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i have problems keeping relationships when i know someone el
whenever im going out with someone, ill be happy in the relationship and then someone will tell me they like me and then i feel bad for the person, like it makes me sort of like them, and want to go out with them, i think it could be because i want to know what its like since my current bf and i have been going out for a while. ive had this problem before, it broke me and my bf, i talked to the other kid for about a week, but i was still sneaking out to see my bf, and by the end of the week me and my bf got back together, i realized that i really liked him and the other guy sort of faded into the distancce and was like another kindergarden crush. the kid is still hurt 1 month later. i dont feel as bad as i used to. how can i help this cycle of feeling bad for other guys while im in a relationship?
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Tell them you're commited. If they come to you and say they like you that's possibly their greed to have you, don't let yourself soften your heart because of someone if you're already engaged in a relationship, as much as you feel bad for them it's neccessary that they know you have someone.
If they still insist on saying they really like you and/or apparent they WANT to see you that they're hurt, it only proves they're being greedy over you, because love is something we used to make others have, not to indulge our needs, the natural way is if you feel something special for someone else, and you're lucky enough for them not to have someone already(applies to both sides actually).
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A lot of girls go through this. I feel bad for guys who tell me they like me, but I don't start liking them. & some people just like the fact that someone else likes them & start to like them. To stop it you just need to tell yourself that you have a boyfriend & you're happy with him. & you just like the other guy cause he likes you.
Hope I helped.
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