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I am 15 yrs old and i am in my 11th year at hatbor horsham high school. I'm a typical teenager, and I've been told that im good ad giving advice, so i figured id statrt an advice column?! and im really bored lol. so yea...

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What are some good snacks? I'm trying to stay away from packaged snacks or sugary snacks.

uhm fruits and vegetables....duh?! lol
hope i helped!!!
-amber-

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ok my best friend and i are friends with benefits and for a while it's been working out but now i'm hugely late on my period and i don't know if it's stress or not. if i am pregnant i can't get am abortion because my best friend will never talk to me again, but i'm not sure that i'm ready to be a mother. what should i do??

omg you idiot. well you're pregnant!!! itsd a bouincing baby boy. congradulations. friends with benefits? ok./ but friends with benefits that ahve sex? no ok. thats fucked up man.you need help, go get a pregnancy test. sorry dont mean to be harsh on you but WTF WERE YOU THINKING CHILD?!?!?!?!?!?! hope i helped!!! and i hope you realized that friends with benefits that ahve sex IS NOT GOOD.
-amber-

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Well Me and My boyfriend of almost 2 years now are expecting a baby girl in just a few months.The problem is he doesnt have a job yet and has been saying hes going to get one for months now.Hes been looking and everything but still nothing.And everytime i talk to him about it hes always got the same stuff to say and sometimes gets mad about me always mentioning it.I want to believe that hes going to get a job soon so what to i do or say to him? :-/

start wailing out on him liek a mad woman..and then sit down with him and rationally discuss with him the importance of having money and that you need it so you can keep not just u and him, btu they baby clothed, fed, bathed, with a roof over her head. hope i helped!!!
-amber-

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i have a bump on the inside of my pubic area.. im almost positive its not HIV becaus i only have one & my boyfriend has no signs & hasnt been with anyone who has any.. its itchy & sometimes sore when irritated, im going to the doctor soon.. has anyone ever had one of these? what do you think it is?

well one it coudl eb a cancerous tumor, btu i dont know. two, people ahve so many STD's and dont even know it, you can STD's from deep throat kissing, ginfering, anything you can think of. If a cut is open opn him and open on you and they rub against eachother you can get one. anyway the buymd neer your vagina area is quesitonable. sometimes people dont know that they have an STD, most of them arent visible. go to the doctor and get tested i bet you have genital herpes. Hope i helped!!!
-amber-

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What are some things that me and my boyfriend can do to spend time together that doesnt cost money or at least is cheap? ...he lives like 40 min away so he comes over or i go over there and we meet half way. Either that or we go to the mall, movies, bowling, KD, and stuff like that. Anymore ideas? please help! :o)

go to either your house or his house, rent a movie, cuddle up on the couch with a bowl of popcorn, talk about some things and have fun.
hope i helped!!!
-amber-

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Why does it hurt more to take out a tampon when it hasn't soaked up enough blood?? sorry if that sounds really stupid..

because when u take out a tam[pon when it is full of blood it is easier to take out. the reasoning for that is because it is wet and moist and so is the vaginal area, therefor it is easy to take out. When the tampon is dry, you're vaginal area is also fdry b/c it had nothing to absrb before so it absorbs the vaginal fluids lining you vagina, and it pulls on the tissues and sometimes could tare them. if you're tampon is dry and has been in for over 8 hours you could get toxic shock syndrome, so a way to get the tampon out to make it easier if it is dry is to take it out while you are peeing. hope i helped!!!
-amber-

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Ok my friend is 12 years old and she's drinking and i don't know how to make her stop. she just started because she thinks she 'needs to' but i think its because this other girl does. please give me ideas or help me or something

Let ehr know the side effects of drinking and how it could effect her in the long run. If she ignores you and doesnt credit your advice then tell her parents. if her parents dont care and elt this go on, then ttalk to a cop or somehting about ti and ask them what you can do to help. you're frined would be mad at you for doing anyhitng i just said above. but in the long run after she is cured she would credit what you did for her. hope i helped!!!! -amber-

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Ok im 16 and i have this ex that is totaly clueless when it comes to EVERYTHING. I thought him alot of what he knows now and what he does with other girls. I dont know what he does to me even though we arent even together or any where close to it. But he still does something to me everytime i see him online or see his number on my phone. What is this im feeling and i want to get rid of it but it never seems to go away.

you still ahve feelings for him. If you wanna get ovee him then tell him not to call , approach or IM you anymore. If you need any mroe help drop more quesitons in my inbox....b/c im nto quite fully understanding what you're saying.
hope i helped though
-amber-

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Hi. Lately I have been really depressed and stressed out and my ex-girlfriend isn't helping. I have felt the urge to commit suicide because some people do not want to help. I have had a rough life and it has sucked. I have been dealing with a sick mother and I have stared to like someone. Me and my ex are close but she is starting to treat me like I am worthless. I don't know what to do anymore. I have tried talking to God but maybe not hard enough... anyway please help me! if you need more info i'll write again. Thank you. bye

