Hey, My name is Meagan and i am 15. I am 5 feet tall i'm a shrimp hehe. I love helping people and making them feel better in whatever I can. If you need any help please let me know!!
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I would like to get a nice stomach. Not asking for rock hard abs but something impressive. The thing is i need at home ideas. I dont have access to equipment. Also i have a slight heart problem so runnings kinda hard on me but i can still do it. Any ideas? (link)
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Well what I do is when I am watching tv, eating, reading anything when I am by myself I like to take a break. I like to do sit-ups. I know this sounds kinda weird but during the day when you think about it, all the breaks you can take between things to do maybe 20 to start with. Do them nice and slow so your stomach has time to get used to them. I have been doing this since the begining of January and i can see a huge improvment. Hope that helps you.
Love Meggs
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well recently in the last few days by lower stomach area has been hurting. then i get alot of cold and hot flashes like my body temperature changes alot. also laely i have been feeling depressed and my emotions are just going wild. what could this be? please help. ill give 5s to all answers. (link)
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Hun i think you are about to start your period. This is a normal thing and you should not be worried or anything like that. This might last for a week or two but now for very one. When your stomach hurts here are some things you can do:
1.heating pad on your lower stomach
2.cover up with a blanket, and lay on your back
3.take a hot bath and just relax
They will feel better in a couple of minutes.
Hope that helps you.
Love Meggs
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Ok, so my boyfriend wants to go to a hookah bar tomrrow night with him and all his friends..they all go sometimes and i never realy had any interest. If i don't go, he'd stay home because he doesnt wanna go with out me..but i feel bad saying no because i know he wants to go really bad. And the past few times i have said i don't wanna go and he's stayed with me I've told him to go without me though if i ever didn't want to. should i just go and make him happy? (link)
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Well I think you should go with him. If he has stayed with you when you didn't want to go and he satyed I think it would really make him happy if you go with him. If you go this one time and don't like it then you won't ever have to go again. Hope that helps
Love Meggs
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In the past 2 months I have gona from a 160 pound girl to a 176 pound human! IT's amazing how stress and eating is not helpin rite now! So I excersiced for 2o minutes and tried to eat right and right now I'm down to 172.8! Today my best friend told me if i keep eatin like that I will look like one of these FAT FAT FAAT girs and I really don't wana be that fat. Right now I'm planning of not eatin anything for lunch except an apple or a peach. Do you think I will get tin or slimmer...at least 160...or 155lbs in 25 days? (link)
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I think it is absolutly possible hun. If you just put your mind to the fact that you want to lose that extra weight ten just do it. Eat rigth and exercise for 1 hour a day if u can. Hope i helped ya
Love Meggs
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At my school, we have a night event called 'Night of the Notables/Nobles', and we have to pick a 'notable achiever/person who made a positive influence in the world' to be for that day. We have to make a presentation in class as that person as well. Well, I'm a sophomore female, and I really don't know who to be! It can be a literary, scientific, historical, or musical, i.e, figure. But people such as Britney Spears and Hitler are out of the question, you know what I mean?
Do you guys have any suggestions as to who I should be? I don't want it to be a boring person either, because the most standoutish people make it to the actual night and get to present and stuff, so, yeah. And everybody's doing Oprah, so yeah, just no. (link)
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well in my opinion I love Rosa Parks. I believe that she made a wonderfulinfluence on the world. She would be a great person i think to do and i doubt many people would pick her. Hope that helps ya
Love Meggs
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I am 15/f
How do you show someone how madly in love you are with them? No matter what I do..he still doesn't believe me. He says he loves me, and I do believe it..but how do I get him to believe me?? Help me please! I will rate!! (link)
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Just do whatever your heart tells you to do. If I love you doesn't mean you love him and you have to prove it to him, make him dinner take just talk. Just make him feel like he is wanted. Hope i helped you
Love Meggs
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Do you think 5ft 4in and 140lbs is large (fat) for a 13 almost 14 year old? Especially one who is a dancer? So many different websites say so many different things I do not know who is right! Plus, my instuctor at my dance studio is stressing how in shape we need to be for the preformance and how we all need to be at slim weights so we will look "fabulous" on stage and in our costumes. So far I am the biggest girl in my 2 classes, whoop de do! (link)
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Hey hun. I am a dancer who is very muscular,5"1in and i weigh 130. You don't have anything to worry about. Who cares if you are not the skinny little twig. You have nothing to worry about don't stop eating don't obcess over this. We dancer's are amde of muscle and we can't loose that. PLease don't thin twice about this. Just be who you are and not someone who your not. Hope that helps ya
Love Meggs
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Well I like this guy Adam, me him and a bunch of other people went to see When a stranger calls and threw the whole movie we were flirting and you know the rest. Well Carly, the person who organzied the little get together. Well her mom came and she has a van it was really cramped up front so, a couple people (Me, Adam, 4 other friends) moved to the back and we laid down because Carly`s mom had a old van and it was able to turn the back into a bed so we did that. I was tired so I used Adam as a pillow and then I got up to fix my shoe (I had sandles on) and then I laid back down and he put his arm around my waist. & from about 11pm-2am we sat there kissing, holding hands so forth. Then I was confused because I didnt know he liked me like that so I called him and he said we should keep that to ourselves so I was like okay. Then he asked out Danielle ( a good friend of mine, she didnt go to the movies ) and I was lost because he just held my hand and kissed me then asked out my best friend. She hasnt said yes or no yet, but I really want him. I dont know how to get him to be mine and not hers. Please help ! (link)
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Well I think you shoud tell himm how you feel. If you don't tell him how you feel he will never know. After that if he still wants to go with her then let him. When they brak ujp give him a couple of days or wekks maybe and then ask him or flirt with him. Hope that helps ya
Love Meggs
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i want to impress my bf of 4 1/2 yrs. for v-day. and i want to do something fun a special. i want to go to dinner and wear a sassy dress and everything. but after that what should we do, that will make him feel loved. (link)
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Take him back home to a candle lit room and just sit on pillows and talk while sitting next to each other.
