Member Since: July 13, 2007
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Last Update: August 18, 2007
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OKay. how old do you have to be to move out of your parents house and not have to listen to them in NY state?? (link)
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im kinda sure you must be 18 to be able to move out and NOT listen to your parents lol =]
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I'm always hungry before I go to bed. I eat my meals and snacks throughout the day, but I always get hungry around 9 pm. I can control my hunger, but what would be the best thing to do? Would it be unhealthy or unsafe to not eat before you sleep? Or should I eat crackers or something? I'm on a diet also. Thanks! (link)
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i suggest you eat something not to heavy like yea crakers and mabby just ceral it usually helps i know it sound weird but its good keeps you full and its not that heavy ...no chips or andy or pepsi ..i think milk would for fill everyhting some warm milk and a 1 or 2 nice cookies ( your choice) i think its good and not to heavy and No its no unsafe not to eat before bed you just hapen to get haungry alot of people do ..hope i helped =]
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i've been molested, as a child. it happened often and i've tried so hard to block it out but now i feel like it defines me. nobody knows, i can't say anything nobody will believe me. everybody will hate me. he ruined me. i picture how my life would be if it never happened, the way i am now is horrible. i make so many mistakes just trying to make myself feel better but nothing works. i dont know what to do, i cant talk to anybody. im 16, this happened the summer going into 5th grade then into the year.
nothing makes it go away i don't know what to do i want to die so badly. (link)
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IM SORRY TO HEAR THAT but u cant just hold it in u need to talk to some1 and some1 you can trust and rely on..im sure that moment ruined your life and i no it did buteven though you already tried severything theres somehting you didnt try telling some1 who wont tell any1 else and who will help you and that you no will beilve you that the only thing i can give you ...im 14 and i havent been through being molested but it would of happend..so i no how you feel and that it really hurts you inside but you cannot stop living you must try harder to beat everything espacially that...plz if anything else you need im here for you and i will help you just ask me a question if you need anything else ..=] remember your not alone in the world
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ok so im 16 going on 17 in almost 2moths and althow this might be hard to belive i've never really had a boyfriend and i mean i wouldnt say its cause im really icolated cause i mean i basicly hang out with alot of dudes and they usaly try to get far i mean too far with me but yeah on saterday i went on my very frist date and it was cool i mean we werent really alone it was more of me being the only girl with a bunchof guys going everywhere acrost town well yeah i mean we did kinda get time alone like when we would drive up to places so yeah every time we would go in some where we would kinda hold has to you know show we are on a date or whatever but yeah i mean long story short when he drives me home we get off and he walks me to the door i was not thinking at all cause thats the part when we hug good bye and say well i'll call you later or whatever but i mean i just walked to the door and opend it w/ like my parints and grandparints right in the living room with him just standing there and yelled good bye i didnt reolize i did that till i was in bed!!!but yeah so dont know what to do i mean im really confuesd about that cause to top it all off i dont really like him i mean i do like him and i know he likes me too and all and i know that if we go out again which we are on friday that things might get close and well i havent even had my frist kiss this sounds soo lame or whatever but yeah it gets even worse the worst part is i think i have feelings for my best friend who is a GIRL!!! i mean everything is worse what do i do how do i know if what i feel for her is just some fase cause when i thing about haveing sex with a boy their "thing" kinda discusts me is that normal??? sorry its long but im really confuesd (link)
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wow so am i ..lol i really dont no how to explain it but im guessing u like the gurl and the boy ..and there "thing" im sure he wont get closer to tha if you tell him not to so you dont have to see it and about your gurl well what can i say if you like her then theres no problem only its kinda up to you to decide which one you like more him or her ....there is nothing about the boy "thing" its natural and even if you do have sex ...its not bad ...and the gurl im guessing you'll get over her or you never know lol =] good luck
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alright so me and this guy that likes me and i like him have been talking for awhile online. we have great conversation online..but tomorrow we are hanging out for the first time.
so i guess my question is..how do you make it so it isnt awcward when you hang out with your crush alone for the first time? and dont say hang out with a big group..because its gonna be just us (: (link)
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well it couldnt be really beacause its your fisrt time ..i mean you guys talked alot on teh comp its just like it onlyin real try to find a subject to talk bout (that you both like) and the day will go by real quick mabby do some things together it shouldnt be that ackward ..=]
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alllright so my parents will be gone this weekend and my bf is gonna sleep over. im trying to think of some exciting things we could do. we havnt had sex so not that, but anything else is defff possible. so what are some fun ideas that he would like?? id like as many ideas as possible. thanks so much! (link)
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WOO-HOO i like the sound of this onee lol deffently try to watch a horror movie togethe ron the couch and snuggle up wit a blanket it and chill around and mabby i dont know kiss and you no anything you want.. and mabby you guys can go out to (lunch dinner ) go for a wlak on the beach watch the sunset or something you no theres so mcuh you can do ..=] hoped i helped and have fun !!
