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Heyy my name is kayla and im brunette medium toned skin im 13 i LOVE music uhh HAD a boyfriend and i have been through alot of experiences so i could give you great advice you never know cuz it might have happened to me so please ask away and ill be sure to answer you

im usually best at LoVe SiTuAtIoNs cuz ive been through some bad ones and my past one was the best on i ever had and its a funny story the way my past one and i ended up together so i can help you in that area!

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My boyfriend of over a year used to treat me really bad, he'd ignore me and barely talk to me in school, but when id threaten to break up with him he'd be like do it do it and i would and he'd be the one gettin mad.. i dont understand how he'll let me do that and he wont care but after he gets mad becuase i did it. A girl wrote i love you on his hand and he acted like it was nothing but he wont let me write something on his hand. I do get jealous fast and he knows it, and i feel like he takes advantage of it. What should i do to make him appreciate me and make him say sweet things like he used to. I tell him to just break up with me if he doesnt care but he doesnt b/c he says he cares. I wish he would show it more ut how?

Hey i hope this helps it sounds like he does take advantage of your jealousy and I think you should try and talk it out with him one on one about it without threatining to break up with eachother cause that will take you nowhere if he says he cares tell him that you wont to see him caring more because it's hurting you hope that helped feedback please

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Ok, I'm like head over heels in love with this one guy. I know, cliche. But i'm only 15, and he already is planning us getting married and all this stuff. Now, dont' get me wrong, i wanna marry him, but i dont' want him to start saying all this stuff and end up hurting me. So i'm having trouble telling him i love him, but he means the world to me. How do i tell him without the risk of gettin hurt?

If he is already talking about getting married he must love you with all his heart so i dont think you should worry about getting hurt tell him you love him because it seems like you guys love eachother alot hope it helps feedback please

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Ok i like this girl who is going out with my best friend. I really like her a lot and i haven't told her that i do. What should i do?

I say you talk to your friend about it first but dont tell her straight off while she's going out with your best friend so talk to him about it first and see where things go from there i hope this helps good luck too who knows she might secretly like you too feedback please

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i went on a cruise this summer and met a lot of new friends and still keep in touch with a few. but heres the thing, my friends at home get really mad if i even mention them. i dont think its because they are jealous because they are always exclusive to me and never have me over, ect. they also get mad if talk about a boy a like. its not really them getting mad, they just role they're eyes or sigh or look like really annoyed. i constantly feel like i have to watch what i say or they'll get mad at me. what shoudl i do?!

i say you ask them why they get mad over that because if they say things like that and you listen to them then they are being hypocritical but dont get in afight over it say that you just really need to talk about it because that is no way to go on with friends constantly wondering if youll do something wrong hope it helps feedback please

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Ok well Brett i/med me...my boyfriend and he said will you kiss me i dont no if it was a joke or if he was serious..i dont no what to say to him....help me!?


PLEASE Help,

Confused

haha i would PROBOBLY say why did you ask if you know I would but i dont know if you would lol but i hope that helps feedback please

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OK well theres this kid at my school. (Hes in 10th im in 9th) Well we always got along because we have alot of the same friends and do one sport together. But I never really liked him that much untill we both started spending alot of time together. I really started to like him and he even kissed me once. Well after that we kinda stoped talking, but then one night we talked again and i started to like him again. He even asked to go to the movies. But I was talking to one of his friends and he said "well hes not looking for a relationship" but im confused because i was messing around with the kid and i said "What if I was like I love you and can't live without you will you go out with me" and his response was "i would proally be a little shocked but then prabably say yes" Help im so confused!

i say you do tell him you like him and if he said hed probobly say yes then go for it because he probobly is looking for a relationship and maybe he's not but since he said hed say yes to that then maybe your the one hes lookin for good luck feedback please

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I am 13 and a girl. i like a boy and he is my friend and we went out and then he dumped me 3days later and he still liked me or thats what he said. now i like him again but he is going out with some girl who i dont no! what do i do to get him back?

i say you tell him you still have feelings for him and see where things go from there good luck

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Ok What should i do?? Ok i like my really good friensd and we went out and now i like him more then i did when we were going out!! hes going out with some new girl and i dont no her!! and the thing that confuses me is that we flirt alot and during art he stills my markers and i when i try to get them back i have to lik tackle him and sometimes we end up face to face were we r going to kiss but i pull back what can i do to get him back??

i say you tell him how you feel still i know you havent tried that cuz ur one of my best friends yea thats right i know who you are haha but try and tell him maybe he will understand because the marker thing is obviously a sign of flirting and thats a good sign so you never know how he feels even IF he is going out with someone else good luck feedback please ;-) lol

