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Hey y'all! I'm 16/f, a gymnast at Top Flight Gymnastics Training Center in Southlake, Texas (I don't live in Southlake, that's just where my gym is!) and I go to Lewisville High. Go Fighting Farmers! Haha...ya right. Umm...ya. Ask me anything you like. I love to give advice. Ask away, I'll answer asap! Love ya!
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: Gymnast
Age: 16
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Member Since: December 5, 2004
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How do you work out the area of a circle from its radius?
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i have a blister on my toe (1st toe) and it hurts. is there any way possible i can make it so it won't hurt? (link)
not really.
just put a band-aid on it with neosporin for pain under the band-aid. it'll help it heal quicker so you won't have to suffer as long. lol

~steph~


if you shave "down there" and you go to the doctors for a checkup or somethin then what will they say to you? can you get in trouble? (link)
i highly doubt you'd get in trouble. i mean, why would you get in trouble for shaving?!?!?!? unless you were shaving your wrists if you know what i mean.... lol don't worry about it.

~steph~


I'm 5'4" and i weigh 160lbs. the thing is I don't look fat and I don't look like i weigh that much, but it bothers me. All my friends say i'm lucky because I'm average {look it anyone}. All my friends have this idea that i weigh like 115lbs. It's weird 4 me 2 hear them say that cause I know the truth. Any way i'm just happy i don't look like i weigh that much. But does anyone have a work out plan where u can lose weight quickley? If so please write me back and tell me. I'm hoping to lose between 15-20 pounds before I go 2 the beach. ~Thanx~ (link)
you could go running every morning with a sweatshirt on(which makes you sweat and get rid of extra water weight, but make sure you drink plenty of water or else you'll get dehydrated), do lots of exercises like doing a crunch and holding the "crunch" position for like 15-20 seconds a couple times, or push-ups or something. hope i helped!

~steph~


Alright so i have been going through alot lately..and I was a lil upset so i felt like sneeking out and going for a walk.. well my friend said he would go with me.. so at 1 we snuck out.. I thought I might ad in that I have always liked my friend but i know we will probly only ever be friends. well when we was walken.. and just talken.. my mom pulls up.. and gets really mad.. and emberisses me infront of him. so Yeah i was caught.. Well I told my mom not to talk to me.. cause I was really upset. So today if I want to do anything im probly going to have to talk to her about it. What do I say? (link)
all you need to do is tell why you were sneaking out and that it wasn't to go to a party and have sex or something. i think she'll understand then. even if she will still be a little mad about you sneaking out. and i don't think it'll be awkward between you and your friend if you don't let it be. you just need to know that he's your friend and your mom getting mad at him shouldn't change that. good luck!



its me AGAIN..anywho..

i kno that they half to pull of the bracets..that doesnt bother me. its the 4 rings in the back around my teeth. do they just pull those out too? (link)
ya. they pull those out. but it doesn't hurt unless they do it wrong or something which i highly doubt they will.

~steph~


I'm questioning my faith
i'm not sure what it was in the first place really
um... but I think i'm just kind of having a bit of a crisis, not sure where to turn
I come from a semi-Christian background
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you probably need to start looking into your religion and finding out what it's all about so that you can find out what you should do. just be strong and everything will become clear. have faith that this will work, no matter how long it takes, and you'll find your faith in Christ.

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I have this cousin and she's in 6th grade and me and her are really good friends even though I'm 2 years older than her. Anyways, A LOT of my friends and older guys (like 14/15 yr old guys) thinks she's really hott and I think it's because she has big boobs for her age and to be honest, her bras are really padded. Well i'm sick of guys comin up to me and being like "god your cousins soo hott..she looks older than you!" and pretty much all my guy friends think she's hott and shes really not like "OMG SO PRETTY"..I just don't know what to tell them or what to tell her because it's so messed up..help please? oh yea, and my cuzin is eleven.. (link)
my goodness....it sounds like those guys friends of yours are kinda shallow. if they're only into her because of her padded chest, then don't worry about it. just ignore them whenever they tell you that she's hot, or be like "hey! that's my cousin you're talking about!" or something like that. don't let it get to you too much. if they're shallow enough to go after a girl 3-4 years younger than them just because she has big boobs for her age, then they're not worth worrying about.

hope i helped!
steph


I normally do not ask questions about guys on this site, but I just have no clue what to do.

My situation is that my boyfriend went out with this girl from his camp last year (they broke up b/c they wouldn't see eachother for a whole year). Well, this year he is going back to camp (she is too), and the camp holds a hotdog/hamburger barbeque thing where everyone pretty much has a date (although it's not neccasary to have a date, but everyone does have one). He asked me if he could go with this girl from last year. He told me that he "sort of" wanted to go with her (I'm guessing this is my language for "I want to go with her but I don't want to seem to eager about it b/c it will probably make you mad"). My problem is that I am afraid he is going to start liking her again, and I won't be able to do anything about it (after all, I will be miles away; I won't be able to stop them flirting or anything). I am just scared of losing this great guy.

My question is- am I being jealous and should I let him go with this girl to the barbeque? Or do I have a good reason to be worried?

