i love music i have been told i give great advice except if i'm the one who needs the advice i get alog with most people as long as they get along with me i'm sumtimes a shy person (only in person)i'm in a relationship i live in wisconsin i kinda am a screw up but if other people need advice i can help ummm... well if u want to know anything else u can email me or w/e so yea ok then if you need advice i'm the one to come to and sorry i dont have a pic that will fit on here
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I really like this girl but am to afrain to ask her out or talk to her from fear of rejection. I really like her and want a relationship but i dunno what to do. Any advice? (link)
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Ok if you like her then what you could do is start writing her secret admireer letter or something and then start hinting who you are and that you like her then maybe if she does like you she will ask you out or whatever now just remember that everyone gets shy sometime girls are shy guys are shy so if she does like you but wont ask you out you might have to do it and if the secret admirerer thing doesnt work you could just have a friend ask if she likes you or have a friend ask if she likes you or something and then if she does you wont have to be afraid of asking her out so if i was any help to you at all please tell anyone who has questions or if you ever have anymore questions i can answer cause i know what your going through cause i've been through it before and i've been through alot so i relate to alot of questions and i'm sorry if i wasnt any help goodluck
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Is getting your tonsils removed painful when you wake up? A walk through of the procedure would be very helpful. Thanks, all answers are rewarded = ] (link)
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well it's not really painfull i mean you wake up with a bad taste in your mouth but not painful and what will happen is you wont e able to drink or eat anything the day before so then you will go into wherever your getting them out and you will change then they will take you into the room and put a gasmask on you so you will sleep then they will take your them out then they will take you into the recovery room and soon you will wake up they usally give you water then once you wake up more you will be able to eat jello or ice cream or something soft then you will go home and usally you have to take some medication after they are out for a week or 2 or something and yea thats all i know now if i was any help to you please tell others about me if you would and i'm sorry if i wasnt any help good luck
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Ok me and my girlfriend plan to have sex soon, the thing is that it is both of are first time and i know that sometimes it can be painful or uncomfortable for the girl. so i need some tips and advice on how to make it less painful/uncomfortable for her so she can enjoy it to the full. i dont like the idea of hurting her (link)
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ok well you sound like a really sweet guy and the only advice i can give is to take it slow tell her if it hurts to much that you will stop so just take it slow and make sure you tell her to tell you when it hurts to much and make sure you use protection unless you want to get her pregnant and also remember the first time is always painfull theres no way you can make it not painfull unless you dont have sex now i've heard that sex is pleasure for the guys and pain for the girls but girls can enjoy it to but we enjoy it more the second time or whatever time cause the more times you have sex the less painfull it gets and the more pleasurable it gets ok so if i have been any help to you please tell anyone who has any questions to ask me cause i can help now i'm sorry if i have not been any help to you good luck
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ok so here's the deal me and muh ex have been dating for 5 years on and off and we really love each other but the problem is we are broken up right now and well 2 of muh best friends like him but i know he likes me and wants to be with me but right now he's into football and i don't want to be in the middle of that cuz football season really sucks with him. anyways i want to be with him so bad but i don't know how to tell him. i mean it's never been hard to tell him how i feel but with these other girls it seems really weird. well...ya i love him and i need him back bad but i'm not sure wat to say. and how do i handle muh friends? thanx!!! (link)
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ok first to deal with your ex just be really supportive during football season give him some space if it seems he needs it or wants it then just tell him you want him back tell him that breaking up was a big mistake and that you need him and want him back really badly well dont make yourself sound to desperate but make sure he knows you love him and want to be with him then with your friends if they are your friends they will back off knowing he is yours but if they dont then they arnt really your friends talk to them tell them how your feeling and what you think then just take it from there ok so if i have been any help to you please tell any one who has questions about me and good luck
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I'm a columnist on here and have been for about a year or so. I've noticed hundreds of questions dealing with depression. While I understand that it seems to be more common in teenagers now, why is it that it is mostly girls? Is it the way they are raised? Is it imprinted in DNA? I'm interested in the psychological aspect of it and hope to major in it someday, but I've looked it up everywhere online and can't find a reliable source. Anyone know the causes of this or where to find it? Thanks. (link)
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depression happens to alot of teenagers i would know cause i am one and i know that it doesnt come from one specific source it comes from many things maybe from there parents or friends or the way people treat them just many things i dont think there is and if you want to study it ask around or something i know i was dpressed and kinda of still am cause i feel like i'm being treated like a kid still and cause of my weight cause i am very self concious and i feel like i wil never get married or anything till i lose some of this weight but i feel bad cause people are goin through so much worse things then me and i dont feel anything that has to do with me doesnt matter but i'm also concerned cause i feel that our generation of teenagers are expected to do sexual things at a younger age i have heard that some people are goin around having sex at the age of 12 or 13 and up well please tell people about me if i have been any help to you and if you ever have any question you can ask me
