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Remember the question about the boy in the car wreck? That's my boyfriend. He was in a wreck two weeks ago today and is stuck on the couch watching tv all day because he's got a few cracked bones.He should be totally better in a month. Here's my question.

I dont want to sound selfish.

I do everything I can for him. I buy him Sonic and cigarettes every couple days. I bake him cookies and make him fudge. I bring him a PS2 and movies and games and my iPod. I spend hours sitting on his couch with him watching poker and Family Guy and Everybody Loves Raymond because he says he enjoys my company.

All I'm asking for is "I love you" or maybe a kiss or a hug or something that was his idea instead of mine, or maybe a phone call once in a while.

I didn't have this problem before his wreck. This leads me to believe that I'm just being extremely selfish.

I don't mean to be though. I just need to be reminded that I matter to him. That's all.

I feel forgotten about. He doesn't call, I have to. He doesn't say "I love you" first. I have to.

What should I do? If I talk to him, what should I say? I'll give you a 5 for a serious attempt.

Dear Undecided,
After reading all that stuff that you do for him he should be the one asking if he's selfish, not you. That's thenicest thing i've heard. And i agree that he should call you and say that he loves you once in a while cause i mean he's sitting there on the couch he certainly has plenty of time to call you and talk. So what i think you should do is ask him why he never says he loves you or says thanx but say it in a nice way sometimes guys can be sensitive so you have to be ultrasensitive since he's been in a car accident. Don't worry he won't break up with you if you ever need to talk again write me at my column.

much love and good luck i hope he gets better soon,
bubblesamin

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i think this guy is cute but im afraid to tell him bbecause im scared he wont talk to me im really afraid of rejection so what should i do should i tell the guy or keep to my self.

Dear Afraid,
I think since your way afraid of being rejected you should have your friends talk to his friends and have them ask if he likes you then if he does go for it girl!!!! But if he doesn't remember your young there will always be someone else!!!

much love and good luck,
bubblesamin

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i'm 15 (sophomore) and my boyfriend is 17 (junior). we've been dating for around a year and four months. lately, i've been getting SO annoyed of him. everything he does just pisses me off now? i see him almost everyday, except the days he doesn't work. he always asks me questions... he always thinks i'm going to break up with him.. i don't know what to do.. but i need to figure it out soon. he told me he wants to buy me a promise ring and i think it kind of scared me. i don't know if it's time to take a break or call it quits. but i know if i do break it off, i'll regret it.. someone help me.. i rate high!

Dear Sophmore,
Here's what i think you should do. You should just call it quits, obviously he likes you way more than you like him. If you are having mixed feelings or you just flat out don't like him you have to be honest with him and you have to quit leading him on even though you probably don't mean too. I hoped i helped and if i didn't i'm sorry but that's exactly what i would do.Having a boyfriend is sopposed to be fun not a hassle to go through every day. You should be fair to him and to yourself and let both of you move on to find soemone else who feels equally about the other one.

much love and good luck,
bubblesamin

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I'm babysitting my next-foor neighbor's 3 kids. They are 10, 6, and 2. This is my first time babysitting on my own and I`m a little nervous. What should I do to keep them busy? What do I do if they begin to fight with each other, or one starts to cry? Any tips?

Dear Babysitter,
What you should do when you go over there is make sure to have plenty of books to read to the little ones to help them fall asleep. Take a children's cd if you have one take it over there and play musical chairs believe me any age likes that. For the 10 year old your probably gonna have to think a little bit more mature. Probably just go over there and do what ever the 10 year old wants but make sure to let them know that you are still the boss and that, that 10 year old isn't on the same level playing field your still their babysitter too not jsut the 6 and 2 year olds. Maybe if it's a boy let them play video games if it's a girl bring over what every girl likes some nail polish and make up that'll make them think that their not just little kids and if you get the kids to like you then you'll be coming back for more which means turning a profit!!!yeah!!!

much love and good luck,
bubblesamin

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ok so what can i do to impress the guy i like? i dont mean like shallow way i mean to get his attention get him to notice me bc im kinda standard boring normal looking you know? just wanna get his attention you know what i mean? thanks!

