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HI :]
im Beth.
i like singing.
im outgoing and i love helping people.
i love monster energy drink and fiji water.
and i am constantly on myspace and aim. im not perfect but im easy to talk to, so feel free to ask me any question :]

kthnx


when words fail, music speaks- Hans Christian Anderson

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Gender: Female
Location: Florida :]
Age: 13
AIM: BETH396190
Member Since: January 15, 2007
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hey, do you guys believe once a cheater always a cheater? also not just cheating on someone in general, if they cheated on you in a relationship that they had with you in the past. (link)
no.
i believe in second chances.
but be careful.
i dont believe in third and forth chances.
:]

hope i could help.




hey, if i have a list of songs
on limewire that i have to put
onto intues to get on my ipod
how do i save it & get it onto
itunes? please please please help asap?!
:] :] :] :] thanks a tonnn! (link)
put the songs onto the playlit on limewire (you click the song then enque)
then save it by clicking "save as" and save it in a folder (make sure you remember where it is)
and then go onto itunes.
click file
then go to import.
hen find the folder you saved them in.
and click open.
the songs should be on your itunes now.
hehe.

hope i could help :]


I just got a great new boyfriend. But I'm totally afraid to kiss him because I've never kissed anyone before and everyone's like you'll know how to do and stuff but srsly, I don't know if I go on the top lip, bottom lip, what? I'm so confused. And also, how can I not have bad breath while making out with him? It seems no matter how hard I brush my teeth and stuff I always seem to have bad breath!!! Gum solves the problem but i cant have gum when I make out. Please help, thanks. Love, Chels. (link)
ok, if your boyfriend is great (which im sure he is :]) he'll understand, if you tell him you've never kissed before :]
also, being out in the open makes you more comfortable.
although everyone already said it, it really does come naturally.
plus, if hes done it before, he'll just take the lead :]
my boyfriend taught me, that you really CAN have gum when your kissing. just make sure its sugar free (sugar makes your breath worse, even if its mint)
me and my boyfriend actually always have gum when we kiss.
it just seems to find its way to the back of your mouth, so it doesnt get in the way, and you totally forget its there.
and i think someone already said it, but we play a "game" i guess you could call it.
and we pass our gum back and forth.
its alot of fun :]

hope i could help :]


14/f
well yeah i have this big problem. i totally hate myself. i wouldn't even mind killing myself right now. i have NO friends cause people think i'm weird. well i am (i dress kinda emo and stuff like that) but sooooo what??? i think i'm ugly like a piece of old shit. my mom always says i am ssoooooooooo pretty and well i dunno. guys often look at me when i go out but still i hate myself. like everybody hates me in school. no guy likes me. i am in love with a guy who liked me back but i screwed it up cause i said the biggest shit ever. i am the ONLY one who haven't had a bf and it pisses me of. like my best friend is like really ugly no offence 2 her and she allready had 2 boyfriends. i feel so hated. and i think i am so fat. i dunno if i really am cause i think i c myself differently in the mirrow then other people c me. my mom tells me that's my problem. she tells me i am like the most pretty girl ever but everytime i look in the mirrow i start crying.
and i bet my mom just tells me i'm pretty cause i'm her daughter
i really don't know what 2 do anymore. i don't wanna crie my heart out every day and i kinda don't really wanna kill myself either.
please don't give me mean answers i'm pissed of enough for today
just help
(link)
hi :]
i think youre depressed.
maybe you should try going to a doctor.
if i were you, i would try talking to that guy again.
you might have screwed it up before.
but people change.
you can make it up to him.
youre NOT the only one who hasn't had a boyfriend.
and just because you haven't had one yet, doesn't mean you never will.
theres someone for EVERYONE.
maybe try wearing bright colored shirts.
you said you dress kinda emo, so try to get away from that, if you don't think its working for you.
wearing shirts that have brighter colors and patterns will make people(guys) notice you more.
also try to be more outgoing, sit with different people at lunch.
and one BIG thing i have to say.
S M I L E.
its worth a million words.
its easier to approach someone with a smile on their face than someone staring at their feet :]
also, instead of thinking of all the things you DONT like about yourself (
which in case you were wondering, everyong thinks down of themselves) think of the things you like about yourself.
maybe how good you are in a certain subject in school.
or the favorite thing about your appearance.
you have to love yourself before anyone else can love you.
i truly hope i could helpp.
if you have any more problems, send something to my inbox.
or aim me :]]



