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me and my best guy friend have been kind of friends with benefits for about a year now. we were just friends w/ benefits we didn't like each other any more than being best friends. so now he's going out with my other best friend. we've pretty muched stopped the whole friends with benefits thing but he still hugs me he'll rest his head on me or something like that and his girlfriend knows it and is ok with it. so my problem is that now i really like him. like with a passion. i dont want to hurt his girlfriend(another one of my best friends) because im happy that they're together and they're happy in their relationship. i dont know if i should let my guy friend know that i like him. i dont want them to break up because i truthfully am happy for them. i can't avoid my best guy friend because i see him everywhere in school. i need our friendship to last. but i dont know what to do about my love for him.
You need to let him know how you're feeling. He is your best friend & he should understand. Tell him not to tell you're other best friend so it doesn't cause any complications. & just tell him that you are happy for them & you don't want them to break up over you. You just couldn't hold it in any longer & you had to let it out.
i need new screen name can u name some for me and the theme is about:LOVE and thanks =)
XO Love [Your Name]
Okay right now I'm home-schooled and its not at easy as it seems I've been doing it for 2 years. I've been to a wonderful private school. I want to go back but my parents say its to much money and they say I might go back though should I keep hoping I could do it so I can be with all my friends again but of course I still have plenty of friends even when I'm home schooled.
If you really want to go there to still have a social life then you should just talk to your parents. When you're home schooled you still have all of your friends, but you don't get to talk to them as much because you're not at school with them.
ok like now..im not sexually active but when it comes to the time .. i hear that fingering is a good way to get loosened up, so when your bf finger's you..like where do u look? wont it be awkward if you look at him while he's doing it? do you lay down..what?!
You can either lay down or sit up. Mostly lay down. & when he's doing it he's not gonna look at you. He might glance at you & if he does it won't be weird if you're looking at him. Just kind of look up, or look forward. It just kind of comes to you when it happens.
16, female :]
how can i get a guys attention. like without having to go up and actually talk to them first. because my cousin is starting hockey and he is on the A bantams team. which is pretty much like 10th graders around 15 yrs. or so. anyways alot of people go to his games and i went to his first one! he goes to a diff. school than me so that means i get to see all the cute boys that come ;] i always meet my cousin or go with her (her brother is the one we go watch) and she always sits by these cute guys and the girls...but like one time we were sitting towards the bottom and the boys were at top and then like the guys kept throwing stuff down. like paper and stuff. but i dont know if its because they didnt want us there or because they thought we were cute or what? so i looked back and i was like what the hell! and i smiled. and then the guys just looked at me and smiled and laughed. keep in mind that some have girlfriends but i think im pretty attractive. okay that sounded bad im definately NOT conceited. i just dont think im that ugly! alot of guys have told me that they think im pretty hott so im just going off what they say. im pretty shy most of the time and i feel very uncomfortable when we sit by them because they're all soo cute! i get really hyper when im with my cousin though but not that hyper at the games! im going to another one of his hockey games soon so what do you think i can do to get the guys attention? also my self-esteem gets really low because there are alot of pretty girls that they sit with and when i see them im like wow..they're so much prettier than me i feel so ugly ...i know you have to have confidence and i TRY! and i do most of the time i just dont show it that my self-esteem gets lowered when i see the pretty girls..
well any suggestions would be nice! and it would also be kinda wierd to just go up and introduce myself and my cousin isnt really that good friends with them, at least not enough to go up and be like hey and start talking. i just dont go up to people, they come up to me otherwise we dont meet if you know what im saying and im sorry but nothing will change that. i just wish all eyes could be on me ..but who doesnt?!?..
First of all you just need to look your best & try to stand out. Wear bright colors, do your hair pretty. Stand out from the rest of the girls to get their attention. Kind of smile occasionally & give them eye contact. Soon one of them will give in & come up to you.
I don't think my friend, like me as much anymore or something!
Okay, so like.. I've never not had a problem with friends, they've always been like good. I've always had tons & I still do, but like my best friend, doesn't even sit next to me at lunch anymore..& never talks to me when i'm hanging around this other girl. But, when i'm not with her.. she usually talks to me.
This girl, not alot of people like her. but, i do. I think shes alot of fun. But, alot of people push away from her. & the more i become friends with her, other people try to get away from me too. I still want to be friends with her.. but, i don't think i wanna be as good of friends.. because, the other one & others.. are alot closer i think. How can I kinda slowly move away from her?
Making like all new friends, isn't an option, its my last year at the school, & its also a small school. Theres only 30 girls.
[its a catholic school.]
What should i do?
Just slowly stop hanging out with her, calling her, talking to her. Soon she'll stop talking to you too. Don't tell her you don't wanna be friends with her. Just move away slowly. & hang out with your other friends more.
