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the quote "here's a little something that every girl should know, it's okay to hold on, but eventually, you'll have to let go."
i know its time to let go , my brain is ready to but my heart just wont give up . i still talk to this guy all the time and he always says he loves me and junk , but i know he doesnt mean it . i have tried to stop talkin to him &nd it works for a couple of days , then he starts callin &nd sayin he misses me &nd junk . i just give in . i dont know what to do . someone help me ! (link)
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well it sux i can tell you that much and it does take time to get over someone but just because you want to get over him doesn't mean you can't be friends with him. explain to him what's going through your head, explain to him how you feel and if he doesn't get it then he's not worth your time.
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I am about 5`1 orr 5 feet im really short and i weight 105 pounds is that fat? also im 14 and i wear double zero`s in jeans and extra smallss..its just that like my sister is 26 n she looks big and weighs about the same as me? but i look MUch smaller. (link)
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Listen if you can wear a double zero and weigh 105 that is not fat that is kind of normal okay don't worry bout it i'm 5'6" and i weigh 140 and that is normal so if you do the math you should weigh about 105.
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ok 18/m
shes 17
going out 4 months
then she tells me she loves her x
we break up
2 days later she comes back cryin sayin she made a mistake blah blah blah
wants me back blah blah blah
doesnt want him or ne1 else blah blah blah
i ask her if she has even kissed any1 else. she says no
i say ok
we get back together
Then i find out through trusty lil myspace that in those 2 days she fucked a 20 year old and lied about it.
Confronted her. She admited it. Shes crying over it. Shes givin me all the "im so disgusted in myself, i hate myself for it blah blah blah"
i cant take this pain anymore, every time i look at her i break down cuz i picture her and him.
But i also cant walk away from her. I love her.
And i also cant go on a break with her, becuase im to afraid of what she will do if shes not with me cuz i cant trust her whatsoever anymore. HELP (link)
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no affense but she sounds like a bitch personaly. i mean if she really did love you she wouldn't of done that. i mean come on i love my boyfriend and when we broke up i didn't do anything with anyone else because i loved him so much more then anyone and anything i'm 17 now and we've been together for a year and a half and he's has given me everything that i've ever wanted.... so you know tell her you'll still be her friend and you'll always be there for her but untill she decides wat she wants you don't want to be with her and if she tells you that she wants you tell her she doesn't because if she did she wouldn't have slept with that 20 year old. And she would have never broke up with you for her ex. Tell her that she didn't know what she had untill she lost it and make her think about your guys relationship and see what happens give it about a week or two and so yeah hope this advice helps write back and tell me how it goes
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okay i need help
im 16/f
well lets get this started my mum died and well when we were in thehospital when she died my dad said it was all my fault and i will nevr for give you. my brother felix has been crying ever since that and i havent cried since
at school im the biggest popularest bitch ever everyone is afraid of me.
im having sex with a 21 year old who thinks im 18. he figured out im 16 by one of my back stabbing friends. my friends thought he was a total jerk but i loved him
when i told him i loved him he thought i was nuts.
then i went off at him saying i was just this hook up for him to have sex with an stuff. and then he told me he was in love with his room mate molly who doesnt like him in that way.
i got in a car accident with my back stabbing friends
the guys driving the car ran off afraid of cops (car ended up being stolen)
an i have a broken arm which looks like a alien coming out of my skin and my face has a million scratches.
my dad is mad because he figured out i was in the stolen car. he puts me on complete lock down an is thinking about sending me to boarding school. i saw print outs of different schools. smith(21 year old guy im hooked up with) came an took me to hospital since i couldnt tell dad. but i had to go back home smith was still mad that i lied to him about my age. my dad is sorta mad now but is now im off complete lock down. an me and smith well i dunno
this is what is going on in my life. crazy yes i know. (link)
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okay sorry to say i understand that you say you love this 21 year old guy your with but he is just using you for sex get rid of him because he's not worth your time and stuff so yeah i'm sorry bout the whole accident thing you need some new friends maybe you shouldn't be the most popularist bitch maybe you should try hanging out with people who aren't as social as you are or aren't as high on the social statis as you are and maybe you should think about what you are doing your dad wasn't right for blaming you for your moms death. but with the whole bording school thing you might want to put yourself in his shoes. maybe he thinks he's doin wats best for you and he's trying to help you so yeah
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We are going to have an Oregon-Oxford debate for one class and that's our topic. I'm for the birth control side. Meaning, having [premarital] sex is okay for as long as you use birth control methods(be it artificial or natural). I'm so sure that the opposition(Abstinence) will read us some biblical stuff and will probably tell us that no contraceptive is 100% effective.