Dear Grabber,
The first way to get a guy to notice you is to talk when your in front of him but make sure you don't say anything stupid and avoid akward moment's of silences because that makes people say stupid things. Then make yourself look especially good one day like do something great with your hair like curl it then do something with it. Then mix up your wardrobe wear something bright that makes you stand out from your crew i would recommend wearing red because red catching everyone's eye it doesn't matter who it is. Then go from there to see if he notices you and if he doesn't then jsut shit on him and move on to a different guy lol!!!

much love and good luck,
bubblesamin

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is it ok if i dont know why i like the guy i like? i mean ok i know i like him but i dont have a clue why hes not hott and yea i guess hes kinda cute hes just average boring guy not really boring but you know what i mean just kinda there and i like him and i dont have a clue why i do! any ideas why i may like him and is it bad that i dont have a clue why i do? thankx

Dear Clueless,
I don't think it's at all bad why you don't know you like him. I feel that same way about a guy at my school. I mean to all my other friends he's not cute but to me he's soo sweet and cute. I think you should find out if he likes you too then ask him out what harm could it do?But for the part of not knowing your just gonna have to trust your heart on that one.Because obviously no one knows you better than yourself, right?

much love and good luck,
bubblesamin

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what should i do if im still in love wiht my ex-boyfriend and he likes me too but he doesnt really want a girlfrined right now and i want a boyfriend right now and there's this guy i kinda like and he asked me out and i said yes all i can think about is my ex but we dont talk that much anymore maybe once a week he doesnt know about my new boyfriend! my ex go's to a differnet school too so its kinda hard to talk to each other but we still like each other! i dont know if i should stay wiht my new boyfriend or what! please help

Dear Undesicided,
Listen I know what your going through all of my friends have had this happen to them before too!!! Listen what I think you should do is just be with your boyfriend it's good to just move on. First of all think about why you two broke up in the first place? Then tell yourself all the pros and cons of getting back together like yeah you like him but he's not ready for a girlfriend maybe you still like him but you should move on and let him move on. Maybe he doesn't want a girlfriend right now, maybe he just needs a friend? You should keep your boyfriend if your that crazy about him but if you have mixed feelings right now, break up with your boyfriend because your not being fair to him by saying your like him one minute but then thinking of your boyfriend the next. You should just let both of you move on!!!

much love and good luck,
bubblesamin

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hey guys. i'm usually good at this kind of stuff, but this part of the poem is really confusing. can you please help me out?

no fate (for you are my fate, my sweet), i want
no world (for beautiful you are my world, my true)
and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you

here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart
i carry your heart (i carry it in my heart)

pllleeeease help. i will give you a 5 for trying, if you're not a smartass.

Dear Poet,
I think the poem is about love. They are saying in the first part that there is no fate and that there is no world because their saying that the person they love they revolve around so that person is their fate and world. The sun and moon part probably means that the reason why the moon comes at night to spread the light across the night sky just for that special person. The sun part mean that the only reason why the sun comes out is because of that same special person and the person makes it shine. They mean that the rays are substituding for the sound and the sun is happy to see that person so they make the sun shine brighter. THe last part probably means that the person loves that special person more than anybody knows and that no matter what that person will always be in the lovers heart. I hoped i helped and if i didn't i'm sorry but that's what i got from the peom.

much love,
bubblesamin

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I'm a 13/f and my bday is coming up soon. My parents asked me what I want but i honestly dont know! lol What are things ($150 and under) that I could ask for?!?!

Dear Birthday,
By the way happy birthday, well it depends on what your hobbies are and what you like to do. But maybe if they went up 50 dollars they could afford to buy you an ipod, but if you don't want that then tyr asking them for clothes a person can't possibly have too many clothes or shoes!!

