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Hey I'm Laurell. I've been through a lot so whatever the sitch is i can probably relate and try to help though I know in many situations it seems as though no one but yourself understands completely of what's going on; in some cases there's too much to express or type in words. As the days pass by, time is going by faster, and faster so I wish you the best of luck and wisdom through the rough spots.
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Hey guys I'm 15 and my name is Jackie. There is this guy that I simply can NOT get over. I've alould myself to get hurt. Everytime I begin to sorta get over him, he says something sweet or flirty that gets me to fall for him all over. My head knows he doesn't like me, but my heart keeps getting tricked into thinking that he likes me. so anyway. I need some tips for getting over him.
thanks
xoxo
omg! i have the same situation!i know what i did and now i am his 1st banana i know he's not interested in me, i dont think,but he still tells me we can makeout~ its almost as if every time sometimes he USES you for when he doesnt have his other or his better girl(s) to flirt with him lately...you're his 2nd banana [to put it in those terms] theres a couple things you can do:
1. flirt back [tho it prolly wont help you get ovr him}
2. tell him to bug off [it pisses you off when he flirts with you bc it hurts inside and he needs to know you like him and its not cool for him to play with your brain likke that]
3. dont react but stop trying to tell yourself to get over him [you can find someone batter]
4. make him want you[when he flirts be mysterious, make him want to know more]
5. win him over
HoPeIhElPeD
hello. I am 13/f, 5'2 and i weigh about 138 pounds. Is that really overweigh? Also, what is the fastest most efficent way to lose weight other then the excerise and eat less? Is there a SPECIFIC exercise i should do everyday? -thanks ALOT
ok well when i was 13and a teen myself i was 5.4-5.5' and i had terrible eating habits and i was reaching 130 lbs and i was not happy with it at all and not happy with the way i looked so i fixed that by running nearly every morning, then i was 113 .....im not saying you should do that, i guess what im saying is that if you are unhappy with the way you feel and believe you look not slimming enough, maybe you can ask a TRUSTED friend,parent/guardian for advice on how you look[mirrors are dicieving]ask them to answer you honestly. constructive criticism may help. but if you do infact want to do something about it then i suggest this:
1. eat healthier
2. exersize more
3. have fun/laugh
for specifics go there:
http://www.teengrowth.com/growth_chart/gchart_detail.cfm?i=GirlsWeight_3_18.gif
it says for your weight and height, you should be about 64-65" or about five 1/2 ft
HoPeIhElPeD
im a teenage girl who truly hates her parents to death. They've both cheated on each other, and not just once. They dont think or care about me or my careless little 9 year old brother. They have me in the middle hoping i'll pick or protect one of them, and they've said no matter who i pick, i'll still lose one of them and wont get to see them ever again, but their both literally whores. Worst thing is, i suffer from severe depression, and i cut myself, sometimes to much and sometimes to deep, i've taken 2 overdoses, but have ended up getting the pills pumped out, i might as well kill myself, but i've decided to go 2 my home country, the Dominican Republic, to do high school over there, i no i shouldn't be trying to escape my problems, but it's better than commiting suicide, wat else can i do? Can someone please help? I dont think im a freak, just misunderstood. Please write back
i cant believe your case!!!it the worst yet anyway i think that you should talk to one of your parents and tell them that you and your little brither would like to live with one of your other family members until they get their act together... if they ask why then team up with your brother and tell them...no kids should suffer like that i dont like hearing this :( hope i helped write back***
i am trying to go on a diet and it works for a day then the next day i totally pig out! then i regret it and the process starts over! does anyone have any dieting tips?
you have to stick to it or lock yourself out of the house or something so you cant eat!!! or just get a family member or a friend to help you...
okayy .. i HATE my legs & also hate running.. any alternatives? please
play... do exersizes...walk/jogg with friends...pool/laps...
How long should a normal kiss take?
peck 1-3 seconds and to make out well that all depends....!~*
yeah im 13 and i weigh 130 pounds.. but i dont look it..i ook like i weigh about 110..but i still dont like the fact of weighing that much13 years old...how can i drop 10 pounds bby the time school starts...if it helps..i want to lose most weight in my upper legs!! i rate 5 on best answer!
well there is one diet that i know of:
-no starches
-no sugars
-no salty stuff
-excersize (a lot)
hope i helped
ok my mom is WICKED over protective. tonite i wanted to go to this little concert thats going on at 6:30 about 20 minutes away. I asked her if i could go with my older cousin and shes like "well you didnt even tell me what time or where.." and i told her where and shes like "NO WAY" and it seems like she's totally against the people that live there ( even though they arent bad) and plus I was meeting up with some of my friends there. How can i get her to let me go to SOMETHING?? oh yeah..I'm 14
well you know moms usually have their reasons...but some can be a little over protective...so try telling her how much that this (little) concert means to you and that you were going with some of your friends and tell her that you'll all stay together and that you're going with an older cousin that might help!!
hi i need help im not spposted 2 date untill im like 20 !! so shud i date behind my parents bac????
NO, dont date behind your parents back, if you choose to it will only create more problems for you down the road...instead what you can do is just tell them how you feel and compromise dating is not everything though it may be for you now!even if you dont get your way and dont get to date right this year or next its not thee end of the world...though you can tell your parents how responsible you are or how much that their love has inspired you!! ***GL***
Ok, I want a treadmill, cause i luv running.
The thing is, i'm not rich and from the looks of most treadmills they're REALLY EXPENSIVE!
