14/m... So there's this friend I have who is a girl and she knows I like her because my other friends are telling her. Anyways, we're always talking on aim and stuff and sometimes we end up talking about the fact that I like her. Well, she doesn't like anyone right now, but she says she doesn't like me like that. Does anyone want to tell me how I can get her attention and get her to want to go out with me? It would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
XxlovergurlxX100001 answered Monday July 16 2007, 7:23 pm: well i can understand you im 14 but im female ... and hey i think you should give her something a present that she can keeep and mabby heres something good tell her if she would like to go to luch sometime not as a date but as friends you no chilling mabby bring some1 so it doesnt seem ackward and you never no she might have alot of fun with you ..and you i've been told theres always chemistry by the beach (hint: bardwalk lunch by the beach ) lol hope i helped !! [ XxlovergurlxX100001's advice column | Ask XxlovergurlxX100001 A Question ]
desert4diner answered Monday July 16 2007, 7:02 pm: Find out the things she is interested in and start to like them as well, or find things that you have in common and talk about them with her. She will like that in my opinion. Girls are emotional, if anything is wrong in her life do what you can to make her feel good and make her happy.
Cux answered Monday July 16 2007, 7:00 pm: You can't make someone like you if they don't. Trust me.. I've been in your situation. It was with my best friend Leah. The topic of me liking her as more than a friend came up a lot, and at different times. She knew I liked her, and I knew she didn't like me as I liked her. Eventually, she just couldn't take it anymore [and I don't blame her] and we didn't talk for almost 3 months. It was the WORST! The reason we didn't talk wasn't really because I liked her again, for about the 5th time that year, but because I sort of tried to get her to like me. It wasn't worth it. We lost 3 months of friendship because I tried to get her to like me in a way she didn't want to. Luckily, we're still friends- and it still amazes me to this day that we are- and I'm sure that not many people could have survived what we did. I say that you shouldn't try to make her like you- there are PLENTY of people out there who would like you WITHOUT you trying to make them. Love isn't worth it to sit around and wait for someone- there are other people to meet- and other things to do rather than chasing a seemingly worthless cause.
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