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Hey I'm 13/f, and I've been going out with someone for about 7 months now. I've become madly in love with him, too. So far things have not been going really bad, but the thing is he's not a big romantic person, nothing eventful in our relationship has happened yet. I'm scared of telling him, and the thing is I don't think he'll take it too seriously, and probably think I'm too demanding cause I prolly have complained alot to him anyways. So what should I do? I don't want to leave him, and I actually told him that I love him, but as expected, he really hasn't said much yet and pretends that nothing has happened. (link)
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You should tell him how you feel. Relationships are only meaninful as long as they're open. If you don't love him anymore, you should tell him that. Don't let him think you still love him. Even if it doesn't mean that much to him. If he's hurt than it means he cares. If you want something to happen, you should make something happen, and don't wait for something to happen. Be proactive. If he's not romantic, don't make him be romantic. Let him be himself. Don't try to change him intentionally. Don't be scared to tell him anything. It's not healthy for the relationship. And lots of girls complain to guys, truth is if they really care about you, you can complain as much as you want. Some guys actually find it cute sometimes. If you don't want to leave him, then don't. You shouldn't do anything you don't want to. Maybe he's holding stuff back too cause he's scared. You'll never know til y'all are straightforward with each other. Hope I helped!
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My best friend told me that my boyfriend was flirting with one of my friends. I dont know who to believe.. my boyfriend said nothing happened but he might just be trying to not hurt me. But then again i think my best friend is trying to break us up. Who should i believe? My best friend or my boyfriend? PLease help. (link)
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You should talk to the girl she said he was flurting with.
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Im am 16 year old female and my 18 year old boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now. A week ago i said i didnt trust him because i heard he was flirting with his friend.I was hurt up until i heard it was part of there relationship. I really do trust my boyfriend and didnt mean to say that i didnt. I have told him a million times i didnt mean it but things havent gone back to normal. He says he still hurt by what i said. What should i do?? (link)
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Well you can't blame him because trust is very fragile. Takes time to build but is shattered in seconds. You're just going to have to build it back up with him. Apologizing only does so much. You need to show him you trust him. Don't just tell. Showing does much more than telling because anyone can tell anyone anything. It's not going to be easy. Trust is one of the most important things, if not the most, things in a relationship. If you think he's worth it,start trusting him. Let him borrow your stuff or whatever you need to do to show him that you trust him. Hope I helped. Good luck.
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I'm babysitting this little boy and he wont listen to me at all. I told him it's time to eat, he wouldnt eat. He also wont go to sleep... I need help before the parents get home because I want to be asked again to babysit for them!
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Just tell the parents that he won;t listen to you, and if they're anything like my parents they'll ground him or something.
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f/13 im going out with this guy....lets call him bill. ok well i met bill at a convention thingy away from both of our hometowns. we got each others numbers and talked on the phone after we got back to our houses blah blah blah and now were going out. he lives about 2.5 hours away. now i was talking t this other guy who i recently went out with and ever since we broke up weve been pretty much best friends and talked on the phone all the time. he lives about 5 minutes away but he is moving about 30 minutes away(no biggie) lets call him fred. so im currently going out with bill right...and im was talking to fred on the phone and we still both love eachother more than anyone would believe and we got to talking about our relationship (i was thinking about dumping bill to go out with fred anyways) blah blah blah and i ended up asking fred out. of course he said yes and the problem now is that i have 2 boyfriends and ive never been the person that cheats. so what i want to know is how do i dump bill with out hurting his feelings and still be really good friends with him???? HeLp Me pLeAsE!!! ThAnX! (link)
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There's no easy way. Someone's going to get hurt already as it is. There's something in the bible about if someone serves two asters eventually they will turn on one. Or something like that. Let him down easy though. probably best if you don't tell him because it's of another guy because that'll just make it harder for him. Tell him that long distance relationships are just to hard for you, which they can be for some people.
