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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...
*~respect yourself~*

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I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess.

what kind of person are you to consider committing suicide? you brother and his wive obviously love you so how could you do that to them? my cousin did it and you dont realise what kind of mess you leave behind when you kill yourself. everyone goes through a bad time in their life but we manage. if it's too hard, see a psyciatrist or talk to your brother. dont take the cowards way out. please, i'm begging you. dont hurt the ones you love.

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ok well one of my best friends, jesse, also happens to be the guy i like. he knows about this, i told him. he was flirty afterwards. then he said he had commitment problems. so things remained the same, we were flirty and still good friends. but then something happened, jen told him that i said that he likes me (i actually just assumed he liked me).so he talked to me and said he doesnt like me "in that kinda way" because he has commitment issues. so i was hurt i guess becuz i thought he was gonna ask me out [again those stupid rumors. jen heard form his friend, margrot that he was gonna ask me out, but it wasnt tru] and then things didnt change. i thought they would. after about a week i was again convinced that he liked me. and then margrot told me that he didnt really like me thats just the way he was. like he always messes with girls minds. so now im trying really hard to get over him. no idea how to though, i see him everyday.i just wanna see him as a best friend and nothing more. i dont wanna be one of them girls with an unhealthy obsession. thanx.

SAM =)

one of the best ways to get over a guy is to move on. some people think it's wrong but i believe the whole rebound guy thing is great. it gives you the little reminder you need - there are plenty of fish in the sea.

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hello sir/mam i needed some advice regarding a friend ...this person a girl in the library looked at me for 15 -20 days in the library where i studied i could make out that she will come and talk and she came asked my name and i started wishing her than i had some family problem in the meantime i could see that she was moving out with a guy one of her batchmates so even though i wanted to talk i stayed away as i did not want to interfere..than one day she came and sat just in front of me looking at me that day i put a letter on her car saying that it will be nice to know you and i gave my tel no.. and i heard her telling her friends about this than i sent her 4 e-mails and wished her best of luck fot her exam by sending an sms and told her that i was the one who sent her an sms and she thanked me for wishing her than i called her and asked her on how did the exam go she talked nicely but told me that she was slightly busy i apologized and thought that she will call me up whenever she is free she did not call but after 2days she came to the library all decked up looking nice and looked at me as if to talk and i thought that she would talk as this the first time i sent e-mails to someone like this and i was hesitant and confused whether she wants that i talk to her now and one of her batchmates told me that she had a boyfriend for last 5months a third person i was confused that why than should she look at me and why than did she come and talk ...after that i asked her one of her batchmates she told me that yes she has a boyfriend and she was also went around with another guy in between and she did tell her that i sent her e-mails after that i avoid her but just the other day we have a small cafe and i was standing there she came closee to me in the cafe but did not wish me neither did i and in one of the e-mails i sent her i wrote to her that she looks nice in suits and a white one and she came that day close to me wearing that dress but did not wish me neither did i so iam very confused whether she wants that i talk or not it would be very kind if you could advice whether this person is interested or not or is she someone who just wants to try at each and every one ,we all get many chances like this but we know how to behave how mouch distance to keep and i am a slightly simple guy who values his culture so feeling a bit akward in all this ...thank you she would follow in her acr get up to come to cafe when get up it has been 6 months now in the meantime on a festive occassion i wished her she wished me back now i came back after 4 months and wished on her birthday but did not get any reply now should oi forget or proceed how please advice she never e mailed me because she i think was stuck up with a boy but would do these indirect things but wont show interst like i send her mails now even i have not sent her since last 8 months

sounds complicated. but my advice is to leave it alone. you have shown your interest and if she is still not keen then she obviously doesn't like you. if she wanted you she would have told you by now. plus she does have a boyfriend so it's best not to mess that up.

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This summer i am going on a school trip with all my friends. There is going to be a pool at the hotel we are staying at and we are very excited to be going swimming. The problem is is that a lot of guys are going and other girls and all the girls have boobs and they will be looking good in their bathing suits and the problem is is that i dont have any and i dont want all the guys to be looking and lauging at me. It is very embarrising and i dont want all of them to see my flat chest. I dont care if it is just girls but there is about 20 guys coming to and i know they will all be looking at my friends and i am very self concious about it. I am flat. I cant help it. i will be humiliated even if they dont laugh or look at me. Please help. thanks!

Well not all guys want girls with big boobs. my sister and my best friend are extremely flat chested. their boyfriends love it. so dont stress!

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So...I am 15 (soon to be 16) and this past Saturday, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. We've been together for almost 3 months. His Dad found out and now I have a feeling that he is going to tell my mom. I want to tell her. I really do, but I think that she will be really disappointed in me. I was going to tell her tonight but I couldn't do it. Something told me that it wasn't a good idea, but then I get the feeling that I should because if she finds out from his dad, then she will be even more disappointed in me for the fact that I didn't tell her myself. I don't think she'll trust me ever again. And I have a feeling that she won't want me to see him anymore. I can already see what she is going to say. "You're only 15." or "How could you be so stupid?" or she will call me a slut...I don't know what to do. Should I tell her? Or not...

if theres one thing i've learned in my life is that you cant hide anything from your mum. best to tell her so she doesn't find out from his dad.