Suicide is never the answer to anything. Keep your ex girlfriend out fo your life because its obvious that she's bringing you down. move on to another girl, or dont at all. It seems liek you have a lot on your plate rihgt now so take ti easy. But at the same time i understand why you would want someone by yourside to help you get through this. If you strongly believe in god and you think eh will help you, keep praying and whats happenes, happens, everythign happenes for a reason, just look at the brighter side of life. I'm sure your mom will turn out fine. If you need help from anyone i will be more then happy to help you. here my sn >>babelicousbooty9

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im 16 and been with my girlfriend for about 6 months my worry is my penis is really small
and im worried what she'll think will it matter?
Does it matter to girls?

well if shes shallow then it would matter but if she really loves you then it wouldnt matter. If you're that concerned about it though look for ways to make it bigger!!!!!
hope i helped!
-amber-

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Do guys like to be kissed with or without lip gloss? Wouldn't that be gooey and slippery? How can you tell if your lip gloss will taste good to him?

no no no..they dont liek that stciky smelly gooky stuff all over them...believe me.

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This question has to do with my boyfriend again. We've only been dating for 4 days, but have known each other for about a month. We talk even before we were dating every night for like 3 hours on the phone. So far, he treats me so great and I dont have any reason not to trust him. Let me add now that he is friends with my father and alot of my Dads friends. Well, he sometimes talks about marriage, which scares me a bit, but I honestly could see myself marrying him. Anyway, to get to the point, I was told tonight by 2 different people, my ex boyfriend and my best friends sister that I hate & she hates me, that my boyfriend has probably already cheated on me & that I need to keep an eye on him beacause he likes to cheat. Im really scared because, what if they are right. But considering the people that told me I dont know if I should believe them. I really like this guy am Im scared that if I say anything about what I heard that he will be pissed at me. What should I do? Should I say something to him & if so, what? Please let me know ASAP, I need to figure this out before he calls me later on tonight!!!

donotmarryhimendofstory

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okay i have this guy friend and see i dont know if i like him because i havnt seen him in a while and he gave me a hug today and i liked it and then he told me he got a girlfriend and i got mad does that mean i like him?

yup.

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hey im skinny...but like my thighs and stomach and upper arms are flabby!! i wanna get fit and tonned for skool which starts sept 8th...lately ive been jumping on my trampoline ALOT!! will that help?? where will it make me fit..will it help my stomach and stuff..just a big trampoline..

uhm..absolutely...NOT. trampolines dont do shit but maybe help youur leg muscles..try sit ups crunches, and weights for your arms, and thigns run around your neighborhood.
hope i helped!
-amber-

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ok here is my problem. I've always loved penguins, but lately I've been feeling a sexual attraction to them. now I think that's as sick as the next person, but there's just something about penguins. what do I do?

got o a penguin, ask them out on a date, haul them in a back of a truck, getting a shopping cart, lug their ass into a movie, go to the very top row right or left corneer of the theatre and ahve fun!!!
hope i helpd!!!
-amber-

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what happens during an orgasim? like what do you feel? whats going on that makes people moan or w/e

uhm... i wouldnt know. sorry.
sorry
-amber-

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Heyy i just wanted to say that you are so pretty!! hehe welll okay.. i get horny like alot, im a girl tho and i just i know theres like masterbation and stuff, but it just doenst cut it for me, and i KNOW im too young for like a vibrator or anything.. and like ive tried masterbating, cause one time i got fingered and it felt SOO good.. so like what do i do to give my self pleasure?

uhm...woah...ok... as of giving yourself pleasure mastervation is the only thing other then a dildo, if you seem to think you're to young for one. So the only oyher option is having a man do it for you, but make sure its a man that acred about you and all that good stuff. im not a sexual pleasure expert so i cant really give you a good straigt forward answer, and if you're too yuong for a didldo then you're probably too young to be worrying about giving yourslef sexual please too much. hope i helped!!!
-amber-

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I am 13 and Bi should i tell my parents??? cause i don't want them to hate me so i need to know

yes being open and honest is they key in life.

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does anyone know a HOMEMADE way to make a hair remover?? [preferably eyebrows] -i rate if its a answer that works-

honey, peroxide, vegetable oil, butter, and conrstarch, a tablk spoon of each, use it as a wax, and roll it off and it should work!!!
hope i helped
-amber-

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how the hell can someone kill their mother without getting caught? Or their father for that matter... ahhh that would be to easy though. drunken state and shit... god kill the fuckers... ok, but how do you think someone can do that?

if you're serious
YOU ARE ONE FUCKED UP MOTHER FUCKERRRRRRR
YOU NEED FUCKING HELP YOU PSYCHOTIC FREAK.

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