Okay. so i was at the movies and this really hott kid asked me for my number, so i gave it to him. he texted me later that night and everything. The next day i asked him if he wanted to hang out and stuff. however we couldnt. I still texted him like trying to get to know him but now im afraid he thinks im annoying. I sent him a text last night saying "call me tomrrow" should i still try to talk to him if he doesnt call? (link)
give him a little space.
if he doesnt text or call you, that is :]
that way, he's wondering about you.
and then text him when you have time to hang out with him.
like, "hey, wanna go to a movie friday?" or wherever you like to hang out.
that sort of thing.
(i dont know how you would say it. haha)

hope i could help :]


whats the code on myspace for a drop down menu so when you click on it it leads you to a friends myspace?

(link)
here ya go :]

http://www.whateverlife.com/dropdowns.php

i usually go there for ALL my codes

hope i could help :]


where can i find a plain myspace layout (thats all one color, preferably yellow or light blue) that has arial font writing? thankyou! (link)
heres a few sites.

http://www.whateverlife.com/plainlayouts.php

http://www.whateverlife.com/noimagelayouts.php

and if you go to the rest of the layouts on whateverlife.com

there are some really cute ones.

hope i could help :]


i've had both for a while now, but i never really got to using it much. i download a lot of songs in limewire, then listen to it using musicmatch jukebox. but i was wondering if there's a way to get all of my limewire songs into itunes? what happens to mines is that it has its own little link/folder -ish in itunes, where all of the limewire songs is in. but i don't want that. i wanna add the songs in itunes itself, so i can use itunes to add songs in my mp3. can anybody help me? sorry it's kinda confusing. =/ (link)
i use limewire to download all my songs into my ipod.
what you do is put all the songs you want on a playlist on limewire.
then you click where it says "save as".
save it into a folder.
now go onto itunes.
and click on "file" and go down to "import"
a window will pop up, and you might have to look for the folder, or it might just be right there, depends on where you save it to.
sorry thats hard to explain :]

hope i could help :]


does fiji water just taste like regular water, or is there a different taste to it? (link)
um, whats regular water?
if you mean ta water, i think it tastes different.
fiji is pretty much the only water i drink unless there is nothing else.
so i think its the best water ever.
lol :]
most gas stations have them, so you could just go decide for yourself :]

hope i could help


I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated
(link)
ok, um, try to join clubs at school? not sure how old you are, you didnt say.
but if youre out of school.
take up a hobbie(s).
then join a group with other people with the same hobbie.
that should get you some friends :]

hope i could help :]


so im starting a new school tmrw, & my hair always gets in my face. & its super annoying. but i have a few zits, so i guess thats why i always like, try to keep it covered, any ideas on some cute hair styles i can do ? im gonna straighten it.. & i'd like to wear it done for the most part. but i just dont know how to keep it out of my face! (link)
ok, i would suggest half-up/half/down.
all you need is a hair tie or a clip :]
straighten your hair first.
then go from right above your ears on the sides and grab the hair (sorry if not a good explaination) and tie or clip it.
it should be around the back top of your head.
if your clipping it, you might want to do it a little lower.
so that it rests on the back of your hair.
i do this hair style ALOT because it gets hair out of my face, but i can still keep my hair down (well most of it. lol)

hope i could help :]


