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I havn't worn my retainer for a LONG TIME, about 2 years, and my bottom teeth have moved, just the 4 in the frontish, and well, i was wondering, if i started using my retainer now...and delt with the pain, would my teeth move back into place??

Give it a try nd see! asHleyx3

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Oh My GOd! My sister is so annoying, She Wears my clothes, wakes me up at 5:00 on the weekends, hits me, puts fake worms in my bed, Steals my C-D's, and my parents do NOTHING about it! HELP!

I dont really know wat to say. I mean if you shared a room then you cant put a lock on your door...but if you dont share 1...then do it! But it is natural for this to happen.....its like the circle of life! lol asHleyx3

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Ok well i'm 16 and cute (lol if i do say so myself :D ) ok well I have pretty thick hair. Its not like obesely thick or whatever but it's thick... and its not like extremely frizzy or crimpy or anything... but it gets a bit frizzy after blow drying it and its naturally wavvy. Do you have any advice for me? I hate that it's as thick as it is. I dont even shower every day BECAUSE that means i would have to do my hair all over again and it takes forever to straighten. When I blowdry it straight it not only takes forever, but it poofs out and i have to sleep on it like 3 nights in order for it to look good. some days I even had to go to school with it greasy just because it sucks when i wash it. ugh its so annoying! any ideas besides chemically straightening it and getting it thinned out (already done the thinning and chemically straighening it isnt an option for me)

Mayb you can find a shampoo or some product that makes your hair not frizzy when you blow dry it....if you do. Or buy a product you can use in the shower...so it will make your hair managable. U NEED TO TAKE A SHOWER AT THIS AGE!!!!! asHleyx3

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ok i have this pimple that is like smaller than a pin head. the only problem is that it is so full of like puss and junk that it is white. i have tan skin so it REALLY shows up. the other thing is that it is like right where the outside curve of my nostril meets my face. so it is sort of hidden in a crease but still really noticable. my mom wont bring me anywhere to go get anykind of nutregina or anything so i need a home remedy on how to get rid of this bugger. like putting some kind of food on it or something. i need help and i need it fast.

Well you can make some kinda concoction that is tan nd matches your skin! asHleyx3

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Does anyone think it is absolutley gross for a grade 7 to go out with a grade 8?

and why?

No...cuz mostly every1who is married r different ages! Its totally natural! Dont b grossed out by something thats swept the nation! asHleyx3

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My boyfriend and I have been going out since around..Christmas. Anyway, last night I was home all night & really bored..and usually I'll have such an urge to get on the comp & talk to him, or call him. But last night, something was different..I felt like he just got out of my system. So, I got on the computer real late..like 10 mins before he usually goes to bed, cause I didn't feel like taling long. What's wrong? Am I just losing interest in him? And I don't know why, but the night before this happened I had a dream that he was going out with another girl. Does this mean anything? Why didn't I want to talk to him? :/ It's like..now I don't even think about him, in one day it happened. I'm confused..

Sometimes dreams soak into real life. Sometimes that happens to me nd my friends too. Its totally normal!! asHleyx3

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okay, so because i go to a private school, it ends at 4;00 pm
so i get home around 5:00. Everyday of the week i have something afetr school-so by the time i have dinner and start doing homework it is about 8:00, i am so overwelmed but my mom insists on me having these afetr school activities. the only day i have to myself is friday-but my mom usually makes me clean my room or something, so i don't even have that. What should i do, i don't wanna cancel any of them cuz i like them. But i also don't wanna be so tired and nervous all the time. I even have to do my homework in school cuz i don't wanna fail or i wake up at like 5:00 am so that i finish my hw. What should i do?
-dorinflower55

Just go on wit your usual week....if you dont get something done...ITS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD! Or if you really want to do things like with your friends or something...then give the one thing up that you dislike the most!! Hope this helps! asHleyx3

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I'm really into fashion and stuff but i don't know what stores have the hottest clothes!! Fill me in!!