Have a good time with him by just sitting there and talkingt to him. Hope that helps you
Love Meggs
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This might be a dumb question, but whenever my boyfriend gets mad about something, or when he is in a bad mood, he always takes it out on me, and he's just in a bad mood so it makes me in a bad mood, and i was just wondering what I should do about it, like is there something that i can do about it to not get so upset about it, or like tell him or anything? I just don't know what to do. The help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. ♥ (link)
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Well if it is not violent then just listen to him and then later on when he cools down go and talk to him about it and very nicely explain why he shouldn't take it out on you or anyone else for that matter
Hope that helps
Love Meggs
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OK so on saturday is this semi-formal dance at my school and i dont know what to do with my hair. It's about 2 inches beyond the shoulder, really thick and reallyyyyyy frizzy. I could straighten it, but its gonna be hot in the gym so it wont stay. I can jut put it up into a pony or bun. But if i get it done it has to be something wickedddd simple because it's not like fancy. I have noooo clue what to do, and suggestions on how i should have my hair would be AWESOME (link)
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well one thing that i think is a hit is to put it into a half or full pony tail then spiral curl all of it or just seldum strands to make it look eligant. Hope that helps ya
Love meggs
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what is the quickest and easiest way to get rid of a sore that is in my mouth? it REALLY hurts! (link)
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origel, it works very well and very fast!!! hope that helps
Meggs loves u
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i have big issues with my weight and would like to know from experienced poeple what the best way is to start dieting and what is the best diet to do? (link)
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Well do not use any diet pille. They have this kinda of drug i guess in them and are very bad for you. What i did to lose a lot almost 40 pounds was just start eating right. Eat more fruits and vegetables in a day. Another thing to do ontop of that is if you eat out a lot, slim that dow to about 1 time a week. One other thing you could do is excersice one in the moreing for about 15 to 20 minutes to get a jump start on your day. By this you should minimize your weight by many pounds. Hope I helped you
Love Meggs
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me and this guy friend of mine kinda had this fling going on recently, where we werent quite going out but we both liked eachother and knew it and acted like we went out it just wasnt offical. He lives like 30 minutes away, so thats why we werent official, we hadnt gotten a chance to go on a date yet. Anyways, last night i told him that i didnt want my firt real boyfriend to be someone i barely see. And i do like him and he told me he loved me, but when i told him he said he was thinking the same thing and thought it wasnt the right timing. So i guess what im asking is how can two people love eachother and just leave the relationship? And well he said everything will be fine and that we could always go out when the timing was better, but i cant help feeling really depressed and guilty and i dont know like im making a mistake. how am i sopposed act with him now? please help i rate high and im really confused! (link)
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Well with the whole acting around him thing, act the same. He likes you because of who you are, not who you think you should be. If you act all different around him he might think u want him to ask you out or somehting like that so just be really good friends with him. Act just the way you do now and he shouldn't think anything different. Hope that helps
Love Meggs
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me and my best friend...well shes a girl...when we first became friends i liked her..and she liked me...we talked for a long time...but we she wouldnt date me i didnt kno why...i mean we had the best chemistry and everything it was almost perfect...well wen i did get enough courage to ask her out..she said no..and i was like wut...well she told my other friend...a guy..that it was bcuz i was black..well shes mexican..and that she doesnt think she could do that...she really cares wut other people think about her...well now we blew that off we neva dated...we juss stayed really good friends..but behind the curtain...we were preety much two love birds...now i still hav feelins for her and she has a boyfriend...i get the most jealous feelings...its crazi...theyyve been datin for 2 months now..and she told me today..and like i tryed to start a new subject..and she gets mad and tells me that i dont care..well my question is..i kno this is serious long...well ive told her that i dont like her no more..and she believes me..well the question is...wut should i do..tell her i still hav feelings for her..and tell her i dont care wut otha people think..i love you and you should b mine...or jus ignore my feelings and like another girl?? (link)
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Well in my opinion you wilol never stop loving the persom you are closest to. I think you should tell her how you feel and then still like her and everything but try to find anything gurl who makes you just as happy as she does. If you can't well then you will know that you two are ment to be she just hasn't seen it yet. Hope that helps
Love Meggs
