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I'm KittKatt. No, I'm afraid it's not the chocolate bar. I apologize if you came here looking for some good old junk food. I give out advice when I've got too much time on my hands. I take no responsibility if anyone dies from advice, so don't say I didn't warn you!
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Can someone give me some names for a girl and a boy, please? I love writing stories, but I don't know any good names! PLEASE help! (link)
Well, if you could give a description of the characters that would help. But whatever.

Girls names: Krystel, Michelle, Kathryn, Danielle, Jenn, Lila, Melissa

Guys names: Bob, George, Harry, Henry, Dan, Jeff, Steve, Kevin


How come there is no boys asking questions? I'm a guy and I have a question... anyways... I'm kinda shy when the topic asking girls out comes up. I'm 13 and I dont ever think im going to get a girlfriend, because im so scared on what would i do if i asked someone out and then they said yes? i mean i dont know how to make out and stuff like that... what should i do? (link)
Everyone is occasionally nervous when it comes to stuff like that. You're 13, I don't think you'll need to know how to make out for another couple of years.


Not to be rude or anything, but I'm not trying to follow the trend, I just like it, and If i like it, then I should do it right? Im not trying to be cool, or popular. . I just wanna be what suits me best. I happen to liek the clothing gothic people wear, and I sometimes act as if i were gothic. So I guess you misunderstood. . well bye (link)
Wear what you want to wear. It suits you, go right ahead.


OK, I was at school today and a fifth grader who I danced with at a dance ONCE asked me out through one of my friends. I'M AN EIGHTH GRADER!!!! I told my friend to tell him no thatnks and I think she DID carry on the correct message but I think he told everyone we were going out and now people are making fun of me because they think I'm going out with a fifth grade russian. I mean, I don't care that he's russian but isn't the girl supposed to know when she's going out with somebody and now I have a dance tonight and I'm afraid he's going to ask me to dance and I really don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't want to get any rumors started again. Please respond quickly because I have to leave at 7:15. I need to know what I should do and I don't trust myself to make the decision. Now it's 4:26

Unknowingly Dating (link)
Talk to him in person and tell him you don't like him. After that, if he continues to spread rumours, ignore him. Sounds harsh, but otherwise you're giving him false hopes.


when can a girls really notice that a boy likes her?????? (link)
Guys like girls who can speak in proper english.

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how can you tell when a guy likes you? (link)
There are tons of ways to tell a guy likes you.
Some guys tend to show off, to try to get your attention. Others will constantly tease and make fun of you. Some of the guys are too shy to make any major move, so you might just catch them staring at you every so often.

There are tons of different ways that guys flirt, there isn't a definite way to do it.


i think is is totally gross and disgusting to be a gay guy or a lesbian is it wrong to think that i dont think it is (link)
People don't really have a say in which sex they are in to. That's my opinion.

As long as you just don't make fun of them for what they believe in, I think it's fine. Everyone is entitled to an opinion.


ok now wht makes popular people so popular i mean what is it about them? i mean theres like a bunch of popular kids at my school and i dont see how they r so great i mean all they do is talk behind eachothjers backi mean im not in the popular group but in like the semi-popular i guess is what its called and we never do that top eachother i mean i cant stand these popular kids and i wann know how they become so popular and why? (link)
Why do they become popular? They know all, always know the right thing to do or say, are 100% confident of themselves, and they will sometimes even sacrifice the respect of others to improve their own 'status'.

Well the first 2 statements may not be true, but the last one is.


ok im 13 8th grade 130lbs and feel weigh to over weight i want to look like a modle and im not doing this for the man of my dreams im doing this to look good. im pretty and got all the right looks but i feel to fat andi want to look good in a bikini aslo i want the man of my dreams to go woah!! when he sees me even thouhg he already thibnks that about me but he likes girlss like paris hilton and i kinda want her figure and everyones gonna say dont change you look for him im not im changing it so i feel good around him cuz right now i feel ot fat when im around even though everyone thinks im beautiful and skinny just help me do u think i could get liposection? or soemthing i have tried dieting but i just crave food to much but im trying to cut dwon on the fatining stuff im in a little bit of good shape i play soccer and lift sometimes but help me someone? (link)
Liposuction? Holy shit...the media is corrupting our minds!

Ok, you're 13 and 130 pounds. That is not exactly the end of the world. Are you of average or tall build? Because if you are, that's basically a perfectly fine weight. If you're short (like me!) you could stand to lose a few pounds but nothing so drastic as liposuction. Keyword: FEW.

