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ok this is really stupid but i 4got what the north south west and east things are called.. can someone please tell me. i will rate.

well,to remember it people say

Never
Eat
Shredded
Weat


and its a compuss rose that they are on.if thats what you mean.If you dont,drop one in my inbox :)

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i smoke and it's not because of my friends! my friends dont know.im only 13 and im addicted!PLz HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

woah really please quit,think of all the bad things that could happen -wrinkles,yellow teeth,the gross smell,you must stop,to stop think of this --

"I can stop,im not going to live my life bad,"
everytime you see one,think of it as the grossed thing you've ever had.it could kill you.Maybe you should tell someone like your mom or dad....sister or brother..someone to help you.

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((Background info: 13, umm, volleyball and single))

Ok well i got 2 dreams i had them different nights as well and they're really weird and i dont get if they mean something or not,...


First Dream:

Well, i was out on a pourch in my spandex and it was in the evening and the pourch light was on and i saw this old geezer lookin at me with benoculars and i ran back into the house and shut the door and locked it.

Second Dream:

There's this football player i see him like every day (this stuff is real i'll tell ya whenever we get to the dream part) and he's really short but so adorable and i'm almost postitive he's checkin' me out but i only know him a little.

He's the dream

Well, we were some place dark, and i could feel him kissing my lips passionatly and slowly, and him hands slowly going up my shirt to my waist and then they stopped and stayed there and my arms were around his shoulders, it kind of looked like a dance or something but i think it was a closet cuz i feel down and ruined the moment!

I'll rate 5's for some good explanations

First dream --

Probably you dont want to flaunt,and you really dont older people looking at you "like that" (who would? 0.0) Most dreams speak for them selves,most of the time.(it does in this case)

Second dream --

You're most likely scared you'll love him and it will mess up or,you're afraid of messing up with him,or afriad of getting embarrissed when he's around.

Of course,this is YOUR dream,YOUR concious..so i am just explaining what the posibilitys are.

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i need a great theme for our hallway and i am a junior. we really wanna beat the seniors but the seniors have a great idea of doing super mario brothers.... what should we do? any ideas would help! thanks!

teenage mutant ninja turtles! xD!!i love them! also,

-rockos modern life
-ren and stimpy
-betty boop

^^ try those :) i especially like teenage mutant ninja turtles,i hope i helped!

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ok i have this really weid bump on my face. It is on my forehead right near my eyebrow. It is really big and red and hurts realy bad...its also really hard. My mom siad its just an ingrown pimple but it is really big...what could it be??

sounds to me like a zit.Whatever you do,dont make it bleed,or scratch it of,it takes a longer time to heal,and could lead to scarring.Try using St.Ive's Apracot Scrub acne control and radience.It works great,with in 3 days,you'll see results (if you have normal to oily skin.) And also,put a nice moisturizer on after your shower,on your face.Make sure its not dry,oh yeah,and befor you wash your face(i usually go in the shower and wash my face while im in there) make sure its warm-kind of hot water,your pores loosen up,then apply what ever acne medication you use.And after you are done with washing your face,cold water tightens pores,so i would suggest when you get out of the shower splash some cold water on your face.Sorry i didnt *exactly* answer your question but i got into XD,and it should help :). good luck,and just remember,it would ALWAYS be there :)

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what are some cute duets w/ a guy & a girl that are R&Bish & not nivea.

thanks!!!!

Deffinatly the "like you" song by ciara and bow wow !!

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How scary is the movie Hide and Seek? See, we're thinking of watching it at my Halloween party, but I get scared VERY easily and get nightmares and stuff - basically I'm a wimp lol!! If it's really really scary, does anyone have any suggestions of movies that are good, scary but not terrifying (from a wimp's point of view lol)?
We've already seen Blair Witch Project, Signs, The Ring (what is Ring 2 like?), Sixth Sense and both Final Destinations and don't really wanna watch them again.
Thanks!!

ok hide and seek..isnt all that scary,becuase of the twist in the end.Ring 2 is pretty scary,but after you watch it just think of when scary movie 3 made fun of the 1st ring!! XD and obviously,you know that people made it :P.hmmm...the Grudge..is sort of scary,only because its jumpy and..well its creepy,so i say if people really want to watch that,close your eyes for it!