Pleeeeease give me good and strong answers to these stuff because I (and my group) don't wanna look like a fool in front of everyone. (link)
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okay so your birth control right and their abstinence okay so what you should do is say that birth control makes you think your pregnant so you will not produce more eggs so therefore you cannot get pregnant i hope this helps sorry it's all the advice i can give you...
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i've been going to my new school for about a week now. and i'm quite literally, the only girl in my class.
i want a perspecitve, on a boy thing. i'm thirteen, and i'm a girl, but i'd bet that's no surprise.
basically, on my first day of school, this boy was very helpful to me and since, then he's been talking to me and playing around with me in gym. more specifically:
apparently this boy used to fall asleep for a while every morning, and since i've been there, he hasn't.
he's asked me constantly how i think my new school is, and told me pretty in depth what he wants to be when he grows up. like a heart to heart thing.
Multiple classmates (and even a teacher) give him crap about how he's pretended he's had balls, in their words, since i've come to school.
By the way he reacts to everything the class says, he either hates that everyone think he likes me, or he really really does like me. I think he's really sweet, i just can't tell what he wants, or why he seems to like me so much. Or if he even likes me at all. (link)
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well you know what you should tell your friend that it shouldn't affect him by what other people say and i mean if it does tell him it shouldn't cuz they don't know the real him and if they just took the time they would
okay so know with your question
he might like you it's hard to tell you know you could start flirting with him and if he flirts back that could be a good sign
but only flirt if you like him
if you don't then ask him what way he likes you in and maybe he will feel comfortable about expressing him self to you so yeah anywayz
hope everything works out.
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Hi. I'm 14 years old and a female. I have gone to the same camp for years. Everyone basis how good their experience was during the summer on how far they went and with how many people. I too, took part of this. I hooked up with six people and gave one of them head and hand, but everyone did that. I ended up pissing off the wrong people and they called me a whore despite the fact that many had done the same thing. I left camp and it was rumored that I got kicked out. Now, when I went back to school, they got a lot of people who weren't even there and have created their own elaborate versions of the story and are mean to me. They openly talk about it during class even in front of the teacher during my presentations and such. I now know what I did was wrong but how can I get people to stop?
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i hate to say this but once people start talking they usually don't stop take it from someone who is kind of in your position but i have dealt with this kind of stuff my whole life and listen if you want them to stop then show them it doesn't bother you even though it does. because once they think that it's not hurting you anymore they don't want to do that. i used to tell people that they didn't know what they were talking about so they shouldn't say shit bout it but they still did so i went to my mom and i asked her for some advice and she told me that i should ignore what they say because i know who i am but they don't and if their stupid enough not to want to get to know you that's their problem not yours. if they think your getting angry and upset about it they'll keep on doing it cuz they know it annoys you so i hope my advice helps.
oh yeah if you ever want to talk to someone i'm always here
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Ok.... well I am currently checking out gym memberships in my area, but I have also thought about buying some weights and getting an elliptical machine. Which would be the best for me to do? (link)
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it's depending who you are maybe if some of your friends want to work out and lose weight they could go to the gym with you. if your a social person the gym would be the place for you to. i know that i'm not a very social kind of person so i work out at home but it's your way of saying do i want to work out alone or with a friend or two.
