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Cousins..
This might soung wrong, but I have a crush on my cousin. He's 14 and I'm 13. We used to be so close, and when we were younger, we always hugged each other and we even kissed once when we said goodbye. Until today, I've been feeling like he and I were drifting apart. But then today, he and I played video games, and he asked me questions, was super nice to me, and sometimes he'd get a little shy and talk relaly quietly or get nervous and start fidjeting. He didn't look at me much, but when he did, he had this awkward look in his eye. I know we're cousins, and I can't really date him, but I want to know if he seems interested or not. He's going back to singapore (in asia) where he lives, in a week, and I desperately need advice on what to do.
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well, he probably thinks that you're pretty and stuff. but, think about it. it's awkward! you guys have the same blood. imagine the children. i know it may be difficult. but think about it. do u have a brother? why wouldn't you date your brother? just think about it. like, i have this one friend that everyone thinks he's my boyfriend because we're always together and we always have a good time and sometimes he gives me that look also. but, he actually has a girlfriend. and i've grown to see him as a brother, because that's what he is like to me. and he tells me everything and he makes jokes and we always beat each other up. so, i guess that he does all that in a brotherly-sort of way. so, since he acts like that, that's just how i feel. you probably don't see that side of your cousin. you probably don't see that like you might in other family members. i don't know if you are only child. i am, but i can still see it in this guy. u know what i mean? i think that you should think of all the things that make him "brotherly" or "cousinly" to you and some things that you just find repulsive about him even though you still love him (like a cousin or someone in your family, that is) and just forget about this whole thing, because it's for your own good. you guys are related and this isn't the olden days where people married their families. and just pray
hope i helped
*muaz*
xoxo
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this is so funny sorry but you must be blined.
think about it. he probubly thinks your hot.
but it's really ocward to like and have kissed
you so he dosen't really know what to do.
few last words
cousin and bad girl
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well it sounds to me like he was all akward and figjecty because it felt weird to him that he sortof likes his cousin. the advice to you is to just forget about the whole thing and act like ti never happened
hope i helped
harts bigboy13
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I know that you may REALLY like him. But spending more time with him won't help at all. And i have to say .. it is totally wrong to date a family member. Try to think of him as more as a "friendd." Even though it may be hard , it`s what you`re going to have to accept him as.
Hope I helped. <3
Oh & sorry that my profile isn`t looking so good. I just joined. (=
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I know it might be hard if you really do like him, but I would just forget about it all together, pretend like you never liked him. I know that this is probably not the advice you want to here, but if you fell in love with your cousin & had children, they could have serious problems & deformities. I am sorry, but also I doubt your family would approve. I would just forget about it.
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