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Ok i have a few questions:

*I am 13/f, i am around 5 ft. 4 inches and i weigh 102 pounds, I always feel like i am overweight-am I?
*Do any guys like red hair? I have naturally red hair (kind of strawberry blonde...and kind of auburn?..) and i've tried dying it, but the red always comes through. Do you think red heads are ugly? or... what do you think? also... do you think long hair or short hair is better?
*I have fair skin, and i really don't tan, if i do, its really little, and i have tried a bunch of fake tanning crap-but that's all it looks like is fake! Do you find fair skin unnatractive?
*One last question: I haven't had my first kiss yet, and I have no idea what to do, but I'm pretty sure it's gonna happen soon! What are some things you like that people do when you're kissing?

yeah i'm really making myself sound like a big nerd in this! lol

please answer these questions for me!
thanks a ton!
*i rate*

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Nope,your not over weight at all!!

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Yeah a lot of guys like red hair!!Strawberry blonde is my favorite color in red hair:) its so pretty!Also maybe,try going honey blonde,or even light brown is perfect for fair skin and your features.
I like medium hair :).Also,if your hair isnt extreamly short or anything,ask a trusted hair dresser to add layers,no shorter than the bottom of your ear,to make it appear thicker
.Only if you want.Also,if you dye your hair brown,try going for high lights instead :) those make your hair appear thick also.

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Personally,i have fair to a really light beige through out the year..unless its summer..when im really tan.But to get a nice tan through out the year i always use this lotion that brings out natral glow and tans your skin.Its called "Jergans" or something like that.Find a lotion that is like that :). It doesnt look fake at all. You could also try Neutrgina's Acne Medicated Moisturizing Tint..i think thats what its called XD im pretty sure,i use it,get it about two shades or 1 darker of what you really are.Works great!

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hmmm...i like it when the boy moves closer first :) and not a big frencher XD i like a nice soft kiss ! :P

ps : i dont think you sound like a nerd XP!


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Ok so my name is Tilly and I came in late for biology class. I look in my chair and there was a note with my name on it..I opened it and it said "Tilly, will you go out with me-your secret admirer"..obviously, they were joking because it was written very MESSY and..if i wanted to say yes/no..how could i tell them? so i was being mocked and embaressed..should I get over it? I wanted to cry so bad..this made me feel even more horrible because people have been calling me ugly for 5 years!

im sorry :'( i know how that feels..people consider me a "weird person" in my school,because i like different things,they call me ugly and try to pull me down to boost them selves up,or just get a good laugh.But they will get no where in their lives like that.Find people to mock you and make fun or you for reasons.I would be very upset.forget them.Once you get into high school,friends really..they matter some,but its not your priority,its focusing on studys.are you in hight school? if you are,they are being immature.I think this person who did that wrote with the hand they dont write with,so its messy.I dont think anyone is really ugly,they are trying to make you sad.Forget them.Dont pay attension to them and stay strong.Who ever did that obviously didnt realize how smart you really are,and you know how stupid they are.Never think of getting embarrised,laugh it off,or just think "this will be over soon" no bad thing ever lasts forever.:( stay strong

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Alright, I liked this guy for the past three years and now I am over him. I don't want to be around him, I don't even want to see him. He plays around with me too much and I can't stand those games of his. It's games like his that hurt me so much. I don't want to be around him yet I want to show him that my feelings are changed . When I get off my bus in the morning, he's there at the table sitting there with my other friends and then he avoids eye contact. Then I do the same and say hey to everyone and put my bookbag down. He'll give me one glimpse and then I'll head to the restroom or to the cafeteria. There have been plenty of times that I have come back to the table to prove that I am over him and that I can be around him because I used to couldn't. But now , he's hitting on my friends around me, and I told my friend to go for it but she won't b/c she says that he's too hot for her. Why is he doing this in front of me, why won't he let me be, why does he have to act as if he is everything, why does he avoid eye contact, and how comes he's at the damn table every morning? I've moved on but this makes it way too complicated because I like to sit in the cafeteria in the morning but he's there and he's hitting on my friends in front of me and I don't want to be there. Oh what should I do. Please, please , please, please help me. Oh and I asked a guy and he said it's probably another game to see if I'll come back as I did all those other times before. Is this true?

ok..he *might* like you..and gets jealous other people like you to? He could also be priving he's "cool/hot" by hitting on your friends..just ignore him,dont even look at him. I know this kid that i used to love..but i got over him and not he likes me.I think he WANTS you to like him.He wants to make you confused and want him..but he doesnt like you like that.so yeah hes playin games.I'd say...just..ignore him,have fun with your friends and when he does that stuff to your friends then you should just change the subject and be like "hey (your friends name) whats up?" or start a different conversation.and if he joins in..just talk to him to. try that :-) ok,good luck!

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My boyfriend is FAR too calm. I hate it. I mean i love it at times but sometimes a realationship needs some tension. Like and I wanna fight with him than kiss and mkae up. He never gets mad. Like last week this guy completly tried to get in my pants right in front of him and he just laughed it off. PISSED ME OFF!
Today one of my best friends whos like obsessed with me and he put his arm around me and was like kissing my cheek and my bf wasnt even like mad at all.