Look in abercrombie...areopostale....wet seal...express....discovery...guess ((in carsons))...tommy girl>a brand...nd those should b good enough 4 now! asHleyx3

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ok im confused at school i get made fun of alot because im smart. well normally i just bottle it up and dont do anything because im weak but what i have noticed is sometimes i will get so pissed off that if anyone who hasnt even done anything to me so much as slightly bothers me i blow up at them. i guess i just want to know how can i channel my anger more so at the ppl who piss me off because i hate blowin up at my friends but i cant blow up at the ppl that make fun of me cause im weak as shit and im just confused i dont know wut to do can someone please help me..

People who make fun of you are just jealous because they are stupid...((i mean that like they arent as smart as you))...and they are insecure! GET STRONG!!!! Control your anger man! Get something you can squeese like a squishy ball type thing that controls you anger by squeezing it. And if you can blow up at your friends......THEN BLOW UP AT THE OTHA PPL! lol asHleyx3

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i hate liars and my boyfrined lies constantly.. not so much to me.. but sometimes to me.. i cant always tell if hes telling the truth.. i guess sometimes his lies are for my benefit? we also really like eachother.. what should i do

I think that you should either set him straight or low-jack him! jk! ((srry bout spelling!)) If he continuse to lie afta that...this rele depends on your type...GIVE HIM A TASTE OF HIS OWN MEDACINE! You can lie to him....or....you can brake up with him...but you said you 2 really like eachother... asHleyx3

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I have these friends, some of the time we hang around in a group together, but a few of them are friends with this other group of people too. I went out with one guy when he used to hang around with us, but he doesn't hang round with us anymore and he hangs out with this other group.
One of my best friends is also part of this group. But the thing is, most of the people in this group I either know to say 'hi' to in lessons, but I don't really know most of them. They tend to know me as 'Liams bird', which is stupid because we havent gone out for months.
But how can I break the ice with these people? Occasionally this friend of mine will hang round with me at the same time as one or two members of the group, and I was wondering how to get myself noticed and become friendlier with these people.
Sorry for the long question but I really need some advice on this!
(im 14/f btw)

Be yourself. Thats how i got my friends to become my friends! One of them is ova now! lol...I no its kinda rough in the beginning to make friends...but eventually they grow on you and you grow on them! If your one friend hangs around with you sometimes then im sure the others will too! asHleyx3

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In high school, we get to choose which language we want to take- French or Spanish. I signed up for Spanish, but I'm having second thoughts. I like French a lot more, but I want to do what's best for me. Does anyone have any pros or cons for taking a certain language, or just general advice on what I should do? Thanks!

Spanish is like a second language in this country. Im sure will like it. One of the bad parts...of course...is if you dont likr it. But not everything in life is going to satisfy you. Believe it or not. Juts roll with it and your turn will come. asHleyx3

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Hello,

When I am sitting in class, doing my work, and i become slightly bored, i partake in a slightly disgusting habit.


I bite a sliver of a nail off of a finger, keep it in my mouth, then use my tongue to position it so i could slide it out the front end between my two front teeth. I continue doing this at least 4 to 6 times, then swallow the nail.


I am interested in stopping this habit for myself, because I don't think anyone notices it.

I know a way to stop it. Just get this thiing called Nail Bitter or sumthin like that. It ssupposed to make your nails taste bad when you bite them. Hop it works! (sometimes it does for me!) asHleyx3

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OK i like this guy and he is really cool and funny and all we ca even say ilove you to each other and its ok.. He is in 7th grade and i'm in 8th but we are really good friends like we go to the movies and he calls me all the time and talk about nothing for 2 hours or more.Once he told me that he liked me and i said i liked him too but he hasn't done anything like ask me out. I like him and i want to ask him out but at the same time i just want to be friends and not ruin our friendship. But heres the thing he is the weirdest, most geekest guy in 7th grade everybodys told me but he is my friend and i can't just turn my back on him like that and people think he is gay too. HELP what should i do.

I think...if you really like him...you should ask him out. I mean see how it is. And if it doesnt work out...then just b friends again. SCREW WHAT THE OTHER PEOPLE THINK. and if he was gay...im sure u would find out eventually...or have noticed already. asHleyx3

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Well you know when you want to search for a question by category? Well, one of the options is "By adults" and another one is "By Teens". How do they know which one is asked by which, most don't have their age on it.

