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i've been really unhappy all my life anmd i put it to my dad dieing and school. i now getting homeschoolded but still so unhappy i think im still greaving my dad i am not allowed to talk about him any more and have not friends around to keep his memory alive. He was a great dad didnt do anything wrong my mum got a new partern 7 months after he died. I meet a guy of the internet as mates and i dont no if im in love with him coz i like him so much or coz he reminds me how i would hug n kiss my dad goodnight i was only 6 when he died now 16. I never b4 let my gard down would nt let anyone touch me not my brother or my mum not even mentors at school i let my gard down with him im so convused and uhappy i cart sleep i thought being away from all those kids who bullied me would take all the painaway
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Honey, I know what it feels like to loose someone who is really special to you, but you got to let it go . You have to let him go . He has to move on, and your keeping him where he is . It's not going to be easy, but your really toturing yourself . Your really killing yourself slowly .
It's been 10 years sense his passing . You should live your life . Finish school, go to college , graduate and make your daddy proud . I'm sure that's what he might have wanted his little girl to do . Never forget that your never alone and that God and your daddy is with you . You just gotta be strong and have faith . Bless you .
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Sometimes, the best way to feel better about something is to talk about it. You will never get over it, but it is unhealthy to live being unhappy 24/7
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well hun life is a very hard thing..and you know school is one thing that we all have to go through to better achieve ourselves. and as far as your mom goes maybe she needed someone too just fill the void in her life..and your dad sounds really special.and he of all things would want you too be happy. so just try being a kid..and not look for a man too make you happy..and most of all let your family be there for you they have gone through the same loss..and need the comforting just the same as u...
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It is really unhealthy not to talk about someone who you lost and grieve for. Definitely you need friends that you can talk to about your dad and his memory. If your mom, or her new partner, doesn't want to hear it, find a place where you can talk to your friends away from her. You don't have to tell her you are talking about your dad, and can still keep quiet around her, but she is doing the wrong thing by not allowing you to talk and grieve. The interet may be ok, but it is better to talk in person.
My children's dad died when they were young (about 15 years ago), and they are still close to a few of the friends who they knew when he was alive.
Your feeling for your new mate from the internet is probably not love in the "true love" sense, but hugs and kisses from someone you like, respect, and care about are also healthy. If your family doesn't hug or touch, I think it is good to get a hug and comfort somewhere else. Just don't let him take advantage of the situation and talk you into something further that you are not ready for.
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