How should I make him madder like cuz this calmness with be the downful of our realtionship.

i dont know what to say..i would LOVE a boyfriend like that...umm.. my guess is..he REALLY is jealous,and kind of sad when that happens,but he knows you'll never really cheat on him.Its kind of good that you do that infrount of him rather then behind his back..but i would never do that to someone :(..i love laid back boys.They're awesome :P boring is another issue..but maybe bring him to a theme park and go on roller coasters,that might get him..then after just watch a movie at your house :) that way you'll like both sides of him..hehe..ok well at least try the idea..if it has no effect..then talk to him about it :P

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God. You really have no idea how many times I have been blamed for something I didn't do. Like 2 weeks ago someone (not me) cut the seatbelts on the bus and threw out the airfreshener. And there comes the vice principal looking for me and he told me that I did it. Which I obviously didn't. I have done things that made me get in trouble. I did that like 5 times. And yes I did bad stuff then. But that was in 6th grade. I'm now in 8th.
So, he was talking to me and telling me how I shouldn't of done that. And hes blaming me for everything. He doesn't care about my side of the story. I've tried talking to him but he wouldn't lissten. I told him he was a liar, because it's true. He didn't care.
How should I show him i've changed from being a bad @$$ to a good person?? I'm thinking about going to my councelor and telling her about it.

god your vice principle is an ass!! Well,if you HAVE to tell your parents,say you didnt do it and you would never do something thing like that,and they know it.Maybe do some communtiy service and stuff..i think you should talk to your councelor about it..and your vice principle doesnt have anything on you that you DID do it..does he? Do you remember where you were on that day? If you were out with someone,or home with family?you should tell him "i couldnt have even done it becuase i was with ___" if you were! but if you were home alone,or alone in any place,tell him you were finishing homework and watching t.v,and you werent allowed out of the house. He shouldnt blame it on you if he doesnt have any evidence or your side.I'd say definatly tell your councelor your side.

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I think i might have sumthign for my friend who isnt great looking (im bi hes a guy im a guy) and is a bit big like me but i keep imagining me and him going out and making out (No sex or anything) and i dont know what to do i cant tell him but i wanna go out wit him

umm...is he bi...or gay? because i wouldnt say anything if he wasnt any of those 2!

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do revlon or maybelline eyeliner work better... i need a eyeliner that will stay on throughout the day and wont wear off.. thanks

covergirl,alaby (i dont what its called xD) or the eyeliner from victoria secret..xD ..i think its revlon..revlon works the best..so does avon!! it stays on for a long time..never get NYC eyeliner..it sucks! but yes..revlon works better than mabelline

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A few weekends ago a bunch of us went gown to Galveston to celebrate a friend getting a full ride scholarship to college. Well, we were, of course, drinking.

I went home with my best friend and he was driving. We both had been drinking. Well, I didn't think anything of it and we were doing fine until we got into our neighborhood and we got into an accident...with a pole. Yeah, you're thinking omg a pole what could have happened. Well, he was speeding and we ended up pretty messed up and my best friend car was totaled. I broke my jaw and are, and cracked my skull.

Well, needless so say, our parents were PISSED. We both aren't allowed to do anything until the end of time.

Looking back at what happened now, I realize how irresponsible we were. And not only could we have killed ourselves but others out of stupidity. We're both DONE with drinking. I can barely even get into a car with out freaking out now.

There is still a huge problem with our parents; they have lost trust in us. Complete trust. I even over heard my mom telling my best friend that she has lost all respect for him as well. Neither one of us has any idea how we can help regain our parents trust. I for one value it and cannot live knowing that they dont trust me. Any one have any ideas? 17/f

ok..hmm...i think you should just leave them alone,meaning like...let them cool down..you know they were scared to death..i was this show about drinking and driving...and most kids get brain damage after it =O..anyways..maybe work around the house,do stuff for them,really show them you are working hard,and maybe give them a card (i know it might be cheesy XD) saying your sorry.i'd say..keep in there,dont ask for things for a while. Make them dinner maybe? or maybe plan some stuff with them..just to get on there good side ;) good luck im sorry i couldnt help any more than this,i hope it turns out all right

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i have really unmanageable hair. it's wavey, poofy, and frizzy. i have to spend and hour straightening it at night and about 45 minutes in the morning.. just to put it up in a pony tail. it won't stay straight so i can't leave it down. is there anything i could do so it will stay straight for more than 10 minutes?

