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my name is joey, im 14 years old. i like music,TV,hanging with friends,swimming,writing and going online. i live in salem, oregon. you can ask me any queston you want and i'll try to answer it the best i can. i want and hope that i can help youhearts bigboy13
advice
what is your opinion on a 16 year old girl going out with or liking a 14 year old guy. i turn 17 in may but this guy will be turning 15 in january. soo yeaaah..too young? i know it seems like it kind of but i have such strong feelings for him
well he might be a little to young since 15 year olds and 17 year olds can be really differnt but there is always really old people dating even marring really young people so if you wanna date him then i say go for it.
hope i helped
harts bigboy13
Lately when I wake up from sleep or a small nap.. my mouth tastes all gross. I get bad breathe and it feels like something gross is all over my teeth and the back of my mouth.
What's wrong?
[I do brush my teeth twice a day. I use mouthwash and I floss too.]
So I dont know why I have to have a disgusting mouth everytime I wake up.
it's morning breath and the stuff on your teeth is probably plauqe. when you sleep plaque is created witch causes bad breath. just brush your teeth when you wake up and it should go away.
hope i helped
harts bigboy13
im not so sure how to talk to a guy. im gonna be a sophmore this year and im switching schools. there was no problem at my old school because i knew everybody since Pre-K. but im prob gonna see a guy i like and wanna go talk to him but wont be so sure how to. no scratch all of that. how do i talk to anyone i dont know. im afraid im not gonna have friends too. im not a shy person on friends but i dont know how like the girls are. mean snobs or whatever. i really dont have any prob with girls just guys. at my old school everybody pretty much liked everybody wasnt really any mean person. just like the same. i would like to make new friends though. am i just supposed to go up and say hi and talk to him and be like im new here and what if he is a jerk or something and like does somethin mean or whatever. now at my other school i would just do it but then again i knew him and like what he liked or whatever. i just dont know how to handle new ones. it would be nice if i could like learn how to get him to like walk me to class or sit with me at lunch but... any ways please give me good answers. most of the time they arent that great. thank you to anyone who helps. by the way i start next week.
i know how you feel. going to a new school is tough because you don't know anyone or what the'll be like or what will happen. it's totally unperdictable. what i think you should do is go to school confidant and just be your self. most of the time friendships and relansinships just start out naturally beacause you meet in class and enjoy talking to each other and have the same intrests. i don't think you should go say hi to people like you are desprate for friends or somthing. i think you should just be calm and cool, be your self, and not worry about it so much.
good luck
harts bigboy13
how many of yall would think its slutty and/or givin out the wrong idea if i bought a playboy bunny necklace? im bout to be 16 & im like a 'good girl' or w/e i mean ive only barely been to 2nd base but i jus think the necklace is pretty cuz its the little bunny head made out of [fake] diamonds. so, slutty or no?
i wouldn't where it if i were you. it will most likley make you look like your easy or have been in playboy so i wouldn't reccommend whering it
also many guys that those atrract are probably fans of playboy and may end up hurting you
hope i helped
harts bigboy 13
So im trying to get in better shape and so ive been drinking alot of water, and ive start to go out jogging for 30min to an hour each night and ive been doing about 300 crunches each day. Is this gonna help me lose weight and get in shape?
yeah i think that will help. i dont know what drinking water does. everyone says they lost alot of waight just buy not drinking soda. i almost never drink soda just juice and tea and i'm fat.
what else i reccommend is to eat healthier. you should eat less carbs. my doctor says that's one of the biggest reasons why im fat. you should also eat more fruit but you should also only eat 3 meals a day.
i read this thing that if you only eat foods with 150 calories or less and or 2 percent satrated fat you'll lose waight so maybe you should try that
hope i helped
harts bigboy 13
skinny=?
normal=?
a little below normal=?
fat=?
well it really depends on sex and age but...
skinny=104-115
normal=116-135
a little above normal=136-145
fat=146 and up
i also think you should consult your doctor
if you want to give me your email adress so i can email you a really good website for this
ok so one of my best friends told me the other day that she is not returning to our school in september because she going to a new school. I was devastated and haven't stopped crying. I know we'll still be friends but its just going to be so weird not having her there in school and i'm going to miss her soo much. I thought i was handling it well but i realized im not. I hate her family and blame them for her switch of schools and i can't help but want her to be miserable at her new school. Is that too selfish of me? I just don't know how to handle it. I've been so emotional for the past week or two and i just don't know what to do. please help!
