Member Since: February 4, 2006
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I know that 13-year-olds shouldn't be wearing a lot of makeup. Is colored lip gloss ok? (mine is dark purple) (link)
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it all depends on your skin tone if your wearing the wrong color then you shouldnt wear colored lip gloss but with the right one it will be fine use those little charts they have at some stores to find out what color will look best on you
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OK. So there's this guy I met at a "get started program" for starting high school... and well I started to like him.. a lot. then i realized that he had a girlfriend.. and then he broke up with her and then my friend went out with him.. then she broke up with him.. and then he got another girlfreind.. now they are broken up.. and he says he lieks me.. but I dont want to fall for it because I know he's just gonna end up dumping me after a week like those other girls.. but I want to at the same time cuz i like him.. i dont know what to do... but theres this other guy that ive liked since 7th grade.. but i dont know if he likes me.. and he goes to a different school than me.. but i dont know what to do cuz i dont know if he likesme.. help me pleaes? (link)
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if he likes you and you like him just go out with him its not going to hurt you and you never know people change so he might really like you and you might hit it off you never know til you try
good luck
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hey, i'm 14/f and i have a bffe, just like any other girl. But the problem with my best friend is everything i do, she must follow along. Its as if she doesn't have her own life to take after.She basically copys everything i do and if i come up with a new saying she starts saying it like 1 day latter ALL the time. And i even said a few things the other day just to see if she did it, and she did! i said i hate chocolate candys lately, so she took hers and threw them out! i couldn't believe how right i was that she copys but then again i can't help then feel bad. I mean, how do i get her to stop copying me, or even better how in the world do i tell her that she's doing it without making her upset? i told her once in 7th grade, and she didnt talk to anyone for weeks, but she has continued sense then though. its not like it helped. i thought about copying her to show her that she copys me 24/7 but would that really help? Reply pleaseeee i need to know :) (link)
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whoa that hits it a little too close to home. people like that are really never going to stop being like that i would try doing something where you copy her then sit her down and tell her what shes doing in a nice way or save some of your conversatsions online compare yours to hers and how similar they are
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I've been dating this guy for two and a half weeks. We've been close friends for a year before he asked me out. I have a pretty good idea of what I want to give him for Valentine's, but I need advice.
I'm planning on painting a guitar pic (since he plays guitar) and I'm going to paint on it "Happy Valentine's Day" and have a cool design on it. I was thinking of baking him cookies and putting them in his locker. Then last but not least, I want to get him Fall Out Boy concert tickets sicne we both love them. The tics are about twenty something dollars, and I was wondering...too much for a relationship this short? give me your opinion. if you ahve any other ideas, alterations, or suggestions they are appreciated! (link)
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i think thats a really cute idea but i wouldnt do the cookies the painting and the concert will show that you care and took a lot of thought to come up with this
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This might be kind of long, so bear with me please.(This is a real question..so don`t be rude)
About a year ago, my 23 year old cousin died.This guy was unbelivable. He was seriously like my second brother & he was soo funny. Anyways, I went to the funeral and saw all my family members there and you know, I started crying. Months went by & it seemed like I got over it. And I really did.
I have this picture of him(not even big at all) on my wall and I looked at it last night and just started crying. I mean, I stayed up all night crying for my cousin because I just barely realized that I'm not over my cousin's death. And the weird part is that I just started crying after I THOUGHT i was over his death. Totally weird I know. I couldn`t even go to school because I didn`t get any sleep.
I don`t really know what my question is, but I guess I`m asking how I can actually get over his death & cope with the fact that he isn`t coming back. I realize that he isn`t coming back, and I think that`s what makes me soo sad in the first place.Now I feel all depressed. Please help me. (link)
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its always hard when you loose someone that close to you and your not going to get over it quickly it takes time sometimes you just have to let out a cry but you also have to realize that he is in a better place and you'll see him again so in the mean time just think about how much fun you used to have and what you used to talk about that will make you feel a lot better it really will help if you talk to your family about it too but you have to just remember that he'll always be with you no matter where you go
good luck
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im very tiny & skinny .. but i have a little bit of fat on my stonmache that i want to get rid of .. i want to loose about 10 pounds only on my stomache - how and what should i do to loose these pounds?
F/13 (link)
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if you really want to loose like 10 pounds do crunches and sit ups and eat healthier you should loose the weight in no time
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im trying to find a new way of funking up my room. ive got loads of products like make up and hair stuff that i need to find storage for. i want somewhere i can display them but im bored of the original things like shelves which i already have 3 of full of stuff.