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Hi,i was wondering,my g/f is having her period and i was wondering what i could say to her to make her feel better/more comfortable about it,and what i could just do to be nice about it..especially when the mood swings start =(

thanks =)

Age=14

heat pack (for her stomachache), chocolate (always makes a girl feel better), and just watch some movies so she has something to take her mind of it. :)

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can anyone help me find lyrics by Johnny Rebel?
ive been looking for a while & i'm comming up blank.

http://www.lyricsdownload.com/rebel-johnny-lyrics.html

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i have a best friend and she has a boyfriend and they are in love. but one thing about them going out is i dont like her boyfriend and me and my best friend have been friends since 4th grade and her boyfriend is coming between us. and me and my friend are usually at each others house and haveing late night calls and we dont do that anymore! and we are gettin in fights more often because of him! i dont no what to do! im afraid to tell her the truth cause she will deny it! and we will get in a big fight! so what should i do about it?

you have 2 options. You can either tell her what you told us or keep quiet and let it ruin your friendship. I recommend you tell her and if she is a good friend then she should put her priorities straight. Guys may come and go but best friends will always be there. she needs to understand that. good luck :)

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Hello, I'm getting a needle at school (Diphtheria, Tetanus and Pertussis [whooping cough]) and I have a horrible fear about it. Last time I had one (grade 7) I cried by eyes out and in the end I was sick in bed for 7 days after the needle so I do not have a good record of them. Please give me some hints and tips on how to control this Pobia :)

some people say to not look. i disagree. if you look then you know when to expect the pain. if you dont you could flinch when it goes in and make it worse. just remember, they are to help you not to hurt you. my first needle that i remember i balled my eyes out. now i give blood regularly and it's all good. first one is always the worst and the second you live in fear of how much it will hurt. but really, you built it up worse than it was cause it was your first and you expected it to hurt. you'll be fine :)

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I am 20/male in college, but I am having trouble approaching a girl in one of my classes. I sit in the back and she sits in the front, and we leave in different directions after class. How can I approach her and what do I say once I do? The only reason I mention that we leave different ways is because I dont want to follow her out and look like a stalker or something. But I guess my biggest problem is just knowing what to say. Thanks

you can either slip her a note as you walk out the door (use the bathroom as an excuse) or just do it straight up. i'm 19 and i'd prefer if a guy just came up to me and asked me for coffee. that way i can say yes or if i wasn't interested say thanks for the offer but maybe some other time. just my point of view.

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My dad's 50th birthday is this weekend and at his birthday party, im suppose to make a birthday speech (im 17 fyi)in front of 30-some of his guests and 4 of my friends.. and i dont know what to talk about! Im suppose to be funny and entertaining and stuff but i dont know what to talk about.. any suggestions on what to talk about? i dont have many funny memories of him or anything >__< please help! the party is on saturday

you dont need to be funny. a tear jerker will get everyone clapping. just go on about how great your dad is. tell a story of how he brightened your day or something. just tell him how much you love him. it doesn't have to be long. just simple and sweet. :)

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I am 20/male in college. I am really shy, and there's this girl in class that I want to talk to. The class is a psychology class and after doing personality tests, we found out that she was the shyest person in class (I thought for sure it would be me). Anyway, I dont know how to approach her or what to say to her. And I'd rather not use the results of the personality test as a conversation topic to start out. What should I do and say?

just be straight forward with her. just say hi and ask her if she'd like to go for coffee one day. the worst that can happen is she'll say no. go for it!

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so i am going to sound rediculous, and this may be long, i appologize. but i am in a strong need of advice and this is the only place i can turn to without a biased opinion now.

i went out with this guy zach. he was really sweet but kind of immature. but i really liked being with him b/c he understood me like no other person ever has, he was a good boyfriend. well his immaturity got to me and i broke up with him, but we both thought it was only temporary, i know this.
we never stopped being best friends though, the day after we broke up it still didnt feel wierd. its a little bit mroe distant but that was my choice after this happened...

2 weeks later we were talking bout getting back together and we were flirty and he told me how much he loved me. well i have history with this girl in my school, we were friends and we got in a fight b/c she didnt get invited to my party [yea immature little fight that teenage girls get into, i know i was wrong but we all grow up] and instead of just being catty like any other teenage girl she went to the shcool and told them my dad beats me, i had bruises form volleyball but no my family is fine i never told her this she was just trying to cause drama. me and my sister almost got taken out of our house by social services, she thought this was funny. well her name is kelly.
and at this party zach was all over kelly they were cuddling in the bed, fell asleep together, and flirting alllllll night and every1 there [even he admits] that they were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend. this really hurt my feelings b/c it wasnt just any girl, which i would have been upset but not say anything, but he knows what she did to me and he was the one i was crying in the arms of when social services told me and my sister we were going to be taken into foster homes [they didnt b/c lack of evidence, me and my siste rof course denied everything]

it felt liek he betrayed me... i tried to mention it but all he said was "im not replacing you with kelly" and i told him it was about alot mroe than that, he will just make me feel like im being over jealous.

