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HELP ME!!!
I'm sorry this is gonna be long but I really need the help with a few questions.
- I want to break up with my boyfriend. I was kinda desperate when I said I would go out with him. Tuesday will be a month and a week we've been together. And I know he really loves me. He's even snuck out of his house to be with me. I still wanna be his friend. But I'm afraid that if I dump him he won't wanna be my friend. And there are a few reasons that I want to dump him. Any ideas here?
- The guy that I like, really really likes me. He asked me out a while ago and I didn't like him then so I just said I dunno, and then I got a boyfriend. But now I really like him and my one friend was talking to him and they started talking about me. She asked him if he would ask me out if me and my current boyfriend broke up and he said he would. Then he said that I would never say yes, so he probably wouldn't. And I really wanna go out with him. And I'm dumping my boyfriend (hense the question up there ^) lol. What should I do???
- Please help me!!!!
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ok if you dont like him then you shouldnt lead him on and so break up with him but i think you have that down but about your other friend that you like and that he likes you i say you wait a while to go out with him so ur bf now wont be as hurt when he see's you 2 together
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Well, it is not always easy to break up with someone. No matter how nice you let your boyfriend down, he is still going to be hurt. I doubt seriously that you and him will maintain a friendship afterwards, because if you don't tell him that you broke up with him for someone else, then someone else is going to tell him for you. Hence, afterwards, he might really dispise you. I suggest that you be upfront with him. Tell him that you have tried, but you don't see him as anything more then a friend. Explain to him that you don't want to hurt his feelings anymore then what you have already done by stringing him along, and that if it was all right with him, you would like to still be friends with him.
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ok well it looks like you got it under control !!! you dump that guy and go out with the other one thats good !! and tell that other guy how YOu feel!!
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Well, right now your hurting 3 people here. You current boyfriend, the guy you like, and yourself. You need to tell you current boyfriend the truth that you don't like him as much as he likes you. That you like someone else. He may be crushed at first,but he'll get over it eventually and be your friend. Give it a week or so. it would be worse for him to find out from someone else that you like another guy..wouldn't it? So stop stressing :)
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Well although you love this guy... after you break up w. your bf wait about a week so that it won't seem ovious to your current bf that you broek up with him just for that other guy.....
It also depends if your bf and this guy are good friends..
If they are.. don't go out with either
If they aren't.. use the info that I said at first
Hope I helped! :)
Dani3ll3
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You should dump him. You already answered your own question.
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