Hi My name is Lauren.Im attending college as an english major,and I hope to teach one day.Im a great writer,and I give great advice.My friends always come to me when they have problems.The only problem now is that I moved to Texas from Kansas,and I dont know anyone here.So I hoped I could at least help people who need someones advice.Im mostly good with relationship questions but feel free to ask me any thing.I will always answer your questions,and I will be honest.
E-mail: chevy_bab09@hotmail.com
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Location: Texas
Occupation: English Major/Security from 10pm-5am
Age: 19
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I wasn't sure which category to put this in. On October 27th I had sex for the first time. The last time I've had my period was October 7th- 11th. For the past few months my periods have been irregular but I'm starting to freak out. I've been very stressed out for the past couple of weeks. I took two home pregnancy tests on Tuesday; they both came out negative but I'm still wondering why I haven't started my period. My friend said it can be late due to stress so is there anyway i can stop stressing so I can finally start my period? (link)
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Yeah focuse on other things like school work,or throw your self into a great book.The more you stress about stressing the later it will be.And you should go see a dr about birth control my periods where really bad id have one 2 times a month and then skip months altogether I tried several diffrent birth controls that never worked then i tried the nuva ring and it started working the first month.So talk to you dr about that because i know you hate waiting and stressing and some times us girls just cant help it.
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Hi, Im yauna, im a girl and im 15 and my problem is that I dont know if Im straight or bisexual. I cant really talk to anyone I know about because they might judge me or not want to talk to me.I like guys for sure because I have had four boyfriends. The last two relationships didnt go so well. But once in a while i would have these fantasies about being with a girl. I rarely have fantasies about guys but i love them too. But I still have that desire for girls or a girlfriend. So I would like to know am I straight or bisexual? (link)
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It sounds to me your bicurious which isnt a bad thing.It means your curious about your sex and you want to know what it would be like.Its not a bad thing,and you may come to find that you like both sexes.My advice is go for what you want and never let anyone tell you your not worth it because you are.Wether it be guy or girl you will find someone who understands you.Focuse on school and good grades for now,and a love interest will come to you sooner or later.Thats all one can hope for is someone who understands them and wants to be with them because they know there worth it.Best of luck
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Ok so i just cant stop i just cant i like need to like die or something i just dont know what to do and btw im talkin about me masterbating plz help me (link)
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Wow lol Iv never heard somone like that lol.Masterbating is natural who dosnt love an imaginative orgasim?But if you think your doing it to much try finding a love interest.Or you could always start excersizing not letting some of that energy out might be one of your problems.
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I am a 18 yr old f. Several answers would be appreciated. I have met a guy who I relate to in so many ways. I have never felt so comfortable around any other guy before; it feels as if I have known him for years. He is 35. My heart tells me it is so right, but my head tells me he might be too old. Usually I would think 10 years is a good gap to date someone, but my parents are 15 years apart... What do you think? I am very mature and I would never do anything that I'd think to be a stupid decision. Never drank or did drugs in my life and don't plan to. He has never done this either. Thanks in advance!
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Im with you on the whole 10 years ahead thing,but like you said your parents are 15 years apart.So I say go for it just be carefull dont put your entire heart on the line.If you and this guy really like eachother it will be worth it.Just make sure your not the only one in it.Trust your heart like my mom always said Love like its the last day you can.You dont want to give up and always wonder what might have been.So good luck and stay safe
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I've had sex 3 times now and the first time, I bled, a lot. But I blew it off as me losing my virginity so it was "normal". The second time, I bled a little bit, but nothing too tragic, so I assumed that meant it was gonna get better as I had sex more often. Well, the third time was a re enactment of the first time. I bled. A lot. What's up with that? Why? Am I gonna have to worry everytime about "Omg, am I gonna bleed this time?" I'm convinced my vagina is defective. lol (link)
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Also if you bf or they guy your with is big it happens.Like she said your still new to it.