Long story but to sum it up, i fell madly in love with this one boy. No one else is like him at all, but the thing is we're broken up. Its been five months, and now we're good friends agian, and we have classes together. We're kinda startin to hang out again, but i dont think he really is thinkin of us gettin back together. See like, when we were together, i wasnt showing him i loved him as much exactly as he loved me, and in a way with him carin for me so much i hurt him, just by like sometimes hanging out with my friends instead of him, never tellin him how i felt all the time. Well i love him, and now after5 months i know absolutely everything i did wrong, and i want to change it. I dont want to rush things, but with how much he 'loved' me, his feelings have to come back. Lately he's been hanging out with other girls besides me, its gettin me sooooooo jealous, and like i cant say anything though, cause eh well ya know we're not talkin or together.
Boys i need your advice, or any girl who has been through this.
what should i do, i need to be with this kid.. in a way controls me but not litteraly, i even went through depression because of losing him.
so boys what would you do if you were in his situation and what would you want me to do for you?
and girls what have you done before to get a boy back.
thanks soo much for your help
I have had many friends go through this. & I'm always there to help them. All of my friends have had long, bad, crazy, or good relationships before me. So I've learned from there mistakes & now my relationship is good. So, he's just trying to show you what it's like to just be friends. If you really loved someone you can never really get them out of your mind. & that's what he's doing. He's playing hard to get until you crack & tell him how you feel, but you can't let that happen. You'd fall into his trap just like he wanted you to. Trust me, I have one friend who falls into this boys traps everytime & something bad always happens. He takes control over her. You just need to keep being friends with him & hanging out with him as friends. That's all you can do at this point. & when you see him with other girls, just as friends, your first reaction is to get jealous. Any girls is. You just have to keep telling yourself that you're not together. Soon everything will fall into place because you're not cracking & telling him how you feel, so he'll do it. I'm not saying this will happen tomorrow, cause it won't. Give it time. Who knows how long it'll take. My friend had to wait 8 months for her ex to make up his mind. Now they're back together. If you want to talk about anything else you can just IM me: XO Love Rika.
Hope I helped.
how do i loose over 30 pounds before feb.
I weigh 145lbs and i need to weigh about 123-130lbs
Well, there are always tons of diets you can go on. I know people who have been on weight watchers & it works really well. It does cost some money but it works. There's one thing that I kind of thought of, you just look at how many grams of fat are in everything you eat & that's how many sit-ups you do. That might not help you lose 30 pounds before February though.
alllrrigghtt in photobucket.. when you upload a picture and it gives you the three little things you can use to share your pictures. the one that says "TAG:" does anyone know how to make that smaller, like a website to do that or something would be a LIFESAVER. thanks so much if anyone can help! :)
If you click edit where the picture is then you can resize it. It gives you like 3 or 4 options depending how big the picture actually is.
this is simple, is a sign of STD'S small bumps on your butt that itch and only get them everyonce in a while but go away very fast? BTW i am a male
Go to this website:
http://aids.about.com/od/safersexquestions/f/stdsigns.htm
It should answer your questions.
ok my friend is great i am going through a really tough time right now it doesnt help that not only ,i am going through a tuff time i also moved and i have no new friends yet so i always talk to her about it on the phone and the comp and i am afraid i am stressing her out she says i am but i exactly saw a question on her advicenators about me i dont want her to worry she is the only thing i care about right now wat do i do
It may be really hard but lay off a little on getting advice from her. She's stressed too. You may not have friends where you are now, but when school starts you'll get a lot more friends. If you can't resist not talking about it & it's just tearing you apart inside then let it out. Don't keep it locked up.
Hope I helped.
okay, well i'm 14/f. and i have this guy friend that is 15/m. he's like freaking out because he got into a HUGE fight with a girl that he really liked, but she didn't like him. now he's thinking about commiting suicide. i am soo scared, what can i tell him?
Tell him that girls aren't everything in life. Even if he liked her a lot doesn't mean he won't find someone better. They always say that the person you're with or want to be with there's always someone better. You just have to find them. & I'm sure he'll find someone else. If that doesn't work talk to the girl if you can. & ask her exactly what she said to him & ask her if she can talk to him. That might make it better. But if that also doesn't work call or tell someone. Could be serious.
If god loves every one then why dose it seem that being gay is wrong. im a big gay rights person and i dont understand how in most religions its like one of the bigest sins
Religion is a big thing & if you follow it then that's what you believe. I personally don't. God does still love everyone no matter what. He's God.
Hope I helped.
