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did i just scare him away?
so im 14 and i met this guy that makes my heart melt. weve only see each other in person once at a party. but we have been talking and he invites me to ahngout with his friends. but my parents dont know his friends and i dont know his friends so i know for a fact my parents wont let me go. so i ahve been saying im sick. or i have other things to do. i dont want to tell him that but i feel embaressed when i have to say oh well my parents dont trust my judgement enough to make the right friends. no besides the fact his friends arent the perfect crowd i would never get under hte influnce of perpressuer. i am very responsiable. but my parents dont see that. they see me as some slut. so its aggervateing but. i just told him all of this and he seemed totaly cool i guess with meeting my mom but now i feel if he thinks im so child. we are the same age and in the same grade. but still do you think he would possible think less of me or think im some kind of child?
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if he does than fuck him honey you can find better and like you said you guys are the same age so im sure he has the same problem with his parents because your both still kids and if he likes you any less over something that you have no control over than honey forget him because hes obviouly the child and an immature one at that i hope i helped good luck tell me how it works out-
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He sounds like a great guy!
Think about it...
--He met you at a party once, now he wants to get to know you better.
--He's asked to meet up with you, even though you made excuses.
--He wants you to meet him friends, and show them how cool you are!
--You told all the stuff about your parents, and he's still keen!
I don't think he thinks any less of you at all.
To make this work, talk to your mum. Explain how much you like this guy, that you think he really is a decent guy, that you know you're responsible enough to make sensible decisions and not be influenced by peer pressure. Have a calm, mature discussion with her, and see where that leaves you.
As for him, let him know exactly whats going on. If you can introduce him to your mum, even better. Don't do anything behind your parents backs, that will make them trust you a lot less in the future. Just keep the communication going, parents feel a lot happier if they feel informed and know whats going on! Good luck xxxx
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Firstly, be honest. Tell him the truth! A realtionship based on honesty lasts longer! So tell him about your parents not completely trusting you going out with him and his friends because they don't really know them. Why don't you ask him if you can bring a bunch of YOUR friends, I am sure it will be cool with him, unless he has something up! Something not so good. And tell your parents where you are going and with who, highlight and underline the point that you are going out with a bunch of YOUR friends, so they don't get too worried. Mainly, the friends they know and admire, the friends that they can trust and trust you going out with them.
Remember girls mature faster than guys, so if he thinks your a child than what could he possibly be? A toodler?! LOL! Don't worry about what he thinks, its your life hun! Remember that, and no one can force you to do anything you don't want to do!
Thankyou!
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maybe you should try asking your parents if he can come to YOUR house and you two can watch a movie.
that way your parents are there.
and they can have more trust in you.
they dont know that can trust you yet, even though they have no other reason other than that other girls our age have set a bad example of us, and now all parents think that we're going around sleeping with all the guys we know. lol. maybe after a couple of times of him coming to YOUR house, your parents will build that trust and eventually let you go to his house. or his friends house. or maybe instead of him going to your house. ask your parents if you two and his friends can go to a public place instead. like maybe the bowling alley, or something like that. and have your parents drop you off there. that way they know where your going is public and you cant do anything (not saying you would :p)
if that didnt make very much sense. lol. you can i.m me at BETH396190
hope i could help :]
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