14/f
okay, so heres the deal. i always know when im about to get a sore throat, i feel my throat acting weird a few days before, and i get chapped lips. well i got that sign yesterday and its a little worse today, but im not totally sick yet. i have something important to do saturday, so i need something to stall my sore throat until late saturday or something. ive been drinking alot of orange and grapefruit juice for the vitamin C and ive been using chap stick for my lips and everything. i need something to stall/eliminate this cold or whatever it is, so please, if you know anything that will help let me know asap. home remedies are great also! early answers are appreciated

THANK YOU! (link)
I dont really know much about this.
but the juice is a good idea.
whenever im getting sick, i always take a zinc supplement.
its over-the-counter and it def. works for me.
i just take it once a day

hope i could help :]


I have a very slender (kind of too skinny) figure and people keep telling me that I should put on about 10 pounds. I think the only good body part I have is my legs----if I put on 10 pounds, would my legs, like, fill out and not look as good?

(link)
first of all, do you like how you look.
because i personally would KILL to have thinner legs.
so if people are telling you that they think youre too skinny, theyre probably jealous that they dont look like you.
but if YOU think that you are too skinny,

go to these sites

http://www.bbc.co.uk/health/healthy_living/your_weight/reaching_gain.shtml

http://diet.ivillage.com/measure/mweight/0,,2f9l,00.html

http://www.healself.org/weightgain.html

hope i could help :]


I have to write a paper comparing and
contrasting my best friends. I thought it
would be a great oppurtunity to start with
a friendship quote. My problem is that one
of my best friends is a guy, and the other is
a girl. Most quotes are too girly to work
for both. Does anyone have any sites or
specific quotes that would be appropriate for
school and for my paper? Thanks!

(link)
" A best friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you've forgotten the words"
found that one on an ornament at cracker barrel :]

heres a couple sites
http://www.indianchild.com/friendship_quotations.htm
http://www.boardofwisdom.com/default.asp?topic=1005&listname=Friendship
http://www.humorsphere.com/sms/best_friend_quotes.htm

hope i could help :]



how do you become popular. like full out popular. (link)
if you are nice to EVERYONE.
EVERYONE will like you.
like at lunch, instead of eating with the same people everyday, sit with different groups.
that way you hang around everyone.
and it helps you meet new people.
it works for me :]

hope i could help :]


What are all the 'bases' sprecifically?

Thanks. (link)
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=bases


urban dictionary solves ALL problems :]

well maybe not all.
but some :]

hope i could help :]


Is there any FREE downloadable music like limewire or Rhapsody? If so where can I get it? I need it to make a CD for my school dance.
Thanks (keosha) (link)
like you said, limewire is what i have.
you can get pretty much any song there. as well as videos and documents and software. its really helpful for alot of things :]
you can get it at downloads.com
type "limewire" in the search bar on the top.
and scroll down until you see "LimeWire 4.12.3".
and download that one :]

hope i could help :]


whats the easiest way to build your own website. that cab be accessed by many people kind of like this one but not exactly. (link)
myspace :]

or geocities.com

hope i could help :]

*ADDED*


like i said, geocities.com.
its a free program that is easy and "doesn't require technical knowledge".

im really sorry if thats still not what your looking for.
i tried really hard :/

hope i could help :]


hey sould um i change my hair style..? (link)
what is it now?


My boyfriend and I are talking about starting a family but the thing is I am only 15 and he is 16 we plan on trying right away. Should I though? I mean I love him and I know he loves me and I have wanted a kid since I was 13 but I keep on wondering how this will all work out in the end....so, PLEASE HELP ME! ASAP! (link)
ok, first you should think everything through.
you love him, he loves you, what else is there?
well theres the thought that you don't have money to support a family, or that you havent finished your high school education.
also that at the age of 15 and 16, you would make very young parents.

if you are still deciding that you want to do this, talk to your parents. and decide if its the right decision for you.

hope i could help :]




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