HI :]
im Beth.
i like singing.
im outgoing and i love helping people.
i love monster energy drink and fiji water.
and i am constantly on myspace and aim. im not perfect but im easy to talk to, so feel free to ask me any question :]
kthnx
when words fail, music speaks- Hans Christian Anderson
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I am looking for this song. I only know song lyrics and I tried to search on google and I couldnt find it. the song goes somday I see, this is where I want to be, someday I see this is where the hell I want to be. Its pretty popular, and I can't find out who sings it or what it is called. Do you know? (link)
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its called suddenly i see :]
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What animals are the smartest, easiest to train and are loyal? I'm talking about pets, but no animals that would be to dangerous to keep. (link)
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ok, sugar gliders are very exotic animals, but if you get them as a young joey, they can be the best animal you could ever have! the only thing is that you have to be a person with alot of time or be able to take it with you everywhere.
its also hard to find a vet in alot of areas that treats them.
but they are VERY smart, theyre not dangerous if you have them bonded to you and they are about the size of most peoples fist :]
people breed them in different colors, so that changes the price of most of them
a regular black and gray glider is around &175 at most places, but i promise that in the end they are AMAZING pets.
and once you get interested in them, you can breed them and sell them for alot of money :]
if you want any more information about them go to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sugar_glider. or you can just go on google and look them up :]
hope i could help :]
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Ive been cutting for about a year and i just got found out about a month ago. Im kinda happy to be out in the open about it and everything but i told my best friend and she didnt even care. She actually started to tell everyone shes an alcoholic when in reality shes acting drunk for the attention and now shes hurt that i dont care about her problem.. Its completly made up.. why should i care if shes doing it for attention everything she does is to start stuff and i really dont want to just ditch her cuz shes my best friend but i have no idea what to do anymore (link)
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ok, other advicenators below me.
they meant that theyve been cutting for a year and you she got found out about.
as in people found out about it a month ago.
took me a while to figure out too :]
as for your friend, if shes a REAL best friend, she will care as much for your problem as she wants you to care for hers (if she even has it).
i had the same problem with my best friend.
i felt like she didn't care for my problems and i got really depressed.
Maybe you could just talk to her about it. Tell her that you care for her problem, but you really value her as a friend and that you would like her to are about your problems, because youre going through a time when you need her.
IF she still doesnt show interest, spend more time with your other friends. this will make her realize that you have other friends too. your world doesnt revolve around her.
this may seem a little harsh, but in the end she will realize her flaws in this. maybe some time apart from eachother will make your relationship better (worked for me).
hope i could help :]
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hey guys..13/f and i live in Canada..i have a book report due soon and im not sure which book i should read. I loved The Outsiders and if anyone has ANY suggests of any book with that same idea (Not including the other S.E Hinton books), or just any good book that is grade 8/9 level, PLEASE let me know!
Thanks:-)
-Krazy
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ok, one of the other advicenators said a book by Lurlene McDaniel. Any of those are good :]
also The Lottery Rose by Irene Hunt, is my favorite book.
hope i could help :]
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I'm someone who thinks a lot and when I think a lot, I tend to think negative. A lot of people have told me to stop thinking too much and being negative but I just can't. I think the idea of thinking positive is stupid because it is like a kind of self-denial. I'm pessimistic because I wanna prepare myself for the worst should the worst hit me.
Say for example if I know I screwed up my test paper, I can't possibly tell myself oh ya I'm gonna do well. When I get a really bad haircut, I can't think of anything positive about it. When I pick my classes for school, I always think of the negative, like what if my classes suck? What if the teachers are gonna pile us with homework? I tried talking to my parents but they say they don't wanna talk to me because I keep thinking about things that are not going to happen or things that haven't even happen. I don't wanna bug my friends with this problem because I have told them about it b4.
I have no one to turn to. I really can't change my mode of thinking. I don't wanna delude myself of reality and yet I don't wanna live in self denial by being optimistic. Somebody help. (link)
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ok, im a very optimistic person, yet i can be very pessimistic at times.
