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Part of this is advice, and the other part is stuff I want to know. I am possibly thinking about relocating from Grand Rapids, MI to the Dayton Ohio area. Unfortunately, I don't have much money to move at this time, nor do I have a vehicle or license. A few reasons why I want to move is 1, can't find a job here where I live, 2, I kinda want to get away from family. I would probabily be going alone unless someone wanted to tag along with me. For those who have relocated from one place to another, how was it for you? Also, what should I expect? (link)
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expect the worst....
never do anything drastic with out a plan...
always have a back up plan.....
at least you need to have money saved for 2 months...
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22/f
Not sure where to put this so I am putting it in both
Hey guys, would you ever be able to have a live in relationship with your girlfriend but respect her wishes in not having sex till she‘s ready( which probably wont be till marriage)? And keeping faithful??? Or would you not live with her? I was curious if you guys would be able to handle it because I might be moving in with my boyfriend but I want to get a good estimate on how many of the average guys would go for this. Would it drive you nuts sleeping next to your girlfriend and not having sex? Or could you tolerate it? I would really like to know. Thank you. Girls feel free to respond too
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well, it takes a lot of self control not to be able to not have anytype of desire to touch your partner which eventually becomes more intimate...
So under those circumstances it would not work...
If you don't want to have sex then don't live with him.. just live separately...
DON'T MOVE IN TOGETHER....
Even the most control male in the world will not be able to control himself after weeks of sleeping in the same bed
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i have had two sexual partners and i have not enjoyed sex with either of them! if it goes for too long i end up becoming unlubricated and we cant continue its really embarassing! although i can bring myself to orgasm, i dont know whats going on and i dont want my boyfriend to think its him when it actually happens with all guys (link)
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the answer to your problems is that you need to spend more time doing foreplay... and make sure you tell your boyfriend that he needs to help you with that so both of you can enjoy it.
always be honest with him,, otherwise he is going to think that you are enjoying it...
We, men, listen to your needs....but we can't read minds
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hey its brittany..... well i didnt do it and i am glad. shenaye asked him if he liked me and all he said is that we are better as friends.....so i am an idiot and you were right. (link)
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well, like I said before,, you are very attractive and you have to do is just wait to find the right guy...I just hope that u don't fall for a dumb guy..
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Im still a virgin and i was wondering to thoses who are no longer a virgin do you wish you were or are you glad you had sex cause i want to have sex but then again when getting married it would be alot more fun (link)
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I think you should do it with someone after you have had a good relationship instead of a fling.
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hey im a 14/f and yeah i know your thinking wow she is young to be hving sex!! but i dont want to have real sex or anyhting and neather does my boyfriend but we want to have oral sex , How do you do that please help and one more question what kind of noises should i make to turn him on ?? (link)
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start crying and then roar like a lion...sing "smack that"
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im doing a thing and was wondering where do you think is the best place to have sex be creative!!! (link)
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if you want to be really creative,, then you should do it on a big tree!!!!!!!!!!!!
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this is brittany, i just read the questions you have answered andyou are going to get taken off if you keep being so mean..... mr. z.... you CANT call people stupid no matter how true it is!!!!!! (link)
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no, sometimes people need to hear the truth so they will wake up out of their misery....!!!!!!!!!!
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Background: I love her. I had to move last year for my work, but I made her the pledge that I would love her forever. As one of the things we did- I opened a joint back account with her- where part of my paycheck every 2 weeks would be deposited into that account. We "broke" up two months later. That account never closed. She started dating someone else. Now- she's using that account and now is spending like there's no tomorrow- 3300 dollars in 5 weeks.
But I still love her- and I can't close the account. What should I do? I don't know how to confront her if I should. I'm a fool. (link)
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No you are not a fool, YOU ARE STUPID.........
How come u can't close the account....
Stop the direct deposit.....
NEVER OPEN A JOIN ACCOUNT UNTIL U R MARRIED
sue her!!!!!!!!
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I have been married for 8 years & for certain reasons have fallen out of love with my husband. Sometimes I even hate him. This is been going on for a while now. He knows I don't love him anymore & I want a divorce. The problem is he is threatening suicide & begging & pleading with me to stay & claims he can't live without me! This is driving me even more crazy. How can I make a clean break like this? How do I go about getting out when he is acting this way? Any words of advice would be a big help. Thanks. (link)
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well, the classic answer is COUNSELING.
and you have not fallen out of love. Probably you would still care for him or be patient.
anyways.. sometimes you just have to pack your bags and leave...
You can't feel guilty if he does something stupid to himself...
Do u have a stable job??
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I am a 26 year old mom of 2 girls who has been dateing a 33 year old who has never been married and has no kids. He loves to play darts and is 3rd in the region. I want a family again and love him very much we do live together but the only problem is his bar buddy's always call him and want him to go down to the bar to "play" darts but then he comes home drunk.I don't know what to do especially when his friends say "ask your mom if you can come and play" He is so use to being a batchlor I don't think he knows how to handle it. How am I suppose to handle it? (link)
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Easy,,,
You need a man who either has kids of his own or has been around kids.. this guy is there just for the free sex,, but he is still a kid in his heart..
it seems that he puts his friends before you...
BIG SIGN OF NO COMMITMENT
DO U SEE IT???
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for over a year [1yr3m] and face it, it's not the same. I love him as a friend, but I really don't think I feel anything relationship-wise with him. I really don't want to go out anymore because I feel like I'm just putting on an act, and he can tell that it's not the same anymore because I'm not as touchy anymore and I don't show much emotion at all. My friends know that I can't really stand him as a boyfriend anymore. It's just that everything he does annoys me, and it's not his fault, it's mine. I just want to move on and just be friends. But I can't find the nerve to do it, because it's so tough because we've been going out for so long and he's probably one of the few people that I can tell almost anything to and I feel myself around. First question: How can I build up the courage to actually do it? Tips please?
Second Question: We went on a break around Christmas (I enforced it) I was like' I don't want to go out anymore' and he thought it was just a break. Throughout the whole break he kept asking what he did wrong. He didn't do ANYTHING!, it's just not the same anymore. He just keeps saying 'there has to be a reason, things don't just change like that ..how can you just all of a sudden stop liking me' It's things like that that I don't know what to say to. I hate how I have to explain everything, but I guess he deserves it. How can I answer all these questions? It's not like he did anything, it was just the relationship lost it's spark. If I said that, he just DOESN'T GET IT! He keeps asking what happened, even if there wasn't a specific event. How can I get it through his mind that he didn't do anything wrong, and what can I say without sounded like a complete bitch (even though dumping somebody is bitchy).
It's not like I want to, (even though I do) but it's more like I need to, because I'm not happy, and I'm not acting happy around him which doesn't make him happy.
Any relationship advice, personal experiences would help me so much.
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Simple. Tell him Johnny my heart does not feel any passion love for you anymore. It died.. but I will remember the great times we had....
bye...I guess I was not in love....
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So, I have been going out with this guy, for a little over three weeks. He told me that he can't see us in the long-term having a relationship because I'm an atheist and he's a catholic. Like, when we get married - everything will just be screwed up. He said he still wants to be friends with benefits, the thing is. I can't understand why he would want to be that, you know?
What would you do? (link)
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just laugh, and tell him that he is a hypocrite because the Bible says to respect women in other words to be pure in heart. Tell him to go and read the Bible.
May be u should read it too!!!!!1
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Whats something thats kinda like myspace, except couples gave have one?
My boyfriend and I want to get something similar together. Any Ideas? (link)
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