Also i have loads of belts that are draping over my wardrobe stick leaving little room for my clothes
so can any one give me any ideas of how to make unusual storage for my make up products? but some where they can be seen.
and also some ideas for my belts. (link)
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for make up try getting a vanity or something like that this way you can still see all your make up and you'll have a place to put it on in the morning as for your belts put them on a hanger in your closet
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I think I am fat. I weigh about 116-120 pounds and am about 5"4. Is this overweight?
I don't have like ANY time at all to exercize, I do lose weight, but than I end up gaining it all back on. I can't wake up an hour earlier in the morning because I am already tired as is. I am busy like ALL the time. Does anyone have any way I could lose weight quickly, and wouln't take much time out of my schedual? (link)
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if your 5"4 and weigh 116-120 thats average so dont try to loose weight if you want to be healthy exercise whenever you have time and then eat healthy things like fruit and vegetables and cut out things like fast food,candy, and ice cream. limit yourself and dont eat after 8 also try to sleep earlier you'll feel more rested and energetic
good luck
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15/f. Theres this guy at my school who i've always had this crush on since like 8th grade. He's pretty popular, but at my school theres isnt really popular people theres just like the cool people who have alotta friends. anyway, hes always giving me these intense looks, like whenever i walk down the hallway i eat lunch in (in my school we can eat in the halls and he sits like 50 feet away) and he always looks up from whatever hes doing to look at me and he always smiles and every now and then he'll say something to me like, " i like your new haircut, shorter looks good on you". So does he like me or is it just like a friendly thing? And what can i do to get him to notice me? (link)
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The only way you can get a guy to notice you is to be you. at my school so most guys like when girls are outgoing which i am so i did things that are like...me. and they guy i like talked to me so whatever it is that makes you you do it and theres a good chance it will work also try having one of your friends ask him who he likes thats one of the best things to do
good luck
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I really want a boyfriend. I've had one before but he was unreliable and I'd like someone better. With Valintine's (sp?) Day coming up I really want this to be my chance. Well there are two guys I like and I'm going to use letters so if you don't like it don't answer it.
Let's begin with A. A is hot and popular. Really popular. Yet, he's different from all the other popular guys. He's sweet and funny. We always talk in language class and he writes these beautiful poems. The only thing is he never notices me outside of language.
Now it's J. J is hot but unpopular. He's funny and awesome. We don't talk much but sometimes exchange a few words online. In gym he constantly stares at me though.
So my question is which guy should I go for? Which do you think is more worth it? Should I forget about both of them? (link)
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this is pretty weird because im in the exact same position and the only answer is to follow your heart and as strange as it sounds listen to your dreams because thats how i figured it out. you cant let complete strangers pick out who your gonna write a letter to based on what they look like you have to do it on your own
good luck
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Ive been having like really low self esteme issues for like the past year or so... ive done so much physical harm to myself but i know its not right.. but i keep doing it cuz its like an addiction.. in the past year my best friend killed herself..(over me to try and get me to stop) and ive been in an abusive relationship.. everything has just put me down.. even the smallest things.. and i dont ever seem to be happy anymore.. i dont know what to do anymore.. sometimes i think that life is just like a dream.. is there any way i could help this?? (please dont say a councelor ive tried many and none have helped)... (link)
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Hurting yourself is the last thing you want to do in a situation like this. my sister went through this she didnt want to hear that she needed a conseler either but we ended up bringing her to one and she slowly got better. just think about your family and friends and your friend that killed herself to try to stop you that means she really cared about you so although it may seem like your alone in this world your really not theres always someone out there who cares about you but as for doing something about it journals are the best thing to do they allow you to say what you want without bringing harm to anyone or yourself
good luck and dont do anything you will regret later im always here if you need to advice with anything else
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Ok, to start off, I've been dating my bf for almost seven months now. Things have been on and off with us, becuase we fight alot about stupid stuff. He is over dramatic and over reacts, and I try to hard to resolve it and get angry easily. Well after our four month anniversary something happened. He dumped me the day after prom for another girl. He cheated on me. And the two weeks that we were apart and broken up were hell. I missed him even after what he did and I tried moving on with another guy I had liked but things weren't the same. Well then out of the blue he called me on my birthday adn we ended up getting back together. I decided to do something I never would've done in the past. Give someone a second chance. And it was good for a while. But the past scars you in obvious ways. I'm constantly scared he will cheat on me, I don't trust him, and because of that we fight. Plus he is being incosiderate now and we are fighting again. Well this guy I have liked for 2 years is in the picture now and he is always there for me. We have been friends for a while and I don't know what to do. I really like him, he likes me, and I don't feel happy with my bf. But something keeps holding me back. I still love my bf, but I don't think things will work out. What should I do? (link)
