having sex has always been a dream of mine!lol. i just want to know that when the skin breaks does it hurt? or does it sting and please give me advice on how to have oral sex please.
ill rate high and complemint if you dont make fun of me!
ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday July 16 2005, 2:23 pm: Okay when you first have sex Yes it will hurt just a lil bit i guess it depends how you take lil pain.. and how gentle the guy actually is..but its not that bad seriously it doesnt hurt that bad.. when you give oral just make sure you dont bite his stuff.. spit alot on it and get it wet even get his balls wet and rub em and if you cant go all the way down on his stuff go upp and down on his dick with your hand at the bottom while sucking the top and lickin it or what ever.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
ncblondie answered Saturday July 16 2005, 1:07 am: It varies from woman to woman and a lot depends on the guy. If the guy is gentle and you're ready, chances are it won't hurt much, if at all. If he's rushing things or you're not turned on enough, it will probably be painful. Some women have pain and/or bleeding while others don't. The best thing to do when you decide to have sex is to first talk about it. Let the guy know it's your first time and you want to take it slow.
Oral sex is a matter of preference. You should decide what you like to do and go from there. Some women prefer to only use their mouth while some prefer to use their hands too. Talking it over with the guy you're planning on having sex with is also a good idea since he can give you an idea of what he likes.
Last but not least, if you are planning on having sex, please protect yourself against pregnancy and STDs. If you can't talk to your parents, go to your local health department or planned parenthood office. They can answer questions you may have and help you to get contraceptives at little or no cost, without notifying your parents.
icey0990 answered Saturday July 16 2005, 12:59 am: hey im a virgin but from what people say and from what i have read the pain varies from girl to girl. If a girl uses tampons,is athletic, etc..when her hymen breaks it wont hurtt as much.
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-melissa- [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
poa answered Saturday July 16 2005, 12:57 am: Hmm... Maybe if you had a slightly more vivid imagination you could have better dreams.
Real4Christ07 answered Saturday July 16 2005, 12:51 am: I know that the picture this world paints for sex is great but believe me it's not worth it. You're first time will probably hurt I'm not a girl but from what I've heard it hurts. About 90% of the girls I talk 2 wish they would have saved their virginity. I think you should save yours. As a woman it is the one thing that makes you pure above everything else.
The Bible says
1 Corinthians 7:2
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication(sex b4 marriage), let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
Plus I know you don't wanna be staying up some nights wondering if you're pregnant or have an STD. Trust Me It Aint Worth IT. And yes it CAN happen 2 you. But not if abstain. [ Real4Christ07's advice column | Ask Real4Christ07 A Question ]
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