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omgosh ok...me and this guy have lockers right next to each other at school and we barely talk...ok so he added me on myspace and i left hime a msg to see if wanted to go to the movies or hang out over thnxgivin break (just as friends)....he didn't answer my msg back so i started feeling omg was i too forward? then i sent him another msg joking about the whole situation and he sent me a "?" now i feel like such an idiot because if he read one msg without the other he's just gonna think i'm crazy or something and i have the urge to call him but i don't have his phone #...what do i do? (link)
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what i would do is i would be like straight forward with him at school when we were at our lockers so yeah then ask him if he wants to go to the movies and explain what you meant in the myspace message. hope this helps.
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My friend who i have been friends with since first grade is very flirty and wants to grab my ass. he like said "so i can look but can i touch..." i dont know how to respond to that. i want to be flirty back without saying yes or no. can anyone help pleaseee? (link)
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so as i understand you want him but you don't want to say yes or no am i right. well what i would do is say the same thing back and do what he is doing if it gets to far tell him you want to stop. do you like this friend of yours more then a friend or just as a friend??? if you like him more then a friend tell him that you do maybe something will happen between you and him.
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well there is this guy i like his name is ian. i have had people tell me he likes me to; two of his closest friends told me that. & we write notes back & forth, tell each other we love them & we flirt like crazy. We can talk on the phone for hours at a time. I really like him & I want to start to date, but I dont want to ask is there anyway I can get him to ask me? (link)
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i was in the same situation and i had his friends engourage him to ask me out and he finally ended up asking me out after he's friends encouraged him to and he got up the guts.
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Okay, i made a huge mistake while my boyfriend and I were fighting, and i said i was questioning his feelings for me. I wish i never said it..because I really do believe that he loves and cares for me the way he says he does, but now like he thinks I dont trust him..how do I make him realize that I really really do believe he loves me?? (link)
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tell him you do believe him and say your sorry that you said that say you were just really mad at him at the time and you said something stupid and that you regret ever saying it. it might work it might not just let him hang out with girls by himself and prove to him that you trust him. well i hope this helps.
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A year ago I moved to a condo and i met this girl, for now i will call her C. And C was a nice girl, she was like my best friend for a while and then i met her friend, K. Shit happened, and then I got into a fight with K and then i got intoa fight with C. But then, i made up with C and K. Then C moved and it was just me and K. Me and K have become the best of friends, we're blood sisters, but K is a total slut, and C has changed into a little ho. She dresses like a slut and calls herself 'the playboy master' cause she loves playboy to death. Now me and C always get into fights and then im always the one that goes back to her and wants to become her friend again. Me and K get into fights too and stop talking, but we end up being friends again after a day. Now K is telling me to be the bigger person and be friends with C again cause shes 'so much fun'and shit. I really dont want to be C's friend again cause we're just gonna end up fighting again. So, should i listen to K and make up with C or should I just forget about C? I really need some advice on this. (link)
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well have you told her how you feel and stuff because if she was like a good friend like you say she is then she would care how you feel and why you don't want to hang around with her. tell her she's changed since you guys have become friends.
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I don't usually get zits (just one or two during my time of the month) so I usually don't waste my money on expensive products. I usually just scrub my face with a bar of soap when I'm in the shower. It seems like it works pretty well but I heard it isn't healthy for my skin. Is this true? If it is, do you have any product reccomendations?
Another skin problem I have is dry or flaky skin. It normally isn't a problem for me, but in the past few days it has been. This morning, I used my sister's face wash with exfoliating beads. And another thing I did was put on oil-free moisturizer before my makeup. However, by the end of the school day you could see the flaky skin. It looks so gross. Could I have excema(sp?)? Do you have any product reccomendations? (link)
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you should use proactive it does actually wrok i used to be covered with zits and now i'm not soo yeah thats all i have to say besides get some really good lotion cuz i have really dry skin to and i kno what its like.
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I really like this guy and I wanna have sex with him, only, I'm a virgin. I don't know how or what it's like and I'm really nervous. Any advice or tips or could any of you girls tell me what it's like to be layed? Anything will help. Thanx
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okay don't mind me but first of all it depends on your age cause if your younger then eighteen then you don't want to be having sex even though you want to. I have had sex and i'm only 14 but i regret every moment of it cause it could have screwed up every moment of my life and my firendships. it can ruin the relationship because all the guy wants might be sex and you don't wanna get hurt if he ends up breaking up with you after you guys have done that cause it will hurt so bad. i should know i went through the exact thing and it hurt me so bad to know that i did that with him and then he left me after he told me he loved me.