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sorry if this gets long, but i appreciate anyone who anwsers.
in the last two days i've lost over like seriously 5 friends. one of which imed me and told me about 5 people who think im a slut! one of which i like. but just met that day. because i typed that i cut myself.
im crying nonstop all the time, i hate who i am. ive been having suicide thoughts nonstop. im emotionally dead basically, and im hurting myself physically. i cant ask anyone for help, ill just scare them away /=
i used to be like this on and off, usually on, since 5th grade, i dont want pain anymore. i told everyone not to talk to me, im going to delete my myspace account.
one girl imed me telling me i have to give up a friendship for a while because of this kids girlfriend needing help, when i need it just as much. i feel like im a sob story. but im dead serious. i need help from anyone! (link)
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LISTEN TO ME !!! =] i had a friend liek that EXACTLY the same the thing is my friend had a friend beside her (me) i helped her out and i think you need to talk to some1 really that will understand you ( guy friend another friend) i dont know i cannot help you only some1 really close to you can and im sorry to say but if your friends drop you like that they aint real friends i no you probably love them alot but if they do that then you no what they aint worth being friends with ... put your mind together agaian tell your self you can and move on take long walks go otuside do thing =s you wouldnt do call some oold friends up dont REMIND YOUR SELF OF WHAT HAS HAPPEND just live in the present and try to make new friends forget who you wore just think of something you can be !! =]
Y&B
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14/m... So there's this friend I have who is a girl and she knows I like her because my other friends are telling her. Anyways, we're always talking on aim and stuff and sometimes we end up talking about the fact that I like her. Well, she doesn't like anyone right now, but she says she doesn't like me like that. Does anyone want to tell me how I can get her attention and get her to want to go out with me? It would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. (link)
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well i can understand you im 14 but im female ... and hey i think you should give her something a present that she can keeep and mabby heres something good tell her if she would like to go to luch sometime not as a date but as friends you no chilling mabby bring some1 so it doesnt seem ackward and you never no she might have alot of fun with you ..and you i've been told theres always chemistry by the beach (hint: bardwalk lunch by the beach ) lol hope i helped !!
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Almost everyday I am sick. I have MAJOR stomach pains everyday. It's not because of my period, I would tell the difference. But it's causing me to not pay attention in school, ruins my day, and I can't talk to people. My parents refuse to think it could be anything serious. I've been getting this for years. When I went to the doctors 2 years ago, she said it was nothing major. I'm usually NEVER nasious when I get it. It's ruining my life and I feel like nothing can help. :( (link)
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plan A : try telling your parents agaiana nd agaian they should get the messege soon lol or plan B : take some stomach pills or some pain relevers if its really that bad but not all the time ...and then mabby the pains will go again.. it might be cuz your eating bad r u?? if no then the only thing it can be is really seRIOUS try and beg your parents agaian and agaian =] good luck ..
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well me and my bf were making out and he was feeling me up and he was shaking like a lot and he was shaking before too why was he shaking ? (link)
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i would be thinking that is that he was nervous or was scared to mess up ?? mabby he just wanted everything to go great...i suggest you try it again and if it happens agaain ask him about it , it should work out at the end ..hope i helped =]
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do you think I should get my lip pierced, heres what I look like with a fake one in.
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=638mbeh (link)
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u would look really good WITHOUT ONE but that just mine my opinion
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ok so i've been talking to this guy online. and he goes to a different school then me. im 15 and he is 16. im gonna be a freshmen and he is gonna be a junior. we talk all the time. we get along great. he is always saying im beautiful. and last time he said i reall do mean it. and he is always saying im here for u if u need someone to talk to. and earliar he just gave me his number. oh and he is my ex best friends ex boyfriend. they went out for like a week and a half. i was wondering if he likes me? or has feelings for me?oh and if my mom found out i was dating a junior if he asked me out she would kill me. what should i do??
sry its so long. please help.
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ok im 95.999% sure he he likes if you met him outside of the internet if not then its like 20.00% lol if you did meet him outside the internet then he likes defently and about your you can NOT tell her and just say your going otu with some friends or tell her the truth and explain that you can meet him and if you give him a chance you mite like him so your choice ----hope it helpes lol
Y&B
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Alright. I have a bit of a dialema on my hands. I really like this guy [who happens to be my boyfriend]. I think I might love him but I'm scared to say so because of previous experiences.
