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i hate myself
14/f
well yeah i have this big problem. i totally hate myself. i wouldn't even mind killing myself right now. i have NO friends cause people think i'm weird. well i am (i dress kinda emo and stuff like that) but sooooo what??? i think i'm ugly like a piece of old shit. my mom always says i am ssoooooooooo pretty and well i dunno. guys often look at me when i go out but still i hate myself. like everybody hates me in school. no guy likes me. i am in love with a guy who liked me back but i screwed it up cause i said the biggest shit ever. i am the ONLY one who haven't had a bf and it pisses me of. like my best friend is like really ugly no offence 2 her and she allready had 2 boyfriends. i feel so hated. and i think i am so fat. i dunno if i really am cause i think i c myself differently in the mirrow then other people c me. my mom tells me that's my problem. she tells me i am like the most pretty girl ever but everytime i look in the mirrow i start crying.
and i bet my mom just tells me i'm pretty cause i'm her daughter
i really don't know what 2 do anymore. i don't wanna crie my heart out every day and i kinda don't really wanna kill myself either.
please don't give me mean answers i'm pissed of enough for today
just help
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alright well i think that you're just too negative about things.. things could be alot worse babe.. trust me. you just need to get a better perspective on life and realize that everything doesn't suck. when you're born, you're given a body and a unique personality.. it's your choice what to do with it. you can cover them up, show then off, dress them up, hide them.. whatever you want to do. i didn't get my first boyfriend until i was 15 years old.. and now i'm 16 and we've been together ever since [8 months]. you you really need to just sit tight and wait! and realize that things really aren't as bad as they seem.. the whole thing that is basically worrying you, is not having a boyfriend. you don't need a boyfrined to like yourself.. you need to do that on your own before you expect anyone to like you. people arent going to start liking you until you like yourself. guys are attracted to confidence. so if i were you, i would first concentrate on boosting your self esteem. maybe stop dressing 'emo' and dress cuter. do something new with your hair.. maybe get a new haircut, something cute.. get some new clothes! stop focusing on the bad things, and look at the good ones. you should start working out and exercising. it's like a high after you work up a sweat and see results. like i said, your body is like a blank canvas that you can do whatever you want to do with.. since you think that what you're doing right now isn't working for you, try switching it uppp, and try doing something new with yourself =]
*** by the way.. NEVERRRRRR kill yourself or become suicidal. don't. you don't know how selfish and stupid it is and what you leave behind. look at your mother, isn't it obvious how much she loves you? how would she feel if she knew that you did that? exactly: horrible. so don't do ittttt!!!! [ok sorry if that sounded bitchy, i really didn't mean for it to sound like that.. suicide's just a pretty touchy thing for me.. so don't do it.. trust meeeee it could be worseeee.]
good luck hun ♥ if you want more advice, feel free to IM me =] i'd be glad to help you out with anythingggg =]
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i dont know how to help you,
but.....
you sound SUPERLYY cool to me :]
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hi :]
i think youre depressed.
maybe you should try going to a doctor.
if i were you, i would try talking to that guy again.
you might have screwed it up before.
but people change.
you can make it up to him.
youre NOT the only one who hasn't had a boyfriend.
and just because you haven't had one yet, doesn't mean you never will.
theres someone for EVERYONE.
maybe try wearing bright colored shirts.
you said you dress kinda emo, so try to get away from that, if you don't think its working for you.
wearing shirts that have brighter colors and patterns will make people(guys) notice you more.
also try to be more outgoing, sit with different people at lunch.
and one BIG thing i have to say.
S M I L E.
its worth a million words.
its easier to approach someone with a smile on their face than someone staring at their feet :]
also, instead of thinking of all the things you DONT like about yourself (
which in case you were wondering, everyong thinks down of themselves) think of the things you like about yourself.
maybe how good you are in a certain subject in school.
or the favorite thing about your appearance.
you have to love yourself before anyone else can love you.
i truly hope i could helpp.
if you have any more problems, send something to my inbox.
or aim me :]]
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