Alright.....so I'm in the 9th grade and I'm 14. I'm friends with ALL guys.3 of them tease me about my boob size. I'm a 32B and they all say I'm small and I don't know what to do anymore. It gets really irritating and I just freeze and can't think of anything to say. Can anybody relate and give me a little advise here???
Thank You So Much!!!
I have smaller. An A, but I don't care. I tell everyone I want smaller boobs & they freak out. Just tell them you don't want big boobs because they get in the way of everything. With small boobs you can do so much more. =]
Hope I helped.
Im getting my senior pictures taken And i have no idea what to wear. My mom said no more new outfits so ill have to make macthes out of what i own. Im doing outside photos and indoor photos.
if anyone wants to help me please. You can say that youll help and ill give you my Screename and just send you pictures of some of the clothing that i own.
Thank you so much:)
I'd love to help. I have an OCD about matching so I could defintely help. My screen name is XO Love Rika.
any good powder coverup/foundation that you would suggest for less than $10?
I use Cover Girl for both. Then powder is in a round thing with a brown lid. & the foundation is in a glass bottle with a blue cap. They work good. No shine.
Hope I helped.
[ri k a]
whenever im going out with someone, ill be happy in the relationship and then someone will tell me they like me and then i feel bad for the person, like it makes me sort of like them, and want to go out with them, i think it could be because i want to know what its like since my current bf and i have been going out for a while. ive had this problem before, it broke me and my bf, i talked to the other kid for about a week, but i was still sneaking out to see my bf, and by the end of the week me and my bf got back together, i realized that i really liked him and the other guy sort of faded into the distancce and was like another kindergarden crush. the kid is still hurt 1 month later. i dont feel as bad as i used to. how can i help this cycle of feeling bad for other guys while im in a relationship?
A lot of girls go through this. I feel bad for guys who tell me they like me, but I don't start liking them. & some people just like the fact that someone else likes them & start to like them. To stop it you just need to tell yourself that you have a boyfriend & you're happy with him. & you just like the other guy cause he likes you.
Hope I helped.
[ri k a]
okay im a cheerleading. all of my years of doing i have been a flyer well this year im not flying at all. im in the back for a lot of the cheers so far & i just dont think this is right. this is my 7th year that i have been doing it. should i say something to the coach or should i just wait and see what happens? like this is only our 4th-5th practice so far? but im sick of like not doing anything. i front spot two things and then they dunno waht they are going to do with me for this one mount because some other girl replaced me. so im thinking im probably going to have to hide behind a mount & i just don't think this is right. any ideaS?
Yeah, you should say something to the coach. Just tell her that you're usually a flyer & that's what you're more comfterble doing. If she says she doesn't want you doing that then have some of you & your friends do a mount before practice & make sure she's watching so she sees how good you are.
Hope I helped.
[ri k a]
Okay , pleasee answer this ASAP considering I am leaving to get these items soon. What color eyeliner makes brown eyes stand out the most? What is the best brand of eyeliner to buy? Also can you prevent the eyeliner from running off to the side of your eye a theirs like a dot there? And if so what is it? Like are their any types of eyeliner that DONT do that? Ohh , and what color eyeliner makes your eyes look bigger? Thank-you.
It depends if you like dark colors or not. I haven't really experimented with brown eyes. & I like Cover Girl. But that's just me. It's not the pencil or the liquid. The liquid will run more. & the pencil just hurts, to me. If you look for waterproof eye liner it shouldn't run. & to make your eyes bigger on the bottom part only put eyeliner where your eyelashes are. Don't go all the way to the end. It makes your eyes look smaller if you do.
Hope I helped.
[ri k a]
ok well i'm going on vacation tomorrow to the beach, & i just got my period today. this isn't the first time i got it, the first time was in may, i actually got it twice in may and never got it in june. well i'm going to the beach, and i'm going to be wearing a bathing suit/going in the water. [i'm not like a person that will be swimming underwater, i'd probably just be like jumping the waves lol] it's not like i'm going to be in the water the whole time, just in and out. i've only been wearing pads though, not tampons. i've heard that your period stops when you're in the water but what about when i'm out of the water? should i just wear a tampon [i've never worn one before] would it be okay to wear a pad? idk what to do! please help? thankss :]
The same thing happened to me. It was my 2nd period ever & we were on vacation. So I wore a tampon. & let me tell you, the firs time you put it in you're like, "Holy shit, what the hell." Because it pushes all the blood up. & after you wear a tampon 1 time you're not gonna wanna wear them again. But believe me, they are so much better. You don't have to worry about the stench or leaking through 24/7. You have to worry about leaking through once it overflows. But it holds more. Some people say your period stops underwater but others say it doesn't. So don't always trust it.
Hope I helped.
[ri k a]