ok so one of my best friends told me the other day that she is not returning to our school in september because she going to a new school. I was devastated and haven't stopped crying. I know we'll still be friends but its just going to be so weird not having her there in school and i'm going to miss her soo much. I thought i was handling it well but i realized im not. I hate her family and blame them for her switch of schools and i can't help but want her to be miserable at her new school. Is that too selfish of me? I just don't know how to handle it. I've been so emotional for the past week or two and i just don't know what to do. please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? itsdaylicious answered Tuesday August 8 2006, 2:08 pm: I, unfortunately, am in your friend's position. I'm leaving for a different high school than the rest of my friends this year. But maybe it was your friend's choice. Maybe she just wanted something different. And if her parents did request a different school, maybe they gave her a choice of whether she wanted to go or not. I know it's gonna be hard but all she wants is a friend and for you guys to still be friends after all this is said and done. So just keep in touch, talk on the phone after school, get together on the weekends.. Anything to help keep in touch. She's going to make new friends at her school, there's no denying it but you're still her friend and she still wants to talk to you. So just be a friend to her and let her go to this new school. I hope this advice helped. [ itsdaylicious's advice column | Ask itsdaylicious A Question ]
wally answered Tuesday August 8 2006, 2:45 am: i think your going to start your period.
as for the friend thing get email and phone all
the time.
bigboy13 answered Tuesday August 8 2006, 12:47 am: i know how you feel. my brother moved out about a 2 months ago and at first i thought i'd never be happy again but now we see each other every weekand and call occasionally. the advice i give to you is to see each other every weekand and maybe call alot and if you guys have computer then IM each other and as a last resort you could transfer to her school but i wouldn't reccommend that. and no that wanting her to hate her school and want to come back isn't selfish, it's just a natural emotion.
hope i helped
harts bigboy13 [ bigboy13's advice column | Ask bigboy13 A Question ]
willyoucatchme answered Monday August 7 2006, 10:55 pm: Well, I would love to say that it is going to be better soon, but the truth is: it's not going to be. Instead of dwelling on all of the negatives of the situation, try to find some positives. You could get together with some of your other friends and plan a going away party. Something nice for both you and your friend would be to make a scrapbook filled with pictures of the two of you. You and your friend can keep in touch by phone, email, a messenger program, and even mail. Hope this helps!
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