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Okay, so, they guy i like, has a girlfriend, but he told me that he liked me and to wait for him. Should i continue to wait for him? (link)
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well if this guy likes you then he should break up with his girlfriend and you should tell him that because it's not right that he is doing that to her. If she finds out she is going to be really upset she probably really likes him. so i don't know. tell him to either break up with her and go out with you or you shouldn't go out with him because you deserve better every one does my friend has gone through this like 15 times before she found the right guy and i helped her through it each time i hope this will help good luck.
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Sorry in advanced if it is long. I'm 16/f. So, I broke up with my bf of 4 months a month ago. And the same exact day he got a new gf. And he didnt bother telling him, I found out at a party, I saw them together. And it didn't feel right to me, like he shouldn't have moved on so quickly. But I wasn't really jealous I don't think. And we are still friends, which I'm glad for, and I'm constantly going online to see if he is on. And when he is, my heart starts to race like crazy, and I'm like so happy. We can talk forever but little stuff, we just always find things to talk about. I also think about him all the time no matter what, it drives me crazy. And when I'm not talking to him, I feel a little depressed. I'm just scared that if we do get back together, it will end up like the past. I really don't want to hurt him again, I would just hate myself. And after we broke up, I told myself that I did love him, but just that it was just friendship love. But now I"m not too sure. Can I really still be IN love with him? And I just also need some advice on how to deal with these feelings if they won't go away. I'm just really confused and need some advice. (link)
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omg i just got over this same problem. i know it sux that he is with another girl. after i broke up with my ex he went back to his ex then when they broke up he came back to me and then he broke up with me and that same day he waqs going out with this chick and didn't even tell me and we broke up once in five months and it was for like 1 hour he was only going out with her to get back at me for dumping and he said i still love you brianna and i told him that i still loved him too. but i was sick of being his go back to girl and so now were friends but barely tell him that you love and it was a mistake that you broke up with him thats is how i got schuyler back but i hope this helps. good luck.
*~Brianna~*
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okay so im 16 and i have never made out. i now have a new boyfriend and im nervous. like a part of me doesnt want him to kiss me and i dont know why. am i just nervous or am i still not ready? i mean im fine with the quick peck on the lips but i dont want to make out. i dated a guy for like 6 months without making out.. i know this cant go on forever but ah i dont know... also in a way the whole tounge in the mouth thing grosses me out... and i dont know how kiss so i wouldnt know what to do. everyone tells me to just go with the flow.. but sitll. wont your teeth knock together?
anyways..
what is wrong with me? (link)
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no nothing is wrong with you just wait until the right moment comes i didn't make out with a guy until i felt comfertable with it either so don't worry and sometimes your teeth knock together but it's okay and i thought that the whole tounge thing was kinda nasty too so don't worry and have fun.
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ok. so my mom is going to iraq and my dad is moving me from west bloomfield, were my boyfriend lives to clarkston where my dad wants to live. we are moving next week. should i keep going out with him and do that whole long distance thing or should i break it off and explain?
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ummm hate to break it to you but long distance relationships almost never work out and that really sucks when you care about the person because you care about that person adn you don't want to hurt that person. so yeah i totally understand what your thinking. But if that person wants to stay in contact then stay in contact with that person. ummmm it also depends on if you guys love each other or not soooo it all depends if you love him then don't break up with him. but if you guys don't love each other then one of you guys are gonna end up cheating on one another.
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my boyfriends kind of skinny.
actually hes realllly skinny.
Alot skinnier then me.
and to be honest it kind of bothers me..
i feel so much bigger than him and i dont know how to get over it cause i really like him.
but like i feel like im going to crush him and i just feel like we dont look right together cause usually i go for more muscular looking guys
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ummm you shouldn't think that you guys should break up or anything because he is skinnnier then you. you should go out with him because of the way you feel about him. if you really like then keep on dating him my boyfriend is skinnier then i am so yeah hope this helped bye
~*Brianna*~
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