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how to get the guys attention! <3
16, female :]
how can i get a guys attention. like without having to go up and actually talk to them first. because my cousin is starting hockey and he is on the A bantams team. which is pretty much like 10th graders around 15 yrs. or so. anyways alot of people go to his games and i went to his first one! he goes to a diff. school than me so that means i get to see all the cute boys that come ;] i always meet my cousin or go with her (her brother is the one we go watch) and she always sits by these cute guys and the girls...but like one time we were sitting towards the bottom and the boys were at top and then like the guys kept throwing stuff down. like paper and stuff. but i dont know if its because they didnt want us there or because they thought we were cute or what? so i looked back and i was like what the hell! and i smiled. and then the guys just looked at me and smiled and laughed. keep in mind that some have girlfriends but i think im pretty attractive. okay that sounded bad im definately NOT conceited. i just dont think im that ugly! alot of guys have told me that they think im pretty hott so im just going off what they say. im pretty shy most of the time and i feel very uncomfortable when we sit by them because they're all soo cute! i get really hyper when im with my cousin though but not that hyper at the games! im going to another one of his hockey games soon so what do you think i can do to get the guys attention? also my self-esteem gets really low because there are alot of pretty girls that they sit with and when i see them im like wow..they're so much prettier than me i feel so ugly ...i know you have to have confidence and i TRY! and i do most of the time i just dont show it that my self-esteem gets lowered when i see the pretty girls..
well any suggestions would be nice! and it would also be kinda wierd to just go up and introduce myself and my cousin isnt really that good friends with them, at least not enough to go up and be like hey and start talking. i just dont go up to people, they come up to me otherwise we dont meet if you know what im saying and im sorry but nothing will change that. i just wish all eyes could be on me ..but who doesnt?!?..
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First of all you just need to look your best & try to stand out. Wear bright colors, do your hair pretty. Stand out from the rest of the girls to get their attention. Kind of smile occasionally & give them eye contact. Soon one of them will give in & come up to you.
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