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my quote-- "The past is the past and there is nothing i can change, The only thing i can do is help you with the future" I hope my advice helps you. In the future i want to become a Psychiatrist. My answers might not always be 100% correct but i try my best. && i would help anyone i could possibly help before i would even think of helping myself.
My name is Amy and iam 14, But i am very wise for my age. Just because im 14 does not mean i can not give good advise. I am COMPLETLY honest and if i think your acting like an idiot im going to say it whether you want her hear it or not. i dont care what people think about me, i have been though to much to. I dont beleive in lying to friends or people who need help && i ALWAYS speak my mind.
I have suffered through Depression, stress, and i keep all my feeling a secret so know one will find out or know im not stong or brave. I am always willing to help someone who feels the same. I've have/had mental breakdowns, suicidal moments, family problem, friend problem, & boy friend problems. im pretty sure that i am bipolar and ADD or ADHD, but i am afriad to tell me parents because i know they will not believe me. I am also all my friends, both guys and girls- and for ages 9-50, personal Psychiatrist so i know it all. I don't like stupid Drama and i am for the most part used to it, but I that how my life is. I LOVE reading about mental illnesses, i know its kind of odd- but thats me. && i love getting to look up and learn about something NEW!
If you have any thing you would like to talk to me about you can IM me. my Aim is xxTimesxChange or you can e-mail me at bballmonkey1993@yahoo.com
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so today in mustang time (its like homeroom) we got to write an anonymous question about anything in highschool or just anything. well instead after the bell rang i asked about my boyfriend. and i said how i knew his family cant afford a psychologist or anything so she told me to go to my school counselor since its obviously out of my hands and see how they could help him. so i came home and told him about it and hes mad at me. he said he wanted it only between us and now he cant trust me with his feelings and how hes not going to tell me them anymore. i told him i was just trying to help and he said he knew that but it would just make things worse. hes going through court right now and their trying to take him away because hes there for "endangerment to himself and others" so if they found out he was seeing a counselor or something they would know he does need help, and they would take him away. so thats why he was so mad. so then i said well i'd rather have you be happy and gone, than staying how you are now. and then he was saying how he wouldnt be happy without me, which i do know it would just make him worse. so i dont know what to do. i do nott want him getting taken away, but i do want him to get help. i know by trying to get him help was the right thing to do, but im not so sure about the time right now (with this whole court thing) advice please?
Most of the time things work out on there own. It was nice that your tryed to help but most poeple dont want help they feel its there problem and they have to work it out on their own. Even though it is not just there problem it effects everyone around them and they can get help. Im sorry for your boyfriend i have gone through the same thing. But you have to remind him of the people that love him and need him to stay alive, sometimes thats what you need to hear. You did a good thing trying to help but at this moment he does not want it and he does not understand that it will help.
There is my sister and she is always in her room and on her computer and I think she is going on something bad. and she hates me. she is always tired and she has a boyfriend , but my parents don't know she has one, but every one thinks she broke up with him but, no one knows.
Plez help.
I Need Help Now
What am I going to do?
Annonamous
First what you should do is LEAVE HER ALONE!!!
you just be an annoying sister, and their is probally a reason why she hates you. She probally broke up with her bf. but youyr to stupid to notice. P.S. obviously i no your my sister asking this question.
my parents are gay. they are making me very uncomfortable and just doing stuff in front of me. (it is two girls by the way) they want me to become gay. but i am not. what do i do?
Everyone is different and not everyvody is the same as their parents. People have diffrent feelings and are attracted to diffrent Sexs. The best thing to do is explain thi sto your parents.
They are you parents and they should love you no matter what Sex you are attracted to. All parents try and push their kids into things.
&& about you feeling uncomfortable you can ask them to not doing thing infront of you or have to leave before they kiss or something. If they dont want to do that then just leave the room when ever you think something like that is going to happen. Hope this helped.
i have a friend that does not believe in the Almighty God. she is always grumpy. i think god will make her feel like she has a purpose in life. she is a very negative person. her family goes to church every weekend and sits in the front row, but she is never there. i love god and i wish she did too. what should i do?
You could try talking to her and see why she feels this way. If someone is anti-God then there is usually something really bad that happened that made them feel this way and she just can not except. If nothing else you can talk to her parents to see if they can help you or your Churches Father. Maybe if she talks to a Father about how she feels can change her mind and he can reasure her that god does everything for a reason. You can also invite her over to your house to sleep over and have her go with you to church one sunday morning, at least she would be there. hope this helped.
i have a problem with staring at this girl like not the normal kind of staring like always ALWAYS staring at her i cannot stop. i stole her skirt and sports bra but i almost got caught so i put it back. I just cant stop her friends tell me to stop but i dont see what the problem is i mean i like her looks. am i insane?
