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My husband has panic disorder and has suffered from panic attacks his entire life. He is on medicine for them now, but he is having a hard time holding a job. I love him dearly but am afraid if I stay I will never have anything, and I'm afraid of the judgement that will be passed on me by my family. I love him and don;t want to abandon him, am I crazy for staying? (link)
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If he is ill, you can take care of him for a while, but then soon tell him that your relationship wont work. (If he might have an attack over this, make sure a doctor or family is close by) You can still be friendly (if he wants) but you should still look for another spouse when you are ready.
Hope I Helped,
Winona
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My sister has been using my advicenator thing to ask questions, my mom saw them and thought that i wrote the questions. they were suicidal things and sexual questions. She also jus wrote one about the ratings, you don't have to answer that though.
Liz (link)
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Teel your sister what your mom thinks, (if your mom doesnt believe you) then try to convince your sister to tell your mom that she did it not you!
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i am so confused how do my parents just get me one? signed (link)
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Be more responsible! Maybe, dont beg, but agree on a routine that will get your pet taken care of. If you beg, you might be annoying so DONT BEG JUST ASK! Try taking care of a friends pet for a weekend and see how well you do!
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I have been told that I am a very gifted actress, and my drama teacher said that I should get into theatre camp, but I live with my dad, and money is tight. I really want to go to theatre camp, but all the places I looked at are day camps that cost way too much money. (my dad has a tough job and cant drive me to and from camp so it would have to be an overnight camp) any ideas what I should do?
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Depending on your age, you can get a job and help out, or arrange allowance. MAybe you could pay half and your dad could pay the other half!
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i've been really unhappy all my life anmd i put it to my dad dieing and school. i now getting homeschoolded but still so unhappy i think im still greaving my dad i am not allowed to talk about him any more and have not friends around to keep his memory alive. He was a great dad didnt do anything wrong my mum got a new partern 7 months after he died. I meet a guy of the internet as mates and i dont no if im in love with him coz i like him so much or coz he reminds me how i would hug n kiss my dad goodnight i was only 6 when he died now 16. I never b4 let my gard down would nt let anyone touch me not my brother or my mum not even mentors at school i let my gard down with him im so convused and uhappy i cart sleep i thought being away from all those kids who bullied me would take all the painaway (link)
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Sometimes, the best way to feel better about something is to talk about it. You will never get over it, but it is unhealthy to live being unhappy 24/7
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my boyfriend thinks my freinds are silly people but they are not (link)
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You have probably been friends with your friends for longer than your boyfriend. Tell him how you feel about your "Silly friends", and if he doesnt stop, use your head to decide who to put first, him or your friends.
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how do i stop people from calling me gay...i dont do anything gay....im not gay....for goodness sake i like a girl...(im a boy duh...) wut should i do....i dont want to be called that anymore.... (link)
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Why do you think people are calling you gay? You might not be, but maybe a boy around you feels like you are to atattched to him...maybe you are trying to make friends and pushing it with other boys (this can be on purpose or not) maybe you should ignore them, or tell the girl you like her.
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what can i do to make my boyfriend more interested in sex i never had this problem in the past all i had to do was kiss a guy and it was there my boyfriend is older than me but he is not the first one that was older than me and i never had any problems before so please help not sexy lingerie or any suggestions like that i mean something sexual if anyone knows especially guys if they something they like feel free to reply (link)
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Maybe he isnt ready for that kind of relationship, he might be your loving boyfriend, but may not be ready to have a sexual relationship. Dont be angry, when the time is right, you'll know.
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I just started dating this guy and he is really sweet in all but he never talks to me in school or on the phone.And I justed found out that he was just using me to get his ex-girl friend out and I just dumped him.Was that a good choice?because now all my friends have boyfriends and I dont, and all the guys are like takin'.What do I do? and did I make a good choice?
-cheated and used (link)
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Yes! You shouldn't be in a relationship where you are not truly loved! It is hard to dump your boyfriend, but like I said, dont ever stay in a position like that!
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My daughter is currently 13 years old. She's fairly mature and doesn't dress slutty. Now, she has liked this guy for about half a year. Today, he asked her out. They want to go see a movie with another couple their age on monday. I don't know if I should let her go. What is your stance on this? Is 13 too young to be dating? (link)
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I am 13, my parents let me start dating this year. Maybe, you arent ready to let your daughter go yet, so maybe you should wait another year if you feel this way. But tell her how you feel, and agree on "The Rules" maybe set a cerfew, or lend her your cell phone, so you make sure that you feel confident about this.
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i care a lot about what people think
what should i do? (link)
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Everyone cares somewhat about what people think, but, you cant get carried away or, you'll let people rule your life. But try and do things your way so that you don't care what others think.
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How is it having a boyfriend? (link)
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It is nice to have one that is sweet to you and who you like. But you shouldnt just get on because, you have to truly know if "its" right!
