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Heyy...Im Michelle...and well i have blonde hair with natural blonde highlieights...im 5' 4"..I have a LOAD of rele kewl friends which i love chillin with them....I'm very funny and outgoing and mostly wild...i LOVE giving advice...most of my family comes to me for advice so you might as well also...and well thats about it...c ya lata
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Age: 13
Member Since: July 15, 2005
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okay one of my best friends and i have dated before and we still care about each other even though we're not together anymore. we still care about each other a lot..but everytime i try to tell him that i still care about him and that no matter what happens to our relationship i'm always gonna be here for him..but everytime i try to tell him that he just pushes me away by saying whatever, sure, or mmmmhmmm...it's driving me crazy cause i'm always trying to make the situation better but he just makes it worse..it kills me to know that i'd do anything for him but he doesn't even care..if i had to i'd go lay infront of a car for him..i just wish he wouldn't push me away so much..PLEASE HELP!! i really love this kid! (link)
The reason why he is pushing away from you is becuase he probably likes the attention and that just makes you just keep on saying it...try not to mention it for a while and then he might start saying the same stuff to you...


My periods normally go for five days, but it's been really heavy for like 8 days now and it's just not stopping! It's never changed how long it goes on for like this before, what's going on? (link)
IThe flow usually depends on the type of egg (ovary. Maybe the ovary that your havein as your period was supposed to be twins...


okay i'm just friends with this kid, and he isn't shy just friends, but when we go out he is so shy, and i really hate it, we went out twice and both times he was really shy, and he makes me feel wierd around him, i really like him, and if we ever go out again, i don't want him to be shy .... so wat should i say to him if we ever go out and he's shy???

xomeox (link)
Tell your friend that you would apprecate it if he would act so shy...and maybe something may come out of it


I plan on waiting till i get married to have sex. But why is it so hard to find a guy that feels the same? Like on TV, all the guys seem like pigs, and that they only love women to get sex out of them. I want a guy who feels the same why i do, but why r they so hard to find? (link)
The guys that dont want sex are mostly geeks but some of them are hot...like in my school most of the hot guys dont want to have sex till they are older...


I am 13 and I have already had sex twice with my bf who is 15....people always say I am a huge slut and whore...stuff like that...but i dont think I am that much...i meen i thought I was ready so I had sex...what do you think?

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Well if you feel that you are ready to have sex then that cant rele make you a slut or a whore


having sex has always been a dream of mine!lol. i just want to know that when the skin breaks does it hurt? or does it sting and please give me advice on how to have oral sex please.
ill rate high and complemint if you dont make fun of me! (link)
The pain may vary if your loosing your virginity...it also depends on the guy. If he is rushing things and your not completly wet then it can hurt at times...but the best would be to lubricate yourself and your partner


and what should i do to become more skinny and popular?what foods do i need to eat to be more lean? ill rate high if you list as many as you can! thanks in advance
< Mikayla > (link)
If you want to become skinny you have to MOVE ALOT and eat less fatty foods more veges and fruits..


I WANT TO TAKE UP A DOGWALKING JOB!
what prices should i do for
grooming
baths & shampooing & flea conditioner
bathroom breaks
walks and bathroom breaks
dogsitting
and let me know if you can think any other things to do for the animals!
ill rate HIGH^
thanks
))) me ((( (link)
grooming=$10
bath&ect.=$15
walks bathroom breaks=$5
dog sitting=$10 an hour

these should work these are the prices that my cuzin has and she gets alot of money out of it


13/f


hey i just really want a guy. im attractive and pretty popular but i cant get a guy! im in 7th grade.. ive asked out a couple of guys in 8th and they automatically say no because i think they think its a joke. one time i gave a guy a note saying it wasnt a joke and he never wrote back.. i guess he wasnt interested but idk what to do! idk how to apporach a guy that i dont know, and want to go out. i've had boyfriends before and all but its been real hard lately. could you help me please? i rate 5 on anything that answers. ~thanks~ (link)
why dont you try gettin guys from your grade...then the guys that know you would feel better...becuase guys that are older than you might not no you and might not feel secure around you...its an agethingy


my friend and i are going to cheer camp next week and we have this thing where we decorate the room we're in and u can get prizes. well for our room we choose the theme "an evening under the stars", like its gonna be a kinda whimsical romantic theme like with glow in the dark stars on the cieling and white christmas lights, but we dont know what else to have in our room that fits but isnt too expensive (link)
why dont you find an old sofa then go to micheals and get dark blue fabric wrap the fabric around the sofa and walla you have a sofa that matches


All my friends are so much prettier and skinnier than me, and it lowers my self esteem. They are always the ones that get all the guys attention, and I hardly get any. I know it shouldnt matter at all, but it still bothers me. My friends dont treat me badly or anything, but im always worried that they are secretly thinking lower of me. Any suggestions on how to quit becoming so jealous and to stop thinking Im not good enough for my friends? (link)
I have alot of skinny friends and i just learned how to ignore their looks and how many guys fall for them by just repeatin these freaky words...i no it sounds crazy but 'im perfect becuase god made me' and whenever you feel like your jealous of them repeat those words...