ok,you should get some realllyyy good straighteners..Chis are REALLY good.My friend has a stretener that starightens her hair when its wet!! its awesome!! another thing is you can get straitening shampoo (that commercial with byonce` in it is one really good one) after you used that on your hair,use spray to get rid of frizz..if also brings down the poof.Make sure you're hair isnt dry,because the makes is a lot worse.You know what i would try? on a day your doing nothing,experiment...maybe give your self beatiful curls :) or put it in messy buns..i like that style :) also,adding bobby pins and barretts can reduce the poof in areas for putting your hair up.Try hairspraying your hair in a pony tail (dont hair spray you pony TAIL xD)then give the tail some nice bouncy curls..or just leave your hair down with bouncy curls :). What i would go for is the scrunched look.Scrunch your hair..im not sure how to do it..so look it up :P or maybe someone can help you with that :)If you like it straight..an less poofy..like if its realllyy think..get some layers :)..but make sure they are NO SHORTER then the bottom of your ear..and you dont want to much :)..it might also be easyer to straighten,but im not sure,also if you like your hair the way it is,dont cut it :P..maybe hightlights are cool too for this kind of hair :) ok im going to far..and i cant even think of how many times i spelled "straighten" wrong in this xD well i hope i helped!

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ok so i've been going out with this guy john for about 2-3 weeks now..and i really love him...but he's my bffs ex boyfriend...and shes really mad at me for going out with him..she gives me shit about it all the time like everyday at school...and like i told her how happy he makes me and how much i like him and stuff and she still like is weird and she talks about me behind my back to my other bffs(also hers too) i really want her to stop being mad at me b/c i dont want this to distroy our friendship (we've been friends like when we were born and on from there) she wont just except the fact that like her likes me and i like him now..AND SHE DUMPED HIM TOO thats makes me like really mad too...like she says she still likes him but shes the one who dumped him... what should i do...o and she said the only thing that would make her happy would be if i dumped him but if i dump him i'll be missrible for like a really really long time and she doesnt get it...

what should i do?? 13/f

sorry this is soo long...i rate all fives if u atleast try to help me!!!!!

im sorry hunny :'( this is a hard situation..hmm...well..think..how much do you LOVE him..yet..how much do you like her as a friend? you shouldnt dump him just because that.She made a mistake thats her gay problem.You know what i would do? i would stay with him,keep your other friends,talk to her about it and say "i know you dont want me to be with him..but please relize that i love you as a friend and letting our friend ship die would make me soo sad""we've had so many good times and i dont want to loose you as a friend" dont brag about how much you love him though,then she'll just get annoyed.I bet she likes you,its just thats she doesnt like you being with him.because it was her mistake.And if she still is mad at you,i'd say..get in the "popular group" or a famous group of people and have fun with them.I would have fun with them and not think about her for a while.Maybe if it doesnt work out w/ you and john then just tell her and make up.I know its hard to talk to someone about it..to tell you the truth when someone tells me to "talk about it" i never do xD ...but i really suggest doing it..maybe over phone/internet/notes.

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GUYS please only answer this...unless you are a girl with an answer from a guy...

How can I flirt with guys. Like what do guys like with when a girl flirts with you? I really want to try flirting but I dont know what to do.

ALSO! I asked advice on how to get more attention from guys and this one girl said to smile at a cute guy from one of your classes. What would you think if a guy who you never talked to smiled at you?

BTW...I'm not the most popular girl, but I'm not a LOSER. I'm one of those in between people...(you know I've got friends that are popular and band geek friends...haha but band geeks in our school arent losers, the losers are losers. The band geeks are friends with reg. people)

my friend eric (a dude) told me ..hes next to me..that he likes it when girls flirt or just talk to him..but its different with all guys..he says -- "get to know them as friends..give them hight fives and be outgoing..most boys like it when girls are pretty..but i dont really care about that stuff (not really.. XD)well..i kind of do XD.anyways..me and rissa (cokecap x21) think you shouldnt call people losers..cause if you want to get popular..you have to be nice..to EVERYONE. talk..to EVERYONE.Eric -- i think i'd be kinda freaked out if i didnt know a girl and she smiled at me O.O..just say "whats up and make sure they notice you more..laugh with your friends next to them and have fun near them..that way you'll have a good impression..and dont make it phony/cheesy...you know?

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OMG I have a halloween party on like the 7th and I haven't gotten a costume yet. I don't know what to wear. I also will have a halloween dance and go trick-or-treating. I think I might be a boy but not sure. My mom won't let me buy a costume so what should I do??

I Rate HIGH!!


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be a gangsta!! i was a dude one time..the due-rag pimp hat and pimp clothes xD ..and fake money hanging out of my pocket :P..or you could go as barbie :P

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can u stop your feet from smelling? hahah lmao just wonder i know i'm werid

yupp :) powder...and some lotion :)

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