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ok well theres this guy that im sorta goin out with...his names daniel. He asked me out in november, but then he got grounded and I havent talked to him in like 3 months. So i considered us broken up. I started liking this other guy, steffon, and yesterday my friend told him that she knew who liked him (i asked her to) but she didnt say my name...I went online after school and i got an email from my friend, saying that daniel wanted to take me to my schools valentines day dance. I feel awful now, becuase I dont know what to do. Either way, someones gonna end up getting hurt, but Im not sure who I should go with. I like daniel a lot, but im afraid that if we officaly start dating again hes gonna do the same thing. Please help me! ♥Danielle
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Well I thik you should go with who ever you want to go with. If someone is going to get hurt who would you rather get hurt him or you? If you go with him and have an aweful time well then what was the fun in that? nothing I think you just neeed to figure out who you like more
Hope i helped you
Love Meggs
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ok so me and my boyfriend went out for 9 months.. then the last 2 months all we did was fight and like we spent more time fighting than we did being happy. so we broke up, it was a mutual thing. okay well it was a week after and his exgirlfriend said that she wanted to go out with him. he asked me if it would be okay if he was with other people. he didnt specify that it would be his exgirlfriend. but i said yes just give it a week or so and it will be fine. instead, he asked her out(and by the way she's pretty much a slut), and he did it that same night like 15 minutes later. then i got mad and he got mad at me for getting mad because he said i never said give it a week but i did. i know i did. it's like i dont wanna be with him but i dont want him to be with her but i know i should just let it go. what do i do? (link)
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I think you should find somone to be with just like him. If he can get over you that fast maybe you should show him you are ok with him dating other people even though you arn't maybe he isn't ok with you dating other guys so i think you should try that
Hope i helped you
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Ok i'm 14/f and i have this bf who is 15 and we have been together for like ever. like 1 year and months but i know i need to break if off because he is the main source of my sadness and why i am always getting introuble. i can't though, its way to hard for. I really wish he would to me, so that i didn't have to do it, but that would probaly make me more upset and my mind would be so mad at myself. but i KNOW i have to, any idea's of how to make up my mind or know for sure if were meant to be truly? i love him so much and he understands me and can always make me laugh ectc. but when he's unahppy, i can never seem to make him happy, so he makes me unahppy.this is like alll the time. i hate it, but i can't ditch him for making me unhappy and depressed, can i? please help me out with sorting this out and everything, write me and i will write back with more information on the situation if you need more info. i just need some other opinons on this, because all my friends say to end it and no advice on the matter. thank lots
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Well this is the exact same thing that happened with me and my boyfriend. I didn't want to break up with him beause i knoew it would hurt him as much as it hurts me but he ended up breaking up with me. He now says he wants to get back with me but doesn't show it at all. I think you should not break up with him because he sounds like he really needs you to just be there for him. H eneeds someone who he can depend on as more then just a friend he needs you. If things are just not going well like at all then break up with him if you think it is the rigth thing to do but if you don't know it is probablly because you want to stay. If this makes any since and you need more help please feel free to write me back and ask anything else i am always here
Hope i helped you
Love meggs
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Hey im 15/f and i was wondering if there were any face products that actually worked on fighting zits and pimples. I tried almost everything! But it either makes my face dry or gives me more zits and doesn't work. I pop them when they come but they become a horrible problem.. so it there any products that i could use that work and wont dry out your face? And another thing is, i know that some foods will make you break out or do something to your face. What foods are thoughs? Thanks a bunch i rate high! (link)
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Well with the foods it just depends. With me food doesn't make me break out stress does. The 2 products i use that really work is nutrigina and proactive. I hope that helps you
Love Meggs
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Ive been having like really low self esteme issues for like the past year or so... ive done so much physical harm to myself but i know its not right.. but i keep doing it cuz its like an addiction.. in the past year my best friend killed herself..(over me to try and get me to stop) and ive been in an abusive relationship.. everything has just put me down.. even the smallest things.. and i dont ever seem to be happy anymore.. i dont know what to do anymore.. sometimes i think that life is just like a dream.. is there any way i could help this?? (please dont say a councelor ive tried many and none have helped)... (link)
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I'm not going to tell you to get a concelor. You Need a doctor first of all. There are these pills called anti depressant pills and they are for people like you who need some help in being happy. You can only get these by going to your doctor and asking for help. You need to try there first. If you would like anymore help please feel free to talk to me about anything
Hope that helps
Love Meggs
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