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How can I tell my boyfriend i want to wait for his next birthday to have sex with him. He wants to lose his virginity now, but i want to wait 'till im a little older. How do i tell him without him getting mad or like being o.k. with me wanting to wait? (link)
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Just explaim to him its your body treat it as ur temple. Tell him u want to wait an if he cant exept that then yall arent meant to be together. Respect is a big thing in relationships if you cant respect each others wishes then why be together it will only cause problems. Pour your heart to him like you do this computer. GOODLUCK:)
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I am 13, and sexually active. DONT tell me off, becuase its MY life. I do use condoms, and I have only had sex with my current boyfriend, whom i have no intention of breaking up with. We love eachother very much, have a very healthy relationship (my mom agrees!), and sex was a wanted mutual agreement. I would like to tell my mom, because she thinks I tell her everything, but she says she would sign custody of me over to my strict Aunt if I lost my virginity (she would like me to wait until im married!!). She also says that its my life and one way or another, im going to do what I want, i just have to deal with the consequences, one of which being the Aunt issue (technically, thats saying i DONT have a choice). I dont know what I should do, because 1) I feel like I should tell her (but dont think i can) 2) I would like birth control but 3) I dont want to lose my boyfriend... Any advice?? (link)
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Every parent wants their children to wait till there married but hiding this from your mother could hurt your relationship with her tell her that you have an ask her notto get mad. Tell her about the precautions you take an ask to be put on birth control.
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how do i know if i can be pregnant does popping ur cherry make u bleed? (link)
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yes popping your cherry so to speak does make you bleed that's showing that u somewhat are a woman. But to be eligible to get pregnant are u sure that's what you want right now? If your at a good age with a steady good paying job then think about pregnancy. i am 20 an all i have is my loving husband to depend on its hard right now an babys not here yet go to a dr an get tested or just wait when the time is right it will happen i have tried to get pregnant for the last 3 yrs an all of a sudden all that work paid off in a way.
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I'm a fifteen year old girl and lately I've felt like I'm not good enough for my parents. They always concentrate on my weaknesses and not my strengths. Even the smallest things get me in trouble but when I try to talk to my parents about how I'm feeling, they shut me out. Even on good days I'll get ignored when I talk or they'll roll their eyes at me and say I'm just trying to be dramatic and get attention. When I get mad I start yelling and then I get in more trouble and my parents REALLY won't listen to me. They're hypocritical and judgmental and I don't know what to do. I feel like I can't really talk to them even though I'd love to be able to tell them how I feel and be able to talk out our problems. They just shut me out when I try to work with them so we can fix our relationships. What should I do? (link)
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"not good enough for my parents. They always concentrate on my weaknesses and not my strengths. Even the smallest things get me in trouble but when I try to talk to my parents about how I'm feeling, they shut me out." Every teenager feels this way an personally i know where your coming from. go to your parents an ask them if you can have a heart to heart talk ask them to let you speak an tell them you want suggestions on how to change what you may be doing wrong., tell them you love them an don't ever want a bad relationship with them an apologize for the way you treat them things will open up shortly.
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So I was chatting online with my friend about drinking and stuff cause I was getting red spots after getting drunk. We were talking about vodka and stuff then I went to the bathroom. When I came back, my mom was in front of the laptop. When I was trying to say "wait", she just had a straight face. I think she read our chat. So now I'm really scared. I don't know what to do. Should I tell her? HELP ME PLEASE.:(
xoxo,
J
16/f (link)
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yes tell your mother if its one thing you dont want to do is lose your relationship with your family talk it over it may be hard but it will all pay off in the end.
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Well me and my boyfriend yes the Jeff guy we started dating and well he is wanting to get "serious" and im cool with that as long as we dont have sex. I promised everyone, me and God also i would wait until i was married. But what do i do if he wants to have sex? FYI im 13 1/2 and hes 14. I dont think im old enough but all my friends do it but idk... I mean its okay to fool around and have some fun but i dont want him to take it farther than that. Its just too much for me to take in right now. I mean i "want" to have sex sooo badly but i dont want to break my promise, or my cherry....yet...... im in eight grade and all but i just reallyyyyy donntttt knooowwwww............. (link)
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No. you are 13 are you out of your mind? What would your parents say?
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last year me and this guy were close n we liked eachother but never told eachother . this year he changed and flirts with evry single girl including me . even though he write the same stuff to me as the other girls does he actually have any feelings for me ? i am a female 13 years old . he is a male 15 years old . (link)
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He is what they call a player. Watch though cause he could have feelings for you but on the other hand he could be getting you into his trap. But you really don't need to worry about having a boyfriend you are a smart young girl with a lot going for her keep your mind focused on the bigger things in life at l;east wait until high school before worrying about a guy. Seriously take it from someone whos been there an done that.
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22/f, okay so I work in a school as a SPED instructional aide, and I like a co-worker of mine, a teacher who is a 27/m. He's is like the sweetest man ever... almost too sweet. So sweet that alot of women(not really much competition considering my self esteem isn't really high) are/were after him too. But I know he dosen't like them cause the teacher I work with told. The two of them are best friends.
Anyhow, he's like a big kid and that's what I like the most. Still plays video games,and a very caring teacher (teaches SPED) and cares alot about his brother who is also special needs. Plus he lent me his super expensive calculator for an entire year... We've hung out a few times but I can't really tell if we vibing or not cause I never paid attention to it. I was just happy to be in his presence. He's bought me drinks and food before too :)
So now, a co-worker of mine has told him I liked and he said "Ms.P---, I'm going to have to holler at her...." *I don't even know what that means*... so the first day back to work he came and sat next to me and I sat there for like a hot second cause I got nervous and had to move...
Now I'm too shy to really say much of anything to him. I only say Hi to him when I see him in the hallways and whatnot...So should I try to pursue him still? Do I have any kind of chance? Any ideas as to how I can break out of this shyness?
The only reason why I didn't tell him I liked him was because, well as any other human I don't want to get rejected. But my co-worker said that she "needed to get the ball rolling"
Any advice/opinions/ideas/thoughts are greatly appreciated! (link)
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Tell him how you feel but also keep in mind that most relationships between coworkers can get very intense an sometimes in certain states aren't even allowed. Just do what your heart says to do..
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Ok I have never EVER been jealous of a partner's ex before. Except now I have.
In all honesty, I dont even know why I am jealous. I have seen many pictures of her & she isnt ugly, but I wouldnt say shes pretty, she doesnt really make an effort with herself. So I know that its not the looks thing.
In fact I dont know if its jealousy. Id rather be in my situation than hers. But for some reason I couldnt stop looking at pictures of her & my boyfriend together. & im interested in seeing what shes doing now, like if she has a new boyfriend, what shes been up to, looking at her pics etc.
They split about 2 months before we got together & its played on my mind whether he still likes her, they were together for 8 months. My boyfriend denies still liking her but I think he only says that because he doesnt want to admit to it. I know he loved her because I was friends with him & saw them together & he told me he did.
I think its because im quite a competitive person & id hate to feel second best, what do you think? has anyone felt this way before? (link)
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Its completely normal to feel this way especially if you have deep emotions for him. Just talk to him but don't bring it up too much this could cause a break up. If he says he doesn't want her or think of her believe him unless he proves you wrong then you have a reason to worry.
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