Soccer is a great sport! Oh and you could try cutting back on candy and chips. Drink H2o.


ok i liek this boy buti thin i justl iek him becuase of his looks i mean he is funny and makes me laugh but im always catching myself just wanting him for his looks i really like him and i want ot marrie him but do u think i could only liek him for his looks? (link)
Oooooh. My head hurts just trying to read that.

Reality check: You don't marry someone just for their looks. After all, marriage means you basically want to spend your whole life with that person.

And damnit, go buy a dictionary or something that teaches you English!!


im in total love with this boy i mean i admire him and everyhing but i just dont think he is right for me i mean im the kind of girl that likes to go camping and hiking and to the snow and travel but all he does is watch football all day i mean my parents say that he is not good enough for me buti think he is i mean he is great a sports really smart and is great with kids but im really adventuras and i dont think i can make him do anything and im worried all he will want to do is sit around al day so how can i get him to do stuff and is he right for me? (link)
Give him a try. You can't force anyone to do anything though, especially if they're the stubborn type. ;)


i wanan know what love is ? i wanan feel what love is? (link)
What love truly feels like is different for everyone.

You'll know when it hits you.


there's this guy at school who's girlfriend just broke up with him. my friend said i should ask him out, but he said he might just rest awhile. (link)
Well if it were me, I would give the guy a chance to get over his breakup before you ask him. Keep in mind he might not want to be in another relationship right away. Just be there for him, and when he's ready for a new relationship, ask him then.


how can i tell a boy i like him (he is my neighbor)with out anyone finding out like his mom cuz she doesnt liek him having any girlfriends or stuff like that and she doesnt want me ot tel him that i like him cuz she says that we are"good friends right now" (link)
You can tell him you like him, he just doesn't have to tell his mum every single thing. I'm confused by what you mean by the last sentence, are you good friends with him, or his mother, or both? You don't have to be his girlfriend, just be a girl friend. There is a difference.


if my neighbor came over andh e was on my trampoline and i was in the spa and he kept like talking and showing off and looking at me does that mean he likes me??? shouldi tell him i like him or ask him how he feels about girls or what??? (link)
Well how old are you? It doesn't necessarily mean he likes you, although that certainly is a possibility. Maybe he's just really into himself if he kept on showing off. Are you already friends with him, or on pretty good terms? If so, then I think you should just tell him how you feel. If not, get to know him a bit better first.


When I was going out with my ex boyfriend,*Greg me and his best friend were sort of into each other.Actually really into each other. It turned out Mike was going out with someone else so I dumped him. After that Mike made sure that me and his friend didn't hook up. I was avoiding Mike, so he made sure whenever I was talking to him that he was in the situation. It got uncomfortable for us to be together. So I haven't seen or talked to the friend,*Marc for a while. But I can't get him out of my head. I really miss him, and I can't stop thinking about him.However I know it would hurt Greg if I went out with MArc,and I don't want to hurt him since he sounds sorry for what he did. But I'm still lusting after Marc...what do I do? (link)
If Greg is really a friend, then he should at least try to understand if you do decide to go out with Marc.

No...wait. Your question was worded kind of weird, and now I'm pathetically confused. A bit too much chocolate I think.


I really like this guy and I asked him out yesterday and he said Not Today what does that mean?




FRom PLease HElp ME (link)
Not today probably means just that, 'Not today.' Most guys really aren't into the whole "I'm going to use certain words so you'll have to listen carefully to my sentence so I can mess with your mind" sort of thing. Unlike us girls. ;)


What would make a question disappear? I asked two questions. I got emails showing they were both answered several times. I could see the answers for one question, but the other question is gone. Was I flamed? Was it a computer glitch? Are questions erased for various reasons? What happened? (link)
You imagined that you posted the question when in fact, you really didn't.

=P


OK, yesterday, I was in my bedroom and I was getting my journal out to write in it and i couldn't find my pencil, then i saw it on the table and it was too far for me to reach it and when I was stretching my arm to get it, it moved into my hand. My window wasn't open so that rules out wind. Am I telekenisis? (link)
When you leaned onto your desk, your weight caused it to tip forward so the pencil rolled into your hand.

End story. All right everybody, we don't need a crowd around here! Move it, move it!


I'm not incredibly popular at school but I do have a best friend who I've known all my life even though she just moved to my school. Now she's making new friends and she even has a boyfriend. I was supposed to go to a pizza place with her and some of the kids in my class but my mom wanted me to come over to her house for the weekend so I didn't go with them. Now I'm worried that since she's made so many new friends, she'll just drop me. Do you think that'll happen?,
CMS (link)
If she's been a best friend, it's likely she won't just suddenly drop you like a hot potato.




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