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ok i'm a girl and i really want to start shaving my legs but i cant ask my mom because im embarassed and kinda shy. i went to this website to get a free schick quattro women's razor and it came in the mail yesterday and my mom opened it (while i was on the computer downstairs) and she put it in her room. and today i saw the razor still in the package in her closet. the whole point of me getting that free razor is that i thought my mom would actully give it to me and be like "you can use this" or something so i wouldnt have to ask her myself. so what im trying to say is that how can i ask my mom if i can start shaving my legs? like not giving her a whole lecture just saying something quick like can i start shaving or something (without writing a note or anything) thanks so much and sorry if it was to much to read! (link)
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ok well this is pretty easy just kinda make a joke about it like rub your legs around your mom and say oooh i should start shaving my legs can i?? or something like that or if you have any friends have them say it in front of your mom jut have your friend say like you should start shaving your legs then have her or him ask your mom or be like dont you think she should start shaving her legs now if i have helped you at all please tell your friends or anyone who has questions about me please if you would and i'm sorry if i was not any help but if you have any other questions i'm here you can ask good luck
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what do you do if you like two guys at once and they both like you?? (link)
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well normally what i would do is make a pros and cons list for both guys then just follow my heart but that sounds really cheesy doesnt it?? well i guess just figure out wich guy you like more i mean you can make a pros and cons list for both themand see so w/e hope it all works out for you and if i helped you in any way please tell friends or people who have questions to ask me cause i can answer them
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Hi I am 15/f
Like typical teen girl, I have a boy problem. Lets say this guy's name is Conrad. I think I like him, I mean I always thought he was cute ever since last year but never really talked to him because
1. he is super shy
2. we never had a same class
so I just let it go, because he is not extremely cute. In fact my friends think I'm kind of weird that I like him because he's just not that type of a guy that girls go after. Which by the way are guys that I am attracted to a lot. Those guys who aren't good looking at all, to all other people, but whatever, because I think they are cute but getting back to the point.
So the 9th grade passed by, and then 10th grade started and I now have 2 classes with him. But we don't sit near each other, because the seating arrangement is in ABC order, so we sit far away from each other. So I kind of let that go too, but one day, I just happened to sit next to him at computer lab and we just kind of talked for a while, and now I say hi to him in the hall way and I talked to him more. But he is just so shy and I dont know what to do. I mean I dont want to scare the guy away by straight out asking him if he likes me or asking him out or anything. Also I am not sure if this is an infatuation, which I happen to have a lot, in fact all of my previous relationship was infatuation that never lasted longer than 2 weeks. So I dont know about that either.
I mean "Conrad" is a great guy. He's smart, he's polite and all that, and i happen to find him cute.
But I can't really see myself holding hands with him, hugging him, and etc...whole bf/gf stuff...
What do I do?
Pleaseeeeeee help
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ok first thing you want to do is to find out if you really like him now here are some signs that you may see if you like him
1.)thinking about him/her alot
2.)smile when you think/talk to him/her
3.)just like talking to him/her for no reason
4.)talk about him/her alot to your friends or someone
5.)are scared of him/her not likeing you
now those are all signs i see when i like a guy i dont know if they might be the same for you but they could be then once you know you like him a easy thing to do could be to write him secret admirer notes/letter/emails when and if you do this make sure you make it clear that you like him then after a while give him some hints about yourself but dont give it away see if he can figure it out if he cant then you will have to tell him and i can help you with that now if you you dont want to do this secret admirerer thing then just go up to him sometime and tell him you like him but when you do act kind of shy so he doesnt feel like the only one now you have to tell him you like him first cause he is shy when you tell him and are acting shy just go to say it like hey ummmm.. i need to tell and ask you something but it's kind of hard to ask ok well ok i like you and i dont mean to put you on the spot but i was wondering if maybe you liked me too then wait for the answer then ask him out and if you use this advice or need more just ask me and i woud love to hear how it all works out whether you use my advice or not and if you like the advice please tell others about me cause i can help
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hey...well my problem is that i dont know whether i should break up with my boyfriend. we've been dating for a year now and i do love him..but the thing is that we're only in high school and i think i'll regret it if i dont go to dances and stuff with just my friends and not have to worry about a guy. but hes so sweet and we're perfect for each other. idk wut to do!!! (link)
