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My names Carlee. im 15 im about 5"2 (yeah im short you dont have to tell me) i just recently moved to virginia. Im a pretty outgoing person i get along with everybody and if you dont get along with me then theres ovbiously something wrong with you lol. I've been through a lot in the past few years. you name it and i've probably been through it.

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I'm 15/f.
Usually a couple days before I start my period, I get this feeling like I really want to beat someone up that I hate. Lol, it's really weird. I'm not psycho or anything. I'm a really really happy person usually, and I'm super nice. It's just like 5 days or so before I start my period I just want to beat someone up. Is this normal? Does anyone else feel like this?

ohhh man lol im normally like that the week after my period and then while im on my period im like the nicest person ever. its just typical period hormones. it will go away just try not to enforce that feeling. hope i helped

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Sometimes I like a guy for a while, then I REALLY like him, then I don't think I like him at all and I see him again and I like him...agian. This all happens in one day. Is this normal?

It is perfectly normal lol in fact in going through it right now. I know in my situation its kinda like your talking yourself out of liking him bc your afraid you'll get hurt. At least thats what im doing sometimes. Just kinda go with the flow and if you find yourself REALLY liking him. tell him =]

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My name is ashley im 15 & i have this friend leanna .. we both liked the same person for the same about of time just about .. then she started goin out with him .. is that right .. i think if two friends like the same person neither of them can have that person cause its not fair .. she always uses the excuse against me that its happend before & she tells me im not a goodfriend and im selfish & if i was a good friend that i would be accpecting of this .. am i right or wrong in this situation? .. i feel betrayed because of her .. i never would do something like that to her .. so what do u think .. am i right to feel that way or am i wrong ?

i rate =)

ooooh you definetly have the right to be mad. I mean c'mon now your best friend stole your crush. I know with my friends if two friends like the same person your suppose to sit and talk with them. And if the guy likes one and not the other then the one he likes is suppose to talk to the friend. And if you would have agreed that it would be okay for her to go out with him then thats a different story. But she should have talked to you about it and made sure you were okay with it. In my opinion shes a little inconciderate of your feelings.

Hope i helped

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My best friend and i have known each other since 3rd grade but now she is HORRIBLE! She tells her other friends that she hates me and says mean things about me to other people! At scholl she ignores me and she is rarely nice to me! She is not as loyal and truthfull and just nice as she was! I need help! Also we have each others secrets! Please no smart ass comments! thanks
~Me

I'd say its time for a new best friend. I know its hard seeing as yall have been friends since 3rd grade which is hard. But if shes acting like that theres ovbiously something wrong. Confront her about it and ask her if you did anything to make her feel this way and if there is nothing you did dont completely shut her out but start hanging out with different people.

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This kid I know from school has become really good friends with me. He's average looking...but we have enough in common. He just admitted he likes me, and I admitted I kind of felt the same way. We dont wanna go out because we know it would ruin our friendship. Im just confused...i agree about not going out...but where to from here?

maybe its better for the two of you to be friends or maybe even try the whole "friends with benefits" deal but either way even if you guys do end up dating just make it clear that your not out to hurt him or vice versa and flirt with him. Maybe in a later time you guys will have a change of heart and end up dating.

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I'm 13/f and i have strech markd on my thieghs and weigh 113 lbs so am i fat and if so what are some tips to get trim.

no your not fat. Stretch marks just mean that your grew at a fast rate. trust me 113 is not fat

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what POSITIVE effects come from birthcontrol? i heard it lightens your period and helps you lose weight. can you take it even if your not/dont think you are pregnant?

I know i had to get on birth control to control my cramps. So i'd say it somewhat reduces them a bit. at least they did for me. and another positive would be that you never get any "suprises" you always know when its going to be

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What good *recent* scary movies have come out on DVD?

The amnityville horror . wow i dont know if thats spelt right but i just recently watched it this past weekend i watched it and i was practically attached to my friend lol

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Hiya i have natural wavey hair i normaly straighten it but i want to wear it naturaly wavey but the porblem is that poofs out too much at the sides when it drys has anyone got any ideas to help stop it poofing out.

will rate high for good answers.
thanks xxx

lol my hair is the same way. i use a product by Catwalk called Curls rock and i take a shower and then put my hair up in a towel. Dont let it dry but make it to where water isnt dripping from your hair and just apply that. It works for me =]

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when i use a hair straightener it straightens my hair but it doesnt exactly get the poofiness out so what im asking here is what can i do? does serum help so my hair will look thin and how much would it cost?

i have this problem too . I use uh BioSilk it can make your hair REALLY GREASY but after your done straightning it put like not even a penny size depending on how long your hair is. mines a little past my shoulders and i use that much and just flip your hair over and run it through your hands. Um i got mine at Trade Secret dont know if they have one where you are but im not sure how much it is.

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lately i've be really sad because i feel like i'm not pretty and the boy i've liked for so long likes my friend and he hugs her and everything and i feel like no one likes me and i know i won't get a date to homecoming



i need some advice

signed depressed

im kind of going through the same thing right now. but recently ive realized that i dont need a guy to be happy. i go out with my friends every weekend and have fun no attachments. Think of the bad things of having a boyfriend such as you cant flirt with every guy you want without getting in trouble and such and when you least expect it a guy will come along.

