flirt back and see how it goes from there, but make sure that he's not just a big flirt who does this with everybody :)

much

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ok well i like this guy. i dont know if he has a girl friend. he always says hi to me and gives me hugs. and were both like involved with singing adn stuff at school so we like sing songs together and stuff. and he kissed me on the cheek once when he was leaving somewhere. and he asked for my cell phone number. and once he tried to hook up with me. stupidly i didnt know and didnt even open my mouth! ha ha. anyway i wanna know if he likes me. and if he does then what should i do? should i ask him out, or wait for him to ask me out, or ask a friend to ask him to go out with me? i am really confused and i really like him. please help!

ok i think he definitely likes you, unless he acts like that around everyone (he might just be a flirt which can kind of suck sometimes because you can get mixed signals) but i'm kind of old fashioned when it comes to the asking out thing i think the guy should ask the girl out, he may need a couple of hints... it's not bad if you ask him out i just think it's better if he asks you, o and dont have a friend ask him out for you because that just shows that you are not brave enough to do it yourself... good luck!

much

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well see ..i was goin out with this kid (eric) for like 4 months and yeah we had sex.. but then like .. i dont know we got in some kinda fight ish thing .. and then like .. i kissed this kid Jimmy and ended up liking him ..so i broke up with Eric cuz i felt wicked mean .. cuz i cheated on him and then i liked Jimmy so i dumped eric .. and now my bestfriend is goin out with him .. ( im goin out with Jimmy and she started goin out with Eric a week later) and Eric made out with my cuzin 2 days later,and then went out with her and then broke up with her and told me that he was like still in love with me and then went out with my Bestfriend.. i mean is it alright to be kinda mad about this or is it like .. wicked bitchy and stupid to be ?
please help =/

p.s i rate..

xl h0ll0w li3s lx

right, um your question is kind of confusing and hard to follow but if i understand it correctly then yea you havea right to be mad at him! i mean i wouldnt go postal on him but make sure he realizes that he did something wrong and that you are uset about it!

hope i helped

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Well the thing is, my g/f has never been kissed and it'll be a long time before there is a special occasion to do so. I dont know when to do it. She might want one sooner. She might want one then to make it special. and no, this is not sean. really. What should I do

hmm... just wait for the right moment i mean i'm sure she really wants to kiss you and it doesnt really matter when because she'll be happy that she's with you

good luck!

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How do I get my gf to think im "sweet" and really hang out with me alot? movies? talk on phone alot? what should i do?? I RATE REALLY HIGH!


=)

you need to do things for her that make her feel really special, pretend like you have all the time in the world even if you are really busy.. listen to her and be interested in what she has to say, and lastly do little things like surprise her on a date and take her somewhere really romantic or something like that

hope i helped!!

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ok im gettin mixed signalz from a guy @ school like he has a girl friend but he flirtz with me constantly but when she'z around im invisible! what should i do?

he shouldnt be flirting with you if he has a girlfriend and even though you may not want to hear this since he's taken you probably should try not to flirt back, you dont want to ruin his relationship with his girlfriend then have him hate you, if you like him then you should just wait and if he really likes you then he will come after you but if he is just a big flirt then i would move on

hope i helped
-donny

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what do i do if i am mad at one of my friends but she wont come up to me and talk. I am mad at her but i still want to be friends but i feel that she should have to come up and appologize.

ok well maybe you should just talk to her adn tell her how you feel, she might not believe she needs to apologize she may not think she did anything wrong even... just be understanding because if no one is understanding in a relationship then it wont work out....

hope i helped and good luck with your friend

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I am 14 and a female. There is a guy at school that I think is really cute. We both have history together and I will sometimes see him looking at me. I want to talk to him so bad, but I have never said anything to him before. What should I do?

you just need to introduce yourself too him, you know get to know him first and when you do get to know him a little better then try flirting with him some and see how he reacts

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(14/f)

i have a friend (thing is, she's a chick) and i am starting to have.. well.. feelings for her?.. as more than just a friend. i guess you can say we're best friends although we're REALLY different.. and idk. she's helped me get through so many things (like anorexia, cutting, suicide attempts, etc) and i really care about her..

basically i just don't wanna scare her off if you know what i'm saying.. i'm sooo sick of guys and how they're so oblivious to emotions and i guess i just wanna experiment with a qirl for once.. and ehh.. i just don't know. i get butterflies in my tummy whenever we talk and its just getting soo akward. what can i do?? and i *DO* rate.

you just need to tell him the truth, tell him that you are unconfortable when he does things like that, but dont be harsh about it..... and if he wont stop then maybe you guys werent meant to be together good luck!!!!

-donny

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I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for 2 months and 1 week. I really like him and all..but sometime he bugs me so much!! I kind of miss being single and I dont know what to do..
and i dont want to break up with him...ugh..i'm sucha mess...please tell me your answer

ok..... if he bugs you then you should break up with him, you dont want to get too far in the relationship because then you could really hurt him when you break up..... good luck!!!!

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lets say u have a boyfriend but some one asks you to dance with them at a dance .. do u ?
thanks !

it's ok to dance with that other person as long as your boyfriend knows that you too are just friends..... but if you think it will make your bayfriend jelious then i wouldnt because that could cause a whole lot of problems

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