I dont think they do. They might trust people enough to think they would put their search under the right one. asHleyx3

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Well i am 13 and i huffed once. i was with my best friend (not friends anymore) and she decided it would be cool.. i thought it would be fine because i was with a "good friend". well i told my closest frined whom i consider a sister and now she is upset with me. what can i do so she wont be upset with me. (she also knows i USE to cut which upset her too) i dont want to lose my "sister" because we are really close.. what can i do?? help plz i rate

Tell her its normal to do that kinda thing at our age. I mean if you quit...and truley mean it...then your "sis" should understand. Peer pressure can get to some people. But look at it from your "sis's" point of view. I mean...i would b upset too if one of my really close friends did that. B understanding. Member...people make mistakes. asHleyx3

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Okay at my job, I like my manager.... he's metrosexual, and of course we have that fratnerization rule. But anyways, he found out (not from me) that I like him, and he said he likes me too, but when I am around him, I don't feel like he likes me... I mean yeah he still laughs at my jokes and things like that, but he also said that if he wasn't my manager, he'd talk to me.... so I dunno if I am wasting my time, or if I should go ahead and keep talkin to him (promotions are in April, so if I do get promoted, I can talk to him...) so what should I do (and apparantely, he likes this other girl who's a manager, but she said she's over him...)

Go ahead and talk to him...i mean...if you like your manager...you should talk to him. Guys are confusing. It's just a way of life. I bet a lot of people have this problem! Talk to him and...probably...sooner or later...he will come around. But for now...do good at work because you want to get a good promotion dont ya? asHleyx3

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Friday we took my cat to the vet. He had many wounds on his body and they still weren't healing. In the vet they told us he has a rare blood disease that makes his white blood cells attack his skin cells... and that all of his fur and his skin would fall off and he might bleed and he'd be in pain. They gave us medications for him (pills and a spray for those... wounds) and said that the approximate time the cat would get cured and his fur would regrow would be in two months. When I was 9 or 10 my first cat died. ...His fur was falling off too (not his skin though... at least not that I remember... no, not his skin) bbut it was some illness he got when he was outdoors with stray cats. Well they gave him medications and said he would be cured... until the last weeks of his life where they said that he was going to die and they gave us the option of putting him to sleep.
Well what I wanted to know is if anybody has had a similar health issue with their pets. Or if anybody knows about the illness my cat has and could explain it to me. I didn't understand the vet very well. Or just any tips on how I could take care of my cat (he's indoors now). Thank you for your time.

I know how you feel...both of my dogs had to be put to sleep but not becasue of the...because of old age. If it doesnt clear up in the time its suposed to then consider putting it to sleep...i mean...you want to do the best thing for it and not letting your cat be inpain is the best thing for your cat. But your cat has to be in really bad condision because you dont want to put it to sleep when it could still have life...let it be approved by the vet first! asHleyx3

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My friend was around marajuana over the weekend, i'm not sure weather or not she smoked, but she could have. Then she got sick and her mom took her to the doctor, where she had a blood test done to see weather or not she had mono. Should she be worried about the marajuana showing up on the test? do you think that the doctor will notice if it does? Please help!

:)annie

I do think the doctor will notice. I mean...tests do pick up a lot. But im not a doctor. And ya she should be worried if it shows up on the test!! Shes gonna get in trouble! Who knows...mayb she really didnt smoke it. She could have inhailed the fumes. She should tell her mom because then there wouldnt be any confusion. And so she doesnt get inot a lot of trouble. asHleyx3 &

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Ok I have a boyfriend, and I just wanted to make sure that it was normal to think that he is a better person than you. He is smart, funny, nice, and overall an AMAZING guy. I just feel like he could do so much better than me! I know it's a silly question, but I just wanted to know if others felt the same? I just feel so incredibly lucky that he likes me and is going out with me. Words can't express how I feel.

Its normal to think that your boyfriend is better...i mean...if you think hes amaising then your gonna get to that stage sooner or later! Well if he is so "Amazing" he wouldnt be going out with you if you didnt think you were amazing too! asHleyx3 &

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