-Johnny
Maybe you need some personal/mental help. That is honestly not normal and you should tell a doctor. This my effect what you become when you are older and you never want to be come a rappest... or anything else like that. There is a problem this is not normal to be stealing her things and staring at her all the time. It sounds a little bit obbsessive.
Just think how would you like to have someone staring at you all the time that you completly hate and are grossed out by. It is probably a little creepy and frustrating.
Maybe you should start by just looking in the oposite way of her.
so whats too young to.. you know.. have it? s-e-x?
I say if your younger then 15 wait.I feel its not right to rush into having sex. You should honestly love the guy your with and should have been with him for awhile because if you have not been going out for long you are just a whore, sorry but thats the truth. Weather you use protection or not there is still a chance of be becoming pregnant. You have to be ready to tell your parents your going to have a baby if anything goes wrong. And if you are not ready for that then you are not ready to have sex.
Okay so my names Ella and i went out with this guy named David for a long time like a year.....and we broke up and now he wont leave me alone like i dont think he gets the message that i just want to be friends please help
Ella
The only thing you can do is sit him down and tell him stright out that you doing like him like he likes you and you just need to be friends right now. Its not right for you to too go out if you both do not feel the same about each other && you have made up your mind about your feeling for him and thats not goign to chance.
yes, i have a bf but i also have this friend who like watches every move i make i can never do things at my own pace cas she always gets hers and her bf's nose in everything...i really love my bf but i want to go at my own pace not hers....wht should i do???
try to tell your friend how you feel in a polite way. Not everyone can move at the same pace in a relationship, some people just have to go slow then others. She will never know how you feel unless you tell her. If she is your friend she will understand. hope this helped.
there is this issue i have. i cant decide which i like better sierra mist w/ the slush or if i should hold the slush. i mean i have friends who like the slush, and friends who are like 'please hold the slush on mine'. what should i do?? = )
-from Wilma
who cares what your friends like, its what you like. So if you like slush just have slush and maybe for friends who like please hold the slush will follow and like slush too
my ex is really mean hes mad at me and not his friend dylan me and his friend dylan are going out and hes not mad at him and hes been telling stuff mean about me and his dad has been calling and telling me im ganan go to court if i talk to him
I would try to stay away from him best i could, because actully trying to deal with this could just ruin your life or your relationship, just ignore your X and if he is doing this he is not even worth saying hi to. From what you said your X is pretty much a loser and he is just really upset because you were to go for him and he wants to get you back. He does not feel his friend it any wrong and you were the one to blame. __or he could just be phyco__ you never know, he may have a mental problem that he never told you about, lol. I would not worry about him just go on with your life, he 2 are over and he should be able to deal with that. If anything you can try having your bf talk to him and make him stop.
&& if his dad is just RANDOMLY calling you saying he is going to take you to court for not dating his son that is just gay, and he is basically an idiot. If anything you can always talk to your parents about that phone calls because the police may say it is a threat and you maybe to take them to court. That is if your not the one calling the house first. Hope this helped.
well i always wear my hair in 3 same styles over and over again. I need ideas to style my hair different or ways to style it that will make people say wow her hair looks great !!
any advice will help plzz help !!
Smooth hair with a paddle brush, and make a low ponytail. Secure with an elastic. Twist your hair, turning the ends under, and pin. TRY IT ON: Straight hair that's a little longer than shoulder-length.
Slick hair back into a ponytail. Take a piece of the ponytail out, and wrap the base of the tail. Pin the remainder of the tail under. TRY IT ON: Straight or relaxed hair that falls just past your shoulders.
Have a little extra time? Try this super-pretty style. Part hair to the side, then divide each section in front of your ears into top and bottom strands. Twist each strand to the middle of the back of your head. Pin in place with pretty bobby pins. If your hair is straight, curl the remaining hair at the end of the twists and the hair you left loose. TRY IT ON: Longer straight, wavy, curly or coarse hair.
You can try-- http://www.seventeen.com/beauty/hairguide/spc/0,,625851_650037,00.html
or
http://www.lhj.com/lhj/category.jhtml?categoryid=/templatedata/lhj/category/data/Hair_StylingSecrets.xml
hope this helped
Can anyone tell me? just keep them laughing.