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what you can do is talk to your boyfriend you both have friends and you both should hang out with them just ask him if some school dances if you both can go with your own friends and if you dont think he will understand or you dont think you can talk to him or you dont think he will listen or something then write him a letter explaining it that away you can explain it well and read over it if i have been any help to you please tell anyone who needs advice to ask me cause i can help i'm sorry if i wasnt any help
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I curentally live with my boyfriend and his great family. Everything is great except I wonder one thing, he is 19 years old and anytime we go anywhere he mom calls to see where we are and when we are going to be home, he also cant go a day without talking to her, and can never stand up for himself when she says no. She also calls him habebe whichs means "my baby", and she says she dosent like it when he is out late. I understand she is worried but he is 19 years old and I thought at 19 they would be a man. Mabye I am wrong but I was thinking of marring this guy because he is the love of my life but I dont wanna marry someone who is attached to there mother and can never grow up and be a man. Mabye its just me But i would really love any advice anyone can give me! Thank yOU!! (link)
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ok if you have not already tried go talk to him tell him how you feel i guess tell him that he is 19 years old and he can still see his mom and talk to her but that he has his own life he needs to start without his mom help him stand up to his mom then if he still cant get over his mom you might have to make him choose but just remember noguy is worth the pain unless they are the love of your life so make sure he is the love of your life also try talking to his mom just sit her down and tell her that you know she is worried about him but that she needs to let her son go he has his own life and he needs to get it started now this was kind of coplicated qestion or me but if i am any help to you at all please spread the word about me i'm am sorry if i did not help
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ok so i hav a boyfriend i really love him but the problem is he lives half way around the world my friends hav all told me to try to get over him but i just cant ive tried but i cant seem to get over him i love him so much but the distance is so hard what should i do?? (link)
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if you two love each other the distance shouldnt keep you apart or tear you apart i'm going through a similar situation so i know how you feel you dont know if you should give up and move on or stay together well i am only 13 just so you know and your prolly thinking what do i know i'm younger then you but just listen me and my boyfriend love each other or he has told me so but we are goin to just keep in touch then when high school is over we are going to hookup so if that helps in anyway, anyway back to you if you know you two will be together someday then just do what we are doing keep in touch try a long distance relationship and if that doesnt work then just keep talking then someday when you two meet you can hookup if that makes any sense well if i helped you at all pleas tell your friends or anyone who needs advice to ask me cause i can help
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14/f. i'm fine with my weight, it is just that i would like to get a flatter stomach. i already eat healthy, drink lots of water, and i know that i need to exercise in order to reach my goal. but everytime i try to exercise, i get lazy and stop, or i never start at all. what can i do?
and what are some easy exercises to do at home? i already do crunches and bicycles, but i know i need to do some kind of aerobics. i want to do something that i can do at home. like i dont want to go running, jogging, or walking. i also don't want to have to buy a video. i know i'm being picky but i just don't have the money to buy a workout video.
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ok if you want an exercise that is easy to do or something you are not going to find it cause exercising isnt easy but one way i like to use is just to dance cause it is fun and prety easy for most people just if a good song comes on the radio or something turn it up and dance and you can also have a sleepover or something and dance with your friends or go to school dance now if u dont want to dance then what you could do is maybe if you are tired or lazy just get more sleep and take a shower before you go walking or running or jogging or you can drink energy drinks but not coffe cause that can stunt your growth so you go walking around hanging out with your friends cause then you are not by yourself now thats all i got for you and if i was any help at all please tell your friends or anyone who needs advice about me and i can help and if you have any more questions just ask me if i was any help
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So I have this HUGE crush on this guy. But 'this guy' is no ordinary guy, he's the most popular guy ever! I know we have a lot in common and we would be perfect for eachother. But the problem is since he is sooo popular he has a lot of other girls after him. (The only reason all the other girls want to date him is because he is popular and cute, but they don't know ANYTHING about him.) Just to let you know I liked him before he came Mr. Popular.. See first I heard somethings about him and I thought he was just the sweetest, kindest, funniest guy and one day soon after I saw him... And it didn't take long until he was popular. So my question is should I just take a chance and do whatever I have to do to get his attention? Or should I just forget him? And if you say forget him, how? He is not an easy guy to forget. Please and thank you (link)
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first if i'm any help to you tell people abou me please and if u ever need more advice u know where to go anyway ok so he is popular so if you like him ask him take a chance and just ask him out now if or when he says yes take it from there if you two end up loving each other then the other girls wont matter if not he is not worth it no guy is unless it's the guys you are destined to be with anyway yea ok if you like the answer and if i am of any help to you tell people about me and if you ever need more answers i can help
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