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I've looked but cant fund the site counters.. where you put a counter on a site to say how many people have visited..
i know of coolcounters.com ..but does anyone know of anything else? (link)
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There's always www.sitemeter.com or www.bloke.com
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i've like this boy ever since the first time i saw him in one of my classes at the beginning of the year. i told him that i liked him and he said he didn't like me. i was heart broken. i'm frnds with him now but i think i still have feelings for him. i've never felt this way about a boy b4 and i no he doesn't like me and next year he's going to a different high school next year. it feels like i wont be able to live w/out him. i mean at least now he's my frnd and i see him everyday but next year i wont see him. he'll 4get me but i'll remember him. i don't no what to do! i feel like a big part of me is going to be gone. wat shud i do?
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As you grow up in life you'll find out there's a lot of things in your life that you can't control. But it's not easy but over time you'll accept the fact that there's nothing you can do and it'll pass. You should enjoy what time you have left with him instead of living in fear of the future.Best of luck to ya.
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I have a 36 year old son who is married with one child. For about a year he has slowly sunk into the depths. His wife has kicked him out of the house. He now lives in his truck. She tells me he is drinking heavily and smoking crack/crank. He refuses to get help. My question is: Do you think I should report him to the police before he harms himself or an innocent person driving around like this. Thanks, Christy (link)
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I think you should. Drug abuse isn't something pretty. If he doesn't snap out of it soon it could worse. You don't want to imagine the possibilities of it getting worse.
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are the cookies in the computer bad? should i delete them? if so which kinds ? (link)
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You should only delete them in on public computers.
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I used to be a very shy person but as the years went on i became less shy. I still am a little shy. But anyways there is this girl in my study and she is like sooo coolest person you'll ever meet, we've become really good friends in the last month or so when ever im around her my confidence level and self-esteem go up. Whenever she'll call me or we'll talk on im i get like shy and dont know what to say. How can overcome being shy? What should i talk about wen im on the phone with her?? Sry it's long. Thanks in advance for the help!
semi- shygirl (link)
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If you're shy then be shy. If you're out-going be out-going. The only reason you don't say much around her is because she leaves you breathless. If she doesn't accept you for who you are, you're better off without her. You can always talk about yourself. Like sports,music, etc. Something usually comes up.
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Okay- Ready?
I am going to make like a powerPoint for my boyfriend!
Like with all of our pictures, and little things offline that say stuff like "I Love You" and things like that. We have been together over a year. Do you guys think that that would be cool? like with all of the memories and stuff??
:)
What do you think?
or anything else i could do to it to make it even more AWESOME!!
*-KeLs-*
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That's sweet. He should like it if he cares. And seeing as y'all have been together over a year he cares. It's nice to see highlights in a relationship. Memories are forever.
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ok i have a problem also.. but first of all im in 7th grade.. so its about a boy nd like not many ppl go out with ppl.. cuz its a catholic school..just to let you know.
well i liked this guy since like november.. and my frend thought that he liked me too.. but hes like super popular.. and im like 1 step away from being a total loser.. but theres only 3 groups and im in the 2nd.. so i got 2 shy 2 ask him if he likes me or sumthin.. and i have a major crush.. like HUGE.. and now i just found out that he is starting to go out with this girl.. and im just really mad.. i dont know how 2 like feel better.. im misrable.. and im always really hyper in school and i'm always smiling and laffing.. no one has seen me sad.. except for like once.. but only a couple of people saw me.. so today and yesterday i was happy as usual.. so no one knows that i like him.. except for my frends..but no one could really tell.. so today i was really misrable.. and i was soo sad.. and now i hate the girl that hes goin out with.. and idont know what 2 do.. please help me!!
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Maybe he does like you but is scared to ask you out because he doesn't think you like him and he's scared of rejection. Or maybe he's with her to see your reaction. There's a lot of uncertainties. Only he knows what you're looking for and only you are the on who can find what you're looking for. Best of luck to ya. Hope I helped.
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The boy "C" I have been talking about is starting to talk to me again. Well not actually talking but I'll hit him and he'll hit me back and he'll sit next to me. Anyways a whole lot of people is telling me that they like him and they have way more better chances of going with him than me.But you see I really really like him. We havent actually had a serious conversation because of all those girls that always all up on him and if there not around then his little clique is around. I really need to know what to do around like 1:30 today it will help me a lot! (link)
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Tell him your feelings for him and if he sees past all those other girls then he'll see your the one he wants to be with. If your not y'all can still be good friends.