today he asked me out again, he did that with kelly last sunday. i told him im gonna have to think bout it, that hurt me but we are great together. he gets me more than anybody and i love hanging out with him but the kelly thing will always bother me =/

ONE MORE ISSUE, i dnt have alot of time... there is this guy Matt that is the sweetest guy ever. he likes me soo much and i liekd being with him, he makes me feel really good. he's friends with my friends and really the perfect personality but im not sure he knows me at all... he likes me but i feel liek if i let out my crazy side or my temper gets the ebst fo me he will not expect it and think of me differantly

so the questiosn to answer :: should i dump zach? or go for matt?

simply, i think you should dump zach. he was doing it to get at you wether he says so of not. kelly is obviously a bitch and he stepped over the line by going for her. i suggest you give it a try with matt. who knows, he might like your quirky side :) one way to find out!

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just wondering if you can find out peoples passwords on your computer as in are they stored on there somehow? for eg, say i wanted to find my sisters hotmail password, would it be stored on here? if so where? and how do i find it?

i highly doubt it's stored on your computer. do you need her to not find out about it? if so i dunno, but if you dont care if she knows, go to 'forgot my password' on hotmail. the answer to the question should be something you know since she's your sister. problem - it'll prolly change the password.

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ok im a girl and homophobic. but not scared of gays but im scared of lesbians. am i still homophobic or what? i dont hate them or anything but i just get scared of them. and is being homophobic is bad?

in what way are you scared of them? are you scared they will hit on you or what? more info! and it is bad to be homophobic. you should accept people the way they are. they didn't choose to be gay. they just are :)

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my boyfriend does weed.... it pisses me off... i wish he would quit... he tells me that he is going to do it less... weekends and one day on the weekdays.... he does it too much... he hasnt stuck with it... i dont know what to do... should i tell him its either me or that or should i tell him to cut down and if he doesnt im going to have to let him go ? i love him sooo much ... i wanna marry this kid... i just wish he was more addicted to me rather than that... its seems like that is his first priority... i hate it... what should i do? please help..

you need to give him the ultimatum. as long as you dont do anything to make him stop, he's not going to. tell him it you or the weed. do you really want to marry a guy that wont even sacrifice weed for you? you should be his number 1 priority. do what you gotta do.

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my cousin asked me if i would ask this boy out for her so i did and he said that he didn't like her but he said hell no iam not going to go out with her and now somebody spread a rumor that i told everybody that they go out and now my cousins mad at me for something i didn't do what should i do?

just tell your cousin straight up what happened. if she is still pissed then she doesn't trust you so who cares?

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facts::
im 16/f
hes 17/m
been together 7 months

how do you when youre just getting used to someone as opposed to not havin feelins anymore and wantin to break up?
its been eatin me up inside for a few days, but i dont want to do something ill regret [especially because over the past 7 months theres been times when ill think were just friends and its like my feelings are gone, but then something happens that makes me realize that i do love him alot]. and we dont believe in the whole "takin a break"/open relationship kinda thing.

by the way its my first serious relationship if that helps and we are VERY serious about each other [even promised to each other] but now i dont know what to do.

my first serious boyfriend lasted 6 months. i broke it off cause i was experiencing the same things as you. i knew i loved him but it seemed like the friend way. if you were romantically in love with him you would know it. as it was my first too, i was confused. but i broke it of and was glad i did. hardest thing i ever did but it was for the best.
this is just one situation and yours may be different, but hopefully i helped
angie

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13/F
me and this guy were going out last year. it wasnt very serous we didnt really talk. we were 12 gimme a break. and so he broke up with me right before school started and then in like november he said it was the biggest mistake of his life blah blah blah so we started going out again and this time it got wayy serous and it got a little to much for me and then we both changed our feelings and broke up on friday and now i kind of miss having a boyfriend but i dont miss him. anyways now hes telling my friends he still likes me and he kind of hinted he wants to get back together. i hinted back that i dont want to and told my friends i dont want to go out with him. a few of my friends like him and i know it wont work out and im pretty sure hes just using me because he wants a girlfriend. but also, if he really is nice and sincere i dont want to hurt him. and if he is just a jerk i dont wanna play into his game. how can i tell? it seems like he only says sweet stuff when he wants somthing. wich is kind of annoying. like hes working twords a goal and him being sweet is only to help him achieve this goal. omg this is very long sorry!

honey, you need to just end it for good. you obviously dont have feelings for him in that way and he's just playing with your mind. even if he's nice & sincere, you cant string him along for ever so just break it of for good.

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Hey! i'm sarah and i'm 17 years old me and my boyfriend have been going together for at least 3 years and i was wondering what should i get him for valentines's day since this is the first time we celebrated valentine's together

well as much as guys hate to admit it, they love romantic things. you could give him a photo album with photo's of you two and write 100 reasons why you love him. or you can blindfold him and take him to a memorable place and have a picnic set up. if you want to spend lots of money on him, get him a peice of jewelery.

hope i helped!

angie

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