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19/f i am scared. i am 5"4 and only like 92.5 pounds. i've been put on this medicine called remeron to help me gain weight but like before i keep gaining and losing. i am tired all the time, people use to ask me if i am anorexic, or tell me oh your so skinny. i mean i got made fun of a lot. and i can't believe i am saying this but i think i have started believing what other people say about me being anorexic. i do eat and it's not like i worry about how many calories i put in my body, i don't eat breakfast, but that's because i am always late for school be cause i get up in the morning and go on the computer. things are just getting worse for me. i look disgusting. my arms are like toothpicks, and so are my legs. i eat junk food. i did stop ea ting out for a while because i got sick of it, and plus at the time my mom wasn't working, but then she got her job back and i started into my old unhealthy routine. now i eat out almost everyday. but still no results. what should i do? (link)
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Wow you remind me of my bff back home in kansas.Im not a dr and i cant help you gain weight but i have a few ideas.Try eating more helthy foods they will help give you more energy,and start working out muscles weight more than fat.I know its hard to be motivated when you feel groggy and tierd all the time.But instead of trying to get fat try to get muscles.It will define your body and you will start looking healthyer.And for get what all the other girls say there just as worried about there own looks as you are about yours.They just like to make them selfs feel better by putting the attention on you.
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17/f
i feel like im the only girl in the world who doesnt like it.. like i cant orgasim from normal penetration.. it just frustrates me and my boyfriend.. whats wrong with me. (link)
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Dont worry my sister is 22 and has only had once threw being ate out.You should go see a dr,they can help with stuff like this.I know its gonna be akward but you desirve to feel what an orgasim is like.Because it is amazing and this is coming froma girl whos been selibent for the last 3 months lol not by choice.If the dr cant help try switching up possitions or trying diffrent sexuall lubes you never know one might work.
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Ok so tonight i might be getting my first kiss but omg im so nervous like i get a stomach ache thinking about it. what if i'm not good AHH hellp im having like a panic attack thinking about it!! (link)
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Every one is nervous there first time,with thoughts like I hope I dont suck,and I hope he dosnt notice iv never done this befor.But truth is the only way to get better is to practice.Tell the guy your with that this is your first time he will understand.Trust me the only way you can be a bad kisser is if your toung goes every where lol.Just go slow and dont rush the kissing prosses kissing is an art that noone can tottally suck at
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I don't know why I keep doing this! I have major procrastination issues (I'm not even exaggerating. Its taken over my life and I'm a high school junior failing 6 out of 8 of my classes :( ) but whenever teachers or my parents ask for help I reject them! But I want them to help me and notice that I'm having problems.. so why can't I admit to them I need help? And then I get mad when they don't notice and think everything with me is fine. Ughhghgg
how do I beat procrastination, too? it seems the more work i have the harder it is for me to do it.. cause i cant keep my procrastination habits and get straight A's anymore. i want to quit it but its just hard to decide to do work when it feels so good to procrastinate instead (internet & tv). and then the more i procrastinate, the more stressed out i get cause nothing gets done and i now am doing poor in school, which leads to MORE procrastination!!
why am i physically rejecting offers for help then? what is psychologically wrong with me? or is this just a classic case of laziness? how do i snap out of this? im so sick of it. i made such dumb decisions but i'm a smart person so this shouldn't be happening. i cant go back in time but i know i am mentally capable of straight As if i can be totally focused, cause i have before but this year idk what happened. the only thing i feel depressed about is my faltering grades which affects my self confidence and makes me become more of a loner cause its hard to feel good about myself with horrible grades to be all bubbly like i normally am. like i dont have any friend i talk to outside of school..
