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I don't think my friend, like me as much anymore or something!
Okay, so like.. I've never not had a problem with friends, they've always been like good. I've always had tons & I still do, but like my best friend, doesn't even sit next to me at lunch anymore..& never talks to me when i'm hanging around this other girl. But, when i'm not with her.. she usually talks to me.
This girl, not alot of people like her. but, i do. I think shes alot of fun. But, alot of people push away from her. & the more i become friends with her, other people try to get away from me too. I still want to be friends with her.. but, i don't think i wanna be as good of friends.. because, the other one & others.. are alot closer i think. How can I kinda slowly move away from her?
Making like all new friends, isn't an option, its my last year at the school, & its also a small school. Theres only 30 girls.
[its a catholic school.]
What should i do?
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Not to sound rude but it would be completly shallow to stop haning out with a really cool person just because other friends don't like them. You should hang out with people you enjoy to be hanging with, and if they don't respect the fact that you have friends besides them then it's stupid on there part.
If there are times in school when you prefer to hang out with one friend more than the other then make it a point to be like "hey okay i'll see you at lunch/class." so they know that you are still interested in talking to them.
If you want to slowly stop chilling with the girl your bestfriend doesn't like then I would start hanging out with the other friend more and not her. When she wants to talk to you, you could just give her half answers like "yeah" "mmhm" "sure" "okay".
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Just slowly stop hanging out with her, calling her, talking to her. Soon she'll stop talking to you too. Don't tell her you don't wanna be friends with her. Just move away slowly. & hang out with your other friends more.
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