much love,
bubblesamin

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Ok here u goes. I'm 17/male. And there's our neighbor sta**/Female who's 30. The problems that I think she sexually desires me. It all starts when she began to smile to me 2 month ago just after we moved to this new neighborhood. Anyway I was surprised last morning when she called me while passing her house. (She was outside and I respond her). So she handled my hand and moved it inside the shirt &I touch her breast. I can't deny that I felt erotic in that moment." I WANT U": Were her words. She told me that she wants 4rom me to have sex with her. Then I removed my hand quickly saying that I am late for school and I run away.
I am confused….should I refused or agreed?? Because she really success to seduce me and SHE'S REALLY HOT and SEXY and I am physically attracted to her. I know that she's older… What should I do????
Ps: I flirt many times and had sex 3 times.
Thanks 4 advices. Justin
Email:justin_frogy@yahoo.com











Dear Sex,
I don't really know what your going through but my advice would be to just ask yourself if you just like her because you know that she likes you and besides that there's a huge difference between 17 and 30 i think you should just find someone your own age and let her find someone her own age because 17 and 30 isn't right together i'm not saying it can't work out between you too because obviously a lot of relationships have worked out with a big age difference but i definatly think you should hold back on that one and find someone else.

much love,
bubblesamin

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My dream is to become a singer.. Do you have any tips on how I could get out there? Or any adresses I could send some demos to?

Dear Singer,
I share the same dream with you. I have been acting and singing for 6 years now and it takes lots of practise. You should try joining the local theatre to try and get into one of their plays to sing. Remember talent scouts always go to the cities theatres to find fresh new talent. Ever since i was in the forth grade i've been singing at my cities longmont thatre and i;ve been acting. Just keep in mind that nothing is impossible if you want it that badly.

much love,
bubblesamin

p.s. if you ever want to chat about acting or singing email me or go to my column and send me a message!!!

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Okay...I went out with this guy(lets call him Corey)and we always had so much fun with eachother. We were always laughing together and i thought we were perfect but out of nowhere he dumps me because I went on vacation. I cant help it my phone wasnt working from thousands of miles away!! lol Anyway, that week he goes out with this other girl, who hates me (for no reason) and they go out the whole summer. I couldnt wait for the school year to start because then I would have him all to myself. (they were going to seperate highschools!!)Now, We have like 4 classes together and we flirt ALL the time. I got him and his girlfriend to break up, and i thought he would be all mine. He told me how much he liked me and wanted to be with me. BUT, this really good friend of mine, Tiffany comes out of absolutely nowhere and steals him from me!! She starts to like him and now they are going out!! She stole him and now she thinks she is soo cool because she has my boyfriend!! OMG!! I cant take it anymore. I cant watch them be together while I try to hide my feelings. What do i Do? Should i confront her and tell her everything or keep it to myself?

Dear Guy Probs,
I think you should tell her exactly how you feel that was your boyfriend first!!! But i if i were you i wouldn't even want him back because it seems to me that while you were on vaca he completely dropped you just cause he couldn't get a hold of you that means to me that he doesn't trust you enough to not flirt with other guys while away. He probably knew that you didn't like that one girl so to get back at you for not picking up the phone he went out with one of your enemies. You should just find someone else and let it roll off your back because a relationship without trust or confidence isn't anything.

much love,
bubblesamin

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Okay heres the deal. I met this girl at school, and she is in 11th grade. I'm in 9th. Anyways Shes really nice and we talked and stuff, eventually she decided to call me her 'brother'. And well the other night I went to a concert with her.. and well I realized that I like her.. and i don't know what to do because If i ask her out or something she might think i'm weird because were 'siblings'. also, she will graduate after next year.. If we do get into a relationship will it even work? And i'm afraid that if we to end up going out and something happens between us. I might lose one of my best friends.

Dear Bro,
I don't at all want to sound mean but a friend of mine broke up with a boy because she thought of him more like a brother instead of a boyfriend. So i would probably suggest to hold back on that one because first of all she's in 11th grade and your in 9th grade that's a big difference if you think about it and I think that you should try to find someone your own age who won't be leaving you in a year.

much love,
bubblesamin

p.s. if you need any more advice ask me at my column.

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There is this guy that I really like ALOT, and me and him are constantly flirting and he is always trying to grab my hand and stuff, and he is always like i like you so much, and when i'm like jokingly like dang i'm cool and it's cause i'm so dang cute and he is like yeah you are, and he keeps telling ME, MY friends, and HIS friends that he is going to ask me out and he still hasn't. What is his problem, is he procrastinating or just teasing me please help.