im just stuck in this stupid cycle.. buried in a deep hole i desperately want to get out of for the sake of my future. but i just have so much make up work to do it is very overwhelming. right now i am procrastinating.. i made lists but theres just so much to do. i hate coming to school with no work done. before i even enter school i cannot WAIT to get back home. and then times like now i start to feel guilt for procrastinating. every day this happens. and when i try to do work i feel discouraged and its hard to bring myself to finish through. to be honest, there are some classes i havent even handed in any work for yet and its almost the midpoint of the 2nd marking period. please dont say im a fool and everything.. that will only feel worse and i know it was stupid to get in this situation. i just want to learn how to get out.. if its even possible. ive never done this bad in school ever, i used to be a great student but now i just feel very hypocritical when i still act that way but my grades are failures.. cause i care about school mentally but my actions show the opposite and idk why theres this stupid disconnect!!!! (link)
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Well it sounds to me you have adhd.I was just like you once,I hated actually sitting down and trying to focus because it was hard for me to do it.But I hated not getting the grades I knew I was smart enough to make.Truth is I never took care of my problem,my dr put me on adderall,and it helped but then it started wearing off erilyer in the day and I went back to normal.The drs have to up the script for its affects to be the same cuz you get ammune to it.So here is my advice to you go see a dr the only reason it didnt help me is because I stoped taking it.Also you could try sitting in your kitchen to do you work some where there isnt a tv or computer.Music always helped me get more focused and I love rockin out and doin home work.Dont feel stupid because your not concentrating it happens to the best of us just try to make your self more interested in the work.Get some friends together and have a study group,for that to work its best not to have a guy you like there lol.No female can concentrate when there nervous.
My best wishes
The one who cares
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my boyfriend fell in love with a girl that was my best friend and he also likes a girl in school. Both girl are in the same class with him and im get angry when he talks about them when he's with me. What can i do to make our relationship be better? Im 16 years old, female (link)
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If those girls are more important to him than you are then hes not worth it.Im sorry i know thats not what you wanted to hear but its the truth.You desirve a guy who talks about you or who makes you his most important thought.You should tell him to chose you or them and you will see how he really feels.And if it dosnt work out just know you are young love will come and go and each one is better than the last.
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19/f there's a guy that sits behind me in english calls. well lol i have dreams about him, and i do talk to him and we're friends. but i mean why am i having these dreams about him? i think i might like him i mean i flirt with him. for example at the end of english class i turned around and i said to him those sunglasses look like something my mother would wear and he started laughing. and when i was leaving he was smiling. and yesterday he saw me and was like hey and he smiled at me. and on monday after i insulted his sunglasses i walked in class and he said your late and i was like umm thanks mom i think i realize that. it's funny. i mean im not sure if he likes me? does he? we do talk outside of class when he sees me, and am i making it obvious that i like him? because im afraid i might be. haha thanks. any answers are appreciated. (link)
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Its hard to say if he likes you or not.I had a friend who was alot like him,funnny smart,and an all around good guy.And i started falling for him and we got alot closer but I guess he just didnt want to make that leap with me.I know it sucks when you really like a friend and you dont want to tell him because your afraid he dosnt feel the same.My advice is go for it.If he commenting on your clothes or little things like your you hair looks then he definatly has intrest.Make sure he dosnt have a girlfriend and jump in.Because if you dont you will always just wonder.If you do get hurt life will go on.If you want him to notic you try not paying so much attention to him.Make him think you have other interests.That might make him jump first.Sometimes guys are just unpredictable
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Hi so i am a Junior in HS and trying to raise money for a class ecology trip across country. the trip is very expensive and i do not have enough money. I am already working ,and plan on doing some fundraising. I plan on writing to northface, EMS, nike, underarmor and other companies asking for any donations in materials due to to the fact we will be backpacking and hiking. I also plan on writing to companies and business's asking them to sponsor me. If anyone could help me out or has any suggestions please let me know! (link)
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you can always do a bake sale,or a car wash.
