Question Posted Wednesday November 10 2010, 9:42 am
19/f there's a guy that sits behind me in english calls. well lol i have dreams about him, and i do talk to him and we're friends. but i mean why am i having these dreams about him? i think i might like him i mean i flirt with him. for example at the end of english class i turned around and i said to him those sunglasses look like something my mother would wear and he started laughing. and when i was leaving he was smiling. and yesterday he saw me and was like hey and he smiled at me. and on monday after i insulted his sunglasses i walked in class and he said your late and i was like umm thanks mom i think i realize that. it's funny. i mean im not sure if he likes me? does he? we do talk outside of class when he sees me, and am i making it obvious that i like him? because im afraid i might be. haha thanks. any answers are appreciated.
Additional info, added Wednesday November 10 2010, 9:52 am: In class i jokingly said wow your just lil miss smarty pants huh? and he was like i don't know why you think im so stupid. i messaged him on fb chat and said for the record i don't think your stupid i think your pretty damn smart. and then as i mentioned before the next day he saw me and was like heyy and smiled at me so im not sure if he likes me because in the past i was naive and would assume that a guy likes me but ended up getting my heart broken. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? chevybab answered Wednesday November 10 2010, 6:09 pm: Its hard to say if he likes you or not.I had a friend who was alot like him,funnny smart,and an all around good guy.And i started falling for him and we got alot closer but I guess he just didnt want to make that leap with me.I know it sucks when you really like a friend and you dont want to tell him because your afraid he dosnt feel the same.My advice is go for it.If he commenting on your clothes or little things like your you hair looks then he definatly has intrest.Make sure he dosnt have a girlfriend and jump in.Because if you dont you will always just wonder.If you do get hurt life will go on.If you want him to notic you try not paying so much attention to him.Make him think you have other interests.That might make him jump first.Sometimes guys are just unpredictable [ chevybab's advice column | Ask chevybab A Question ]
Wishuponastar13 answered Wednesday November 10 2010, 6:05 pm: To be honest, I think you're thinking about it a little too much. There is a big difference between when a guy just thinks your funny and when he is actually into you. I would stop analyzing every encounter you have with him. If he likes you, he'll make the move. For now just continue flirting with him and having fun! There are tons of guys out there. I find that sometimes I don't like a guy until I start thinking about the way he looked at me third period or how many times he smiles when he sees me, and then I start thinking maybe he likes me so I start liking him. Just take it easy and see how the weeks go. There's no need to rush into a relationship with him. If the chemistry is there, it will do its thing for you. Good luck! Hope everything works out and I helped! x :) [ Wishuponastar13's advice column | Ask Wishuponastar13 A Question ]
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