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what should I do if i wanna wear a skirt but my legs aren't the prettiest things to look at? (link)
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Sometimes, if you need to shave you can, or lotion and take better care of your skin. But be natural, not someone that your not, and if your legs arent the prettiest, who cares what other people say?!?
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I have a 3 year old daughter with an UNCONTROLIBLE temper and she slaped my friend in the face what should I do? (link)
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Maybe she needs to be more disiplined. When she does something wrong, you can be The Reinforcer! You can yell, and there is nothing wrong with time outs and the ocasional spanking. Make her apologise to your friend, and if she gets a temper, you can give her a time out!
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Ok I can not stand this girl at my school she is a total b****!She thinks that she is popular but she isn't she is sooo mean tooo everyone.I was friends with her but then I started to date her ex- and she got so mad!!!!And she already got a boyfriend after she dumped her ex-!I just can't stand her!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!HELP!
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I have a girl like thi9s in my school. Although I havent dated her ex, I have some advice for you. You might be around her more because of her ex, but dont be intimidated, stay away from her if you dont want to be friendly. But if shes mean, then your non stop niceness might kill her, and when she wants to be your friend then you can tell gher how you felt before1 If not then still tell her "So and so, I dont feel like you are being to nice to me, why, have I offended you?" But if not, she might feel threatened because you're dating her ex.
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i have been sleeping with 5 guys for the last 3 months and they dont know about each other. Recently my best friend and i got into a fight and she told 3 of them about each other. Now i am 1 month pregnant and i dont know who the father is. The guys that know about each other now dont want anything to do with me and i am really hurt. I dont know why they wouldent want a beautifull sexy girl like me in their lives. Please help me in deciding what to do. (link)
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I feel bad for you but why would you sleep with 3 guys?? Now that you are pregnant you may have serious struggles in your future life! You need to talk to a parent or docter. Be more careful in the future......Because basically you cant do much (unless your parents agree to abortion *which is evil* or adoption...) Still, its your baby.
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I need some good advice about my sister. She is 15 yrs. old {I am 21 if that matter's} and has been getting in alot of trouble at school & home. She got into a fight at school, stole my mom's car one night to go joy riding, tried to hook-up with a 26 year old ex-convict, and the other day was caught giving a note to a boy with a condom inside, asking him when they were gonna have sex! My mom, or me doesnt know what to do anymore. Talking to her about this doesn't seem to phase her. She just cries, promises to do better and never does. Do you think she is doing this for attention? Also, I told my mom I think she need's to get on birth-control, for the obvious reasons, so she will not get pregnant. My mom said NO! she said putting her on birth-control is just going to give my sister the go-ahead to have sex. I don't know if she has ever had sex or not, but if she's passin' out condoms to people then i dont think it'll be to long before she does. Any advice? (link)
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Well i understand that you are worried aboutt your sister, who wouldnt be? But maybe (like everyone) she is going through the "WIlld Period", maybe you should try having a girl to girl talk with her, or your mom can take her to a guidance counselor for help. Maybe she is doing this because, Her boyfriend is pushing her to have sex, or her boyfriend pushed her to have sexx but broke up with her, now she is making him jealous.
If this isnt the case, maybe she wants to be cool, or maybe, she could have taken a drug (probably not) but yes, talk to your doctor, before making any conclussions!
Hope I helped.
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Hey I've liked a certain guy for a long time, and I really want to tell him how I feel. I'm too shy to tell him in person, so I thought I'd write a note. What should I write on it? I don't want to sound creepy, or not know what I'm talking about. Help! (link)
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After class or in your spare time, pull him away from everyone and tell him how you feel..."Excuse me so and so, I have really liked you for a long time, but I was to shy to tell you" See if he feels the same way about you. If not, you may be sad but, its okay. Just dont follow him and let him see you drool over him because hell find you a pest.
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My best friend just became really close to this girl named Briana. Briana's really fun to talk to, but I recently found out some bad stuff about her; she cheats on her boyfriends, backstabs all her close friends, and she smokes pot. She told me about the pot thing and even asked if I wanted to join her! I, of course, said no. I don't know how to tell my best friend, because she'll accuse me of lying because "Briana's so nice!" I'm just scared that Briana will get my friend into smoking and stuff. HELP. (link)
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You cant keep Brianas secret froever. It is illegal to smoke pot, also if you are underaged it is illegal! You need to tell a parent (depending on Briannas age) and you WILL NOT get in trouble for telling someone. As for your best friend, you can try to tell her but if she doesnt believe you, maybe she needs time to figure this out.
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You dont want to talk and or hang out with a teen/child that smokes pot, or someone could get caught and say you smoked with them!
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What do you do when all you think about is dying? (link)
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At first it may not be a problem, but soon you might need help. Ask a parent to take you to your guidance counsler, or you can talk to them or another family member. But think, you have a long time to live, medicine iis the great way to make you live longer. But enjoy life and be happy, because as you are growing up it is not extremely healthy to think of death 24/7
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