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Me and my ex broke up like last year we kinda dumped each other at the same time. well a week after we broke up he got a new girl friend. i wasnt jealous i didnt care really. but ii didnt get over him that fast. he called me and said he still loved me and it was stupid for us to break up. ( he did this when he was going out with his new girl friend). well a year passed and i havent thought about him in like ever but all of a sudden i started thinking of him again! i dont no if i like him again or dont! i cant call him cause his number is changed and i dont no it. is this normal and what should i do?

its PERFECTLY normal maybe he was your first love pretty hard to believe i know cuz ur 13 i am too but me and my x...we broke up bout 2 weeks ago and liked eachother alot he likes my best friend and i still like him and i cant get him out of my head so you never know but its normal and if he goes to the same school as you try and get closer to him maybe go to the movies or hang out or something so when your good friends again you can tell him how you feel good luck

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My boyfriend acts like he doesnt care when i talk to guys, but one of my guy friends gave me a ride to My bestfriends house for wings. and i told him it was my mom driving me because iknew he'd be super mad and break up with me and he found out and he did and i told him why but he didnt care we got back together two days later and weve been togeter for over 13 months, and he sits next to girls in all of his classes ex. one and alomst 3 classes are next to a girl i dont like very much and he refuses to move when i know he could. I dont get how he can flip out when i talk to a guy that he claims to have tried to break us up when the girl he actually has classes with and talks to tried the same just diffent ways i guess and he even made me stop talkin to him because of it. I wouldnt make him stop talkin to girls if hes friends with them but i feel like they are above me, how do i get him to relize what he has, cuz i wont be around forever, he doesnt think ill leave him but i have dumped him 1 time before and he got so mad, so i dont know what to do to make him show affection twards me and accept that i care if he leaves..ill rate high

Ive gone through the same thing before and what you should do it talk it out with him and say what you just said in that question that you dont see how he can get mad over you hanging out with your friends when he does the same thing which is very hypocritical just talk it out with him and see where things go from there good luck

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My best friends are the 2 hottest girls in school. Every guy likes them...this is the order and why guys check them out

Alex-because shes gorgeous, crazy, and outgoing
Paige-because shes pretty, down to earth, and not prude
Me-because of my personality and bc im not prude


It bothers me so much that I'm not pretty. I know having a good personality is better than everything, but Id rather look good.

So my question is:
Should I change myself *not like i havent tryed* just to be pretty? or just deal with it that im not pretty??

heyy well i say that you not deal with it but think of it as a good thing and i dont know you but im sure you are pretty(im not lesbianlol)and alot of people put themselves down like that so i think you should try and forget about it and not put urselve down

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Kay... well there is this guy and he and I started talking about 3 weeks ago at a track meet and now we flirt a bunch at the track meets.. he is in some of my classes and like yeah I always catch him looking at me and then he always like brags about how good he is at trfack and how much i suck in a JOKEING way... but Iono if he lieks me or what.. and I am really confused plese HELP!

he might like you you never know because tahts obviously the way he's flirting with you and flirting is a good sign you should get to know him better and see where things go from there

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13-female & i rate high
my mom and her fiance have just decided that they would like to move in together B4 they get married. (which is sometime at the end of this year.) the lease on our apartment is up at the end of may, and my mom wants us (me, her and my lil' bro) to move in with them (him and his two kids). she says that she doesn't want to renew our lease on our house, b/c at the end of the year she would have to buy out of it b/c she will have to break the lease. his house is not big enough for all six of us to live in, so they have been doing some house hunting in his neighborhood. i have two problems with this:

#1. i am not comfortable with moving in with them right now. i don't really know hime or his kids that well.
#2. i don't want to move to his neighborhood, b/c then i would have to change school districts and leave all of my friends behind.

i have went to dinner with him and his kids. (his daughter is the same age as me.) and we try to do something "together" every weekend or every other weekend, but i feel like this is still not enough to make me comfortable with them. how do i tell my mom how i feel w/o hurting her feelings? i know that she deserves someone in her life that makes her happy, but at the same time i think i should have a say-so too. how do i convince her not to move?

ok this is waht i would do you SHOULD talk it out with your mom because you matter and you do deserve a say in it tell her that you dont want to leave your friends behind and move somewhere completely different with people that you are not that close too im sure she will understand i hope my advice helped