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To be honest you have to forget about him if you cant trust him think it over for a while then get together with that other kid. if its meant to be you'll feel fine and you'll move on. i know its hard but i recently got over someone that i liked and found someone amazing sometimes it just works out better moving on
good luck
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How can I get money? Cuz I'm tired of going to a thrift store to get things, especially when things don't fit my small size. I don't have much shirts to wear. I need a new backpack (had it for 3 years) I need money for school things...But my mom doesnt have money to give to me. I'm only 14, a few months away from 15. What can I do? I'm not the only child, so money can't be given to me easily. None of my friends will help me.. (link)
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Try helping around your neighborhood shovel driveways when it snows, rake yards, wash cars, try to even sell your clothes to places like platoes closet in a few years you'll be able to get a steady job so just fill in the gaps with something small
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Hey i wanna lost 7 pounds. I weigh about 135-138 pounds. I work out and stuff but then I go and weigh myself a few days later or even a couple and i still haven't lost any weight. Its like impossible for me. Anything i do i cant lose weight. Im in sports but thats not helping i work out 4 times a week. But i stay the same weight. Is there any tips on how maybe i could get more motivated maybe to wanna do this cuz im about to give up because im not losing or gaining any weight! (link)
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You cant just exercise and expect to lose weight you have to set limits for yourself and eat healthy too. eat healthier meals and snacks and let your family know to that you dont want to be tempted by fast food, candy, ice cream etc. if your serious about this then cutting down junk food shouldnt be a problem
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I'm 5"4' and 160 lbs. That doesn't sound that 'fat' but I'm also 13 years and my doctor thinks it's too fat and that was the cause of my 'monthly's' stopping for 4 months early last year! I really need an appropriate diet to lose some pounds because I feel fat and since I have to maintain school and homework, chores, etc. it's tough to not eat.
Recently I've been on a diet with food and water and no snacks but I did eat a few snacks and after 4 bottles of water...I felt reallly bloated! So How Do I use my water and food (lunch) diet without the snacks...the temptation of the snacks? Does anny one know how to avoid buyin em? (link)
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To be honest cutting off the snacks completely is what you SHOULDNT do you really should eat healthier. set standards for yourself. eat fruit for breakfast something healthy for lunch and something healthy for a snack when you get home from school do sit ups or push ups to get some exercise do your homework and everything else and DONT eat after 8:00
good luck
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hey everyone. Ok, my friends and I are all having a hard time telling if the guys we are into like us back. The two guys are a lil shy but not totally and sending mixed messages. can anyone give me some advice? Thanks a bundle! Luv Megz2009 (link)
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Guys really aren't going to give clear signals EVER so the best thing to do is flirt and have someone else ask who they like that way you can find out if they do like you and still kinda keep contact with them and give them a reason to like you
good luck
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So there is this guy and I like him a little && i think he likes me to .. we haven't kissed or even hugged or held hands or any thing yet but we still like eachother.
He's takin me out to dinner and out to movies and buying me things and stuff.. so im pretty sure he likes me..
Im not sure if i should go for it or not, because I dont know what i want if he is my type or if i want someone else...
Deep down inside i think i always run away from the guys that will treat me good.. but I just dont know if its right you know?
What do you think i should do? (link)
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I think you should just go out with him, its not going to hurt you. If you think he's not your type just break it off. And the same thing if you start to like someone else
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I can't turn to anyone else but my grandma got a stroke and ever since my uncle thinks he is the boss. He told me today he as putting her in a home and he did (I objected) and now I can't find one of her tablets that she needs. She hasn't even has her night tablet and I'm scared he's trying to kill her. I also saw on a piece of paper that he wrote "Do take out" on an account that is my grandma's and unfortunately his! I'm so scared...Please help me... and resonable advice please! (link)
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I really would tell the police. Let them know what you think and they'll take it from there. They will listen to you just say everything that you posted here.
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