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Member Since: August 8, 2004
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ok.i got this new courdoroy tan/white skirt..what kind of shoes would be best to wear with it? Im not the best walker in heals lol. Would plain white sneakers be good? What kinda "fancier" shoes would be best?

Also..i have split ends...but i like my long hair..does layering it sound like a good idea? (link)
I suggest some sort of sandle for your skirt...it can be one with a heel or maybe something flat! If
you want it more casual than you could wear it with a sneaker if you really wanted to.

I used to have that sort of problem with my hair too! I suggest cutting 1 to 3 inches off of it and be consistant in trtimming it afterwards. Eventually your hair will be healthy! Also, it's better for your hair if you don't blow dry it very often, but let it dry naturally! Dyes are also very damaging for your hair. If you do want to layer it than go ahead! The end result will probably look good!


okay...i was with this guy for a month and then we had sex but the next day an old guy friend called me and we talked for a while even tho i was still at his house. then he got really upset and started yelling at me and i yelled at him saying how he cant talk to me like that and he slapped me across the face. i broke up wit him right then and there and called my sister to come pick me up and the next day he called me saying how hes so sorry he was just going through a lot and has so much stress on his back (which i knew he did) and he called me and asked me to take him back..this was today and i know that i shouldnt but i love him and i have all these feelings for him..what should i do because there is always a chance that he could do it again???? (link)
First of all, it would be a good idea if you talked to him face to face. See exactly what kind of things have been bothering him. Tell him that his stress problems shouldn't be released on you in any form of abuse!!! That includes excessive slapping, hitting, name calling, etc. If you really love him than try to work things out. However, make it very clear that if he has any sort of stress to talk to you about it freely, rather than bottle it up untill he explodes in your face! If it is true love than you should both be willing to work at fixing the problems.




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