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Okay I don't know what to do. I'm in a realtionship with this new guy but I still think about my ex every single day. Even though he was a jerk, a dick, a douche, didn't respect me, betrayed me, hurt me, and so much more I just can't seem to get over him. He was my first everything... (excluding sex). So I know that's a lot of physical connection that'll be hard to get over. And all of that came with alot of guilt and pressure and ugh.. I admit our relationship was a mess and unhealthy but I miss him SOOO much and even as I type this I'm crying and thats horrible! We've been broken up for almost six months and and I'm dating some one new for God's sake!! Granted I dated my ex for seven months... and he was my first but I should be over him! I can feel this new guy getting suspicious and I know he's starting to tell I'm not okay... But I know I'll regret it if I lose him... But honestly... if I had the choice between him and my ex and I'd pick my ex in a heartbeat. And that doesnt make sense!! This guy is perfect and my ex is a jerk I just felt something so strong with him... I don't know what to do!! I don't want to break up with my boyfriend because I DO care about him... This is just so hard and I neeed help... I'm fifteen, ex is sixteen, boyfriend is seventeen. (link)
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Iv been there my first love is still in my heart and it still hurts to think of him and its been almost 5 years.When you love someone so much you just have to learn to live with the pain.It never leaves you completly.He was a jerk also,but you still remember all the good times.All you can do truthfully is push him to the back of your mind and open yourself up to the possablity of leting that love fade.There is a big diffrence between loving someone and being inlove with someone.Its in our nature to want what is bad for us lol trust me.But think of your self would you be happyer with your ex treating you like crap and not caring about how you feel.Or with this guy who cares about you and wants to give you the world?Your still young and I know you hate when people say that,but you will find a someone with whom you will love harded and it will get better you just have to remember you do desirve the world.
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just wodering if this website would call the social if you posted somthing on hear like ' my parents abuse me' thanks xxxxxx (link)
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If you are being abused you need to tell someone,they really cant do anything if there is no proof.But no one should be abused no matter what the cercumstances are,your a human being not a punching bag.Please seek help,you desirve the best in life.When being abused you arnt able to focus on yourself or your goals,and as a teenager thats all you should be focusing on.And like they said every thing is annonomus on here so we cant help unless you give us more info.
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This boy that I told me he liked my hair curly, I wore it curly for like 3 days, then I made it straight and he noticed and pointed it out. My friends are like "wow, he notices the little things, that's so cute, he totally likes you" Do you think that's true? I also catch him looking at me a lot, we'll be in practice, and he'll look in my general direction so much that I don't even want to look his way. He'll also walk with me to classes. Do you think he likes me? thanks! (link)
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he definatly likes you if he walks you to classes and comments on the little things like your hair or your outfit.Dont be afraid to put yourself out there,but dont come off as needy.A guy that notice the things he dose definatly means he has intreset.
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Welll junior prom is coming up soon and im going with my boyfriend but the problem is were the SAME height and i dont wannt to be taller than him at prom :( but i HAVE to wear heals what do i do?! (i look really gay in ballet flats) (link)
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Try to find a dress thats floor lenghth that way no one can see your flats.A cute and cornie thing would be to wear converse there all the style right now and if your boyfriend has some you could make it a cute corny cupple thing.Also there are really cute sandle type heels that dont have to much of a heel so it wouldnt make you to tall.If worse comes to worse make him find some shoes with a lift that way you could still wear your heels.
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hey lauren-
i was wondering do you have any advice on how to get the pople who live in your old home to miovve out and for u to move in thx baby (link)
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Thats tough Iv never been in the possition,i still live with my mom lol.I guess I would try talking to them or the owner.But I think your only option would be to find a new place.Not many people are truly kind and willing to help others.Dont get me wrong its worth a try because you never know,but alot of people out there are selfish and mean.I hope you get your place back and i hope iv helped.