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Kay well there is this guy.. and we went out for 4 dasy then he COMPLETELY broek my heart.. when he broke up w. me for my BFF and then she was all like chicks b4 dicks.. and I thank ehr fr that! but then she got mad at me for something.. and then went out w. him for pay back.. they broke up in like 2 days and then he started liking me again (thankfully) but i said if you really love me wait until the next day and ask me.. and he did but he didn't like me anymore.. then almost 3 or 4 months later we started talking again me and him (oh and about January me and mah friend started talking again and everything is cool now) and like he and I always play question games.. and he alwasy says that he loves me and everything and like he always jokes around w. me.. and then my friend and him started talking again also.. and they are going out.. btu she cheated on him Friday night.. and they broke up (I think) and trhough all of this I haev always still liked him.. when he and her started going out.. I said.. I thought you didn't like her (becasue that what he said) and he goes well everything I said to you was just a joke.. and I was like WHOAAA! and now he is starting to talk again to me like he did before.. and I have NO IDEA what to do.. HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!! pleaseee!



Oh yeah and this was from about late November to Now!

ok this is waht i would do and i hope it helps if hes that much of a jerk then maybe you should try to forget about him and find another guy taht will win your heart because obviously he doesnt deserve you if he just jokes around about loving you as for your friend you should try and talk it out with her say that you still like him alott and maybe things will clear up i wish you good luck and hope it helped

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I'm sorry this is gonna be long but I really need the help with a few questions.

- I want to break up with my boyfriend. I was kinda desperate when I said I would go out with him. Tuesday will be a month and a week we've been together. And I know he really loves me. He's even snuck out of his house to be with me. I still wanna be his friend. But I'm afraid that if I dump him he won't wanna be my friend. And there are a few reasons that I want to dump him. Any ideas here?

- The guy that I like, really really likes me. He asked me out a while ago and I didn't like him then so I just said I dunno, and then I got a boyfriend. But now I really like him and my one friend was talking to him and they started talking about me. She asked him if he would ask me out if me and my current boyfriend broke up and he said he would. Then he said that I would never say yes, so he probably wouldn't. And I really wanna go out with him. And I'm dumping my boyfriend (hense the question up there ^) lol. What should I do???


- Please help me!!!!

ok if you dont like him then you shouldnt lead him on and so break up with him but i think you have that down but about your other friend that you like and that he likes you i say you wait a while to go out with him so ur bf now wont be as hurt when he see's you 2 together

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this might be long,
At a recent school dance i danced with this really cute boy. That whole night i totally obsessed over him and couldnt stop thinking about him. After the dance i went online and talked to my friend hailey and told her i felt something for him. We talked about it and said "i have no chance hes way out of my league. ill probably never talk to him again" and then the next day at school at lunch hailey came up to me and said " i talked to shane" and i was like "whhattt!?" and she says " i asked him what he thought about you looks wise and he said veerry good" i was really happy about it. I started to get to know him for about a month and when the next dance came he asked me out. We started going out but i felt really weird...not so much the first couple of days. He would come over my house and we watched movies and stuff (and thats it) . then the next weekend he came over again and watched a movie and i got so fed up with having him around and the next day i dumped him. Well to get to the point. I like guys that i cant have. Once they start to like me i totally change and dont feel anything for them. I just want someones oppinion about it. I keep dumping totally sweet boys that girls at my school are dying to get their hands on for no reason!
sorry if it was long
i rate high

heyy what i would do is try and find one guy that you know you can have and like alot but dont dump them just as fast try and get to know them alot more and if it doesnt work then you can break up with him but i say you just try and see how it goes

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I like this guy and he likes me.. I want to tell him how i truley feel but im afraid.. Should i gain up my courage and tell him? or just leave it alone?

Tell him you really should if you feel the same way for eachother then you could be happy right now thats how me and my x told eachother we had feelings for eachother and i worked up the courage and told him i liked him turns out everything went great for us

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Hey Ya'll,
First off Im male and 15. I've kinda got a problem... There is this girl that is pretty much one of my best friends I guess you'd say. But we hang out alot or atleast when we can. And for the last few(2) months I started liking her as more than a friend. But the problem is that I don't know if she likes me as more than a BFF. I mean some days she really seems to like me as more than a friend in my opinion and some days it just seems like were just like best friends. I really don't know what to do cause i dont want to hurt our friendship if she doesnt feel that way... Because I love hangn with this girl shes so awsome!

I was thinking of asking her to prom (my schools screwed up and small so I can go to prom if I pay) because I know she'll make it a fun time even if she doesnt like me that way because she just makes me have a great time hangn with her... Should I ask her?

heyy ive gone through the same problem i liked my best friend too but all you have to do is tell her and she'll understand you never know she might like you to more than a best friend so i say go for it

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