(sorry if my spelling is horrible. lol)
try thinking about the good things in your life.
like maybe sit down and think about the A you just got on test.
or maybe how the hott guy or girl (hehe. didn't say who you were :]) was flirting with you that day.
or maybe take something bad and make it seem good.
like, if you forgot to do your math homework, think, "its ok, because ill study for the test and make a good grade on it to raise my overall class grade".
it may seem hard at first.
but over time, if you do this alot, it will become a habit.
and you will become an overall better person :]
hope i could help :]
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what is the box that i put the text (thats in the box)??
im veryy lost.
usually good with html stuff.
lol. please help? (link)
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didnt mean to write here :]
sorryyy :p
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no. i'm not anorexic. and i'm tired of people asking me that! see, i'm reallllly skinny. and short [i think that's part of it.] but still, i eat like a pig, well not really, but i eat normally. it's just that i'm REALLY thin!! it sucks because i have ppl that start rumors at school that say i'm bileemic or anorexic! it's like.. what, so u want me to stock up on McDonalds and get fat or something? i dont know what i should do!!! help! (link)
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IGNORE THEM!
theyre most likely insecure with their own bodies.
and jealous that youre skinny.
rumors are rumors.
and if you know its not the truth, why does it matter?
forget their immature crap.
dont argue with them about it.
because its pointless :]
so let them make themselves look stupid by calling you names.
and only stupid people would believe it :]
hope i could help :]
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okay, well i'm failing pretty much all my classes. i don't really skip or anything, i just...don't alwayd do the homework..anyways. i wanted to make up ALL my spanish work by the end of the week (grades close on friday). cuz i'll be in DC for the following monday and tuesday.
anyways, i wanted to know some study tips for doing homework and getting ready for tests/quizes.
any help would be appreciated. i really need to pass these classes.
i'm a sophmore if that helps...taking a few freshmen classes.. (link)
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ok, im alot younger than you :]
but im in a group at my school that teaches good study skills so here are a few:
go into a quiet room with no distractions. like, no tv, cell phone, computer, ect.
eat fruit (stimulates brain :])
try studying for like 30 to 40 mins.
then take a break.
you should try to just sit there for hours and study. if you do that you'll get bored and gather less information.
i know this wasn't too much advice, and im only in 8th grade, so i know its alot harder in high school. but these are some tips that have worked for me :]
really hope i could help :]
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Okay, there's this guy named patrick and i like him a lot. and he sorta said he likes me (don't ask how he sorta said he likes me). Everyone is saying that he does and taht it's obvious...I'm just to blind and ignorant to see it. Anywhos my friend Matt somehow got patricks number out of a kid that knew him saying that it was for a girl who has a crush on him...duh. haha but the kid doesn't know its me and patrick never gave me his number. i have lunch with patrick everyday but no classes with him whatsoever.
Matt keeps on urging me to tell patrick that i like him before he loses interest in me and i really want to. the think is i am HORRIBLE at doing this. especially talking face to face or just telling it. so matt told me to write a note and i agreed. now the problem is that i don't know what to do. like i can't call him because he doesn't know i have his number and the explanation behind that is staklerish. i can give him a note but what should i write in there? i want to keep it playful and frivolous so that if he doesn't like me in that way i can get myself out of that situation. do you get what i'm saying? haha or sohuld i just ask him to join me and my friends for a movie and somehow tell him there or make it obiovus that i really like him? ah just how sohuld i tell him? (link)
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ok, the writing the note. good idea :]
maybe write something along the lines that you like him. and maybe say one or two reasons why you do. but DONT put more than than. dont want to sound stalkerish like you said :]
also, because he doesnt know you have his number, maybe ask him for it.
or give him yours :]
that way he'll never know you had it before.
if your having lunch with him everyday, that most likely means youre important to him :]
so take a chance!
tell him you like him.
who knows?
maybe he'll ask you out :]
hope i could help :]
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Okay. So I'm 14 years old, but ever since I was 10, I've been extremely depressed. I don't even know why. But the littlest thing, say my boyfriend isn't around for a day, and I'll get mega depressed. It's only with my love life. Even if I don't really like a boyfriend that much, little things will make me cry, and I don't know why! I'll say I won't care, and I really believe I don't, but every night I cry and cry and cry. If I'm not depressed I'll often just seem to have no emotion. I try to ignore it. Is there anything I can do to stop being so depressed? I've tried doing fun things and everything...I just don't know, I've been considering suicide quite a lot, and I KNOW that it wouldn't be cool to do that, but...I'm a great student, my parents aren't bad, it's not like I'm dirt poor or anything, and I have great friends, and big dreams, but if my love life isn't perfect, I just break down. (link)
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i used to have to same problem as you :]
go to a doctor.
it might be kinda weird to tell them about being depressed about love life.
but they should perscribe a medecine to you.
and this way you won't be feeling sad anymore.
and PLEASE dont consider suicide.
you know its stupid, so why try it?
instead try making the best out of something.
seriously consider that doctor :]
and, not trying to sound like some weird shove-religion-down-your-throught-person. but really, maybe try going to church :]
it worked for me :]]
so if you have any more questions please i.m me.
my aim is BETH396190.
if you dont have that but you have a myspace.
if you go on my profile, i have a link to mine.
