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Cheating with a married woman
I am seeing this woman and she's married. I knew she was married before we started having the affair. At first I didn't feel bad at all since it's her decision to cheat on her husband but now I'm feeling a little weird. She insists on talking about their relationship after our bedroom romp and I don't like it. She's only sex to me and it seems like she doesn't get that. I kind of want to drop her from the scene but to be honest she's really pretty good in the sack. What should I do and how should I handle this sort of thing?
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First of all I have no sympathy for the woman involved. She cheated and in return got used. Tough shit.
As for you, I think you pretty much know what you should do. I think really what you are asking is, "How do I deal with this situation and still get the great sex that I've been getting?". You are instigating an affair with a woman with issues far beyond anything YOU could possibly relate to. Nothing about this situation will change for the better, in fact, it is likely to get far worse. So do what's obvious and drop this before things do get really ugly.
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This is a bit silly. Simply drop her from your life, move on, but before you do, look in the mirror and ask yourself if you are truly a man. I'm not trying to insult you as it's a simple suggestion that you might want to think about as well as openly claiming that you were cheating with a married woman. Many people find this subject offensive and touchy, so be cautious. I hope you come to the realization that if you can't find a true love to stick with, that you should simply stick to just playing with yourself and not others. It's better than making yourself public enemy number one.
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Wow. Really? You should leave and stop using her, you selfish sack of shit.
People like you disgust me. Are you really so hard up for decent sex (and so commitment phobic) that you're willing to put effort and thought into continuing to use some poor woman?
Yeah, it's her decision to cheat. It's your decision to be the object she cheats with. You're still making a fucking choice to screw over someone you've never met.
Be honest. Tell her you don't give a shit and don't want to hear it. Hopefully she'll wake up after that. It's really the only decent action you can take from this point, so that hopefully she gets the message that cheating isn't the way to get what she wants and losers who are willing to cheat with her aren't going to fulfill the needs she's missing.
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You are surprised that a this married women is sort of screwed up, can't take a hint, wants to emotionally connect with a lover and won’t shut up?
I don't have a shred of sympathy for you.
You welcomed this drama into your life, and you keep welcoming it. The price you pay for sex with this 'pretty good in the sack' crazy-self-absorbed-cheating woman, is that you have to be around a crazy-self-absorbed-cheating woman, she gets to be around a selfish jerk who can't go out and find 'just sex' with some other girl who is on the same page as he is (and ideally, not betraying anyone else in the process!)
All cheaters have thier reasons, those reasons are rarely that they are humble, empathetic people who pay attention to the needs and wants of those around them.
If she isn't a good sex partner for you, go find someone who meets your standards. Don't whine if you like putting your dick in someone that doesn’t measure up to your ideal 'fuck and leave' girl. It’s your dick. You get to decide where it goes.
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