Question Posted Thursday February 2 2006, 11:32 pm
So there is this guy and I like him a little && i think he likes me to .. we haven't kissed or even hugged or held hands or any thing yet but we still like eachother.
He's takin me out to dinner and out to movies and buying me things and stuff.. so im pretty sure he likes me..
Im not sure if i should go for it or not, because I dont know what i want if he is my type or if i want someone else...
Deep down inside i think i always run away from the guys that will treat me good.. but I just dont know if its right you know?
Vikki27 answered Friday February 3 2006, 3:11 pm: I believe that nothing ventured nothing gained! It's a horrible cliche, I know but very applicable.
The whole point of a first date is to get to know someone and if you feel that you're not compatible or you don't feel a spark, you can end the date with a "I had a nice time. I'll see you around."
A lot of girls run away from men who will treat them as they should be treated. I don't really understand this but I feel it's due to a fear of being hurt. If we find a guy who will make us feel angry and upset all the time, it won't hurt so much if we get dumped.
At some point, this cycle has to be beaten or we'll never be able to find a man with the potential to make us happy. Maybe we get hurt along the way but we need to have our hearts broken in order to feel the joy of a true love properly.
If you like each other then you should go for it and see what happens. Worst comes to worst, you decide you're not right for each other and you call it a day. If it works out, who knows where it could lead? Go and have a great time. [ Vikki27's advice column | Ask Vikki27 A Question ]
gorgeous_vixen answered Friday February 3 2006, 6:01 am: heres what you should do. get a paper and a pen. then right everything you want in a guy from the physical characteristics to the personality. you should be focused; knowing what you want and dont want will make you feel better and feel confident in your own decisions.
most of all, really know him better. through time, you will know what his intentions are and if he loves you, dont deny him. dont runaway. because afterall, you really deserve a guy that will love you and take care of you. so while you are dating, enjoy those moments. it doesnt mean that you have to make a decision right away. take your time sweety. :)you need to know him better for you to make your own decisions. if you resist, you might not know what you are missing. [ gorgeous_vixen's advice column | Ask gorgeous_vixen A Question ]
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