Okay well this is a bit of a weird question but ah well.
I can't smile! My normal expression makes me look unhappy, even when I'm not. People always think I'm giving them a dirty look and when I try and smile at them it looks forced and bitchy. I can smile when it comes naturally but if someone asks me to, I can't. It's starting to become a real problem as everyone thinks I'm being unfriendly when I can't help it.
How can I learn to smile? (link)
lol...i had the same problem...my family always wanted me to smile but i couldnt ethier so when ever they forced me to smile i would remeber one of my friends weird activities durin school and i would just smile at it...it took me a while but it comes


well my guy friend and i have been friends 4 years now and i think im in love with him. see its all complicated. its like we used 2 like each other and like then it passed 4 him but i still liked him. then he told me he had a gf and i was mad and crushed, but i feel like i love him. and nows he's broken up eith his gf and my freidns keep telling me to go with him but i need ur advice 2!!! (link)
Go out with him if you still like him


I really like this guy and we went out about a month ago but i still really really like him. He is still sweet too me and he still says he love me like he say "love ya" at the end of most e-mail. We talk all the time on the computer but he never calls me. but he likes another girl in a town about 30-50 miles away from ours. He is still single and so am i.. what do i do.. should i get over him and be just friends or try when school starts? please help me. thanks so much (link)
Well you should tell him how you feel....it might make him realize that you still have feelings for him and that he is already loved and will love you back...thats wat i think anyways


ok this might be kinda confusing and long..I understand the consequences and worries that come around when you have sex& all that. I love my boyfriend with all that I have, and he loves me. We both gave up our virginity to each other, but the thing is, we weren't safe about it, and we both regret that. We both know that we should've used a condom, but I guess we were too caught up in the moment to realize that not using a condom wasn't very smart. okay so here's the question. I was wondering- the first time we had sex, he pulled out right before he ejaculated, and it got all over the place, but I wasn't sure if it had gotten inside of me or not. after that I told him I wanted to make sure I got my period. I took a pregnancy test because he said it would make him feel more comfortable, even though it was too early to be accurate anyways, and like I figured..it came out negative because it was too early. but then a few days later we had sex again but he didn't cum. so if I get my period, that takes care of both times we had sex, right? I know you can't get pregnant if you get your period, but I wasn't sure if I could get my period for the 1st time we had sex, and still get pregnant because of the 2nd time or not. I'm planning on taking the 2nd pregnancy test today or tomorrow since that would make it 4-5 days before my period is supposed to come. please help! thanks in advance!

-confused (link)
Well if i would be n ur place i would wait for about 1-2 weeks then take another pregnancy test...and well for the future you might want to use a condom.


OK i really need help...I really want to have sex and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend, I've already had sex before so it's no big deal or anything but how should I tell him? We have been going out for 9 months and I just can't wait any longer

please tell me what to do

P.S. we are 13 and where should we have it without our parents noticeing


I WILL rate 5's for no one who bitches to me about how young we are im just sooooo god damn horny all the time (link)
you should talk about it with your b/f maybe he has the same feeling for you too...and asfor the place it would be best if your parents werent home or his parents something like that would be best


Hi I'm looking for a summer job in Birimingham solihull area in the UK but I carnt seem to find anywhere that has any jobs for 15 year olds. has any1 got any ideas.

will rate high if answers are good.
thanks xxx (link)
try your school or maybe your public library


well im 14 and my parents got divorced a few years ago and my dad married this person i hate! she is seriously like the wicked step mother and it blows. She always talks bad about my mom too and my mom is the sweetest person in the world. How can i tell her to shut the hell up without getting grounded forever. help! P.S. sorry its so long! (link)
Try talkin to your dad about it....maybe he can tell your stepmom to not talk about it in fornt of you or around you


okay, so im 13. and i weight a lot. i mean like a lot. but i dont look like it. i am kind of chubb-ish though. ive never had a boyfriend. and i dont really want one. i just want to find one that will treat me right from the start and one that truely likes me. i just dont feel like that will ever happen. & i also want guys to just see me as more than a friend. i dont know. i guess i just want guys to like me for who i am. & thats hard at my school. especially since its 8th grade and all the guys are into sluts. please help me!! i need it! (link)
A slut to a guy is just like a toy...they will play with it for a while...but then they out grow it...think about it




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