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me & the guys.
okay, so im 13. and i weight a lot. i mean like a lot. but i dont look like it. i am kind of chubb-ish though. ive never had a boyfriend. and i dont really want one. i just want to find one that will treat me right from the start and one that truely likes me. i just dont feel like that will ever happen. & i also want guys to just see me as more than a friend. i dont know. i guess i just want guys to like me for who i am. & thats hard at my school. especially since its 8th grade and all the guys are into sluts. please help me!! i need it!
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ok, on the contrary to what some 1 else said, not ALL guy's are shallow. im not.
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A slut to a guy is just like a toy...they will play with it for a while...but then they out grow it...think about it
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If your guys arent willing to see what a good person you are on the inside, you shouldn't want them anyways. Guys are shallow, and believe me, you'll eventually find some guys that love you for you.
Maddie
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♥You just answered your own question:
"Its 8th grade and all the guys are into sluts"
It's completley thoroughly totally true. Right now guys are just coming into puberty, and want the farthest thing from a real relationship. They go for the slutty girls because they want to experiment. In a few years, some (yes, only some) will grow out of this. You just have to wait it out, you'll eventually find someone who cares about you and thinks your beautiful the way you are and is ready for a relationship like you are. It could be this year, next year, etc. Try dating outside of your school.
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I know how you feel. I don't look that great either and it really bugs me when guys go for the anorexic sluts. But believe it or not, there are some guys out there who care whats on the inside. But you're only in 8th grade, so you got a lot of time! If you boost your self confidence level, people will start to like you more. Look at yourself in a different persepective. Thats what I do. And if you are so selfconcious about your body, try working out! I sugguest doing situps, or read Seventeen Magazine for some cool workouts that really work! You can go to:
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^click on the green health section!
Good Luck!
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