i know how you feel. my brother moved out about a 2 months ago and at first i thought i'd never be happy again but now we see each other every weekand and call occasionally. the advice i give to you is to see each other every weekand and maybe call alot and if you guys have computer then IM each other and as a last resort you could transfer to her school but i wouldn't reccommend that. and no that wanting her to hate her school and want to come back isn't selfish, it's just a natural emotion.
hope i helped
harts bigboy13
I'm addicted to soda. I'm average weight, and other then soda, I'm very healthy. My doctor says the soda is addding extra fat on my tummy and thighs, so I should stop drinking it so much. I drink about 2 cans a day, sometimes more. Its alot I know, I've tried stopping so many times. Cold turkey hasn't work, neither has slowly reducing how much I drink. Any other ideas?
well first of all 2 cans of soda really isnt as much as you think. my brother once drank 5 cans in 2 hours. now thats alot!!!
the advice i give to you is to still drink soda but also other things. the other advice i give to you is to maybe cut back. like only drink a can day and the rest water of juice.
This might soung wrong, but I have a crush on my cousin. He's 14 and I'm 13. We used to be so close, and when we were younger, we always hugged each other and we even kissed once when we said goodbye. Until today, I've been feeling like he and I were drifting apart. But then today, he and I played video games, and he asked me questions, was super nice to me, and sometimes he'd get a little shy and talk relaly quietly or get nervous and start fidjeting. He didn't look at me much, but when he did, he had this awkward look in his eye. I know we're cousins, and I can't really date him, but I want to know if he seems interested or not. He's going back to singapore (in asia) where he lives, in a week, and I desperately need advice on what to do.
well it sounds to me like he was all akward and figjecty because it felt weird to him that he sortof likes his cousin. the advice to you is to just forget about the whole thing and act like ti never happened
hope i helped
harts bigboy13
What don't guys understand about girls?!?!
I dont understand guys either, but I just want to know what they dont understand about us.
thanks!!
somtimes it really depends on they guy and the situation but alot of the time guys dont understand
1. PMS
2.personal appearence
3.womans things
4.sensitivity
most guys dont understand these things because theve never have had to learn about them or have never been through them. i think the word is ignorance. and somtimes it's the guy sterotype to pretend to not understand these things.
hope i helped
harts bigboy13
what are some good books you've read lately? i need to catch up on stuff
well i dont read that much but here are some books i enjoyed reading
1. hoot/Carl Hiaasen
2. harry potter and the sococors stone/J.K rowling
3. harry potter and the chamber of secrets/J.K rolwing
some books that are fun to read are the giuness book of world records and almanacs about stuff.
but sometimes it all depends on what type of books you like. like i like animals so i read about animals and my brother likes steven king books so he reads books by stephen king but it all depends on what you like
what advice i give to you is to go to the libray and ask a libraian about some cool books in the subejct you like. she or he probably knows way more then i do.
hope i helped
harts bigboy13
My boyfriend and I are completely in love. We've been dating for 3 and a half years. I really see a future with him..but we don't agree on a lot of things. For example, I don't want kids and he does. I want to someday live in another country and he doesn't. He's Jewish and I'm Christian. These are HUGE differences that we share, but we really love each other. What should we do?
~Age 26
what i think you guys should do is sit each other down and have a long talk. you guys should both express your feelings and thoughts and maby come to some compramise. like maybe you guys could have kids and then live in another country. or that maybe he could take care of the kids and you could go to work. a huge part of dating and getting married is to make comprmises to make each other happy and not just one. my last resort to you is to maybe brake up. couples who make huge sicfrafices for love can end up in divore, wrongful love affairs, and unhappyniss, although i think you guys could work it out.
hope i helped and best of luck
bigboy13
okay well i'm 14/f and i babysit for my neighbors who have two girls who are 4 & 2. now thats its summer and i don't have school, i've been babysitting A LOT. it feels like they are overworking me! i'm always so stressed out when i have to go there. the girls can not share togother and then it ends up with the youngest girl crying. and when she crys she SCREAMS! i can't stand it. i'm always babysitting for hours and they are always late when they come home. they also aren't very considerate about me missing meals. like they will have me work from 4-7 and that is like right in the middle of when i would eat dinner, and all they have at their house is junk food. like over the weekend i was babysitting from 9:30 - 3:30. also i'm always worrying that the dad will get mad at me if one of the kids falls asleep. i mean they pay me good ( 8 dollars and hour ), and the kids love me, but i always stress out about going over there.
i don't want to stop babysitting for them, because that would also leave them without a babysitter. but i need ways to help me not stress out as much about babysitting. like this week they only told me that they will need me to babysit thursday from 5-6, but then today i saw the mom and she said that their oldest daughter who is 16 will be going on vacation this whole week and that they will need me to babysit tuesday, thursday, and friday from 9-1! omg and i'm already stressing out about it! HELP!!