:&hearts Alix

Dear Problem,
He is probably procrastinating about it because if all you do is joke around with him and he is really being serious but you do like him rather than tell him how you feel show him how you feel. When your around him and talking about all that stuff then joking about it he probably thinks that you don't like him as well as he likes you when you really do!!!! So from now on it's alright to joke around bcause laughing with your friends makes life fun but when you guys start talking about where you stand be serious about it. After he finds that you really do like him he'll more than likely ask you out or if you don't want to go that way straight up ask him out and see what he says. There's no harm in asking right?

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My friend said that Orbit gum causes cancer is that true!?

No it's not. I don't hew that kind of gum but Orbit gum has been around for a while now and if it caused cancer you'd certainly hear about it on the news.

much love,
bubblesamin

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ok, well my exboyfriend broke up with this girl that he went out with after we broke up... and they broke up... well then he asked her back out like a day after words... I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY and im sad that he likes her instead of me...
HELP

Dear UH,
Don't be sad. You just have to think of why you guys broke up in the first place. Believe me you should really try to find another guy before this whole situation gets out of control and bugs you all the time day and night. It's not fair to you or your heart for you to keep liking him even though he doesn't like you. Try to find someone who feels the same way you do, just don't find someone to make yourself feel better. Find someone who you know you like and do it at the right time for you and your heart. If all you need is time away from thinking about him try taking a day off of your life and spend a day out with the girls at a day spa or at the mall. Maybe a slumber party filled with mani's pedi's and movies. Anything that ends with i's or ies is a good start!!! Good Luck

much love,
bubblesamin

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It seems like every one is starting to dislike me. One minute people want to talk next minute they want fight but to be honest stuff like DONT BOTHER ME? My question what should I do if a boy once said he loved me but now walking around school with another person. Should i curse her out or should i just leave both of them alone.

Dear Confused,
I think you should just leave them both alone. You should just move on and find another guy. Love is a powerful word it makes you think how 4 letters could have so many different meanings. If he said that he loved you he and isn't with you know she'll learn on her own time that he is just a little boy. You should try to setach yourself away from the subject and try to not give in to your bad side of wanting to curse her out. I'd also advise to not gossip either because what goes around comes around.

much love,
bubblesamin

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can someone give me the lyrics to swich foot "stars"

Hey try going to www.lyricsdownload.com that should be a good place.

much love
bubblesamin

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My best friend (A) might or at least I think is flirting with my Ex who I am still in love with. She knows I like him and she has a boyfriend that she likes to. But what got me mad was when I saw them play fighting. So I got mad and left and I 'sorta' got over it today until I saw her around him again play fighting and acting stupid. It broke my heart and I almost cried cause I he might like her!! What can I say to her. Thanks All 5's SWEAR!

Dear Flirting,
First of all guys who play fight with girls think it's fun and it's a game they don't take it seriously trust me i have tons of guy friends. If they didn't think that it wasn't fun and something to do with FRIENDS then why would guy rough house with their other guy friends so don't worry it's nothing to worry about. If i were you i wouldn't work myself up all over that. Also everytime you think you like him just think back on why you guys broke up in the first place. Your best desicion would be to just move on from that loser and find someone new there are always plenty of other fish in the sea.

much love,
bubblesamin

p.s. and if you need any more advice just find me on here or just send a message publicly and look in your answers for an answer from bubblesamin

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i was absent one day at school for a lab, and i'm going to bring in a doctor's note for documentation. i was just wondering if school officials actually call up the doctor to verify that i came in? my doctor actually just left town two days ago. i heard there is a confidentiality rule with a job, but i don't know if it goes through with higher education...i just don't want my professor to think that i'm bs-ing it.

Dear Absence,
Don't worry about a thing just as long as the doctor signed his signature on the note your safe to go. And do you know how many people are in your school they don't have time to verify that every student is telling the truth. Plus they know that doctors are very busy and even if they called they's call the office not the doctor personally. If the school cared that much which i highly doubt they would talk to his seretary and see if you really had an appointment that day so don't worry.

much love,
bubblesamin

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