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I have a boyfriend that no one but me and a couple of really close friends know about. Ive made out with him, but never went "all the way". I kinda don't want to, but its all he talks about. What should I do? (link)
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If you're too young for sex, you shouldn't even be thinking about it. You shouldn't do it if you don't want to either. If he keeps talking about it, I think you should drop him. He's a boy and sometimes they act on what they're 'feeling' rather than act on whats really right or wrong and you could find yourself in a spot of trouble.
Best of luck!
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I'm thirteen. my period started a year ago, and i still lose it for months at a time. i didn't have it once this summer.I am a virgin. Is something wrong with me? (link)
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It's very normal. :) I missed mine for half a year once. Best half year of my life until it started back up again. Haha.
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My name is Kaitlin, I am fourteen, and I am a female. I've been thinking about becoming single for the remainder of my existence.
It all began when I had my first boyfriend. I was merely eleven years old. It only lasted two days. Kid love, of course. When I was twelve, I had my second boyfriend. It lasted only five days. [It was a stupid one...] My third boyfriend was later that year. It lasted all summer. Two - Three months. Then he hurt me terribly. I trusted him. And I trusted no one else in the world. He lied to me. But I still love him... The fourth one was very recent. It lasted about one year. I am now fourteen.
Last week, he committed suicide. I attempted suicide as soon as I found out. But I failed, because my best friend [The third boyfriend I had] prevented it by taking necessary risks.
I still love him.
But he hates me.
I'm now best friends with his best friends.
And I enjoy every second spent with him.
But I regret ever telling him that I like him.
Should I go single for the remains of my life? If not, what should I do? (link)
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Staying single isn't always great if you can't handle being alone. I'm very sorry to hear about him committing suicide and please, do not ever attempt it again yourself. You shouldn't run away from your problems and instead stand and face them head on, even if they're scary.
A) Forget about your third boyfriend. It's good that he saved you, but he's obviously not boyfriend material if he's hurt you.
B) Give it a shot if you like this guy. If it turns out to be bad, shrug your shoulders. At least you tried. Dear, there are millions of men in this world for you to get to know. You just need to go fishing, but be safe while doing it. Sometimes you can get stabbed with the hook.
If you don't like being alone, if you need someone to lean on, I say keep trying! You've got a lot of time and it's best not to shorten it by trying suicide.
Best of luck to you!
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i feel like my life is crumbling down. I'm thirteen,
my sister hates me and thinks i lie all the time, my boyfriend just wants me for sex, my best friend talks about me behind my back, my mom doesn't listen when i tell her i hate my life, my parents are divorced, my grades suck and nobody listens when i tell them i cant do it,everyone thinks I'm crazy, my parents both like my sister better, I'm the ugly one of the family who is good for nothing, sometimes my life hurts so bad it hurts, and Ive lost all hope that it can get better. I'm actually crying as I'm writing this. dying seems like the only way out, but i don't know if death hurts. all TV says its a relief and that its carries you away but what do they know? Why cant something in this world be hopeful? I hate it all. someone please help. (link)
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First off, suicide is a no-no. Not only will it be bad for you, but everyone else around you and that's rather selfish, don't you think? Things are tough, I know. I'm not much older than you, only a few years. My sister won't let me hug her, ever, in fact, she'll beat me up. The worst part? She's younger than me! You just need to play it safe, be yourself.
Break up with your boyfriend. If he wants you for sex, that's wrong! Not to mention you're way too young for that. As for your friend, forget him/her. Backstabbing is wrong. Although, I'm still friends with people who talk about me behind my back, I just agree with them... Most of it's true anyway. I know how it is with grades too. You need to force yourself to do the work and if you need help, FORCE yourself to get help. I know it's tough and you really don't want to, thinking 'Ugh! It's a waste of time!' Just get it over with so you don't have to keep doing it.
There is no such thing as ugly. I'm sure there's someone out there waiting for you, it just takes time. Your life is just beginning and you have tons of time to do things you want.
