Ok, so my boyfriend wants to go to a hookah bar tomrrow night with him and all his friends..they all go sometimes and i never realy had any interest. If i don't go, he'd stay home because he doesnt wanna go with out me..but i feel bad saying no because i know he wants to go really bad. And the past few times i have said i don't wanna go and he's stayed with me I've told him to go without me though if i ever didn't want to. should i just go and make him happy?
babiidancer1231 answered Friday February 10 2006, 11:18 pm: Well I think you should go with him. If he has stayed with you when you didn't want to go and he satyed I think it would really make him happy if you go with him. If you go this one time and don't like it then you won't ever have to go again. Hope that helps
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honu22 answered Friday February 10 2006, 12:28 am: Don't let him pressure you. If you are even slightly unsure with it then you shouldn't go. I suggest to talk it out with him. A relationship is partly based on making eachother happy but you should not do anything you are unsure/uncomfortable with to make your boyfriend happy. [ honu22's advice column | Ask honu22 A Question ]
Krupple answered Thursday February 9 2006, 10:37 pm: If you are not comfortable for any reason, you need to tell him. If he says he really wants to go, but won't go if you don't, then he is trying to pressure you, and you should not give in.
Do you live near Dallas/Southlake/Ft worth TX area by any chance? Hooka bar has become popular around here lately. [ Krupple's advice column | Ask Krupple A Question ]
betterthanyou_X3 answered Thursday February 9 2006, 10:13 pm: Tell him you're not into that but if he is he should go. He shouldn't stay home just because you don't want to go out with him and his friends to somewhere he wants to go. That mus suck for him. But it isn't your fault. Tell him that he doesn't need to feel guilty or anything like that because you want him to have a good time. He should go and him a good time with his friends, and you'll be fine staying home. [ betterthanyou_X3's advice column | Ask betterthanyou_X3 A Question ]
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