But I goofed up. Big time. I cheated and gave a guy a handjob. It was a dare. And I know that doesn't make it any better at all, but you have to understand, I didn't want to.
So I told my boyfriend because guilt has been bothering me for a while and apparently, alot of people knew about it. He was mad. I haven't talked to him in three days unless you count a minute long conversation yesterday.
I need to know he's okay, that he doesn't hate me; even though I know he has every right to. I betrayed him. So do I try and get him to talk to me? Or do I back off? I don't want to bother him and make him more angry but I don't want it to seem like I don't care enough to see how he's doing! Argh! I'm so damn stupid. Why would I do that?! (link)
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THAT heppend to me once but it wanst that sexual it was just a kiss a big kiss and whikle i was gooing out wit this guy i was in love with but we were in a fight so i no the whole guilt thing give him some time to cool off depending on when you told him about a day or 2 and then try talking to him and explaing to him that you didnt want to do it , it just happend and try explaining everything you feel 4 him and that the other guy means nothing to him...... you can just say im sorrry and let him decide wat he wants to do..
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0kay so my life is finally coming together now after a really long time. and by that i mean that my friends are great and i have found an amazing guy :) but recentlyi just learned that i am leaving my school and area because of a court order (fam issues) and so now i have been really sad an idk what to do. i know my friends will always be here but the guy is the thing that worries me. in such a short time i have gotten to know him and found that he means alot to me. i dont want to leave him cause i have a feeling i will lose him. all i can do when i think about it is cry is there any advice anyone can give me? i know its a hard question but i really need help. thanks in advance (link)
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well SPEND AS MUCH TIME AS POSSIBLE WITH HIM and tell him everything you wanted .how you feel bout him and everything else..and if he doesnt no bout u leaving town then i suggest you tell him that way your seperation can be easier if you to can work everything out..lol
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I'm 15, turning 16 soon. I weigh 115 and im 5'5". When ever my dad sees me he always makes a suggestion like, you shouldn't eat that, you're just getting fatter and fatter. And if i ask for money for new jeans, he says, we'll stop gaining weight so you can fit back into them. I wear a size 0, and i'm growing, what does he expect? How am i suppose to cope with this? It's been bothering me so much lately. My sister, whose 20, is like anorexic skinny. She's my height but doesn't even reach 100 pounds. And my dad always compares me to her. What am i suppose to do?! (link)
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Thats really not good beacase your dad is pushing you alot toward weight loss..and frankly its not his body its yours..and 115 at age 16 is nothing ur size 0 and your rite your growing so i say you talk with your father about it and settle everything .. hope you found the answer :}
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I had a huge fight with my best friend of two years. We've never been in a fight, and she overreacted on something that wasn't a big deal (she was PMSing...)
Anyways, how do you become friends with someone again after a fight?
I've never had experience in this because I've never gotten in fights with my friends...
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for 2 years??? ive had friends for over 4 years and we had alot of fights so i no excatly how it feels..lol try talking to her bout it and saying things like ushe really means alot to you and that you dont wanna loose her over a stupid fight lol she'll come around ...hope i helped =]]
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i was talking to one of my guy friends and the subject of like girls being skinny came up some how. he was saying how he and other guys in general hate it when girls are too skinny and they need to have some fat on their stomach. would other guys agree? (link)
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i woudlnt say alot of other guys would AGREE i mean some defently will but other will probably have diffrent opinions on the subject. all guys are diffrent and all have diffrent tastes in girls ..hope it helps =]
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I took your advice and i asked a guy out. on the 2nd date we kinnda kissed like peckish like. it was short and weird. When i looked up from the kiss the guy was blushing and got kinda freaked. he ran away. I called him and asked what was up and he said that he'd tell me on our next date. well when he came he said he had a "boner" and was embarrased. So i said it was ok and after the date we kissed in his car. well maybe more like make-out. then he dropped me off at home. That was last week and he hasn't called me back! i see him places and he says "hi" but otherwide disregaruds me.
*Is he just scared again or is he trying to tell me we are over? I don't thnk i did anything wrong! whats up??? (link)
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wow...i had the same experience before so dont worry ..you should give him a call and ask whats wrong and try making him feel comfrable and then ask him whats wrong say your not gonna except this kinda behavior from him or that u dont like it ..he should then tell you whats botherting him and mabby you to can work it out ..his probably just shy or nervous bout it..
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