You shouldn't consider suicide. It's the easy way out and it's painful. Once you die, there's no turning back. You need to smirk in the face of those who mock you and narrow your eyes in those times of harsh reality. Never let people step on you when you try to crawl back up on your feet.
If you ever want someone to talk to, vent to, or something, go ahead and email me as I'm always online and checking my email. It's best to reach me at my Yahoo: fighter_of_words@yahoo.com.
Don't let life step on you! Step on it first!
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I am a 45 year old male. I served in the army for 20 years. I was medically discharged due to a negligent life threatening parachute collision. I could not live without being in the army. So on my last day before heading off on holidays, I went up to my room on the barracks and swallowed in excess of 300 tablets. Previously I had been diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome (PTSD) of which I was taking a cocktail of drugs. On top of that I was also taking a cocktail of drugs for the pain from my parachute injuries.So I swallowed the pills...wrote my goodbye letter to my wife and 4 daughters. Unfortunately I woke up in hospital. 2 years later I slashed my left wrist and I was bleeding into a bucket whilst talking to a counsellor...once again I woke up in hospital. I want to die. I can not take this life of mine any more. Please tell 100% how to commit suicide! (link)
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Wait about another fifty years or so, then die of old age. That'll work most definitely. It just takes a while.
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13f in 8th grde
and hes an im guessing 11 or 12 in 6th grde but when i first saw him i thought he was 13.
ok so theres this guy (Chris) and i met him at the mall with my friends and i think hes kinda cute. so we were chatting on facebook and he asked if i wanted to video chat with him and i said i wasnt on the right laptop to chat. and he didnt believe me so i sent him a pic from my phone and i guess part of my leg was in the pic and he said "hah u can alwost see your pussy" lol and i laffed and when we got off of facebook i forgot to delete the convo and close out the chat. so my mom went on during work and saw it and now she doesnt want me talking to him and i really like him and i think he likes me but if he ever breaks up with his girlfrend and asks me out id have to say no. can someone help me with my parents an dstuff. (link)
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Oh my. Well, I can see why your parents don't like him. You're young and you have ages to find the perfect guy, by this, I don't mean perverted or immature. He's at that time in his life when all he wants is sexual intercourse, which can lead to some very bad results, if not absolutely terrible, such as sexual diseases, teen-pregnancy, and who knows? He might run back and tell his friends that you'd sleep with any guy and you could get yourself into a spot of trouble big time there.
I say you wait a while, until he grows up enough to even know what a 'pussy' is. It might take a while, but it'll be worth it in the end. Maybe you'll end up liking someone else a lot more for perfectly good reasons. :)
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i dont want to live any more. everybody thinks im so happy. they think i have a great life. even my friends dont know who i really am inside. im so miserable. i feel empty. i dont want to live any more. i went to school today and realized i just dont belong here at all. this is what i want to do. i dont want to live any longer. i dont want to feel this void any more. nobody knows how it is. everybody thinks i'm so funny and happy and inside i feel like i'm dying. i'm such a fake. it's like i'm stuck in this dark place and i can't get out and there's no other way to end this suffering of mine.
how can i end my life without causing a lot of pain or mess? i dont want to suffer any more. what can i do that is effective? this is going to be a surprise to so many so i'd prefer it to not be so messy so nobody has to like clean up a mess. nobody understands this feeling. im so alone (link)
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I'm not going to try and talk you out of it, but just so you know:
Suicide is bad.
Suicide is boring
Suicide is a waste of time, which you must spend wisely. It doesn't matter where, but somewhere, someone will be crushed to find that you are no longer with us in this world. It can be cruel, unfair, and lonely, but sometimes you just have to push through those hard times! I know it hurts, trust me. I used to think about suicide all the time, wondering how I could do it, but then I realized that I shouldn't be doing this. I had people who would probably be pretty upset if I was gone and not to mention, I made myself a goal. Writing is my only talent, so I am making it my goal to make my writing the best it can be.
Find a goal, find someone to talk to. You're never alone. If you want someone to talk to more deeply, go ahead and email me at fighter_of_words@yahoo.com. I'm online everyday and all day after school, so I'm here for you if you need me!