Does anyone know of a treadmill website or something that has cheap treadmills?
you dont need a treadmill,..go out on the streets and run whereever you can,you get to run faster and you can see neat places!!!i thought at one time that i needed one too!!haha lol
i really like this guy and i cant get him off my mind. EVER i really do love him more than anything in this world but he just doesn't understand that. we were in one of those perfect relationships where he would call me at 3 in the morning just to see what i was doing or just because he wanted to hear my voice. !! one night he called me and asked me about my ex who was killed a few months ago, he didn't know that he was killed but he thought that i was still with him. but an hour later he broke up with me and i still dont know why. its been weeks and i still cry over him all the him. i dont think i could stand to cry over him one more time. he likes all these other girls now. i just dont know what to do or how to get over him.im sorry this is long but please answer me fast !!!! thank you !!
if he doesnt understand that you really are passionate for him then forget the man butt if you truely cant then talk to him tell him how you really feel....hope i helped***
sometimes i get real frustrated with my b/f. and i start to hit and throw things i feel that if i dont get my anger under control that i will hurt him one day and it will jeopardize our relationship. how can i get my anger under control?
close your eyes count to five and then say in your mind that it doent bother you over and over again .....i know its lame but it works for 54% of people!!!
ok !i am having a really bad problem. well me and my boyfriend got into a serious arrgument today. he got mad at me cause he said that i was smiling at his friend. i am like omfg cant i even look at anyone.and on the bus today he broke up with me. then he called me and asked me if i would go back out with him. he apoligized and i said ok. well he called me and talked to me a while ago and i dont even think his sister likes me. so what should i do brake up with him or not? srry for this bein so long.
i will rate all 5's and give feedback for helpful answers only.
well i think that you should go back out with him if you care about him and you think that he is truely sorry!!!!
I recently just got braces, and I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for a few months now and we haven't kissed yet.
Well I'm afraid now that since I have braces he won't want to kiss me.
I don't know, this is just something that worries me. But should I be worried about this?
NO, not at all dont be worried...if you want to kiss tell him what worries you and if he's bothered by it!!!
Hey i have a b/f and i really like him but there is this guy that likes me too and every1 says we make a great couple and hes is my best friend and im starting to like him and then theres this other guy that every1 says liks me b/c he is always 2 flirty and just told me that he`d burn me a cd of this band b/c i told him it was really good and i was goin to buy it and hes lik no i`ll burn it for you i have all the cd`s i`ll burn all the good songs and so he is gonna do that and im really startin 2 lik him 2 but i like mi best friend as a guy and mi boyfriend more and im lik wut if he asks me out ?? Wut do i do??
well there is a multitude of things that you can do...some will probably take you down the wrong road though...#1:you have mixed feelings so stick with the guy you have and deal #2:if the guy that you are dating is not real fun dating then tell him and go with the other guy he seems fun too but it could create some problems down the road with thee other guy that you dumped**my advice hopihelped***
Ok, I apoligize in advance if this is really long.
But, i have this friend. We've been really close since elementary school. I really enjoy spending time with her. But when the topic about money comes up, it just makes me ache inside. I don't show it. Okay, so my family doesn't have the kind of money like her family does. Most of the time she just shoves it in my face, i don't really know if she does it on purpose or it just comes naturally.. but it's really starting to make me extremley upset. For example, we're supposed to hang out, and then shes going shopping. I sort of had the option to go with her, but i don't have any money to buy anything. And truth be told, i don't want to watch her shop, that makes it worse. I just want her to realize that theres more things to do than shop & spend money. She has everything i've always wanted. I don't know how to explain this to her, nor i don't even know what to say to her. Any advice on what i should say? Or what i should do?
Thanks Much.
Sincerley, Unhappy.
OK WELL, i would start with telling her how you feel....i dont think you should make it into an argument just tell her one day when she asks you to go to the mall .....tell her the reason why you cant go to the mall then why you dont want to go to the mall and next tell her whats bothering you...try to reason and dont use harsh tone because it could hurt your friend when all that you want to do is get the message across right? ***hopeihelped***
Ok so my parents left town for the weekend and im here with my college cousin. My mom told me not to go to this one guys house but hes having a huge party this weekend. I really want to go but ims cared to death that my mom will find out or something bad will happen and then im screwed for the rest of highschool. should i go or not go?
well stick with your instinck...which is i wouldnt go or call your mom again and tell her that its lik really important that you go!!!hopeihelped~**
i'm 12 yrs old and 100lbs im pretty sure that thats overwight,but i want to know what you think?
i'm medium boned and very mucsular...butt in my stomack i'm fat or chubbish what do you think? i've talked to my parents and they say that its still baby-phat but i dont know....i tried to go anorexic for two weeks and i felt better but i knew that that was a stupid idea....
Lets just say that you are going thro a time of time in your life when you are very self conscious about the way you look! Believe i know! What it feels like! And about the baby Phat... Youll definetly grow into it Believe i know stuff ren~ Hope i helped a bit!
what is the best mascara to use that dosesnt smear eaily and doesnt lobb??? HELP**i rate high
zani>>>>>>>>
Lacome its works the best 4 me!
ok so there are theses guys at school and there are popular girls at school and im one of popular girls i guess but there is this other girl who is like perfect and she really pretty and she hangs out wuth the guys a lot and yet some of the guys like me though im not a slut? i just dont get it
Well just b ur self cause even tho in like every skool ther is Perfect guys and gals that u think r perfect 4 each other..Believe me hun theyll be the 1s becomming sluts..so just like who ever you like..not because there Perfect!!