you should sit them down on the couch and camly say that they are over working you. tell them taht you wanna enjoy the rest of your summer and only wanna work like 2 days a week or somthing. also tell them that you like their kids and you like working for them but this is just becoming to stressful for you.
hope i helped
harts bigboy13
funny thing happened, i was at a con. in the dealers room and this guy came up and started to hit on me, and than when he found out that i had a girlfriend it was aquwered, but he is nice and very cute soo i gave him me number and i hope we can hang out... funny thing is when eh started ti hit on me my heart started to race, i'm soo confused, i never had anyone hit on my before, it was very nice, and i could tell that he really liked me, i don't know what to do, you know, i have been wiht my girlfriend for 2 years now, but it's like well you know how she is, not romatci and all that other shit...i just don't know what to do, i love my girlfriend, but when i talked to him, i get a more intesn felling than i do when i'm with my girlfriend, yes i'm bi and so is she, can anyone help, it seems i have feeling for him and her and both are strong, but i have had some problems with her, but i'm her first boyfriend soo it's not all her fult, she does not know what to do. so like i said should i stay with her or go after him, though sometime when i'm with my girlfrined, i don't know if i'm with her just to make her happy and at the cost of my own happyness, anyone please help
p.s. see my other question to better under stand what i have been thoug when i'm with her
i think he may be just a crush. some people tend to get bored with their spouces if they have dated them a wile and want to explore oter things. what i would do is become his friend first and get to know him. alot of people act differently when their first getting to know people they like, and you'd probably be upset with yourself if you brake up with your girl and find out he's a dud so i'd be his friend first and see if it could work out.
hope i helped
harts bigboy13
whats crampin my style mean??
it means embarrasing someone or making them look bad
What attracts guys to girls? Like what personality traits or whatever?
well for me i normally like girls who are friendly, have high self esteam,nice, ladylike(by ladylike i mean polite and kind). some guys like girls who are flirtatious. try smileling at him alot and make him feel confedent snd cool.
hope i helped
hey people :)
So both my mom and my sister have very big boobs, like Ds and my family is very skinny. My sister and I weigh 97 pounds. I am a 15 and my sister is 22. But the problem is my boobs are only As. I was talking to my sister and she said that she was the same way until senior year and then it just happened. So my question is, is it very likely that my boobs will be Cs or Ds by senior year because all the women in my family has had this happen to them?
thanks :)
it most certinly could be true/ it happened to my sister in middle school.
hope i helped
14/f. This I guess could either go under families or friends. Sorry this is sort of long. This whole thing started in like, second grade when my friends would snatch my snack and food and stuff right out of my hands. I was too nice and it really made me sad, but I just didn't say anything. I was always being joked around with. My friends would call me fat just as a joke(even though I wasn't, I was JUST as 'fat' as they were). All of this bothered me and I didn't really show it until last school year. To prevent anyone from taking my stuff, I would scratch them or slap them when they perpously try to steel my food. I didn't TRY to scratch them and stuff, it was sort of just an automatic reaction. For example, the other day at the movie theatre my friend dumped the remainder of the popcorn in my hair so I slapped her. I still feel that most of the time they deserve it, but I have heard people think I am a bitch lately. I don't let people walk all over me like they used to. If they tell me to do something, I say no, just because I feel like I am being walked over. If they would have asked I would have said yes though. I think this is me unvolentarily preventing being walked over like in second grade. I really want to change because one of my drama-starting friends (same one in the popcorn incident) says that a lot of people think I am being a bitch lately. Please help me change... I don't want to be fake because I usually agree with the actions I take when a friend does something rude and uncalled for. Please help me change!! I don't care about that one friend liking me or not because I REALLY dont like her, but I don't want other friends to dislike me. I RATE!!!
i know how you feel. my friends hit me somtimes.
i think what happened in the second grade has made you a little too assertive
i think you should talk with your friends and if that dosn't work then maybe not hang out with them
nobody wants friends like that
i also reccomend to see a consliler
yea.. thanx soo much.. if you ever need annything ask me for sure
thnx
if you want you can tell me your email adress so talk more
but you don't half to i was just sugessting
mines millsmattJW@aol.com
thanx..i mean our relationship is really differnt then other peoples.i know that i should dump him but do you think i should first talk about it with im and then based on that see if i should let it be or dump him?
thank u soo much for reading it it means a lot to me
i think talking to him first would be the wise thing to do and i think you should give him one more chance but i also think you should tell him that if this ever happens again that it's permantly over.
is that okay?