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What is the BEST energy drink for me to buy?

my favorite energy drink is BAWLS its really good and it works. If you have them all the time yeah it could hurt you but not if you take them every once and awhile.

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Hello...
i recently just broke up with my boyfriend.
now, i am a tom-girl. i hang out with ALL boys. and 2 of my best friends have a crush on me. my boyfriend was not okay with this... at all. he told me he broke up with me because he can't handle me hanging out with 2 boys (that like me) all the time. he just doesn't trust me. and he's already moving on. how can i make him see that i love him, and i only want to be with him? words aren't enough... and i just want him back.

Sounds like your ex got tired of competing with the other guys. im not saying give up hanging out with boys bc i do that too but try inviting him to hang out with you guys and maybe that will make him realize that there is no attraction between you and the other guys.

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well
i have a crush on this guy (Lets callhim bob) and we both happen to be going to the freshers party next week.
he said to his mates he wanted to get with me and they told me.
BUT
my best friend just told she fancies bob but she dosent know i fancy him too.
and she is also coming to this freshers party only because she knows im going and so is bob
i REALLY dont know what to do.
should i tell her i like him or shall i wait to the party and see what happens?
xoxox
i rate 5's

I would tell your friend before the party bc that way if she finds your flirting with him she will know that you cant really help it.

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I am 17 and a female. I am wanting to get blonde highlights. I tried the lemon juice out in the sun thing and it doesn't work on my light brown hair. I told my mom I want to go to a salon and get blonde highlights put in my hair. My mom is willing to let me get it done. Is highlights safe for the hair? Does is damage it or make hair fall out? Please let me know and if you can find any helpful sites on this please post it.

Thanks!

Highlights arnt bad for your hair but when you get it done make sure its what you really want bc some people end up getting highlights and then they dont get them touched up and it looks like they have really long roots and its extremely ugly. =]

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I need your opinion:
I have been love for four years.
I am 17 now.
Some people say I'm too young and others say that seventeen is ld enough to know what you want.
I've always been mature for my age and when I told everyone I was in love at fourteen, needless to say, they didn't believe it. But it has been years and I am still in love.
Do you think I'm "old enough" to be in love? If I am, then wasn't I old enough when I was fourteen because back then, I was sure I would be in love forever and I still am.

In my opinion if youve been with the same guy for 4 years now it has to be some kind of love lol i dont know if i could do it at this age but i think you can fall in love at any age. not like these girls now a days and say i love to her boyfriend after a week. Good Luck =]

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I want to do something special for each of my parents. They do so much for me so I want to show them how much I care. So what should I do? Nothing that costs a lot...Like Breakfast in bed is a good idea, but 1. I have school and 2. They wake up before me...any ideas???

Why dont you rent some movies and one night just watch movies and just hang out with them one day. I know my parents like that

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ok well a guy is switching schools on friday so i wrote him a letter about how i feel but i signed it as anonymous. it tells exactly how i feel about him. shouldi leave it how it is or put my actual name on it plaese help. i rate high

I think you should write your name . i mean theres a 50-50 chance that he could like you back and even if he doesnt. Hes at a different school and you can just denie the whole thing lol

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ok so there's this boy we had gone out a few times before but we broke up because he cheated on me, he told me he really liked me and wanted to go out with me again and promised he'd never do anything like that again and i definitly beleive him, i know for a fact that he's changed so we went out again but then we broke up because of the distance he lives in a town close to mine but we only see eachother on friday nights and weekends. so we started talking again and we both really liked eachother but a week went by and we hadnt talked i still had feelings for him and i beleived he still had feelings for me i went to a football game and he was hitting on one of my friends when i thought he really liked me, she's absolutly beautiful but i really want him to get to notice me again, i got mad at him and we were in kind of a fight but i couldnt stay mad at him and i kissed him at the end of the night and i think he may have started to like me again. how can i get him to really like me? i know a lot of people say he's not worth it but i don't care i really do like him .. what do you think? yeh so i recently called this boy, due to some advice i received, and i told him exactly how i felt, the advice was right i felt such a releif -so i had my friend ask him out for me because my stomach was tied up in knots and he said no because of the distance .. he then asked to talk to me and actually acted very sensative he asked me how i felt, and was shcoked to find out how much i liked him, he told me he'd call me back but never did - i'm so in love with him but what am i supposed to do? i want him, please dont tell me im too good for him, cause i dont beleive that i am..

I understand your tired of the whole "your too good for him" crap! personally i am too but what i would do is since you feel that you love him talk to him again and tell him that you need to know how he completely feels about you and then you and him together because it sucks to sit and wait around for a guy who will never give you a chance again. As for the old flirt with your friend thing just act like it didnt bother you bc theres a pretty good chance that he was doing it to make you jealous. and as for the whole different town it shouldnt matter if you see each other on the weekends i dont see what the big deal is . all you can do is talk to him.
(sorry so long )

hope i helped

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i well i got a cold sore yesterday and its not herpes or nething..and i have abreva...but my ? is..do u kno of ne way to make it go away faster?

thanx a bunch!!

I've always been told to rinse your mouth with Salt water. altho im not quite sure if it works. its worth a try tho. =]

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