You can talk about funny past experences that way the girl will learn more about you and then she may share things with you. You can always say little things about how you dont like the other loser in your class because most girls like to talk about other people, you know boys do it to. lol
hey my name is danielle and i went out iwththis guy for about 10 months. i reli loved him and we didnt end things on the best note but it was needed. he lied to me and there has always been a problem with his ex shes the reason we broke up. they got togetehr after us but now they are broken up and i reli think that i will never ever get over that its been 6 months since we have broken up and i still lvoe him i was with this other guy recently liek going out and i had to end it because iw anst beign faire to im because i loved guy #1. i dont know wat to do i reli love him and i feel we shoudl be together maybe not now but later and i kno that we both think about eachother its one of thsoe relatinships that u just know.and weve been throough alot and i dno. wat shoudl i do. iw ant to get over him but i cant. i cant talk to him about it because then he will feel like he has my emotions inthe palm of his hand. id ont kno wat to do
if he broke up with you then maybe he was just using you to make his X jelious, and if so he is not worth it. If he left you for his X then he does not really care about you and he does not deserve you to care about him either. You should find another guy who will truly care about you. If he left you once for his X what tells you that he wont do it again. If you take him back you will always be worried whether to trust him or not and that is honestly not worth it. A relationship is built on trust and if you can not trust him there is no hope.
If you still don't feel you can do that try talking to one of his friends, that you can trust, to see if he still has any feeling for you.
Hope this helped.
I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated.
you can try going a club that way you can meet new people and do something funn. You can also play sports. Volleyball and baseball seasion is coming up and it never hurts to try. You can always ask around your school and find out what kinds of things they have for the students to do during the school year.
Reading a book is a good idea to. i heated reading till i read the book "elsewhere". It is a book about a 16 old girl who dies and does not go to heaven but to elsewhere. There is no heaven and it is a place just like eather and you even age, but in else where it is baskwards. It is a very exciting book. you may want to try your local library they have tons of things that might interest you.
I have a problem i have never had a boyfriend before and i going into high school everyone i know has had at least one boyfriend. and all the guys at my school are single but idiots i mean idiots i mean they are so shallow- i would never consider going out with any of them. i have a feeling i will never have a bf and if i do i am so inexperienced with bfs i would have no clue how to act how much afffection to show if i am acting too needy.. i wont know what to do when the time comes when a boy likes me. am i ever gonna have a boyfriend? how am i gonna be ready?
Dont worry, you will have a boy friend soon. Not all girls have the first boy friend before they go to highschool and some girls are still unexperienced with boys even after having a boyfriend. Some guys just dont know how you show their feeling yet and it would help if you become better friends with the guys you know and get to know more about guys. You can also try a little flirting with some of the guys you like out of school, but dont be to obvious. All guys are different and some guys take longer to tell you how they feel about you, same has girls. You just never know who will have a crush on you.
Don't freek out about not having a boyfriend yet because your time will come. it is only the beggining of highschool and will have plenty of time to have a boyfriend later. hope this helped =)
No matter where I am I going... I am always late!!
I'm late for the bus in the morning and afternoon, late for volleyball practices/games, late for parties, and some other things in my life.
What are ways that I can make sure i'm EARLY, not late!
I want to reach a goal that says I'm always 15 minutes early for everywhere I go.
what are some solutions??
i have the same problem just set your clock ahead 20 minutes and if you like me you will forget you even put the time ahead and then you will be rushing when you have 20 minutes to spare. i hope this helped. =)
can you go on AIM with your psp?? and can you go online? and if you can how because there is NO keyboard.
you can only get on the internet if you have wireless internet.
im 16 and my bf is 19. we want a baby so badly. but thats only what we want. my mom would kill me and him. but what if it happens soon.
I would wait because at 16 you are honestly not ready. My sister-in-law had a baby at 16 and her parents honestly disowned her. She went through a rough time trying to rasie the baby and she had to stop her own life. You dont just have a baby because you want someone to love you because a baby can not honestly love you at first because they have to be taught love.
You have to have the money to raie the baby and know how. you have to be pateint and know that nothing will be about you anymore you life will basically be over and you with have to deal with your baby and making sure it is being cared for and happy. The best thing to do is wait till after highschool because once you have the baby you will most likly have to drop out. And in this world today you have to finnish collage unless you want to work and walmart all your life and live in the cheap run down apartment.
Fisrt you need to beable yo have a home and food of the baby and yourself. You never know if there will be anything physicaly or mentally wrong with a baby before it is born so you better be ready for everything. Your baby might have to have a sergery right when it is born and if you dont have the money you are screwed.
Hop this helped.
Do any of you have realyl good strategies to keeping calm? I get mad a lot and when I get ultimately mad I can't take it anymore and just burst out crying!
The thing i do is go and talk to one of may friend about what is going on in there life. That way i forget what ever i was upset with and consentrate on what they need. Thats the reason i started my advicenator. You can always think about something that happened to say and made you smile =) hope i helped.
hey, i'm doing a paper on teenage stress
& i need to come up with a cute title
for example, a paper on peer pressure is called
'but everyone else is doing it!'
anyhelp? :]
please&thanks!
-- socity or me?
-- The cool way or the right way?
-- There way or the highway
~ hope i helped.