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mostly aimed at guys...what would you guys do?
22/f
Not sure where to put this so I am putting it in both
Hey guys, would you ever be able to have a live in relationship with your girlfriend but respect her wishes in not having sex till she‘s ready( which probably wont be till marriage)? And keeping faithful??? Or would you not live with her? I was curious if you guys would be able to handle it because I might be moving in with my boyfriend but I want to get a good estimate on how many of the average guys would go for this. Would it drive you nuts sleeping next to your girlfriend and not having sex? Or could you tolerate it? I would really like to know. Thank you. Girls feel free to respond too
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hey, personally it would be hard for me... sleeping in the same bed... living together... to me it would sound like ur giving me all the right signs... just tell him that u want to wait and for it to be special... he will understand
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i think it would be hard for some guys, but it depends on the amount of trust that you have built up with him. if you can trust him with your life and you love eachother enough, im sure he will respect your wishes.
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I know of a situation where the opposite is happening... the guy wants to wait until marriage, and the girl doesn't. They're living together with my boyfriend and I, and they're doing just fine. Because she loves and respects him, she's willing to wait as long as it takes for him.
It's definitely a good idea to live together before marriage, because you've got to know what you're getting into!
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well, i dont live with my bf, seeing as im 14. but hes 16 almost 17 and doesnt want to do anything outside of marriage. and hes suppose to be a horny little bastard at his age, so im sure your bf will be able to constrain himself. =]
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well, it takes a lot of self control not to be able to not have anytype of desire to touch your partner which eventually becomes more intimate...
So under those circumstances it would not work...
If you don't want to have sex then don't live with him.. just live separately...
DON'T MOVE IN TOGETHER....
Even the most control male in the world will not be able to control himself after weeks of sleeping in the same bed
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