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everytime i go on webcam on msn the whole of my laptop freez's and even if someone goes on webcam to me, and its really annoying anoyone know how to stop it freezing? (link)
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you might not have the right driver for your computer check online to see if maybe your driver needs to be updated
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I am suffering from bipolar disorder. I cannot concentrate on one thing. Because at one moment i feel that it is a very good thing and i get very much interested and the next minute i get bored from that thing and get least interested in that thing. I want to stop that task at that time and want to do something different. The same thing happens with that task also and evenually i keep bouncing from one task to the other, be it studies or any other thing, any thought. It goes with money, girls, internet, everything. For example, At once i get interested in making money, i make many plans of making money, read as many articles as i can, and am very very interested. Then after few minutes i get bored and come to the conclusion that making money is not a good thing or is a very boring thing. Then i go making girlfriends. Same thing happens with it. Eventually i waste my time doing nothing worthwhile. Please help. (link)
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He is right you should see a dr it could be adhd.Bipolar is more of a mood change.I have manic depression with adhd mix.Manic depression is a type of bibolar i get into weird mood swing i can seem to figure out why i feel that way and if i let it build up i expload without reason.adhd is alot easyer to treat than bipolar so seek a dr explain what your feeling drs really can help if your honest with them.
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she really hates me (and yes she did tell me she does). it started on wednesday when she got my bus with me. i treid talking to her cos i didnt know she was anoyd with me but she didnt really talk back and she didnt sit by me on the bus like she normally does.then on thursday lunchtime she came up to me and asked if she could speak to me in privet.so we did. and she asked if i knew anything about the pen so i assumed she was talking about our teachers pen which everyone thought id stolen(i hadnt) and cos im a bit stupid i didnt think to ask her what she was talking about and just said no. so then she asked me if i considered her a friend and i said yes ofcourse. then she said i oviously didnt consider her a friend cos id lied to her about the first question so i must have lied to her about the second one. and then she walked of. and refused to talk to me for the rest of the day. then on friday ( the last day of tearm and the last day as a form cos we were being split up next year) it was a half day and she barly spoke to me. she said about one thing to me all which was i was a terrible friend cos i always lie to her and never say sorry or thanks and basicly im a complet bitch. and that was when i cried so hard i threw up. not very nice. and i said sorry to her a million times that day and told her i loved her (cos i do really love her so much it hurts somtimes) but she just said i was lieing again cos i oviously dont. so thats the main story but in the summer hols i had a sleepover with her and my 3 other best friends and she kept making 'jokes' about how i was a lesbian cos i have a tendency to hug people alot. and shes blocked me on fb and wont repli on formspring and i think shes blocked my phone number as well. so i cant even talk to her. i think shes been anoyed with me for a while cos i used to get bullied on fs. they said i was a lesbian and described in very graphic detail what me and her(the one who hates me)(shes called beth) do together. and also she stop letting me hug a while ago, whenever i treid she pushed me of her. the thing is, she lets everyone else hug her. and one last thing, i was gonna commit suicide today but i cant cos i think shell feel guilty if i died.oh sorry one more thing, she read my diary so she does know how much i love her. please help and sorry this is very long,if you stuck around to read it all, thanks and if you answerd this, i love you xxx
(btw im 13 so is she and im a girl)
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Wow first off dont commit suicide,not because of her but because you are important weather they say so or not.This girl sounds like a big snob.You should block them on fb and dont talk to them.If they were your real friends they would accept you weather your gay or not thats your choice its your life not theres.Its not like you were forcing yourself of them in any way.And if you love you like you say shes not worth your love,I know it hurts loving someone who dosnt feel the same,but in time you will feel better im not saying you will not love her any more where human we just cant help but love.But i my opinion you should let her go and ignore those so called friends.Find new ones there are girls or even boys out there who would love to have a friend as caring as you.You should never feel like your not worth someones time,you are a great bright young girl and you desirve to feel loved and accepted.I care about you and I bairly know you.Please just remember to be yourself,and forget those lozers there nothing special.Your young you will meet plenty of people and have more loves and they will always be better than the last.Life is full of possiblitys you just have to open your eyes to see them.If you ever need any thing you can ask me any time Im always here to help a friend when in need.I love you to please remember there still are people who care about you weather your straight or gay.It is your life I wont ever juge you.
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