Hey I'm 13/f, and I've been going out with someone for about 7 months now. I've become madly in love with him, too. So far things have not been going really bad, but the thing is he's not a big romantic person, nothing eventful in our relationship has happened yet. I'm scared of telling him, and the thing is I don't think he'll take it too seriously, and probably think I'm too demanding cause I prolly have complained alot to him anyways. So what should I do? I don't want to leave him, and I actually told him that I love him, but as expected, he really hasn't said much yet and pretends that nothing has happened.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? apk979 answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 1:50 pm: You should tell him how you feel. Relationships are only meaninful as long as they're open. If you don't love him anymore, you should tell him that. Don't let him think you still love him. Even if it doesn't mean that much to him. If he's hurt than it means he cares. If you want something to happen, you should make something happen, and don't wait for something to happen. Be proactive. If he's not romantic, don't make him be romantic. Let him be himself. Don't try to change him intentionally. Don't be scared to tell him anything. It's not healthy for the relationship. And lots of girls complain to guys, truth is if they really care about you, you can complain as much as you want. Some guys actually find it cute sometimes. If you don't want to leave him, then don't. You shouldn't do anything you don't want to. Maybe he's holding stuff back too cause he's scared. You'll never know til y'all are straightforward with each other. Hope I helped! [ apk979's advice column | Ask apk979 A Question ]
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