hope i could help :]
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i have heard this song i like once before it goes someting like this i only know like 1 line
fuck me in the backseat..push her maybe push her not
whats the song? its kinda upbeat ad rock its not pop or rap! its like a mix between rock and dance and electronic (link)
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its called fer sure
by The Medic Droid.
and the lyrics are fer sure maybe fer sure not
lol. i googled it. and im pretty sure thats what it is.
fer sure sounds alot like push her :]]
hope i could help :]
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so im 14 and i met this guy that makes my heart melt. weve only see each other in person once at a party. but we have been talking and he invites me to ahngout with his friends. but my parents dont know his friends and i dont know his friends so i know for a fact my parents wont let me go. so i ahve been saying im sick. or i have other things to do. i dont want to tell him that but i feel embaressed when i have to say oh well my parents dont trust my judgement enough to make the right friends. no besides the fact his friends arent the perfect crowd i would never get under hte influnce of perpressuer. i am very responsiable. but my parents dont see that. they see me as some slut. so its aggervateing but. i just told him all of this and he seemed totaly cool i guess with meeting my mom but now i feel if he thinks im so child. we are the same age and in the same grade. but still do you think he would possible think less of me or think im some kind of child? (link)
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maybe you should try asking your parents if he can come to YOUR house and you two can watch a movie.
that way your parents are there.
and they can have more trust in you.
they dont know that can trust you yet, even though they have no other reason other than that other girls our age have set a bad example of us, and now all parents think that we're going around sleeping with all the guys we know. lol. maybe after a couple of times of him coming to YOUR house, your parents will build that trust and eventually let you go to his house. or his friends house. or maybe instead of him going to your house. ask your parents if you two and his friends can go to a public place instead. like maybe the bowling alley, or something like that. and have your parents drop you off there. that way they know where your going is public and you cant do anything (not saying you would :p)
if that didnt make very much sense. lol. you can i.m me at BETH396190
hope i could help :]
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I know i have already talked on here about how my step mom picked out clothes for me at church. She won't let me where what i want to and she makes me where her grandmothers clothes. I already told her i didnt like it and she said that was the style and i should get used to it. Everytime i get excited about something, i always remember that i have to wear her grandma's clothes that i dont like and it makes me unhappy. I get really excited about something and then i think of that and it makes me sad. I know they are just clothes but 70% of your clothes is confidence and if you don't have that, you have 30% of something. I heard it on the radio, but anyways, any help would be greatly appriciated. thanks so much! (link)
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ok, your step-mom picks out your chlothes, but it isn't that bad! maybe try to spice up the chlothes she picks.
like, wear accesories that you like to make certain peices look better.
maybe just ask her if you can go shopping together and make a decision together on what you can wear.
maybe tell her what you're interested in wearing.
or make a deal with her.
like say she tells you to wear a certain skirt, ask her if you can wear a shirt that you chose with the skirt.
start out with little things and gradually make your way up to picking out your own outfit!
whatever you do, DONT GO BEHIND HER BACK!
knowing moms (or step-moms) she will find out.
and that will lessen the trust and then you will have less of a chance of wearing what you want in the future.
have patience with her.
tell her that you'd like to wear something different for a change, because you would feel more comfortable with it.
if none of this works, and youre still wearing the chlothes shes making you wear.
MAKE THE BEST OF IT!
if you are confident, it will make you look better.
hold your head up high, and smile.
this will make you more attractive, even if youre wearing grandma chlothes :]
hope i could help :]
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What are some good breathing excercises I could do on the alto sax or flute? I'm preparing solos and both require to play several chromatic like measures all of which are slured. I run out of breath too quickly. I know its impossible to slur 3 and a half lines, but I can't get past more than 3 measures. Thanks, will rate. (link)
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ok, ive been doing like intense choral singing since i was like 8. lol. and i know how hard it is to keep your breathe for many measures.
ive had to hold a note for like 20 measures before! some of the breathing exercises we do are:
*breathe out all of your air FIRST. THEN take in a deep breath but dont raise your chest or shoulders, because you want to use your diafragm to breathe. then after youve taken the breath hold it for 5 seconds and then let the air out slowly in an s sound. lol. or maybe because you play the sax, you could just blow it out slowly on any note you choose :]
to add to thatt
*let the air out on a certain amount of beats. say you start with 10. then you go on to 15. then 20, and so on. and this way you can practice your control on the amount of air you let out. if you cant make it to a number. try again the next day.
i deffenitely understand what your going through. if i dont practice my breathing for a while, i get out of touch and cant make it through more than TWO measures :]
hope i could help :]
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When a girl talks to a boy, what are key things they say or do that gives everyone a hint that the girl might like the guy? Even when talking on IM alot. Like when they say "haha" alot or at smileys frequently does that mean anything? Im 14/m btw. (link)
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ok.