Thanks I appreciate any answers! (link)
ummmm.... it really just depends on how much you trust your bf. but i can see why you're worried since they have been together in the past. you're just gunna have to decide if you're willing to trust him enough to let him go with her and have him fend for himself, or if you're gunna play it safe and tell him no. it's all up to you.



this is a question for the girls. I just recently straightened my hair for the first time and like ive never really styled it in anyway so i have no idea what to do with it now. its kinda long but sorta short like its not shoulder length but in front it goes down past my eyebrows and so long story short im wonderin wut kind of hairstyles girls like on guys and how to do those thanks much i rate very high. (link)
i usually like it when guys have longer hair like you're explaining and without any gel. just make sure it doesn't look like a rat's nest (uncombed and unwashed) in the morning and your good to go!

~steph~


okay im a 14/f with braces. i get them off june 30th. and i was wondering how they take them off. bcuz i have a sensitive mouth i was wondering if i should take pain killers before and all of that stuff.

i rate high for *GOOD* answers.

peace out. (link)
it doesn't really hurt so much that you'll need pain killers, but if you really wanna, i guess you could just to be safe. the only things that might hurt would be pulling off the brackets with plyer looking things and then getting off the remaining glue. and that doesn't even hurt so bad. but if your really worried about it hurting, then take some light pain killers just to help.

hope i helped!
steph


ok i am a girl 14 and my boyfriend is in arkansas (his hometown) and he hasnt even called me! friday was my birthday and his best friend called me and wished me a happy birthday but he didnt and he hasnt called me at all and i havent talked to him since the day he left for arkansas which was 12 days ago and i dont know if he his waiting for me to call or what ! i CANT break up with him i love him to much what should i do ? (link)
it depends on what you wanna do when you come down to it.
you can either sit there by the phone, waiting for hours on end for him to call, or you can pick up the phone and call him yourself. that's the most sure way of getting ahold of him. and if he answers, ask him what's going on and why he hasn't been calling you. you don't need to break up with him before you have all the facts. just see what's going on.



ok, tell me Honestly if my body sounds perportiond because some one told me i wasnt and i guess I kind of got parinoyed about it, here goes. I weigh 110 pounds im 5'6'' i think around there i have a pretty slim body type and a B cup(if that helps). and i odnt think i look fat but idk if thats a good weight to be at with my height. any help would be apreciated. But please, no rude coments (link)
from the info you've given, it sounds like your body is just how it should be! just because someone says they think that your body is unproportioned, doesn't mean that it's true. your weight is actually under average for your height so you're not fat. don't worry about what that other person said. your body is absolutely perfect just the way it is!

hope i helped!
~steph~


yeah i went to our softball/baseball fields for the WHOLE day today and i have the worst fricken sunburn on my most sensitive shoulder right now and I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! it hurts WICKED bad! is there anything else to put on it besides aloe or burn cream because that isnt doin much right now! ANSWER ASAP! thx!
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i don't think there's much else you can do to help it right now. just keep putting on the aloe and burn cream constantly and maybe use some neosporin stuff that's for pain too. you're just gunna have to keep it moisturized constantly and it'll eventually begin to stop hurting as much and keeping it moisturized will also help keep it from peeling too bad.



does anyone know where i can get patterns for clothes (like for sewing them) online? and don't say google it because i've tried that and haven't found anything. (link)
i dunno about any online, but you can probably get some at a fabric store like JoAnne's or Hancock Fabric or anything around where you live.
hope i helped!



i think i am way fat. everyone tells me i am skinny, but seirously, i am 5'3" and 112 pounds. my friends think that just cause i m going on a diet, i will be anorexic. help!!!!!!!!!!!!
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YOU ARE NOT FAT!!!!!!!! omg....listen to your friends. you are not fat. from the info you put in your question, you are actually more on the side of under-average! if you really don't feel good about your weight, then just do some short work-outs or something. but don't over-do it, cz it's not that necessary. just make sure you feel good about yourself and listen to your friends!



Most of the time my hair is frizzy and not straight. I've tried a lot of methods and my hair is still going to be frizzy. what is the best way to straighten hair? (link)
blow dry and flat iron.....you can also use some product that is supposed to help straighten your hair.


I am not fat at all.but i want to go on a diet becasue my borther acts hard in front of his friends and says fat cow and stuff liek that.I hate it when hes like this. What can i do? (link)
don't go on a diet just cz what your brother was saying. that's how eating disorders generally happen. all you need to do is just play along when he says that, or just completely ignore him. then he'll get bored of saying that cz he's getting no reaction out of you! don't listen to him, he's just being a jerk.

~steph~


would it be better for a brunette to go to a red shade? most of my friends are saying red instead of blonde...what do yall think is better? (link)
keep it brunette! i think it's always best to keep your natural hair color cz then you don't have to worry about the roots showing up and stuff. but if you really wanna dye it, DO NOT do blonde. it usually turns out an orangie color that looks completely fake and gross.

~steph~


It is always a competition between my best friend and I for who can get a better tan over the course of the summer. We do it naturally by laying outside instead of fake baking. We don't tan ecessivley or anything, but lately I've been wondering about skin cancer and all that. My mom told me to use some sun tan lotion to block the violent rays of the sun..but will that stop me from getting a good tan? Thx (link)
no, it does not prevent you from getting a good tan. it actually helps cz it's harder for you to burn. if you know that your gunna be out there for like 2 hours or more, use spf 30 or higher and reapply on the places that burn easier on you every now and then. otherwise, use something like spf 15 or 8 depending on how long you'll be out there. you'll still get a good tan and you won't have to worry about getting burned. if you burn alot when you're younger it usually ends up that you get skin cancer, so if i was you, i might be worrying a little bit more about protecting my skin than how dark it gets......





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