Okay, there's this guy named patrick and i like him a lot. and he sorta said he likes me (don't ask how he sorta said he likes me). Everyone is saying that he does and taht it's obvious...I'm just to blind and ignorant to see it. Anywhos my friend Matt somehow got patricks number out of a kid that knew him saying that it was for a girl who has a crush on him...duh. haha but the kid doesn't know its me and patrick never gave me his number. i have lunch with patrick everyday but no classes with him whatsoever.
Matt keeps on urging me to tell patrick that i like him before he loses interest in me and i really want to. the think is i am HORRIBLE at doing this. especially talking face to face or just telling it. so matt told me to write a note and i agreed. now the problem is that i don't know what to do. like i can't call him because he doesn't know i have his number and the explanation behind that is staklerish. i can give him a note but what should i write in there? i want to keep it playful and frivolous so that if he doesn't like me in that way i can get myself out of that situation. do you get what i'm saying? haha or sohuld i just ask him to join me and my friends for a movie and somehow tell him there or make it obiovus that i really like him? ah just how sohuld i tell him?
Additional info, added Tuesday January 16 2007, 1:20 am: specifics..maybe word fro word? lol yes, i need someone to hold my hand through every step.. Want to answer more questions in the Work & School category? Maybe give some free advice about: School? VeNzUeLa answered Tuesday January 16 2007, 10:32 am: Well, writing a note is a great idea, lets say he is tall, shaggy hair, brown eyes and loves to play basket ball and is in your math class, tell him something like this, 'I don't know if you could help me but I have a tiny problem, I like this guy who is in my math class and he has brown eyes, shaggy hair and loves to play basket ball, he is tall! And I know you know him really well! You guys are like twins, and so I don't know if he likes me or still does?' Basically, make it obvious that he is the guy you like, that way, you are flirty, playful and making it obvious to him that you like him.
About the number, ask him for it when you two have lunch, and give him yours, if he asks why you're giving him your number just say, 'You will need it some day!' and walk off! Its def flirty!
When everything starts coming together, he may ask you out! Remember, love grows... If he has lost a little bit of interest in you, it will definately grow after sometime and especially after you tell him through the note, that you like him!
beth396190 answered Tuesday January 16 2007, 1:19 am: ok, the writing the note. good idea :]
maybe write something along the lines that you like him. and maybe say one or two reasons why you do. but DONT put more than than. dont want to sound stalkerish like you said :]
also, because he doesnt know you have his number, maybe ask him for it.
or give him yours :]
that way he'll never know you had it before.
if your having lunch with him everyday, that most likely means youre important to him :]
so take a chance!
tell him you like him.
who knows?
maybe he'll ask you out :]
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