well in my case.
i usually talk about how much i hate one of the teachers we have together. and i argue with them.
but while smiling.
so the guy knows im kidding.
if she smiles alot near you, but not to other guys, she most likely likes you.
also if she hits you softly while making fun of you, or calling you mean, she prob. likes you.
if you need any more help.
my aim is BETH396190
hope i could help :]
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Heyy everyone! :D
im Hailey (link)
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im a girl. lol.
i was talking to my best guy friend
and he said that he def. likes it when girls take charge and are independant.
and that it makes them seem more confident.
i usually get guys by talking to him alot and i.ming him and calling him. that gets him more interested in me. and then i dont have to end up asking him out. cuz ive gotten him to fall for me ;]
just be yourself, and dont be shy.
most guys can tell when youre shy, and when you are confindent, he feels less shy as well. cuz hes prob. nervous talking to you too!
hope i could help :]
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Ok, im 13 years old and female and i have this "boy" friend that likes me and i like him to but the problem is he doesnt no i like him back. i hate using friends to tell people i like them for me because they always make me look stupid and we cant pass notes because the teachers have eyes in the back of their heads. How can i tell him i like him without running up to him and telling him straight up o and how can i get him to ask me out to? i really need to know before monday because after that i wont be able to get to a computer for 2 weeks!
thanx,
pennsylvania chic
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about the notes.
try handing it to him between classes.
if that doesnt work.
ask him for his number or give him yours and talk after school about homework or something.
tell him you need help with something.
or maybe, if your parents will let you.
go over to his house so he can "help" you with your homework.
or maybe just tell him you want to hang out.
start talking about your teachers.
and then about like your friends.
and eventually you can just casually say,
"what would you say if i said that i liked you"
he might say
"why"
say "because i do"
hehe :]
hope i could help :]
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HELP !!! im realy upset nad crying about htis right now. i have one b rother and 2 parents. now, my dad use tobe in the army andi guess u could say " rough and tough" he treats me llike a little princess..but wiht my brother(15) its definitly different. to start off; they havent gotten along well since my bro was 10.. and my brother tells my dad to shutup and my did gets angry and is like " im not going to take this bull**** from you anymore, who even says im suppose to love you?" and my brother doenst ac tliek he cares but hten he goes to his rom and cries nad no one knows this escept for me and my mom. and i aske dmy dad " dad, do u even like paul*" nad hes like " why should i, he doesnt like me so i dont lke him?" WHAT DO I DO ???? i can not stand seeing my family fight i cry at night. and if i could i would trade my life with my brothers just so he would be happy.. andi m also afriad he's going to try and commit suicide. i dont know what to do.
PS..my Dads Dad use to be an alcoholic* and abuse my father... (link)
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ok, its obvious that your dad has gone through alot.
try talking to him about it.
tell him that it upsets you when they fight.
also if that doesnt help, try getting both of them and you to talk.
maybe even your mom, so the whole family can discuss it.
your dad and brother need to work it out.
also about your brother tell him you love him and that you care.
and that youre always going to be there for him.
maybe even that you need him there.
make him feel wanted.
this will take a little, of course not very much, of the depression away.
im very sorry about your situation.
i hope the best for you and your family.
hope i could help :]
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ok, so around that time of the month, i get really REALLY moody. i feel like ripping everyone's head off, literally. to prevent that, the only way i have found is to be on midole(?) from about 3-4 days before it comes till 1-2 days after. that can't be healthy, and i have to take the maximum dosage as well. i was wondering if anyone knows any ways i could improve my mood? i seriously need help cause i almost swore at my parents today, and i have another week or so to go and i only have 2 midole left,
please help me!
p.s, i'm 15/f (link)
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ok, the other answers are really good, so to add to that.
i get moody like that too.
so try counting.
when you start to get that feeling that you are going to explode, just tell whoever youre talking to that you'll talk to them later, or make up a different exuse to leave the room.
once youre somewhere by yourself, try to calm yourself down by counting backwards from 100.
it usually helps me.
hope i could help :]
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16/f. Dad and I go shopping, but we can't agree on pants... I like hip-huggers, he's offended by them... He likes wranglers, I hate the fit... Are there any pants that are fairly high-waisted, but don't have a funny wrinkle in the crotch when you sit down and are form-fitting (not tight) flares? (I'm about a 3 or 4 size). Any help is appreciated! (link)
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at PacSun the jeans arent to low, so your dad shouldnt be offended by them.
and there isnt a funny wrinkle in the crotch when you sit.
hope i could help :]
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