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This boy we call Pogo thinks I like him but I dont at least not anymore. At first he was all I thought about but now since I got a really good look at him he is ugly. I mean he has yellow teeth and he cant walk straight he smells funny and look so gay.I dont even want to be his friend anymore because he is so annoying. So what should I do? (link)
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Tell him you don;t want to be friends with him anymore. If your not comfortable with him you shouldn't be his friends. Friends are supposed make you feel good about yourself and someone you can talk to and be with. But if you don't feel that with Pogo then y'all aren't really friends.
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hey everyone
well today is report card day. I'm home from school because of it (today school is 1/2 day) What happens is our parents go to school to pick up our report cardds. Right now i'm a nervous wreck! It's because i still have to wait a few hours befor getting my grades. I'm really stressed. Is there anything i can do to relieve the stress untill later??
please help (and no answers like "do drugs") thanks! (link)
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Just do stuff to keep it off your mind. Like basketball or TV or whatever you do.
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ohkay.. a few days ago i asked a question about how would a guy like a girl to make the first move as far as making out. i didnt get the kind of answer i was looking for. can anyone give me a detailed answer on a good SPECIFIC way to make a first move as far as making out? (link)
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Just kiss him and don't remove your lips. That's all there is to it.
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just warning you, this may get long!
last night me and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years were in my room and sleeping. not fooling around, literally sleeping. then my dad comes in and freaks out bitching like we had sex or something.
the situation is that i'm the only girl in the family and they treat me like crap. i do the dishes almost every night, take care of my sick grandma, do the laundry, clean the house, and do well in school yet they still look down upon me like i can't be trusted. i am a very responsible girl and i have had enough of them snooping through my room and checking up on me.
the only possible reason why i think they could be acting like this is that we don't communicate very well with each other, let alone get along. maybe bitching is their way of talking to me? even so, that doesn't explain the overprotectiveness!
my question is what can i do to make them trust me? i feel like i've done everything, all ending in failure.
i used to really HATE them for what they put me through, but when they made an effort to BE NICE things got better. our relationship has improved over the past two of months, but after what happened last night, my grudge against them has returned.
please help, i don't know what else i can do. it seems like nothing is ever good enough for them...
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Sometimes parents make you feel like a failure because they want you to feel dissapointed that you let them down so that way you push yourself to do better when really theyre pleased with you. Asian parents are usually the most overreactant parents. You're 18? What are they freaking out about? You're legally an adult. I think you should talk to them about it. If they take it the wrong way then explain it to them. If they just keep yelling at you and stuff then just stop talking to them and wait for them to apologize. But probably wasn't very wise to sleep with your boyfriend when your parents are right there.
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i wanna be a cheerleader but i dont think i can. what knid of things do you have to know how to do.i rate good
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Probably need to know a lot of flips and routines and definetely can't be shy wearing a miniskirt. And need to be hot and skinny. =p
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hey there,
theres this guy at school I really really like.
Before our xmas vacation,we had this party at school. Out of no-where, he just said "hey S".
A week later, he asks me about the yearbook comitee.
After the vic, we had PE together, he called my name and when I turned, he waved with a big smile on his face. I was so surprised, after that I developed a crush on him. But all he does is say "hi" and told me one funny thing my guyfriend did(they're in the same class). I really dont know, does he have a crush on me? Every time I decide to give up on him, someone says he glanced at my direction or was staring at me.
I really need your advice, should I wait or should I give up on him? (link)
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Don't give up on people. Always have faith in people and more importantly yourself. Maybe he's playing hard to get. Drop a little hints to show you like him or something. But don't give up on him.
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i am sooooooooooooooo fuckin fat. i eat healthy and do 50 sit ups and do track and run up lke 20 stairs at least 2 times a day!why the fuck am i so fat and how can i be skinny again? please help im so desperate. (link)
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Do more exercise. It's a slow process. It's going to take time.
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