-blackbutler666 :)
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I really want to get pregnant. Its not that I want to have a baby as much as just have that feeling of being pregnant. All pregnancy women are so pretty with that pregnancy glow about them and everybody is always rubbing their bellies and so excited about them having a brand new baby. I talked to my bf and said i really wanted him to get me pregnant and he was like kind of unsure but said he would think about it. I was thinking of going on and throwing away the box of condoms i have here so he'd like HAVE to do it with me without them? But then I'm just kind of unsure. I mean a baby is pretty time consuming and I don't want people to think I'm evil if I give it up for adoption. Being pregnant really is so cute though. Advice? (link)
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I really don't suggest getting pregnant at age 15. Not only is it time consuming as you said, but you must have a lot of money to keep it alive and healthy. You shouldn't get pregnant just to get the feel of it either or the glow. You should get pregnant because you want and know you are ready to care for another human being. Babies are fragile beings. Your boyfriend might be scared to do it as he's probably not ready to take care of a baby either. It's a lot of work and not to mention, it'll interfere greatly with your education. I had a boyfriend who's sister was pregnant with twins and she had to drop out to take care of them. She's struggling with it too. Getting pregnant takes a great amount of responsibility and careful planning, so I suggest you think about all the pros and cons of it before you just jump right into it.
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hi m sarab 25 years old..i want to commit sucide just beacause m very poor n i lost ma first love just because i m not fucking rich....but now i have already in a relationship with some other girl n in this case also money comes between us...she belongs to very rich family ...n the main problem is m unemployed n totally dependent on others even sometimes i feel hungry so i cant afford to buy 1 burger...i tried so many times to get visa of USA but every time i wasn't able to get it...every day my father discouraged me alot,..he says i spent lot of money on u..but now m not gonna spend a single penny on u, m so helpless so i think sucide is the best way to keep my self satisfy.... (link)
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Don't even try. Suicide is a waste of time and the only way it'll satisfy you is that you get to hold your breath longer than you could when you dunked your head in a kiddie pool. The downside to that is. You hold your breath forever.
Seriously, don't let the thought cross your mind. You're stronger than this. I hardly know a thing about financal situations, so I'll say follow the others' advice on the money issue. No matter how harsh the world can be, there's always that fluffy warm blanket to keep you comforted.
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I have got 40 paracetamol and a half bottle of vodka in front of me. I am going to take them , please dont talk me out of it (link)
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I won't talk you out of it because you'll realize by yourself that it's a waste of time to even try. Whatever's making you upset, fight it. Don't be cave into it. You're stronger that. Every human is stronger than that. It's not that simple to kill yourself either. You're hassling yourself as well as everyone else, which seriously isn't very fun.
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I am seeing this woman and she's married. I knew she was married before we started having the affair. At first I didn't feel bad at all since it's her decision to cheat on her husband but now I'm feeling a little weird. She insists on talking about their relationship after our bedroom romp and I don't like it. She's only sex to me and it seems like she doesn't get that. I kind of want to drop her from the scene but to be honest she's really pretty good in the sack. What should I do and how should I handle this sort of thing? (link)
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This is a bit silly. Simply drop her from your life, move on, but before you do, look in the mirror and ask yourself if you are truly a man. I'm not trying to insult you as it's a simple suggestion that you might want to think about as well as openly claiming that you were cheating with a married woman. Many people find this subject offensive and touchy, so be cautious. I hope you come to the realization that if you can't find a true love to stick with, that you should simply stick to just playing with yourself and not others. It's better than making yourself public enemy number one.
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last year me and this guy were close n we liked eachother but never told eachother . this year he changed and flirts with evry single girl including me . even though he write the same stuff to me as the other girls does he actually have any feelings for me ? i am a female 13 years old . he is a male 15 years old . (link)
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killerface is right. I've also dealt with a character as such and he turned out to get himself into a lot of trouble for what he did. Save yourself the heartbreak and find a man, not a boy.
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